Milking – His Say

With this post I will close the chapter on milking. Last but not least I will share accounts by two guys and their way of milking themselves. Which brings me back to solosexual experiences after an excursion into a theme (dominating/milking the male) mainly attributed to partnersex. And as for that matter I highly recommend this page, which many of you will have discovered already since it is permanently listed in the link-section at the left column.

Concerning the following share I once again applied minor formatting and proofreading of the texts which I found in a forum quite some years ago. The first is a structured how-to by a guy called Jon Wilson. The second is a very personal account by a guy nicking himself Loaded. I am sure you´ll get some further insight! Here goes:

By jonwilson

I have read many posts about this subject and here is how I do it step by step:

1) In order to empty the prostate, it first has to be full… therefore do what ever you need to do to create “blue balls”. For myself, I use masturbation to the point where I get a good amount of pre-cum starting, then I stop. If you want a good load repeat this process for 5-10 times… or more.

2) It is hard not to have a mild orgasm, when you self-milk (for me it doesn’t improve an orgasm), I have tried to ice my balls down before hand but I still have a 1/2 erection. Self-milking may help in keeping you harder longer… after you self-milk then you can have extended sex… it works for me anyway.

3) You should pee before you self-milk and take a healthy dump (shit).

4) For me it is impossible to use my own finger to self-milk.

5) You will need to use an object that will enter your anus, and will not damage anything.

6) I have found that a long neck spoon handle works very good. The one that I use has a shaft about 6″ long and at the top, it is about the width of a finger. This is very easy to insert in my butt and reaches the top of the prostate nicely. Put some cooking oil or spit on it to make it go in easy. Again, I use clean stainless steel spoon handle.

7) To massage the prostate you will need both hands to work the spoon, one to press with the spoon and the other to help position the spoon. I lay on my back, with my left arm coming from around my left leg and my right arm between my legs. The left hand moves the spoon up and down on the inside and the right hand slides the spoon shaft up and down the outside. You will need to watch your penis and as soon as it starts to move in motion with the spoon handle then you should be in the right area.

8) You will need to tap or press lightly with the spoon handle on the prostate, this will “milk your prostate“. That’s IT!

9) In a short time you will unload your load… and I mean it will unload. IF you have a soft penis, your load will fly out and then lots more fluid will follow… just flowing out like water out of a hose.

I hope that this helps.

By Loaded

I’ve been milking semen from my prostate on a regular basis for years. When I first started I didn´t get much semen out either, a drop or two. Now when I milk my prostate I get a large pool of gooey thick semen. Here’s how I do it.

I milk with a standard plastic 6 inch vibrator. Sexual arousal makes all the difference in the world! I always buy fresh porno magazines to look at while I’m milking the fluid from my prostate. It’s become a ritual for me in fact. When my wife leaves on a business trip I get to have one of my secret milking sessions. I call it a pmp-(prostate milking party).

I make sure I have at least a 7 day load saved up. Ten days to two weeks is the perfect amount of saving time. The prostate builds pressure and swells with semen and relief is needed. Plus when you save that long you get super horny and really start anticipating it. The night of the pmp I surf the net and jack my cock a lot. This charges the prostate with even more semen.

With the big load it’s hard not to blow my wad and I’m extra careful not to do so. Finally I can’t take it anymore and a milking needs to take place. The scene of the prostate milking party excites me as I approach it. 10 unopened porno mags surround a mirror on the carpet with the vibrator close by. I squat over the mirror and watch the vibrator slide into my asshole. I start turning pages.

…I push the vibrator onto my prostate gland with firm but gentle force and start rubbing it from side to side. My prostate is so full that I feel the semen enter my cock pipe immediately. My cock is soft and white watery semen starts dripping from my cock hole. It’s a big turn-on for me to have cum dripping from my soft cock, it’s totally hands free. Semen drips onto the mirror and the sight of this is very exciting which makes another load ooze out my cock.

