Climaxes Put In Words

It may be quite a task to put into words (to describe) such intense and blissful sensations a man experiences while he climaxes. Some time ago the forum of The Erotica Readers & Writers Association did ask men (and women):

Describe Your Orgasm

How does it feel? Don’t be shy…

Can you describe your orgasm? The feeling from beginning to end—I’d love to hear your description without the usual explicatives. Be wide-ranging, and all-inclusive in how it feels, where it comes, and from whence it comes.

In this post I do quote quite some accounts of guys (leaving out the ladies here) not to check with literary capacities, but to demonstrate how different guys do understand the term orgasm, or rather, what experience they take for an orgasm. Read this selection (I did some focal editing) with my comment on every guys description:

From Nathan

You are in total bliss for around 10 seconds but I’ve found a way to make it last longer. I’ve been masturbating since I was 5 am now 22.

Nathan then describes that he had discovered edging, and eventually:

…my heart was pounding and every 20 seconds I had to stop again. I could feel it right down my legs, I couldn’t even move, until after about 10 minutes of this torture I gave in and had one of the biggest climaxes I’ve had.

I guess Nathan is speaking about an intense ejaculation after some edging.

 

From Jim W

…I suddenly reach that FAMOUS, FABULOUS point of no return, here by myself, I give an “undignified” grunt…, as I reflect, it appears this pleasurable state—focused in penis, lasts awhile, but in fact I discovered it only lasts a second or two—then I shoot my wad as the rope of cum lands faraway, 2nd and 3rd shots/contractions reflect penile pleasure, after this, as the pleasure fades (as well as volume of ejaculate) I instinctively pump that dick faster, as to milk out the remaining semen; but by now the intense orgasmic pleasure had since faded.

…I estimate approx. 6 seconds of orgasmic pleasure—centered in penis, and after 1 climax, the dick soon goes limp.

Jim W is clearly speaking of an ejaculatory climax.

 

From Anonymous

I’m an older man and divorced, and I wish to describe the orgasm I have experienced with a special method of masturbation. It’s natural for men to want to thrust the hips forward in sex with a woman or in masturbation, but with my method I experience a wonderful, mind-blowing oozing sensation that precedes a very powerful series of ejaculations.

I lie on my side and bend slightly at the hips so that my butt is sticking out in back and, as I stroke my penis, I concentrate on relaxing my PC and sphincter muscles. When I get to the point of loss of control, with those muscles relaxed I can feel the semen oozing slowly up my penis and out the tip, an incredibly erotic sensation. Then the intense muscle contractions take over, but I still resist assisting them by concentrating on relaxing. I experience extremely strong contractions along my penis, in the anal area and down to my knees. Oddly enough, the pleasure is more intense if my penis is not entirely stiff.

This is a very intriguing variant of an ejaculatory climax, this experienced guy explains.

 

From KL

…As my cock gets erect, I feel a very pleasurable, slight tingling sensation. As I get ever so closer to orgasm, this pleasurable sensation becomes gradually stronger. My cock is usually rock hard & throbbing at this point and I begin to get a feeling of fullness inside me, in the area just behind & above my scrotum. All the while, my heart is beating faster and faster, along with a little heavier breathing. When I am several seconds away from orgasm, I sometimes feel a few random twitches of my PC muscle. Right after that (if I continue stimulation), is the beginning of my orgasm, as I define it.

Ladies, (and guys, too), in case you were wondering, a guy’s ejaculation occurs DURING his orgasm, but is only one of a handful of things going on! At the moment my orgasm actually begins, I feel my semen pooling at the base of my penis & beginning to move into the urethra. This is the point at which a guy knows he’s going to come, and there is no way to stop it! It feels so good–I wish it would last longer! It is a very warm, almost “hot” feeling inside me. When this hot feeling peaks, which takes only a few seconds once it begins, I feel a wave of energy (for lack of a better description) radiate out from my groin to my extremities. My face grimaces, my fists clench, and my toes curl. At the same time, my PC muscles contract a few times, but this time in a more rhythmic fashion. All the while, as I am feeling all of this going on, I usually vocalize my pleasure, from now through the end of my orgasm. If I am inside my wife, I have a very strong desire to thrust deeper–it is almost a reflex action.

