Milking – Her Say

At the end of this chapter (about male milking) I would like to share some individual experiences by practitioners on how a gland-milking can be performed. I found these accounts some years ago on the net. I wanted to have both sexes have their say, yet in the end I consider this distinction does not matter that much, at least when it comes to partnersex.

However, I did find the following how-to by someone called Jenny, thus assuming the author is an experienced lady, or, to be more precise, a dominatrix with a good deal of exercise in this discipline. I abridged slightly and made remarks to clarify flawed statements (in red and bracketed) considering commonly accepted facts. – So, ladies first then:

How to milk. Based on my experience.

Find the Spot

First you have to ensure that the Milkman is able to take two fingers up his anus, or at least a hard dildo with a diameter of 3.5 cm.

Next you must find out if you can reach the top of his bladder with your fingers. This is best done when he is lying on his back with his knees up aside his chest. You can slide your finger(s) up inside his rectum feeling the front of it. You better wear a thin rubber glove and use lots of lubricant.

You can feel his prostate as a round relatively hard ball in the size of a ping-pong ball. When you can feel the top of his prostate you will have to get at least 5 cm deeper inside him to feel the top of the seminal vesicles. It is not enough that you can feel his bladder with your fingertips, because you will have to make a pressure along and across both seminal vesicles at the same time. Some pressure on his stomach just below his ribs can force the bladder a bit down so it is easier to reach. If you can’t reach this, you will have to use some tool to milk him.

Tools

In the beginning I used the handle of a hairbrush covered with a rubber. It is 3 cm wide and 20 cm long with rounded edges. I made a mark on it, to show how long inside it needed to go. To set this mark you will have to rely on his cooperation, because he can feel it inside and can tell you when it no longer presses on his bladder, that is when you are past his seminal vesicles. Later on I started to use a hard dildo. It seems to be a better choice, because the end of it goes in between the two seminal vesicles and that way makes a pressure on both at the same time.

If he is not used to get anything up his rectum you will see some wage trace of blood on the tool when you pull it out. That is because so far inside the rectum the blood vessel are very close to the surface and the skin is very thin [although it is true that your rectal tissue is very delicate, traces of blood would be a serious matter hinting to an injury! Consider to consult a physician!].

One way to prevent too much friction to the rectum is to ad some heavy lubricant (heavy-duty Vaseline) into his rectum before entering the tool [using lube is mandatory! Not only to protect the rectal tissue, but to turn the whole milking procedure into a working practise if not a somewhat exciting experience for the milkee.]. That way the tool will catch up some of the lube when it passes through it, and it will decrease the friction against the inside of rectum. [I would not recommend Vaseline because it is much too tenacious, although it reacts with body-heat making it slightly more greasy.]

You will need something to catch up his semen too. I am using a small cup or saucer. I can then let the penis be untouched during the process and just let it drip out the semen. Much more degrading for him… To get an eye for the quantity of semen you can measure out about 5 ml of thick liquid into the saucer. Just to get a good idea of how it looks.

Position (if it is done by another person)

The best position will be with the Milkman lying on his stomach on a relatively hard surface. His lower abdomen and penis free of the surface and him resting on his spread knees with the saucer placed on something right under his penis.

The process

When the tool is placed long enough inside him and is well lubricated, you will have to get a firm grip in the handle and push the inside end of the tool against his bladder. Then you slowly pull it 4 to 4.5 cm out of him. If you pull the tool too much out of him, it will slide over the bottom of the seminal vesicles with a small hump. If you can, stop just before that happens and then keep the pressure on his bladder for a while. The trick is to move the contents of the seminal vesicles down against the valve in the bottom of the bladder and then extend the pressure a little so the valve has to open and let the content out.

