To Swallow And Being Swallowed (2)

(If you did not, please also read my previous post on fellatio.) The post’s headline mirrors the two aspects of the act for both the fellatrice and the receiver: to swallow cock and a mans produce. In addition it expresses the psychological disposition of the physical act. What could a loving fellatrice want other than to devour her (or his) lovers genitals as well as his love juices; and in return, what could a receiver of fellatio want other than to place his penis as close as possible to the conscious senses of his fellatrice with the aim to reward her (or him) with a voluminous load of his very essence?

There may be a slight difference concerning the fellatrice being male or female when it comes to the attitude of giving head. For a woman, especially when she is in love, it may be much more exciting (and arousing) to orally love her mans genitals (rather than to fuck). Just because she doesn´t own a cock and balls by herself, making them somewhat scarce (hence pushing her given passion and urge to suck cock). Men on the other hand have access to a cock and balls all the time – their own. It´s just that a minority (unfortunately ) is able to perform autofellatio.

There are three levels of orally pleasuring:

1. Soft Oral Teasing
2. Regular Oral Massage
3. Oral Copulation

Soft Oral Teasing means the lightest caress, the softest embrace, the slightest touch. Usually used at the beginning of a blowjob, a little soft sucking goes a long way to getting your man aroused. You may not actually suck on the penis, yet rather letting it roll around gently on your tongue and lips. – The receiver experiences a really light sensation at his cock. To watch the action at this point serves as a major turn-on for the receiver.

Regular Oral Massage means a lengthy, gentle and casual cock-teasing to provide pleasure and an increase of arousal. You may apply actually sucking on the penis while you have it move in and out of your mouth. Use a light but steady suction, emphasized on downward strokes. Suck the penis as though you were actually trying to get something really tasty out of the tip (which may be precum at this stage). – The receiver may surrender to the soft and warm sensations his cock (and balls) garners at this level. It feels something like regular fucking with a twist.

Oral Copulation resulting in deepthroating is serious business, so to speak. Best results are achieved when the fellatrice and the receiver know each other very well, love and devotion are sure enhancers. Oral copulation then may be considered the high art of giving head or oral sex. You will merge in it as a means of edging the receiver and certainly to eventually trigger his ejaculation. You alternate between the swallowing of the whole of his cock and a hard sucking on it. Do suck hard, especially near the tip, as though you are trying to actually suck the mushroom off of the shaft (or his milk out of its reservoirs). – The receiver experiences still soft yet intense sensations at his penis very similar to fucking a tight (or contracted) vagina, though much more sophisticated while making him feel much more consumed (not to mention the psychological dimension). If he is not actually balancing at the very edge from oral copulation (when the slightest touch would send him) he will experience his PONR thru hard sucking or deep throating.

The fellatrice has basically three options to deal with the ejaculation of her (his) receiver:

1. you get a distance in time and watch him shoot his load (spraying your body, maybe face) while observing his reaction to the climax you triggered in him
2. you direct his cock in a way to let him fill your open mouth and/or cover your face with his load for you want to taste, play and/or swallow his fresh and warm milk
3. you allow him shoot his load directly into your gullet while you keep his cock totally devoured as long as you can hold your breath.

A last word. For the receiver fellatio bears the advantage to turn this kind of lovemaking into an experience of total care. While using your mouth to pleasure his cock you ought to use your hands to massage his scrotum and tease/enter his anus (possibly to massage his prostate directly with a finger (fisting would be another option, but that is a different story)). There is nothing like the sensations generated thru such a complete parallel stimulation of accessible parts of a mans reproductive system at the same time*. Besides the outstanding experience of being stimulated all over consider the psychological, even emotional impact, when your man is realising that literally the core of his sexual self is being adored and loved to the max!

* A cross-mode of fellatio and (hand-) masturbation is, imho, generally the most favourable love-making you can apply to a mans genitals.

Male Sex Response Praise – Illustrated

In my previous post you read a genuine lady’s account for a basic love of our male devices. In this post you will get to know a woman cheerfully praising her lovers genitals and beyond! You will learn that this concrete love grants a deep sexual fulfillment for both, giver and receiver in this detailed and illustrated description of an edging session.

However, this report is fictitious and this post features the beginning of the story only. Since I had this file ready at hand I decided to coax you into the setting and offer you the whole adventure as pdf-file (at the end of the following teaser):

I have to tell this now. I have to tell the world how much I love my man. I do love him, because my sexual encounters with him are so rewarding to me, – well to us after all. Let me show you why. Here goes:

Over quite some years our bond grew tighter and tighter. This is reflecting in my love for his genitals and beyond. When I say beyond I do mean my love for his juices, i.e. his precum and cum, which I refer to as honey and milk. When we make love to each other we take turns for to please the other respectively within single sessions. One of us will be the giver, the other one will enjoy as receiver. That assures each of us to fully concentrate either on giving or receiving pleasure.