Then, usually I feel one, sometimes two more powerful PC muscle contractions, one right after the other, less than a second apart. This is actually what I consider to be the beginning of my ejaculation, although no semen has come out yet. The next (second or third) contraction usually brings the first squirt of cum out of my cock. This, and usually the second squirt, travel the farthest. …The pumping action of my PC muscle, and the feeling of a large volume of semen shooting through my penis feels incredible to me. (I usually have about 10-12 spurts of cum, again, each just less than a second apart…) As I continue spurting, the full feeling diminishes, and the hot feeling begins to subside, too, but not quite as quickly. After semen stops spurting out, I still feel some leftover random PC contractions as residual semen may ooze out. This is the end of my ejaculation.

I am usually breathing very heavily for a few moments along with a rapid heartbeat. The feeling in my penis changes somewhat now. The shaft gets less sensitive, while only the head gets super-sensitive. (Guys, as well as the ladies, you can relate to this feeling, I’m sure. It is almost painful to continue any stimulation). My penis starts to soften, but only a little at first… Breathing slows back to normal & I have to work to unclench my fists…

A detailed description by KL and it appears he is illustrating a combined climax of orgasm and ejaculation, and being quite conscious about it.

 

From Chris

…For me it seems to start in the perineum, spread into my balls, and then it rips through my cock like a steam train. The feeling is one of an ever tightening coil in my pelvic area which reaches a point where it just has to spring back to normal.

It starts with a delicious tingling, then pulsating waves, then wild convulsive contractions which all work to whip me along a kind of roller coaster ride in my crotch. If I’m tensing other muscles (eg my leg muscles if I’m standing spread eagled getting my cocked suck by another guy) then those muscles also quiver and tremble and come along for the ride. The feelings are hot, tingling, lusty and manly.

The best part is when the first phase of the orgasm has begun and it’s time to shoot a load. Spurting out the cum provides the final release. There’s nothing like that feeling of getting rid of all that juice that has been churning around my balls for so long. And of course the intensest feelings are along the shaft of my cock – which feels likes it’s being enveloped in the most fantastic tingling, throbbing and pulsating waves of release, bursting to exploding point.

While it doesn’t always come naturally, I can give my whole body over to the convulsions and thrash and bounce my arse on the bed and in general flail my limbs around. Keeping the pumping going after the immediate orgasm and speeding up the tempo also maximizes and prolongs the experience, which can leave my whole body, anchored to my pumping fist at the cock, convulsing and writhing for quite some time. And when I really far gone I don’t give a damn what the neighbours think as I pant and moan and groan. I expect it inspires them to get down to it themselves.

When I cum with a cock up my arse the feelings seem to start deeper in the pit of my arse where my prostate is located. Being prodded by a nice fat cock spreads the area over which the orgasm takes place. It’s like my insides, my lover’s cock and my pelvis are as one and riding the ecstatic waves in unison.

The more foreplay and delayed gratification the better the finale. Sometimes I experience mini orgasms with only a little cum dribbling out. These are both pleasurable and very tortured as you do get some release and delicious teasing tingling and a few faint contractions, but you need to discipline yourself not to go the whole hog, not if you want to experience the ultimate orgasm still to come. Under these circumstances the experience is the most cock-centred – I feel like I’m all cock, wound up, hot, and bursting to explode. Not much else exists in the world at such a time!

And the final pleasure? The sticky mess – some guys find this a curse but I guess being gay I’m pretty cum friendly. I like not knowing where the cum will fly – on me, my face, my stomach, the sheets, the head-board if I’m lucky, or my partner’s chest or face if he’s lucky. And I love to feel the spray of another guy’s cum on me – it’s all part of the rich delicious tapestry of the male orgasm…

Another detailed, and even poetic take on several ways to climax! Chris clearly distinguishes between ejaculatory climax and orgasmic climax, and even a more rare prostatic climax.

