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Reel Fiction (6)

December 15, 2011

No preliminaries, right into the story:

I´m damn lucky with my man for he is such a great cummer. Or, rather a great cum-producer, that´s what he is. I mean he does not spray his load nor does he shoot it in all too many spurts. He prefers to cherish the art of the emission, making his semen leave his system before he triggers his ejaculation. And he manages to cum at least a couple of times when he is at it.

I love his emissions, it´s like a faucet opened with your favorite juice pouring out. Yet I still get my spurts when his ejaculatory contractions pump out his cum or what is left of it. And I love his white stuff so much! He produces this creamy silky slimy milk I can´t wait to either rub into my skin wherever he wets me with it, or drink after I caught the whole (double) load in a glas.

I never want to miss observing him closely when he cums. It´s such a sight when he pours his milk, then shoots out what his glands still hold. And not to forget his production of precum. He is a fair precummer as well. Since he carefully closes in towards his cum-releasing moment his precum gets enough time to ooze out of his cock-eye first, just excellent!

precum dangling

precum

The other night I had the idea to tape his sweet ability and my man agreed without hesitation. All I needed to do was to faithfully film the scene, no further changes necessary, – well, we hooked up an extra lamp, so much for that. However, only when he came I realized that I was facing a true dilemma! I really wanted to get his mouth-watering cumming taped in total to preserve his skill, and yet when he finally came it was so hot, I would have liked to just forget about that damn filming and rather catch his milk to spread it all over my body and lick it off my fingers. I never felt the urge to consume him stronger than in that moment!

I´m glad now that I kept up with covering his two climaxes. We use the clip to speed up our moods when we decide to go for it. It is so hot to watch it in a slight slowmo-mode and it´s just awesome to study how he was spilling his milk that night:

As usual he was kneeling right above me, me comfortably laying on the mattress observing him and his cock. I had caressed his cock and balls in the beginning, I even had my fair share of precum. Eventually he got into the zone. While he needed to pay close attention to his reproductive system to avoid PONR yet coax his milk in a free flow, I grabbed the cam and stood by. Eventually he signaled me to press the record button, the moment had arrived.

He held his cock in his right hand fist and ceased any movement. A bead of precum had obeyed gravitational law and was cutely bouncing a good inch beneath the cock-eye which I closely kept in frame. Not long after that my love sighed what sounded like a „yeah“ meaning his milk was rising! My heart was pounding.

first milk

Seconds later his sweet milk just poured out in a swelling stream. I guess the whole unusual and hot situation triggered his ejaculation as he suddenly shot one spurt followed by several smaller pumping gushes. Eventually he began to squeeze out the remaining cream in his cockshaft making it slide down on a string made of precum just like pure fluid pearls.

When a last bead had descended he was beginning to jack his cock firmly for triggering his follow-up ejaculation. Not too long into his fist-work he started pumping his milk once again. This time he squirted three juicy gushes with his milk appearing thinner, more runny, but still deliciously creamy.

After the last drop of his jizz had splashed down on me he asked for the cam to take a picture of my chest, just as I was beginning to scoop up his sweet cream. Because I did not spread his produce while he was covering me with it, as I usually do, he wanted to capture the scene of the pool of milk he had left between my boobs in a photo. I must say that turned out a great sight too. I am really happy that I taped his way of cumming. We may try that again some time when he really is loaded. But then I will use a tripod for taking my share of him when he oozes and shoots his loads.

STORY CUMPLETE

The same viewing-procedures as for For a Closer Look apply.

Electro-Edging

April 27, 2011

When we speak of edging we generally associate it with a solosexual practice aimed at the utmost generation of sexual bliss on end for and with ourselves. As I have shown there may be a gain possible if a passionate partner knows us so well, that he or she is able to lock us close to the edge while we are left to just relax and cumpletely surrender to those divine sensations. Now could there still be a maximization of this heavenly circumstance? Yes, in theory at least.

That´s with the help of electrical current working inside of us in a way one could not achieve thru touch alone. I am speaking of Erotic Electro Stimulation (EES). Since the neuronal organisation of our bodies is based on (very weak) electricity it is quite obvious to consider EES for edging. Let me quote a short passage about these biological basics out of a larger text on the subject I found years ago:

The body has its own circuitry known as the nervous system, conducting electrical signals from touch receptors to the brain that register on the consciousness as sensations, and from the brain to the muscles stimulating them into movement. Electrical toys intervene in this directly, sending deceptive sensation signals to the brain and prompting involuntary muscular movements which in turn can cause their own peculiar sensations.

Our objective only can be to incorporate external weak current to generate sensations within our genitals and reproductive system unique to EES for keeping us extremely close to PONR while remaining passive/receiving only (let the device do the job with a finger or two steering it). This, in theory, could be the pinnacle of an edging experience (given you are focused at (or imprinted to) the raw edging sensation and nothing but).