If this happens the milkman will suddenly feel the urge to empty his urethra. Therefore his muscles will tighten to try to do so. He will feel nothing else but this. No orgasm or excitement. Just the urge to empty his urethra and you pressing on his urine bladder. Release the pressure and push the tool gently back in, to the top of his seminal vesicles. Do not touch his penis yet. Repeat this process 8 to 10 times or until you feel that you can’t get more out of it. If you want to help the semen out of him you can do so by placing 3 fingers just onto his perineum and press along his urethra towards his penis. Some lubricant may be required.

Then you can try to squeeze more out by massaging his prostate with the tool or your fingers. Anyway you can always secure that his urethra is emptying by letting the tool slide from the top and along one side of his prostate to the bottom of his rectum. But this will produce some feelings similar to an orgasm and it will only produce a little more semen [it appears that Jenny is focussing on milking the seminal vesicles, yet we know that massaging the prostate does produce a fair volume of milk].

When you decide that it is enough, pull out the tool and continue to massage the area between his legs, from his anus towards his penis, by pressing when you move forward and don’t when you move your hand back again. Do it 4 – 5 times and then when your hand is at the root of his penis keep it there and keep up the pressure. With your other hand you take his penis between 2 fingers at the root and squeeze them tight together while you pull down towards his penis head, to empty it. Do not do this more than once or twice, he could get some ideas, if you do it too much.

The more skilled you get and the more he is getting used to this treatment, the better is the result. [...] What I know is, that it is possible to milk out about 90 % of the amount of semen from the total of a regular masturbated ejaculation. Without any amount of sexual excitement. [A sub will certainly draw sexual excitement from the practise of milking, yet by the psychological aspects of it, despite the range of sensations within his reproductive system and anus.]

How often

In the beginning and until his rectum got used to this treatment, not more than once every week. Especially not if you get traces of blood on your tool, during the first times. And that is almost unavoidable [it sure is I´d say! Pay close attention here, blood is the exception, not the rule!]. When he is more accustomed to it you can do it more often.

However I have never got any good results out of doing it more than 4 to 5 times a week. I think, that about 48 hours between every milking is a good choice, if he is not in some kind of chastity. If he is in a well working chastity device, one time each week will do the trick. If the purpose of this is to prevent him from having any orgasm, a chastity device is necessary. The milking can’t prevent this in itself. I have had orgasm with ejaculation after an effective milking. But it can reduce the urge for ejaculation and therefore reduces the pressure for having an orgasm.

Quoting Women Preferring Facials

In my previous posts I try to promote awareness about fellatio in general and the orally triggered ejaculation in particular. So, what do you do when he cums? Or rather, what do you prefer to do in that special moment?

It all depends on who is in charge of the situation. Meaning, whoever has the hands/mouth on the receivers cock (and balls) at PONR will decide what happens next. I´d opt for the fellatrice to be fully in charge, always. However, her/his receiver may have his own ideas.

Among the options for dealing with the climax of the act, producing a facial seems to be a very popular one. There may be a range of reasons for why a couple chooses to let him cum-cover his fellatrices face – as long as both agree it´s a most beautiful experience. Needless to say that the porn-industry loves to show facials for their visual appeal. But even in the private, without the cam rolling, facials are welcomed by many as a highly erotic aspect of the sexual bond between the two (or more) involved.

Read some testimonials of women who just love being cum-sprayed in their faces or having their mouthes filled with warm man-milk. I found these statements online in 2004 (forgot where exactly) collected by a guy called Jallen (I abridged some of the quotes):

Note from Jallen: Over the years, I’ve corresponded with (and sometimes met) facially-fixated women who are not the least bit shy when it cums to sharing their love of hot, dripping cream… all the following quotes are guaranteed genuine, and are used by permission of the ladies concerned.