 

From Dennis

I learned the art of extremely explosive orgasms by training my PC muscles to EXPLODE at just the right moment. I do Kegel exercises daily (about 200 contractions per day) and so does my wife. The strength of our PC’s allow us to better control the timing and INTENSITY of our orgasms. The longer that I delay and control my ejaculation the more intense the moaning and wetness we both feel.

My precum begins to flow one drop at a time and my wife responds with moans of pleasure enjoying her growing nipples and intensifying wetness. I give her timing signals (1 minute or 30 seconds) as to how close I feel I am to orgasm. At that point she will tell me to slow down or go deeper or possibly hold still for a few moments so that we can build up more anticipation and time our impending explosions together.

As we approach the last 10 seconds she will signal me and I plunge deep into her and do several powerful Kegel contractions with my cock throbbing and ready to explode but no longer going in and out. She contracts tightly around my pulsing shaft and I begin to feel my huge load mixing and slowly flowing up from the base of my cock. As it begins to mix, I tell her 5 seconds and we both push deeper as my powerful PC muscle explodes the first shot of cum deep against the back of her powerfully contracting vagina. We both scream in ecstasy as our powerfully trained PC’s contract and the remaining 8 to 10 shots of cum explode into her and she tells me she senses each warm shot.

Her contractions are often so powerful from her daily Kegels (which she does sitting at her desk at work) that she literally triggers my explosion that I have been trying to time together with her. I just sit back and enjoy the power she has over me and let her know how wonderful her powerful contractions feel around my exploding cock. I savor each and every shot of warm load that I can fill her with until we both lay there holding each other tight until we drift off to sleep. She is the best that I could ever dream for!

She also enjoys seeing how powerful my explosion can be by bringing me to orgasm using her thumb and a few fingers to make me start dripping as she rolls my balls very gently with her other hand. If I let my load build up for about 5 days before, she is able to build the volume of cum up with her gentle hands for about 20 minutes and with one or two gentle perfectly timed rubs across the tip of my dripping cock she watches me explode for 10 or 12 seconds as she aims the sometimes 24″ or more shots wherever she wants (sometimes on me, sometimes on her).

Well, Dennis and his wife are certainly experts for very controlled and very intense ejaculatory climaxes, on Dennis side that is.

 

From Anonymous

The main focus of my orgasm is in my penis. As I either fuck my girlfriend, or masturbate, I can feel my orgasm start in my balls. It runs up though the shaft of my dick and then to cock’s head where I explode with a geyser full of cum. It feels great to ejaculate because it makes my dick feel good as the cum is being pushed out.

This describes an ejaculation, plain and simple.

 

From James

This was so appealing that I had to experience an orgasm myself during reading these fine entries and here is my experience As I increased stroking my penis (my #1 pleasure area), my nuts tighten, body stiffens and I let out a grunt of pleasure, knowing ejaculation is soon due. These precious couple seconds are the highest forms of pleasure and are focused in my groin.

The 1st ejaculation is accompanied by a grunt (extreme pleasure felt) and the shot goes far; a 2nd shot (very pleasurable) is accompanied by a verbal “oh” and a third as well. Later contractions feature the cum oozing out as the pleasure tapers. I project it was about a 10 second orgasm. Of course the best pleasure felt before the ejaculation.

James is talking about an ejaculatory climax as well.

 

From Jim

My orgasms are very centered in my penis. Initially, there is a tingling in my balls, which, as I get closer to orgasm, rises up along the shaft until, when I come, it’s very intense right at my cockhead. Ejaculation sensations run the gamut from there & gone to feeling like my insides are being squirted out my cock.

Jim explains an ejaculation here.