Now concerning his sexual satisfaction we agreed upon going real slow until the event of ejaculation and/or orgasm. He will receive in a very relaxed way, ever adding to his excitement in a very well paced manner with the goal of edging him in a state of sexual bliss right on the brink of ejaculation. Going all this way I am fortunate to experience his sexual response cycle in every detail. I will experience his genitals in many different states as well as his excitement. Finally I am awarded with his sweet juices over an extended period of time. Usually we eventually do harvest his milk having him cum into a glass. This way we profit twice from his climax(es): we observe his penis donating and yet I may fully enjoy to drink his precious essence.

Let me illustrate this route of bliss.

Our lovemaking starts with my pure visual admiration of his penis and ballsack.

I enjoy the relaxed state of his penis as much as I do the half and full erect states of his wonderful cock. What to say, any mode meets my love and admiration.

In the beginning his penis will be more or less flaccid. But the erectile condition may change spontaneously any given second. This rule does apply, if not even more so, to his scrotum. His foreskin may be retracted or not at the different states of erection/arousal. Ultimately I admittedly do prefer his bare cockhead.

The above pic shows my lovers beautiful penis in a quite average condition. My man is standing with his cock already swollen to about a third of a full erection in anticipation of the love-session to follow. His foreskin is fully retracted from the glans. Notice the wonderful corona of his cockhead. His ballsack is tight in this situation. It tends to be tight, because my man is freezing easily. However, once we are en route his scrotum softens and the balls begin to hang loose and looser, as you shall see further down.

I just love his sack to be soft and his balls to be swollen. Usually I will start with caressing his sack and nuts. This includes fondling, kissing and licking. Later on, when my man reached a heightened state of arousal, I will apply sucking, massage and even kneading to his package. [...]

Feel free to download the whole praise enhanced with a lot of pics illustrating the different appearances of the admired and loved genitals, showing them between a relaxed and aroused state all the way to emission and ejaculation!

I Love Handjobs For I Love Cock & Balls

The most ideal combination in partnersex certainly features a masturbatrice/masturbator who is in love with our genitals (if not ourselves as a whole). That is because this situation naturally leads to first-rate sex play and satisfaction. It may be a triple-win or even quadruple-win situation when your masturbatrice:

• loves your genitals +
• loves to apply hand or oral stimulation +
• loves to observe you react to each caressing (be it in your genitals and/or as a whole) +
• loves your juices.

The headline of this post is reflecting the following statement written by Nikita (aka Nikkiee), a lady that fits my above noted suggestion. I found her love-letter years ago at her website (and that may have very well contributed to form and define the female characters of my fictitious output).

So, please read:

A woman’s perspective on hand stimulation…

I love many kinds of sex. I really enjoy oral sex. However, my favorite is hand stimulation. I love touching, fondling, playing with a cock & balls. I really love handjobs. I like to watch them & I also LOVE giving them. To watch a guy pull his pants down, his soft, fleshy cock & balls pour out of his underwear, just aching to get loose. Then, to reach over & touch it just sends me. Start playing with it, feeling it, stimulating it. As it grows thicker & thicker, the head starts to swell. The balls swell. Then start a rhythm of hand humping it. Squeezing, pulling on it, sliding my hands up & down the shaft. Playing with the head as it turns purple. Feeling it start to throb. My hand squeezing tighter & moving up & down faster & faster until it starts to twitch. The balls tighten & the meat starts to pump out its milk. Ohhh my! The salty milk pumps out all over my long fingers. The head all glistening & wet. I rub my fingers over the wet head, teasing it as it cums. This is heaven for me…

Handjobs really get me off. Watching a guy jerk it off is soo hot. Unlike women, a cock needs to be jerked off often. I love to jerk them off. The cock head is a bundle of nerves, just hanging out & rubbing the underwear constantly. Cocks have constant stimulation as a guy moves around, unlike a pussy that is all tucked up inside. I understand cocks & love the whole idea. I like the thought of a guy’s cock all mushed down against his balls. All that meat squashed in his underwear. The very idea of it just drives me crazy. I really get crazy for a cock & balls that’s shaven. Soo pink & tender, so raw. The scent of a big tender set of shaven balls sends me. How could you not want to touch & taste it?? Girls who do not get hot by all this have really missed the train. It’s just a natural attraction.