The fluid gets thicker and thicker until I have a string of semen stretching from my cock to the pool forming on the mirror. This is super exciting and goes on for about 20 minutes or so. My legs get tired of squatting and my prostate is pretty well drained. I’m still very horny but the edge is taken off and I can enjoy the erotic scene of cum on the mirror.

I awake the next morning to a scene of a successful prostate milking. The semen is a big dry spot on the mirror and the magazines are tossed around haphazardly. I milk more sperm than I would shoot during an ejaculation. The dried semen and mags inspire me to milk it again. I add a smaller fresh pool of semen onto the dry stuff and it’s very much a turn-on. It’s an awesome way for me to enjoy my cum.

You don’t have an orgasm from the experience however I find it very rewarding. [...] Just remember to pee before you start milking. You don’t want to contaminate the semen with pee. Also, massage up above the prostate gland too. Semen sacs [seminal vesicles] are there and need to be milked as well. That does it for me. I’m going to milk it right now. Cheers.

Sincerely, loaded.

Milking – Her Say

At the end of this chapter (about male milking) I would like to share some individual experiences by practitioners on how a gland-milking can be performed. I found these accounts some years ago on the net. I wanted to have both sexes have their say, yet in the end I consider this distinction does not matter that much, at least when it comes to partnersex.

However, I did find the following how-to by someone called Jenny, thus assuming the author is an experienced lady, or, to be more precise, a dominatrix with a good deal of exercise in this discipline. I abridged slightly and made remarks to clarify flawed statements (in red and bracketed) considering commonly accepted facts. – So, ladies first then:

How to milk. Based on my experience.

Find the Spot

First you have to ensure that the Milkman is able to take two fingers up his anus, or at least a hard dildo with a diameter of 3.5 cm.

Next you must find out if you can reach the top of his bladder with your fingers. This is best done when he is lying on his back with his knees up aside his chest. You can slide your finger(s) up inside his rectum feeling the front of it. You better wear a thin rubber glove and use lots of lubricant.

You can feel his prostate as a round relatively hard ball in the size of a ping-pong ball. When you can feel the top of his prostate you will have to get at least 5 cm deeper inside him to feel the top of the seminal vesicles. It is not enough that you can feel his bladder with your fingertips, because you will have to make a pressure along and across both seminal vesicles at the same time. Some pressure on his stomach just below his ribs can force the bladder a bit down so it is easier to reach. If you can’t reach this, you will have to use some tool to milk him.

Tools

In the beginning I used the handle of a hairbrush covered with a rubber. It is 3 cm wide and 20 cm long with rounded edges. I made a mark on it, to show how long inside it needed to go. To set this mark you will have to rely on his cooperation, because he can feel it inside and can tell you when it no longer presses on his bladder, that is when you are past his seminal vesicles. Later on I started to use a hard dildo. It seems to be a better choice, because the end of it goes in between the two seminal vesicles and that way makes a pressure on both at the same time.

If he is not used to get anything up his rectum you will see some wage trace of blood on the tool when you pull it out. That is because so far inside the rectum the blood vessel are very close to the surface and the skin is very thin [although it is true that your rectal tissue is very delicate, traces of blood would be a serious matter hinting to an injury! Consider to consult a physician!].

One way to prevent too much friction to the rectum is to ad some heavy lubricant (heavy-duty Vaseline) into his rectum before entering the tool [using lube is mandatory! Not only to protect the rectal tissue, but to turn the whole milking procedure into a working practise if not a somewhat exciting experience for the milkee.]. That way the tool will catch up some of the lube when it passes through it, and it will decrease the friction against the inside of rectum. [I would not recommend Vaseline because it is much too tenacious, although it reacts with body-heat making it slightly more greasy.]

You will need something to catch up his semen too. I am using a small cup or saucer. I can then let the penis be untouched during the process and just let it drip out the semen. Much more degrading for him… To get an eye for the quantity of semen you can measure out about 5 ml of thick liquid into the saucer. Just to get a good idea of how it looks.

Position (if it is done by another person)

The best position will be with the Milkman lying on his stomach on a relatively hard surface. His lower abdomen and penis free of the surface and him resting on his spread knees with the saucer placed on something right under his penis.