However, the whole subject of EES is quite complex and needs to be studied at least in its basics. It can be considered some masturbatory rocket science (pun intended) and foremost I need to address you with this warning now:

ONLY play with low powered battery devices, not with the mains supply, and DO NOT allow even small currents to pass across the chest cavity or brain! Get acquainted with the technical side of EES, you will find further info on the net!

You probably need extended experimentation on yourself until you find out how to ideally electro-edge yourself. Fortunately there is a variety of specially designed devices on the market for the very purpose (like this neat piece of equipment for example).

In my next post I will present a Closer Look at a guy being triggered to cum via EES!

Slow and Easy

March 27, 2010

Among all these explanatory writings I wanted you to read this guys experiences which he posted at a forums site years ago. It is a very hot and detailed account on how he does it to himself. It suits my discussion about a slowly induced and very conscious ejaculation. He explains his way of edging without really naming it that way.

Unfortunately he never reveals his way of keeping his PONR at bay other than being strictly self-disciplined, but his description suggests that he is all relaxed and focused. One more thing: The thought that his balls keep all his accumulated spunk is quite arousing, but we know the male anatomy tells a different tale.

I have just found your site by accident, its great, now I can tell you how I do it to myself!

I am a true dedicated fan of self help sex, and found out in my early 20s that no fuck, or blow-job could give me the mind bending climax that slow, prolonged solo sex could.

Here is a typical session, I hope its not to long, but I will try and describe it accurately for your readers. I start off by having a cool shower, where I squat down and direct the jet of almost cold water on to my ball bag, making it go all tight while I wash it, and my prick and anus. I like to be clean. I keep the base of my prick and the whole of my nut sack shaved smooth, the cold water makes this easy by bunching up my balls, and it feels great when you´re worked up, squeezing and tugging at your smooth tight sack.

I then place a towel on the floor at the end of my bed, two pillows against the bed to rest my back against, I prop up a large mirror in front and just of to the left of me. Its a big turn on for me to see what I’m doing to myself. I get about five or six of my latest or favourite girlie magazines (they are a must for me!) then I get my anal probe, which is a foot long flexible plastic stick made up of round balls each one being about 1.5 ins across and separated by about 0.25 ins between them, a vibrator and my baby oil. Now I’m ready to get to work on myself.

Sitting on the towel, leaning back against the pillows, my legs open and bent at the knees so the soles of my feet are almost touching (a little like a yoga position) I place the first girlie mag on and against my feet so it is tilted up towards me. I then proceed to stroke my prick slowly, lightly and teasingly as I gaze at the mag, while teasing my right nipple with the middle finger of my left hand, I found out in my teens, for some reason, my right nipple is very sensitive and enhances the sensations. Now the fun begins, because the object of the exercise is to prolong my session for at least an hour! I have done hours but that is the exception, and one and a half is the norm. After about 15-20 mins of this slow teasing I may already have had to stop several times feeling the sap threatening to rise, and by now my sack is bunched up with excitement as I look at it in the mirror, and I have to squeeze and tug at it, as I turn the page to the next girl that is showing her open slit and gorgeous puckered anus. I’m stroking my prick by holding it steady with my thumb and teasing my fingers up and down it, not jerking the foreskin!

After about 30 mins the clear fluid is constantly dripping out of the eye, and I am now having to fight the urge to give in and spunk. So now for the next stage, holding my prick steady I pour baby oil over the bloated purple head and carefully and gently stroke it into and all over my length, now it starts getting really difficult, but with self-discipline and determination, unbelievable sensations will follow. I now slide my hand up and down the full length of my raging prick, slowly, and varying the speed and grip enables me to experience, almost constantly, those ball wrenching sensations associated with being right on the edge of climax, which of course I am! By this time I am now moaning and groaning out loud and my anus is starting to twitch in sympathy with my prick, and I am constantly having to keep a check on the pent up spunk in my, by now, tight as a drum sack, and I continue to view the sexy girls in the mags, making my task of holding on to my sap even more wonderfully difficult, and stopping even more so, but I do it!

So now for the next stage! I’m now 45-50 mins into my session and desperate to empty my sack, when I up the stakes again. Taking the flexible stick of balls that was smeared with oil before I started, I pop the first ball into my anus, then slowly pushing more, the second and third ball are plugging it! The rest of the plastic stick is sticking out of my anus on the towel, I now turn on the vibrator to a nice low buzz and lay it on the anal stick. WOW! I can feel it buzzing against my prostate and making my anus pucker and clutch at the balls in delight. Taking hold of my quivering prick I carefully and expertly stroke myself to distraction, the sensations are so intense, that I am now cursing, whinging and moaning at the screaming urge in my balls. Now I change technique a little, and forming an “O” with my index finger and thumb, I place it round the ridge where the shaft joins the bloated head and alternate between tiny rapid jerks and tiny slow massaging strokes back and forth over the ridge. I can only stand a few seconds of this at a time before having to whip my hand away to stop the seething sap rising. I now alternate between the three methods, slow stroking the entire length, and the two ridge techniques. Each time I stop I have to pull, squeeze and tug at my bunched up balls and take the opportunity to pour more oil over my straining prick if needed, and change magazines if I want to. I love to look in the mirror to see how stiff and swollen my prick is and how tight and scrunched up my sack has become, and to watch my anus clutching at the flexy stick of anal balls buzzing away in it.

