Psychosexual Aspects of Sexplay

December 22, 2011

In my next chapter, starting from here, I want to try to take a look at some more refined sexual practices concerning harvesting cum, climax and the playful variations of all of it. This, by the way, is something only humans (are able to) pursue.

We humans bear a true animalistic side within ourselves (since we naturally are animals). Outlived while in sexual activity it would show as (e.g.) furious jacking or wild fucking, driven by an egoistic motivation for providing immediate pleasure and quick release thru aggressive impact upon the own genitals (be it alone or with a partner). Much similar to an almost mindlessly (or at best passionately) carried out activity, ignited by an inner urge, executed compulsively.

A more skillful and sophisticated sexual activity requires a very different goal setting. Thru knowledge and their intellect, humans are able to extend the time of sexual arousal, become more or less able to consciously decide when and how to climax, or even deny the big redemption at all for generating a distinct, altered sexual experience that is not based on biological necessity (urge) but rather psychological aspects.

For exploring your sexual capacities you need skill and expertise, experience and insight to begin with. I tried to put that into a graphic display which I called The Evolution of Being Masturbated. It applies both to scenarios of solosexual and accompanied engagement. The more elaborate the action, the more your reproductive system and body will be involved. Not to forget your disposition for your quest of your very personal attainment of sexual bliss and satisfaction.

It is interesting to note that based on one fixed design of hardware (I´m referring to the male anatomy) there is such a multitude of possible great experiences in the sexual realm. With always the like built set of genitals and reproductive structures (hardware) providing one kind of body-function (producing precum, semen and expelling both), men are able to excite a huge range of sexual experiences due to a large variety of (their) attitudes, preferences and imprints (software).

Almost identical techniques and biological reactions are labelled differently depending on the psycho-sexual environment in which the action takes place (compare the horizontal placement of the bars in the Evolution-Chart shown above). Most of the activities mentioned in the display are covered already in this blog. Now it´s time to take a look at the direct stimulation of the prostate and later on the strategic handling of ejaculation in scenarios net yet addressed.

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