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I love to get facials from my boyfriend. I love the warm feel of the cum on my face. I always want it on my mouth too, so I can taste it as he cums. The most guys I’ve had cum on my face at the same time is 5 … yes, 5 … I was drinking and feeling horny at a frat party … I just started talking about sex with the guys and some of the girls and I told them I like facials … the other girls didn’t. Well, that meant more cum for me … *grin*. My face was covered … It was one of the most erotic things that ever happened to me. … I took off my top and bra, I didn’t want them to get messy. I was 22 at the time. I had them all jerk off over me at the same time … I was kneeling … Not all the guys came at the same time … When one came, he would get out of the way so someone else could get closer at my face … After two guys I had to keep my eyes closed to keep it from getting in them … Some of them aimed high, but I didn’t care … After all five I had to wipe it out of my eyes … Then I took a taste of it to give everybody a thrill … The guys loved it … One of them gave me a towel to wipe the rest off my face … It was something I had to try at least once … I was always turned on by it in pornos …

The thing I think of when a guy is about to cum on my face is … How much and how long will he squirt on my face. When it hits me I feel a warm wet sensation on my face … I always tell him, ‘Yes, yes, cover me!!’ I like to talk when he cums, so I can taste it too.

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I love how men cum, I love how men taste, I love watching how men cum, I love the feeling of it landing on my skin wherever it is … I would gladly get the high protein facial/drink from you anytime you want, honey … My only hangup with it is when the guy is only a taker and not a giver. I mean, I like having a guy cum on my face all by itself, but if he never wants to go down on me, or screw me good and hard – then he is selfish and I don’t feel like putting out for him … you know what I mean?

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I love sucking cock and getting a nice wet facial. My current boyfriend is really open-minded, a bit sexually dominant, and really into visuals. He likes it when I wear my make-up a bit heavier than usual so he can mess it up with a big load. Of course I have to be in for the evening! Swallowing still has merit though. I like that too!

Almost all the guys want to come in your mouth, for various reasons I guess. Perhaps because most women don’t like it. They also like it when you swallow it. … I was afraid to let a guy come in my mouth at first so I would usually blow them a bit, then jerk them off.

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Facials are something I’ve been into since the beginning of my dating boys. It started for very practical reasons. If I would have guys over, or be over at their places, and if we were left alone in the den or in the basement, well, nature would take its course … The most obvious problem was what to do with all the sperm. I couldn’t take it in the ‘natural’ way, because I wasn’t on OC’s [oral contraceptives], so I quickly learned to put my mouth on it and swallow it. No muss, no fuss. At that age, I didn’t know that I was supposed to be ‘disgusted’ with it and so came to like it very, very much. I love the texture of sperm, the smell of it and the taste of it. … Later on, and certainly at present, I’m much more into what you would call a true facial, rather than just swallowing it all. I really like watching sperm squirting out, be it thick or watery. I like finishing a guy off with my hand, squirting it in the general area of my face. If a guy wants to finish himself off, for more directional control, I’m just as happy with that.

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I thought I’d offer the following observations:

- The facial is hot because it’s hot. It’s an incredibly hot way to end a romantic, or sexual (the two are not always the same) encounter. It involves a man erupting, and a woman taking it in her face. And let’s face it, in our culture there is much to be said about ‘in your face’ activities. They’re bold, dominating, up front and honest.

- The facial is hot because it’s expressive. It’s a woman expressing to the male that she loves what she’s done to him and she loves what he’s doing to her. It’s accepting. A woman accepts a man doing the shoot-thing. And from the man’s point of view, it’s his expressing just how sensual the woman has been to him.

- It’s dominating. From both perspectives. A man dominates by shooting on a woman’s face, covering her with his essence. The woman dominates by reducing the man to a shooting, sniveling mess. He cannot do what he does without her sensuality.

- It’s hot because it’s forbidden. In the same way that sex in public, anal sex or group sex are forbidden in our society, their very actions make them more erotic and hotter.

- From a woman’s point of view, and from one who believes that woman holds ultimate power and control over men because of what is between her legs, it involves the man totally surrendering to the woman. He gives in to her sexuality and aura by coming on her face. She accepts it because she has the power. She could turn away. She could laugh at him. But she lets it happen. Because she loves what it does to him, and she loves what it does to her.