My Turn Ons: I am turned on by most sex. No pain, just pleasure. I like shaven genitals. Hairless cocks & smooth, shaven pink balls. I like most cocks. Small to big. The head really turns me on. I like to touch it & taste it. Feel it in my mouth, rolling my tongue all over it. I also get into ball licking & sucking. A man’s balls are soo sensual, raunchy & so hot. I love to see a set all shaven & hanging. Soo pink & soft. Just right for a tongue bath. I get into sucking on a guy’s balls & crotch while I handjob his cock. I also like eating a guy’s ass. Licking the crotch from the balls back to his hole. Licking a guy’s hole as he cums is so hot. You can feel his hole twitching as his cock pumps out its milk.

While Nikita´s statement stands for a basic love of cock and balls, imagine the attitude of a woman who is deeply in love with just your genitals! Read an illustrated story in my next post.

Penis–Head

Our penises may come in all kinds of shapes and sizes, yet the basic design remains the same throughout all differences: our cocks appear as shafts crowned by a peculiar top, the glans or head (the whole penis is made of two different kinds of erectile tissue). This combination is unique and differs (overall in shape and size) very much from the penile design of even our closest living relatives (primates that is)! I personally adore the design of the human cock, particularly for its gorgeous head.*

So, only us human males feature such a distinctive mushroom-capped cock-head, which is connected to the shaft by the frenulum (the delicate tab of skin just beneath the meatus, as to be seen in the next couple of pics) on its underside. Probably the most significant design of the glans is the coronal ridge. The diameter of the „helmet“ where it meets the shaft is wider than the shaft itself. This results in the coronal ridge that runs around the circumference of the shaft. And here the question arises: Why is it like that? and What is that for?

According to evolutionary psychologist Gordon Gallup of the State University of New York at Albany, the human penis is literally an impressive “tool” [mind you in a different meaning of the term and how I used it in this blog]. Gallup’s research findings of studying the design of the human penis is a perfect example of “reverse-engineering”. This means that if we start with what we see today — the oddly shaped cock, with its bulbous head, its long, rigid shaft, and the coronal ridge — and work our way backward regarding how it came to look like that, the reverse-engineer is able to suggest a set of function-based hypotheses derived from evolutionary theory.

Now, it appears there’s a genuine adaptive reason that our cocks look the way they do. We must consider the evolution of our tools in relation to the human vagina. Magnetic imaging studies of heterosexual couples fucking reveal that the penis completely occupies the vaginal tract, and with full penetration does reach the woman’s cervix and lift her uterus. This combined with the fact that cum is expelled with great force, suggests that the male genitals are ment to release sperm into the uppermost portion of the vagina possible. Thus, in a theoretical paper published in the journal Evolutionary Psychology in 2004, Gallup and coauthor, Rebecca Burch, assume that,

“A longer penis would not only have been an advantage for leaving semen in a less accessible part of the vagina, but by filling and expanding the vagina it also would aid and abet the displacement of semen left by other males as a means of maximizing the likelihood of paternity.”

The “semen displacement theory” is the most intriguing part of Gallup’s research. Besides being a brilliant evolutionary theorist, he happens also to be a very gifted experimental researcher. In a series of studies published in a 2003 issue of the journal Evolution & Human Behavior, Gallup and a team of his students put the “semen displacement hypothesis” to the test using artificial genitalia. They even concocted several batches of realistic seminal fluid. Results from this study may not have “proved” the semen displacement hypothesis, but they definitely confirmed its principal points.

And how does the cum displacing work after all? Well, according to Gallup our cocks were sculpted in such a way that our tools would effectively displace the jizz of competitors from their partner’s vagina, a well-synchronized effect facilitated by the “upsuck” of thrusting during fucking. Specifically, the coronal ridge offers a special removal service by expunging strange cum. Gallup’s experiments showed, that the effect of thrusting would be to draw other men’s juices away from the cervix and back around the glans, thus scooping out the spunk deposited by a sexual rival.

After all, thanks to evolution for that we are equipped with such sophisticated organs making them the most beautiful and wondrous sexual entities throughout the animal kingdom. I love penis from head to bulb and crura respectively.

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The info of this post is largely based on a Scientific American article by Jesse Bering.

* By the way, according to a former poll in this blog most of the readers partissipating share my love! I asked: What part of the penis do you love/enjoy the most? Now 34% (41 votes of 120 total answers) chose: the glans/helmet! This marked a clear lead among the choices: