One more time I´d like to quote two guys and their edging experiences. I believe any committed edger will affirm without hesitation – making them statements of general validity. For the love of it read what edging feels like and why it deserves to be called the „art“ of masturbation.
… More stroking and I really feel my body now on the verge of orgasm. The familiar sensation of early stages of orgasm engulfs my body like slipping into a deep bath of hot pleasure. Soon my breathing becomes deeper and in shorter gasps and I’m totally focused on the exquisite sensations… “Oh God, this is bliss” I think to myself. Then it starts; the pure pleasure of the emission phase and impending orgasm begins. I sense the tickling of the fluids moving towards my prostate. I feel my pelvic muscle (the so-called ‘pee muscle’) contract during the emission phase and I realise I’m almost there, ready to go. My head is swimming with euphoria as the orgasm begins and the intense pleasure seems to climb the shaft of my cock. I’m only a millisecond away from ejaculation, head spinning with pleasure.
“Stop… now!” I think to myself and remove my hand from my cock. I press down internally with my pelvic muscle to stop myself ejaculating. As I hold muscle tension, my orgasm hangs for a few seconds before it slowly starts to subside. I look down and see my erect cock pulsing vigorously with contractions that would normally be expelling my semen. I lie here for a few moments basking in the euphoria and heightened state of arousal as my cock slowly stops twitching. About thirty seconds have gone by and I’m still in what I’d describe as a semi orgasmic plateau but I’m in no danger of ejaculating now.
A wonderful sense of anticipation engulfs me as I take hold of my cock once more. Slowly I begin stroking again, totally focused on my feelings and sensations. With just a few strokes this time I again sense the movement of the seminal fluids in my body and enter the emission phase once again. My pelvic muscle begins to contract and my body begins its second orgasm. The sensation seems to be centred in the head of my cock like a pleasurable tickling and spreads into my groin and abdomen. “Oh yes… Here it is again… That feeling” I think to myself as my head swims with euphoria. My pleasure climbs quickly and just as I’m about to ejaculate again, I stop all stimulation once more. Timing is critical; one stroke too many and I’ll take myself over the edge and ejaculate.
I repeat this process a dozen times or more before allowing myself the reward of climax and ejaculation. During the session I remain suspended in a heightened state of arousal and sexual tension. It’s wonderful. During each emission phase, more and more fluid accumulates inside my prostate so that when I do ejaculate, the amount of semen can be enormous.
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It is possible to maintain the sensation of ecstasy that you feel just before the orgasm hits, but it takes practice, practice and more practice. [...] You just have to easily be able to identify the point of no return for you and stay just under that point. Many claim they can stay there as long as they care to but I’ve never been able to for a great period of time. With me it’s a process of building up to that point, maintaining that heightened sense of pleasure until you know any further stimulation is going to bring on your orgasm and then backing down slightly, then building up to that point again and again. Of course every time you come close to cumming you intensify your orgasm. That’s what I call edging. You can almost faint, the pleasure is so intense after a lengthy edging session…
… I usually edge for an hour or so then the desire to cum is so overpowering that I have to bring on my orgasm. When you are experiencing the level of pleasure that I’m talking about it’s as though you are truly having an out-of-body experience, like you are not even here but kind of a floating feeling, you’re in another plane, on another planet. Anyone could walk in on you and there’s no way you could stop because the pleasure is so intense. It truly is the “art” of masturbation when you take yourself to this level.
In contrast to the intensity of lust, my next post will simply feature some (quoted) answers to the question for the max time guys have managed to „forget time“ while walking the edge.
March 19, 2011 at 4:51 pm
The first description matches a technique I use when reaching that edge, when my cock is so hard and I feel so full inside, just on the verge of cumming. Instead of falling over, I tighten the internal muscles of my pelvis, the ones surrounding my prostate, in addition to tensing my buttock muscles, squeezing them rather tightly. My cock sticks straight up, and it feels like I should be shooting my sperm, but instead there is this incredible pressure that rises from deep inside. At this point I visualize that pressure, or energy, and can feel it start to rise up my spine, similar to that sense you have of your sperm rising up your cock. After some time I can relax my muscles as the feeling of orgasm has passed, and I am left with the most sweet, full feeling of being loaded with my milk, my creamy essence, filling me up. I will breathe and rhythmically contract my ass and pelvic muscles, pumping that energy up my spine, moving that energy up and out into the rest of my body. The surprising thing is how the sense of inevitability, of knowing that I am going to shoot, is no longer out of my control. I can control that sweet feeling of falling over the edge through simple muscular contraction and mindfulness. I am left with the ability to continue to love myself, to continue to tease and coax and play with my erotic energy. What an amazing gift this practice has become.
March 19, 2011 at 5:40 pm
Your contributions are very welcome indeed. Thanks once again, Tom!
In fact what you are describing sounds like experiencing multiple dry orgasms. You achieve this thru clenching muscles at key locations contrary to relaxing into PONR, as was illustrated in several posts before. It is important to learn about your approach, I´m glad you let us know with your detailed description.