From a scientific point of view the case is pretty clear, because the male anatomy is basically the same in every individual. Hence explaining how to physically milk (massage) the prostate and associated glands is nothing to misunderstand. It only becomes challenging when we want to shed light on the motives, but that´s for a future post.
As for the following how-to I will refer to and quote from a text I found in 2006 which nails it down pretty well.
The technique of prostate massage/milking could potentially directly involve four organs of the reproductive system: the prostate gland, the seminal vesicles, the ampullae and Cowper’s (bulbourethral) glands. While the ampullae serve as a reservoir for sperm, gathering there to a neglectable fluidal volume, the other glands produce what we call (male) milk when expelled.
During sexual arousal the prostate produces a fair portion of alkaline fluid to protect the sperm (from vaginal acidity). The largest component of the ejaculate (60% or more by volume) is produced in the seminal vesicles. This liquid is a fructose sugar based substance to nourish the sperm. And the Cowper’s glands secrete the clear lubricating precum to help speed the semen along the urethra.
The glands can be accessed via the rectum. The Cowper’s glands are kind of an exception to that since the pea-sized organs are for one hard to sense and furthermore not in the focus of conventional milking. Nonetheless you may experiment thru trial and error given precum is your passion/fetish (check out the diagram above).
A good way to find the glands is to insert the middle finger into the anus and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump. That will be the prostate. Just up from the prostate is a smaller, roughly triangular wedge-shaped nodule, that is the bottom portion of the seminal vesicles. The ampullae are located underneath the seminal vesicles.
Now the prostate, seminal vesicles and ampullae (latter mentioned are of less importance because they don´t contain a lot of fluid) can be emptied by applying a firm slow massage over the nodules of these glands with the middle finger or the middle finger and index finger together. This is truly intimate and highly arousing! This kind of draining can also be performed with a dildo or dildo-like tool. – No need to mention, that the rectum is supposed to be emptied of feces and finger(s) and tools ought to be very well lubricated for best results!
The massage will force the seminal fluids past the valves in the ejaculatory duct. When semen appears in the mouth of the cockhead, it will help to empty the urethra by running a finger firmly up the underside of the penis from the root to the head, harvesting the fresh milk. For milking the shaft use lots of lube as well.
You should explore prostate milking on your own first, before getting involved with someone aiming for draining your glands. You may fancy this internal tease or not, at least you become sensible for what feels sound and when it does not. – Please check these illustrations of the technique!
January 12, 2012 at 3:11 pm
Your blog makes me want to try being milked. The thought of messaging those core glands that make up the male essence, and especially if the result is collecting my cum without ejaculation, is extremely enticing. I would assume you typically start by masturbating your cock and reaching your edge at least a few times so that your glands are primed. Then you start the message technique described to drain them. It would seem since you aren’t ejaculating you could do this over and over, working yourself to that sweet edge, feeling those glands swell as they fill with your fluid, and then you manipulate it out. Is this what you do? Just writing about is making me leak!
January 12, 2012 at 4:40 pm
Tom, thanks for your comment! Let me try an answer:
Your reflection meets the core idea of milking the prostate (or glands). That is to get (all) your semen out without triggering ejaculation. As a matter of fact I did write about this in this blog sometime ago (look here) when I was covering the topic of harvesting cum. Psychological aspects aside, it could work like what you theorize here.
However, it pretty much depends on how receptive you prostate will be to direct touch. Some guys love that very much (or learn to feel so) which may lead to the prostate becoming the trigger-organ for a climax, especially when the guy is highly aroused. And some men (I am afraid the majority, but that is a guess) just don´t like very much to be touched inside (anywhere). Those guys could well be those depicted as submissive milkees in domination-scenarios where they are milked and being denied to cum via ejaculation.
But your idea of gland-milking for harvesting milk and edging purposes is what I prefer as well. Just try out how much your glands (especially your prostate being sensitive to touch) like a massaging. The more aroused, the better it feels! Yet the sensation may change during the same session (at least in my experience).
January 13, 2012 at 10:34 am
It is too bad many men are adverse to the idea of anal exploration, because the sensations, with appropriate preparation both physically and mentally, are so incredibly pleasurable. I think the fact that you are stimulating a part of yourself that is located deep inside you, there is a psychological edge that it touches that is so different from simple external genital stimulation.
When it comes to self stimulation, I can easily feel my prostate. Appreciating the seminal vesicles is more challenging, but clearly an important part of the milking process, since appreciating this area, which is adjacent to the ampulla, is important if one wants to milk out the cum collecting there. I look forward to my next session and plan on focusing my efforts on that area. Any suggestions for how to feel those glands would be appreciated.
January 13, 2012 at 3:18 pm
Tom, I absolutely agree with what you say!
And yes, it is easy to sense touch at ones prostate, yet less so distinguishing between the prostate and the seminal vesicles, let alone the ampullae. I use a tool to reach the glands with more ease. While teasing (milking) yourself you better focus on your action before your inner eye to learn the slightly different sensations inside of you.
Maybe other readers like to share their experiences?!