- It’s exciting because it’s hot. In many ways. Hot sex, hot cum, hot activity. Wow is it hot!

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For all you so-called “ladies” out there that may find facials degrading in both porn/real life, I give you this to think about. This is one of the most intimate acts a man and a woman can share. Anyone can be a sperm receptacle but the people who can open their minds/bodies to a lover find the most satisfaction. It has always given me pleasure to watch my partner reach climax. When he is staring down at you, and letting you taste him, there is no one else he is thinking about. I also enjoy rating a good porn facial on a scale of 1-10.

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I have always been an intense lover, since I had my first orgasm at 17/18 years old. I can get off by pleasing my man and I can have orgasms because he is totally stimulated. I found myself asking my boyfriend to ejaculate onto my face because he had never done it and I knew it would intensify his orgasm and it did.

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I too am a woman who loves to receive facials. I’m a 38 y.o. married woman and have enjoyed giving bj’s and getting facials since I was 18 and got my 1st one. At first I thought it was gross, but then I wanted more. The idea of a guy getting off all over my face just really turns me on. I love the feel and smell and taste of sperm. I’m lucky that my husband lets me indulge in the enjoyment, both with him and many other men. …So I’m another woman who has learned to truly love facials. And anyone who doesn’t see that it’s the woman who gets empowered by receiving facials probably hasn’t gotten many. … I talk to my girlfriends about enjoyment of sperm, most think it’s gross and we just laugh about it, some though also enjoy it. A lot of women like it, but are just embarrassed to admit it to their husbands or boyfriends, afraid they will think less of them for it.

Reel Fiction (5)

I am a bit low on my Reel Fiction Stories, but eventually here is No. 5! Please refer to Story No. 1 for an explanation to why I call these Reel Fiction. No. 5 is based on one of the hottest clips I encountered on the net. Not only is she stroking him exquisitely with just thumb and pointer at his most sensitive penile area just below his cockhead, the lucky guy also owns a very beautiful penis which in the course of the expert handjob (rather fingerjob) seems to respond with independent inner movement (guess we could call it active throbbing). And notice the separate live of his balls! A great little clip of a very special two-finger-stroke:

• HER say
• HIS say

It was an ordinary Saturday, time to get some home-cleaning done, shopping and so on. I had been thru the bathroom and was doing the dishes, when I noticed that my man was „in heat“, so to speak. He was arranging the china when I paused and looked at him.

What? he asked and he clearly had that impression in his face.

Can you hold it until tonight? I replied smiling at him.

Shall I be honest? he asked in full understanding of what I was talking about. I nodded.

No! I can´t. Just to be near you, just to watch you work makes me wanna jump at you. Damn, I am so fucking loaded!

But look at me, I´m not even lightly dressed and I do the dishes! Is this really sexy to you? I honestly wondered.

Doesn´t matter. It´s about you and that we had no sex all week long he said. The latter was a fact. The week had been tough with loads of business and other tasks. I myself was looking forward to get involved with him, but in the right ambiance and with enough time.

Yeah, I know, you´re right. But can´t you try to last until later? It probably will be even greater than with your anticipation at extreme heights?

God, what you say makes me… You know it´s like I could explode right here and now. I feel tormented since we woke up! I just didn´t want to hassle you, I know we have things to – I cut his word.

OK, I appreciate that, thanks. Here´s the deal: I jack you off right now, simple and straight. I won´t get undressed, it´s just for your release. No fucking, no fancy teasing, no multiples. I still want something from you tonight. Do we have a deal?

He did not answer me, but started to get undressed right away.

I headed to our office where I thought would be the best location for an instant jerk. My plan was to place him on his desk-chair since the back-rest could be lowered. It crossed my mind to hook up our cam for taping the whole session. That would make a nice souvenir, – and how it did!