 

From Mark

An orgasm seems to teeter on the border of pleasure and pain… the pressure you feel as it builds up in a males genital region. Specifically the testicles until climax can be almost maddening if allowed to go on too long… I know that sounds kinda weird. It kicks in a primal need for satisfaction. Your muscles, in your back, legs, butt and stomach all tighten…. your heart rate increases. Your breathing becomes more labored. …with all the hormones running through your body you can be actually considered legally stoned during sex. You lose some of your higher cognitive functions.

As a male reaches the point of no return … it really does border on pain until actual orgasm and ejaculation happens. It quickly dissipates with each spasm of the PC muscles.

With Marks take I find another combined climax of orgasm and ejaculation.

 

From Zombie Ferguson

Mine starts as a rumble. I can feel it almost past my calves. It encircles each of my legs, and rises up my buttocks. I can feel the release almost through my stomach, and as it approaches I experience great flexibility, and an incredible sense of breathing and alertness. It makes my body shake, and my cock gets harder, and feels hotter. At the summit, I can’t see except for a gauzelike vision, and there’s a drumming, though quite quick that goes through my head, and rests in my ears, but only for a moment. My whole body feels like detaching and exploding in all different directions, and it’s amazing how “fully engulfed“ it feels, my mouth is open and taking in so much air it feels criminal, and at the explosion, all time stops for a brief instant, my thighs stiffen, my toes curl, and then there’s an explosion at the point of my shaft. Whoa! Then the ride down begins, fast furious, yet smooth. I feel like I’m landing in a room filled with all comfortable things. For a while, I’m completely, drooling and happy. I can feel the throbbing of my heart, and my sated penis as one continuous thud.

It’s blissful. The only feeling I have is, I gotta get back up that hill again…

Zombie Ferguson is definitely describing an orgasm. Notice that he does not mention anything about cum and spurting (but drooling after the climax). That is because orgasm overrides the sensations of ejaculation. Ejaculation becomes part of the more encompassing sensations of orgasm (enhancing it). This is a beautiful illustration of what an orgasm can feel like.

 

I hope that for starters I could give a hint about the different sensations possible with the different ways guys are able to experience their climaxes.

Ejaculation And Orgasm

I guess for many, many years now it has become common knowledge that ejaculation and orgasm are different reactions (in a male). However, when we speak about the sexual climax of a guy we tend to not be very specific in choosing the appropriate terms for what we actually are addressing. That is because both reactions do indeed occur in close succession of each other, if not almost simultaneously after all.

Up till now I put my thematic focus on ejaculation, the ejaculatory climax. I tried to be careful about using the term orgasm in my writing. Yet now is the time to shed some light on what orgasm is. In the following chapter I want to introduce to you what makes an orgasm, as so to illustrate the differences between the two basic peak-experiences a man is able to encounter. And we may eventually find that there is a whole set of different kinds of climaxing!

When you check out this blog and begin to count, you may come up with obviously different ways to enjoy a sexual climax. But why wouldn´t it be truly correct to speak of an orgasm when you shoot your load in a state of high arousal?

Well, there are defined parameters which enable us to define and distinguish one body reaction from the other. The main difference, besides the indicative ejection of cum at ejaculation, is the scope of the reaction concerning your body. Orgasm is holistic and more encompassing a climactic response of your body than is ejaculation. – In that case, you may ask, why not aiming for orgasm rather than ejaculation all the time?

There are many reasons for not to always pursue the big bang, besides both reactions are closely tied together and a given climax might most likely contain elements (parameters) of orgasm next to ejaculation. But biology (physics) has it, that no guy can produce a full body orgasm just like that, contrary to ejaculation!

Picture this analogy: orgasm is to ejaculation what a three-course meal would be to desert! The desert represents the ejaculation. You just love the desert, it´s sweet, it´s delicious, it´s quickly consumed so that you need to go for second/third helpings (or stretch the consumption), well until you really had it (we forget about MRP for a moment).