The process

When the tool is placed long enough inside him and is well lubricated, you will have to get a firm grip in the handle and push the inside end of the tool against his bladder. Then you slowly pull it 4 to 4.5 cm out of him. If you pull the tool too much out of him, it will slide over the bottom of the seminal vesicles with a small hump. If you can, stop just before that happens and then keep the pressure on his bladder for a while. The trick is to move the contents of the seminal vesicles down against the valve in the bottom of the bladder and then extend the pressure a little so the valve has to open and let the content out.

If this happens the milkman will suddenly feel the urge to empty his urethra. Therefore his muscles will tighten to try to do so. He will feel nothing else but this. No orgasm or excitement. Just the urge to empty his urethra and you pressing on his urine bladder. Release the pressure and push the tool gently back in, to the top of his seminal vesicles. Do not touch his penis yet. Repeat this process 8 to 10 times or until you feel that you can’t get more out of it. If you want to help the semen out of him you can do so by placing 3 fingers just onto his perineum and press along his urethra towards his penis. Some lubricant may be required.

Then you can try to squeeze more out by massaging his prostate with the tool or your fingers. Anyway you can always secure that his urethra is emptying by letting the tool slide from the top and along one side of his prostate to the bottom of his rectum. But this will produce some feelings similar to an orgasm and it will only produce a little more semen [it appears that Jenny is focussing on milking the seminal vesicles, yet we know that massaging the prostate does produce a fair volume of milk].

When you decide that it is enough, pull out the tool and continue to massage the area between his legs, from his anus towards his penis, by pressing when you move forward and don’t when you move your hand back again. Do it 4 – 5 times and then when your hand is at the root of his penis keep it there and keep up the pressure. With your other hand you take his penis between 2 fingers at the root and squeeze them tight together while you pull down towards his penis head, to empty it. Do not do this more than once or twice, he could get some ideas, if you do it too much.

The more skilled you get and the more he is getting used to this treatment, the better is the result. [...] What I know is, that it is possible to milk out about 90 % of the amount of semen from the total of a regular masturbated ejaculation. Without any amount of sexual excitement. [A sub will certainly draw sexual excitement from the practise of milking, yet by the psychological aspects of it, despite the range of sensations within his reproductive system and anus.]

How often

In the beginning and until his rectum got used to this treatment, not more than once every week. Especially not if you get traces of blood on your tool, during the first times. And that is almost unavoidable [it sure is I´d say! Pay close attention here, blood is the exception, not the rule!]. When he is more accustomed to it you can do it more often.

However I have never got any good results out of doing it more than 4 to 5 times a week. I think, that about 48 hours between every milking is a good choice, if he is not in some kind of chastity. If he is in a well working chastity device, one time each week will do the trick. If the purpose of this is to prevent him from having any orgasm, a chastity device is necessary. The milking can’t prevent this in itself. I have had orgasm with ejaculation after an effective milking. But it can reduce the urge for ejaculation and therefore reduces the pressure for having an orgasm.

To Swallow And Being Swallowed (2)

(If you did not, please also read my previous post on fellatio.) The post’s headline mirrors the two aspects of the act for both the fellatrice and the receiver: to swallow cock and a mans produce. In addition it expresses the psychological disposition of the physical act. What could a loving fellatrice want other than to devour her (or his) lovers genitals as well as his love juices; and in return, what could a receiver of fellatio want other than to place his penis as close as possible to the conscious senses of his fellatrice with the aim to reward her (or him) with a voluminous load of his very essence?

There may be a slight difference concerning the fellatrice being male or female when it comes to the attitude of giving head. For a woman, especially when she is in love, it may be much more exciting (and arousing) to orally love her mans genitals (rather than to fuck). Just because she doesn´t own a cock and balls by herself, making them somewhat scarce (hence pushing her given passion and urge to suck cock). Men on the other hand have access to a cock and balls all the time – their own. It´s just that a minority (unfortunately ) is able to perform autofellatio.

