Ejaculation And Orgasm

I guess for many, many years now it has become common knowledge that ejaculation and orgasm are different reactions (in a male). However, when we speak about the sexual climax of a guy we tend to not be very specific in choosing the appropriate terms for what we actually are addressing. That is because both reactions do indeed occur in close succession of each other, if not almost simultaneously after all.

Up till now I put my thematic focus on ejaculation, the ejaculatory climax. I tried to be careful about using the term orgasm in my writing. Yet now is the time to shed some light on what orgasm is. In the following chapter I want to introduce to you what makes an orgasm, as so to illustrate the differences between the two basic peak-experiences a man is able to encounter. And we may eventually find that there is a whole set of different kinds of climaxing!

When you check out this blog and begin to count, you may come up with obviously different ways to enjoy a sexual climax. But why wouldn´t it be truly correct to speak of an orgasm when you shoot your load in a state of high arousal?

Well, there are defined parameters which enable us to define and distinguish one body reaction from the other. The main difference, besides the indicative ejection of cum at ejaculation, is the scope of the reaction concerning your body. Orgasm is holistic and more encompassing a climactic response of your body than is ejaculation. – In that case, you may ask, why not aiming for orgasm rather than ejaculation all the time?

There are many reasons for not to always pursue the big bang, besides both reactions are closely tied together and a given climax might most likely contain elements (parameters) of orgasm next to ejaculation. But biology (physics) has it, that no guy can produce a full body orgasm just like that, contrary to ejaculation!

Picture this analogy: orgasm is to ejaculation what a three-course meal would be to desert! The desert represents the ejaculation. You just love the desert, it´s sweet, it´s delicious, it´s quickly consumed so that you need to go for second/third helpings (or stretch the consumption), well until you really had it (we forget about MRP for a moment).

Now, a three-course meal would offer you a broader spectrum of taste-bud sensations. The main course is really something and makes you full (quite satisfied), the desert comes as a most welcomed bonus, yet being part of the whole experience. After such a meal you most likely feel well-fed, satisfied and at peace with the world. And for some time afterwards you are just good. – Got the picture, right?

Orgasm means such a satisfactory, heavy experience with a strong emphasis on emotional and even spiritual aspects. And this reaction is bound to gain meaning when more than one is involved, when emotion is in the game. Ejaculation is of a lighter quality yet still offers a broad range of relief-options, from the instant quick-peak to the profound, controlled bliss-time before and while shooting your accumulated milk. It is the ideal reaction for sex with yourself (and you can already read all about it in this fine blog ).

But let us check out orgasm now.

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Psychosexual Aspects of Sexplay

In my next chapter, starting from here, I want to try to take a look at some more refined sexual practices concerning harvesting cum, climax and the playful variations of all of it. This, by the way, is something only humans (are able to) pursue.

We humans bear a true animalistic side within ourselves (since we naturally are animals). Outlived while in sexual activity it would show as (e.g.) furious jacking or wild fucking, driven by an egoistic motivation for providing immediate pleasure and quick release thru aggressive impact upon the own genitals (be it alone or with a partner). Much similar to an almost mindlessly (or at best passionately) carried out activity, ignited by an inner urge, executed compulsively.

A more skillful and sophisticated sexual activity requires a very different goal setting. Thru knowledge and their intellect, humans are able to extend the time of sexual arousal, become more or less able to consciously decide when and how to climax, or even deny the big redemption at all for generating a distinct, altered sexual experience that is not based on biological necessity (urge) but rather psychological aspects.

For exploring your sexual capacities you need skill and expertise, experience and insight to begin with. I tried to put that into a graphic display which I called The Evolution of Being Masturbated. It applies both to scenarios of solosexual and accompanied engagement. The more elaborate the action, the more your reproductive system and body will be involved. Not to forget your disposition for your quest of your very personal attainment of sexual bliss and satisfaction.

It is interesting to note that based on one fixed design of hardware (I´m referring to the male anatomy) there is such a multitude of possible great experiences in the sexual realm. With always the like built set of genitals and reproductive structures (hardware) providing one kind of body-function (producing precum, semen and expelling both), men are able to excite a huge range of sexual experiences due to a large variety of (their) attitudes, preferences and imprints (software).

Almost identical techniques and biological reactions are labelled differently depending on the psycho-sexual environment in which the action takes place (compare the horizontal placement of the bars in the Evolution-Chart shown above). Most of the activities mentioned in the display are covered already in this blog. Now it´s time to take a look at the direct stimulation of the prostate and later on the strategic handling of ejaculation in scenarios net yet addressed.

My Fetish – A Niche

I admit it, my own stories in this blog are idealistic when it comes to sexual encounters between two people (in my case the heterosexual kind): both involved always want the same (she serving him), are in love with each other and find bliss in the act. On top of that they are perfectly in sync. – I´m afraid real life tells a different story.

I am convinced that real life couples, who at least resemble the role models I illustrate, do certainly exist, yet rarely so. When we leave the realm of solosexuality and seek someone else for sexual interaction, it may get really complicated, even more so between the genders. Humans are complicated beings.

The good thing is that we can communicate with each other (which may be hard enough – no pun intended here), so that we are able to establish situations I explore in my prose. Yet most of the times communication may not work properly, because it is overruled by one partner. After all we are animals, especially when it comes to sex. Couple-constellations mostly feature dominance & submission in a wide range of intensity and for a plethora of reasons (not only within the S&M setting). I guess this is in our biology and psyche. And because of this reality I have a good reason to call my stories idealistic – for why my fiction occupies a niche.

That, however, isn´t just tied to the ethical aspect: sex in love and agreement. The thematic niche also concerns the fetish I am personally dealing with (the love for semen, ejaculation and male genitals). It may seem far-fetched, but when you study this brilliant chart by Katharine Gates (discovered this somewhere, sometime – I don´t know her), you will not find what I am caring for in this blog.

You will notice Bukkake, but that is not really what I am talking about. I miss cum as a fetish category. Precum as well. I miss edging, male milking and forced ejaculations and, within the Body Inflation Category, the pumping of cock and balls (or vagina for that matter). There may be more omissions (like glory-hole sex or fucking machines), but this chart shows the vast field of possible sexual preferences, be it for a group of two and more involved, or all alone.

This fetish-map also greatly shows the interlinking and overlapping of themes and their associated preferences. And hence my very fetish reaches into (or overlaps with) other themes. In a chapter still ahead I will take a look at FemDom (which is indeed closely related to my heterosexual scenarios), or more precisely, some major expressions of this kind of dominance: cum-denial (related to edging), milking (related to harvesting cum), ruined orgasm (related to emission) and forced ejaculations (related to multiples). – It´s all a matter of attitudes and settings.

Addendum: I stumbled across another fetish-map (a map indeed) which is a lot of fun to explore, not least because it is interactive and you can embed it!!