Now, a three-course meal would offer you a broader spectrum of taste-bud sensations. The main course is really something and makes you full (quite satisfied), the desert comes as a most welcomed bonus, yet being part of the whole experience. After such a meal you most likely feel well-fed, satisfied and at peace with the world. And for some time afterwards you are just good. – Got the picture, right?

Orgasm means such a satisfactory, heavy experience with a strong emphasis on emotional and even spiritual aspects. And this reaction is bound to gain meaning when more than one is involved, when emotion is in the game. Ejaculation is of a lighter quality yet still offers a broad range of relief-options, from the instant quick-peak to the profound, controlled bliss-time before and while shooting your accumulated milk. It is the ideal reaction for sex with yourself (and you can already read all about it in this fine blog ).

But let us check out orgasm now.

Milking – His Say

With this post I will close the chapter on milking. Last but not least I will share accounts by two guys and their way of milking themselves. Which brings me back to solosexual experiences after an excursion into a theme (dominating/milking the male) mainly attributed to partnersex. And as for that matter I highly recommend this page, which many of you will have discovered already since it is permanently listed in the link-section at the left column.

Concerning the following share I once again applied minor formatting and proofreading of the texts which I found in a forum quite some years ago. The first is a structured how-to by a guy called Jon Wilson. The second is a very personal account by a guy nicking himself Loaded. I am sure you´ll get some further insight! Here goes:

By jonwilson

I have read many posts about this subject and here is how I do it step by step:

1) In order to empty the prostate, it first has to be full… therefore do what ever you need to do to create “blue balls”. For myself, I use masturbation to the point where I get a good amount of pre-cum starting, then I stop. If you want a good load repeat this process for 5-10 times… or more.

2) It is hard not to have a mild orgasm, when you self-milk (for me it doesn’t improve an orgasm), I have tried to ice my balls down before hand but I still have a 1/2 erection. Self-milking may help in keeping you harder longer… after you self-milk then you can have extended sex… it works for me anyway.

3) You should pee before you self-milk and take a healthy dump (shit).

4) For me it is impossible to use my own finger to self-milk.

5) You will need to use an object that will enter your anus, and will not damage anything.

6) I have found that a long neck spoon handle works very good. The one that I use has a shaft about 6″ long and at the top, it is about the width of a finger. This is very easy to insert in my butt and reaches the top of the prostate nicely. Put some cooking oil or spit on it to make it go in easy. Again, I use clean stainless steel spoon handle.

7) To massage the prostate you will need both hands to work the spoon, one to press with the spoon and the other to help position the spoon. I lay on my back, with my left arm coming from around my left leg and my right arm between my legs. The left hand moves the spoon up and down on the inside and the right hand slides the spoon shaft up and down the outside. You will need to watch your penis and as soon as it starts to move in motion with the spoon handle then you should be in the right area.

8) You will need to tap or press lightly with the spoon handle on the prostate, this will “milk your prostate“. That’s IT!

9) In a short time you will unload your load… and I mean it will unload. IF you have a soft penis, your load will fly out and then lots more fluid will follow… just flowing out like water out of a hose.

I hope that this helps.

By Loaded

I’ve been milking semen from my prostate on a regular basis for years. When I first started I didn´t get much semen out either, a drop or two. Now when I milk my prostate I get a large pool of gooey thick semen. Here’s how I do it.

I milk with a standard plastic 6 inch vibrator. Sexual arousal makes all the difference in the world! I always buy fresh porno magazines to look at while I’m milking the fluid from my prostate. It’s become a ritual for me in fact. When my wife leaves on a business trip I get to have one of my secret milking sessions. I call it a pmp-(prostate milking party).

I make sure I have at least a 7 day load saved up. Ten days to two weeks is the perfect amount of saving time. The prostate builds pressure and swells with semen and relief is needed. Plus when you save that long you get super horny and really start anticipating it. The night of the pmp I surf the net and jack my cock a lot. This charges the prostate with even more semen.