There are three levels of orally pleasuring:

1. Soft Oral Teasing
2. Regular Oral Massage
3. Oral Copulation

Soft Oral Teasing means the lightest caress, the softest embrace, the slightest touch. Usually used at the beginning of a blowjob, a little soft sucking goes a long way to getting your man aroused. You may not actually suck on the penis, yet rather letting it roll around gently on your tongue and lips. – The receiver experiences a really light sensation at his cock. To watch the action at this point serves as a major turn-on for the receiver.

Regular Oral Massage means a lengthy, gentle and casual cock-teasing to provide pleasure and an increase of arousal. You may apply actually sucking on the penis while you have it move in and out of your mouth. Use a light but steady suction, emphasized on downward strokes. Suck the penis as though you were actually trying to get something really tasty out of the tip (which may be precum at this stage). – The receiver may surrender to the soft and warm sensations his cock (and balls) garners at this level. It feels something like regular fucking with a twist.

Oral Copulation resulting in deepthroating is serious business, so to speak. Best results are achieved when the fellatrice and the receiver know each other very well, love and devotion are sure enhancers. Oral copulation then may be considered the high art of giving head or oral sex. You will merge in it as a means of edging the receiver and certainly to eventually trigger his ejaculation. You alternate between the swallowing of the whole of his cock and a hard sucking on it. Do suck hard, especially near the tip, as though you are trying to actually suck the mushroom off of the shaft (or his milk out of its reservoirs). – The receiver experiences still soft yet intense sensations at his penis very similar to fucking a tight (or contracted) vagina, though much more sophisticated while making him feel much more consumed (not to mention the psychological dimension). If he is not actually balancing at the very edge from oral copulation (when the slightest touch would send him) he will experience his PONR thru hard sucking or deep throating.

The fellatrice has basically three options to deal with the ejaculation of her (his) receiver:

1. you get a distance in time and watch him shoot his load (spraying your body, maybe face) while observing his reaction to the climax you triggered in him
2. you direct his cock in a way to let him fill your open mouth and/or cover your face with his load for you want to taste, play and/or swallow his fresh and warm milk
3. you allow him shoot his load directly into your gullet while you keep his cock totally devoured as long as you can hold your breath.

A last word. For the receiver fellatio bears the advantage to turn this kind of lovemaking into an experience of total care. While using your mouth to pleasure his cock you ought to use your hands to massage his scrotum and tease/enter his anus (possibly to massage his prostate directly with a finger (fisting would be another option, but that is a different story)). There is nothing like the sensations generated thru such a complete parallel stimulation of accessible parts of a mans reproductive system at the same time*. Besides the outstanding experience of being stimulated all over consider the psychological, even emotional impact, when your man is realising that literally the core of his sexual self is being adored and loved to the max!

* A cross-mode of fellatio and (hand-) masturbation is, imho, generally the most favourable love-making you can apply to a mans genitals.

Cumplete Surrender (1)

My previous post is about a woman deeply in love with the reproductive system of her man (after all she is in love with the man himself). Now what could possibly mean an increase of this rather ideal combination, which I was literally illustrating there? Well, probably only a man masturbating another man, because the masturbator would project everything he wanted for himself onto his lover, hence knowing perfectly well what and how to tease another man´s plumbing. Or – as a close follow-up – a woman who wished she was born male (yet not in a transgender meaning)! This was the reason then why she became a female expert on the male reproductive system craving for cock, balls and cum in addition to being driven by passionate ambition to pleasure her lover slowly into the most intense sexual reaction possible.

Read about such a lady and how she works her masturbatee:

When I was old enough to know the difference between male and female genitalia I became envious of boys for their penises. It was not until a little later when I learned that I as a woman in fact do have access to the best of both worlds.

However, I developed into a woman who became extremely fond of male genitalia and its produce. Still early I found myself to be a girl deeply in love with penises, testicles, precum and semen and eventually a males internal main gland, the prostate.

