Shooting or Spilling? (2)

In my previous post I asked if the performance of ejaculation (in the sense of a visually spectacular act) would matter? And if it was, then why?

Well, the answer is YES and NO. It just depends on your individual or situational preference for how to approach (your) ejaculation at a given occasion!

• YES

I am convinced we all love to watch men spurting distinct ropes of cum and many of them. Women (even if not specifically into cum-love) may do so just due to evolutionary reasons. They will be generally impressed with a powerful and voluminous ejaculation on a psychological level, because unconsciously they perceive such as a sign of virility and maleness. Meaning that chances for impregnation must be high then. This perception satisfies mentally. Another general effect with the receiver (or even – unconsciously – the observer) of a powerful ejaculation is that it flatters her or his ego. Thus we love the sight of flying milk in copious amounts.

Whenever you are in an observing position, you almost can not other than enjoy watching cumshots, because this is just such a beautiful and exciting sight. Hence it is no surprize that in the porn industry cumshots in all their variety are standard! And since semen leaves a cock at an average speed of 28 miles per hour and actors are well-conditioned to just perform for great visuals, everyone involved can rely on delivery (pun intended).

When two (or more) people are sexually involved with each other, and given they care a lot for the climax of their partner(s), be sure a spectacular spraying performance is always welcomed (for the reasons I elaborated above). Spurting big time is just very much arousing for the receiver and satisfactory in the same. – Read a very hot story by Aristos in which ejaculatory performance is absolutely essential, and not only that. It´s called The Competition and it illustrates methods to achieve the performance of a winning team. – Fantastic!

When you are into solo-masturbation you are automatically both, giver and receiver of your own ejaculation. When your constitution provides you with a spectacular cum shooting ability, then that may be your fetish rightfully so. Hence it may be your aim to (always) watch yourself shooting your juices. Numerous self-recorded clips of guys launching their milk to beautiful and amazing trajectories can be marvelled at on the net (I linked to one clip of Spritzing in this post here). It is just fucking wonderful how some men are able to ejaculate their produce. You may witness guys shooting more than 10 ropes, which also means their loads are accordingly huge! We all know such is at the high-end of the anatomically possible. But if you were able to perform like this, you´d prefer to watch yourself doing so, or would you?

• NO

There is an attitude in solo (or partner) masturbation when performance becomes secondary or less than that. And then the answer to my initial question is NO. In this case ejaculatory performance does not matter anymore, because it´s all about the intensity of the ejaculatory experience and/or the pure volume of the spilled milk (synonymous with an extended (or several) ejaculation(s)). It then is more important, and more fulfilling, to surrender to lust and find sexual bliss in the exquisite sensations your genitals and reproductive system provide you with, than the style or form of your visible ejaculation (although both is highly connected, naturally). You literally have no eyes for how your semen leaves your system because you focus on how that feels. With that may come the joy for the volume of milk pumped out as a result of your intense arousal and substantial climax(es). This also may apply to someone experiencing your climax(es) as a (separate) witness. If you read my stories (here´s one for example) you will realize that guiding your partner towards ejaculation and collecting his semen can be in fact overwhelmingly arousing, especially when the emphasis of masturbation lies on the intensifying of his sensations. Here we enter the realms of edging and harvesting cum (including emission) and multiple climaxing. I will get to these topics eventually, but next I will take a look at those glands which provide us with our precious juices.