With the big load it’s hard not to blow my wad and I’m extra careful not to do so. Finally I can’t take it anymore and a milking needs to take place. The scene of the prostate milking party excites me as I approach it. 10 unopened porno mags surround a mirror on the carpet with the vibrator close by. I squat over the mirror and watch the vibrator slide into my asshole. I start turning pages.

…I push the vibrator onto my prostate gland with firm but gentle force and start rubbing it from side to side. My prostate is so full that I feel the semen enter my cock pipe immediately. My cock is soft and white watery semen starts dripping from my cock hole. It’s a big turn-on for me to have cum dripping from my soft cock, it’s totally hands free. Semen drips onto the mirror and the sight of this is very exciting which makes another load ooze out my cock.

The fluid gets thicker and thicker until I have a string of semen stretching from my cock to the pool forming on the mirror. This is super exciting and goes on for about 20 minutes or so. My legs get tired of squatting and my prostate is pretty well drained. I’m still very horny but the edge is taken off and I can enjoy the erotic scene of cum on the mirror.

I awake the next morning to a scene of a successful prostate milking. The semen is a big dry spot on the mirror and the magazines are tossed around haphazardly. I milk more sperm than I would shoot during an ejaculation. The dried semen and mags inspire me to milk it again. I add a smaller fresh pool of semen onto the dry stuff and it’s very much a turn-on. It’s an awesome way for me to enjoy my cum.

You don’t have an orgasm from the experience however I find it very rewarding. [...] Just remember to pee before you start milking. You don’t want to contaminate the semen with pee. Also, massage up above the prostate gland too. Semen sacs [seminal vesicles] are there and need to be milked as well. That does it for me. I’m going to milk it right now. Cheers.

Sincerely, loaded.

Milking – Her Say

At the end of this chapter (about male milking) I would like to share some individual experiences by practitioners on how a gland-milking can be performed. I found these accounts some years ago on the net. I wanted to have both sexes have their say, yet in the end I consider this distinction does not matter that much, at least when it comes to partnersex.

However, I did find the following how-to by someone called Jenny, thus assuming the author is an experienced lady, or, to be more precise, a dominatrix with a good deal of exercise in this discipline. I abridged slightly and made remarks to clarify flawed statements (in red and bracketed) considering commonly accepted facts. – So, ladies first then:

How to milk. Based on my experience.

Find the Spot

First you have to ensure that the Milkman is able to take two fingers up his anus, or at least a hard dildo with a diameter of 3.5 cm.

Next you must find out if you can reach the top of his bladder with your fingers. This is best done when he is lying on his back with his knees up aside his chest. You can slide your finger(s) up inside his rectum feeling the front of it. You better wear a thin rubber glove and use lots of lubricant.

You can feel his prostate as a round relatively hard ball in the size of a ping-pong ball. When you can feel the top of his prostate you will have to get at least 5 cm deeper inside him to feel the top of the seminal vesicles. It is not enough that you can feel his bladder with your fingertips, because you will have to make a pressure along and across both seminal vesicles at the same time. Some pressure on his stomach just below his ribs can force the bladder a bit down so it is easier to reach. If you can’t reach this, you will have to use some tool to milk him.

Tools

In the beginning I used the handle of a hairbrush covered with a rubber. It is 3 cm wide and 20 cm long with rounded edges. I made a mark on it, to show how long inside it needed to go. To set this mark you will have to rely on his cooperation, because he can feel it inside and can tell you when it no longer presses on his bladder, that is when you are past his seminal vesicles. Later on I started to use a hard dildo. It seems to be a better choice, because the end of it goes in between the two seminal vesicles and that way makes a pressure on both at the same time.

If he is not used to get anything up his rectum you will see some wage trace of blood on the tool when you pull it out. That is because so far inside the rectum the blood vessel are very close to the surface and the skin is very thin [although it is true that your rectal tissue is very delicate, traces of blood would be a serious matter hinting to an injury! Consider to consult a physician!].