Naturally I was engaging sexually with a lot of men, especially in my late teens, learning a lot about how men work and especially how the plumbings of a man work. Most of my partners were astound of my knowledge and my focus of their genitals. Some have even been shied away, but quite some learned about themselves thru me and most of them enjoyed my special treatment. But for many years I could not find the perfect match or, when I thought a guy was the one, the relationship did not last to establish what I had in mind for a perfect sexual love and partnership. Until now! Let me tell you about my man.

To begin with he devotes himself to me totally when it comes to my sexual needs. My primary need, besides the one to being fucked once in a while and eaten out regularly, is the complete freedom to play with his genitals and to generate for him the possibly most intense orgasmic experiences thru manipulation of his parts alone. This became only reality because what I want is what he wants in addition to the fine-tuning of both our minds over a long period of time, so that we always are absolutely in sync when it cums to our favorite sex act!

As I said, the main objective is to give him the most intense and long-lasting sexual experience possible, which will result in most extended and voluminous ejaculations. My aim is to make him pass out from the intensity of his lust while he ejaculates and I know we have been very close to it a few times.

We perform such an act like this: he will be lying down on his back in our queen-size bed, his legs spread wide apart. His pelvis is lifted by a large pillow, which we put under his buttock, allowing me full and easy access to his man-meat. I sit between his legs and will slowly begin with my routine. All he needs to do is to relax and let go, devote himself to my loving care and his steady increasing arousal and lust.

Slowly and very tender will I begin with my caresses. At the very beginning this goes without lubrication, but soon enough I will apply lots of olive oil. Mostly his penis is flaccid when I start unless he is in heat already. Because we know each other so well we may start out with a soft penis but this will change often immediately after I begin to touch him.

In this phase I just enjoy his genitals and the beauty of it. I think of them and treat them in a way as if they were my own. I start with the testicles. My man owns big balls, which grow in size with time during my caress. I love his balls. I slightly touch his sack with my fingertips. I watch the balls move within his pouch once his excitement is on the rise. My man is not shaved and he is uncut, hence I have lots of ways to tease him.

When his cock is erect I softly grab his wand and pull down his foreskin. His penis is of average length and solid circumference, a real strong tool. What I love most about his cock is his cockhead, the glans. I just love his helmet! The rim of it is very prominent making it almost a separate sex organ. I just love its form, I favor his above all the cockheads I have had, and I have had many. In addition: it is here where the precum and cum is surfacing!

My man is a great precummer! Whenever I notice drops of his gel I lick it off or play with it and certainly I lube his glans with it. All my caresses are basically very light and will remain so, because this is the way to drive him crazy from pure lust later on. There are just 2 exceptions concerning the firmness of my grips, namely the massage of his sack and the massage of his prostate.

Soon I will apply a good portion of olive oil onto his balls. Slowly and still tender I will begin to massage them. This is relaxing and exciting alike. I know he enjoys this very much, just as I do. I love to feel his balls. I like to imagine that they store all his juices, but certainly know better. But I pretend they would and it is fun to massage the balls with this idea in mind. I continue for quite some time until I think that his balls did swell from congestion.

Next will be his prostate. I will tenderly probe his anus with lots of oil penetrating him deeper and deeper with my middle finger. Before I continue to massage his gland with a thin anal dildo I want to touch and feel his cum factory directly with my finger. My man meanwhile is quite excited and does moan commenting my movements and caresses. We live in a single house, which is essential, because it will get loud soon enough.

When I probe him with the dildo he begins to moan louder and more frequently. I noticed that his excitement developing from prostate stimulation is subject to change. I never know if he will be aroused more or less at a particular session. It always comes as a surprise. If it does not excite him, I leave his back door sooner – if he is hot about it, I just take my time and keep on teasing his gland. Many times I combine prostate massage with ball massage. How I love to see him enjoying what I do. And yes, I sure love what I do.

Until then I have spared his penis. That is because it is his magic wand, his tool for lust. He is most sensitive at the tip of his wonderful cock. In particular his glans and the shaft just below of his cock-head. He told me that his foreskin is containing most sensitive nerve-endings, I know this for a long time now. Thru caresses at his foreskin I use to send him into agony and over the edge eventually.

to be continued…