I now find myself at decision time, do I continue, and when I feel I can stand it no longer, empty my sack? Or do I now stop completely and start all the above the following day, or the day after that, or when ever is convenient. I have at times, gone a whole week doing the above every other day, before emptying my balls! But that is unusual. But when I have made the decision to go for climax I continue to struggle for as long as I can stand it. The pressure in my balls is now becoming unbearable, and the sensations indescribable. Now I have another decision to make! How do I want to climax? I have four favourite methods, the”O” method, tiny quick jerks or tiny slow massaging strokes, long slow strokes up and down the shaft, or at the first signal from my balls that its imminent I stop stroking and grip my prick with thumb and the second and third fingers and with my index finger I tease the head with the tip. All my methods have the desired effect, and that is to prolong my orgasm by either being administered very slowly in quite sensitive spots, quickly in less sensitive spots or a mixture of the lot. But whatever I do, it is done to coax and tease the spunk from my balls. Believe me if you can master the art of prolonged, extended self pleasuring like me you will never have another “quick one of the wrist”.

As I coax myself to climax after an hour and a half of intense pleasure and having taken myself to the brink countless times during the session, the sensation of coming to the brink again and then to the point of no return is bloody amazing, and because I am coaxing and teasing, almost daring the spunk to leave my balls, my climax seems to happen in slow motion, and I steel and prepare myself for the mind bending sensations I can feel building, so I keep coaxing, and as my balls signal their intention to give up their contents, I feel my already scrunched up sack start to tie its self up in knots, my anus squeezes tightly round the invading buzzing balls, and I can feel my prostate harden. I am already squealing out loud at this, when I then feel the sap leaving my balls, slowly at first, and then it turns into a mad surge, and I let go a long wail of anguish as I feel it flooding into my swelling prick, filling it. My prick jerks a few times in protest at the invading liquid, then jolts, and I am rewarded for all my efforts with the most excruciatingly intense climax, coupled with the most visually spectacular ejaculation, I watch in the mirror as the sap bursts out of my twitching prick spraying up my chest, sometimes over my face, even right up through the air flying over my shoulder to land on top or the bed behind me! Having being stopped so many times at the brink, and then finally being coaxed up, it spurts out repeatedly with stunning ferocity and I watch it squirting all over my upper body, high into the air, and splashing down everywhere as my anus clutches at the balls in sympathy with the rhythmic spurting. I can get up to 10 spurts out of my tormented prick, 6-7 of them expelled with extreme ferocity, then the rest less so.

I would say this is not for everyone. Some people would find the extreme sensations too much to cope with and the urge to climax too strong, as I did in the early days. But I persevered and kept at it saying “how good would it feel if I stopped again, and then again”, and so on. If you can stick with it, the rewards are worth it!

Staying relaxed while heating up (2)

March 24, 2010

Yeah, staying relaxed on the way to climax is a basic method to get involved into edging, which is foremost: prolonging the sex-act. Secondly the relaxing mode is promoted as to fight premature ejaculation. I found this explanation somewhere on the net:

To make sex last longer, relax your PC muscle. As soon as sex begins, relax this muscle and keep it relaxed throughout. This will help you to stay away from orgasm and avoid premature ejaculation.
However, its natural to tense this muscle during sex because it feels good. If you do tense it, you’ll get to orgasm quicker. So, to last longer, relax your PC muscle from the moment of penetration [or any other penile friction] onwards, and keep it relaxed. You can practice this with your partner although you will learn much quicker on your own first, while masturbating. Learn what it feels like to focus on relaxing the muscle.

The technique works because the PC muscle sits right beside the prostate. The prostate plays a central role in orgasm and ejaculation. When the PC muscle is tensed, it puts pressure on the prostate and brings orgasm quicker. Relaxing your PC muscle reduces pressure on the prostate and helps avoid premature ejaculation. It also reduces pressure on the surrounding organs, the seminal vesicles and the ejaculatory duct, both of which play a central role in orgasm and ejaculation.

You can see the direct effect pressure plays in orgasm control yourself. Try masturbating with one hand and use the other to put some pressure on your perineum. Notice the difference? It feels better and you’ll come to orgasm quicker. That’s because you’re physically squeezing your PC muscle with your fingers, and indirectly, your prostate.

Traditionally, sex lasts only a few minutes before the man orgasms. As soon as penetration begins, the man tenses his PC muscle (usually without noticing) because it feels good. Moments later it’s all over. By relaxing your PC muscle, pressure is taken off the prostate, orgasm is delayed, and premature ejaculation is cured. The aim of longer sex is to stay away from orgasm.

Well, it is a bit more complex than expressed here. And there is clearly a mix-up – once again – of orgasm and ejaculation. Then there is this muscle thing. Soon I will focus on this theme. Before I shall have a word about conscious ejaculation. In my next post.

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