One way to prevent too much friction to the rectum is to ad some heavy lubricant (heavy-duty Vaseline) into his rectum before entering the tool [using lube is mandatory! Not only to protect the rectal tissue, but to turn the whole milking procedure into a working practise if not a somewhat exciting experience for the milkee.]. That way the tool will catch up some of the lube when it passes through it, and it will decrease the friction against the inside of rectum. [I would not recommend Vaseline because it is much too tenacious, although it reacts with body-heat making it slightly more greasy.]

You will need something to catch up his semen too. I am using a small cup or saucer. I can then let the penis be untouched during the process and just let it drip out the semen. Much more degrading for him… To get an eye for the quantity of semen you can measure out about 5 ml of thick liquid into the saucer. Just to get a good idea of how it looks.

Position (if it is done by another person)

The best position will be with the Milkman lying on his stomach on a relatively hard surface. His lower abdomen and penis free of the surface and him resting on his spread knees with the saucer placed on something right under his penis.

The process

When the tool is placed long enough inside him and is well lubricated, you will have to get a firm grip in the handle and push the inside end of the tool against his bladder. Then you slowly pull it 4 to 4.5 cm out of him. If you pull the tool too much out of him, it will slide over the bottom of the seminal vesicles with a small hump. If you can, stop just before that happens and then keep the pressure on his bladder for a while. The trick is to move the contents of the seminal vesicles down against the valve in the bottom of the bladder and then extend the pressure a little so the valve has to open and let the content out.

If this happens the milkman will suddenly feel the urge to empty his urethra. Therefore his muscles will tighten to try to do so. He will feel nothing else but this. No orgasm or excitement. Just the urge to empty his urethra and you pressing on his urine bladder. Release the pressure and push the tool gently back in, to the top of his seminal vesicles. Do not touch his penis yet. Repeat this process 8 to 10 times or until you feel that you can’t get more out of it. If you want to help the semen out of him you can do so by placing 3 fingers just onto his perineum and press along his urethra towards his penis. Some lubricant may be required.

Then you can try to squeeze more out by massaging his prostate with the tool or your fingers. Anyway you can always secure that his urethra is emptying by letting the tool slide from the top and along one side of his prostate to the bottom of his rectum. But this will produce some feelings similar to an orgasm and it will only produce a little more semen [it appears that Jenny is focussing on milking the seminal vesicles, yet we know that massaging the prostate does produce a fair volume of milk].

When you decide that it is enough, pull out the tool and continue to massage the area between his legs, from his anus towards his penis, by pressing when you move forward and don’t when you move your hand back again. Do it 4 – 5 times and then when your hand is at the root of his penis keep it there and keep up the pressure. With your other hand you take his penis between 2 fingers at the root and squeeze them tight together while you pull down towards his penis head, to empty it. Do not do this more than once or twice, he could get some ideas, if you do it too much.

The more skilled you get and the more he is getting used to this treatment, the better is the result. [...] What I know is, that it is possible to milk out about 90 % of the amount of semen from the total of a regular masturbated ejaculation. Without any amount of sexual excitement. [A sub will certainly draw sexual excitement from the practise of milking, yet by the psychological aspects of it, despite the range of sensations within his reproductive system and anus.]

How often

In the beginning and until his rectum got used to this treatment, not more than once every week. Especially not if you get traces of blood on your tool, during the first times. And that is almost unavoidable [it sure is I´d say! Pay close attention here, blood is the exception, not the rule!]. When he is more accustomed to it you can do it more often.

However I have never got any good results out of doing it more than 4 to 5 times a week. I think, that about 48 hours between every milking is a good choice, if he is not in some kind of chastity. If he is in a well working chastity device, one time each week will do the trick. If the purpose of this is to prevent him from having any orgasm, a chastity device is necessary. The milking can’t prevent this in itself. I have had orgasm with ejaculation after an effective milking. But it can reduce the urge for ejaculation and therefore reduces the pressure for having an orgasm.