While I arranged the place he entered the room naked. I had noticed that he hit the bathroom in the meantime. God, his beautiful cock was rock hard, pointing straight upward like a rocket. I could see him throb in anticipation.

Come, sit here! I said and we quickly found our positions, me kneeling on a cushion aside of him by the armrest.

The cam is rolling already I explained, me approaching him from the side, not the front. You really are loaded, aren´t you?

Yeah he whispered.

Gosh, your cock makes me so hot, but we have a deal. Lets say it´s just a fore-runner until later on. Now listen. You just sit here and open up to what I do. Steady yourself and keep your hands away. I want to generate most intense sensations in your cock and glands. I want to make you cum thru a teasing jerk of your sensitive upper end of your amazing rod. And now Baby relax and enjoy.

I was taking his throbbing wand between thumb and index finger and began to sensually massage his ever so lovely organ between his helmet and not lower than half way down. My index finger was repeatedly rubbing his frenulum while my thumb was massaging the soft rim of his mushroom head with my steady up-and-down jerk.

After a while I noticed that he was working with his bc and pc muscles which soon gave me the awesome impression that his penis had a life of its own. His dick was literally stretching and pulsing in my soft grip. Later we clearly did observe that in the clip. And something else we couldn´t see while in the act: his balls also had a life of their own! They were moving up and down in a wild frenzy all by themselves until short before ejaculation, when his meat-bag tightened.

The session took longer than I – and probably my man himself – would have predicted at the start of it. But I wouldn´t want to miss a second! Eventually I could sense that he was getting close. His breathing became deeper.

Yeah Baby I encouraged him, assuming correctly that he was on his way.

Cum for me Baby, come for me I teased him while his whole body was responding to the lust building up inside of him.

I think I pushed him right to the point of no return when I said You know you´re right there Baby!

Almost immediately he was breathing Oh yeah… and as I responded Yeah Baby cum for me he was exploding with a first forceful rope straight into the air!

Oh yeah Baby cum for me, oh yeah! He was pumping his warm milk while I continued to jerk him. His juice was pulsing out of his cock-slit running down his throbbing shaft over my fingers wetting his swollen balls.

Uuhh… yesss… uuhh I was absolutely stunned by that beautiful sight his spewing cock had just awarded me with! …Yes.

He was grunting once again as he felt the fainting pulses of his reflex, me still jerking his wet and hard cock. That´s nice I said in sincere admiration.

That´s real nice I repeated, now as his ejaculation had ceased. I realized that I loved his cock as much as I did experiencing his surrender. I slowly stroked his still erect penis. His body was reacting sensitively and for a spilt second I thought about starting a second round, or even better get undressed and fuck him. But a household was waiting and I definitely needed him to recharge for the evening!

STORY CUMPLETE

The same viewing-procedures as for For a Closer Look apply.

Cumplete Surrender (2)

Read part one of this story here!

I begin to lightly massage his beautiful cockhead and just that. I do this slowly and for a very long time. His moaning had become less after the prostate massage. When it picks up together with an intensified breathing I know we are on our way. He continuously spills precum, -what a lovely sight! Slowly I massage his soft glans and watch his balls move in his sack. Sometimes I touch his sack-hair or slowly pull back his foreskin at the cock-base.

When his breathing is deep and the sound of his moaning is in low tone I carefully integrate his foreskin into my caresses. In this phase we enter the plateau of his excitement. The objective now changes. From pure enjoyment of his genitals we will now follow the build-up of his orgasmic potential thru intensifying his lust. Since we are a team and since I know him so well (including an optimal communication) I masturbate him ever closer to the edge of cumming without letting him merge over the edge.

I never count how many times we come close. I assume it must be at least 50 times, more likely up to a hundred. During this steady stop and go he will become increasingly insane from the pressure building up inside of him. There are two kinds of pressure. One is the pressure of his ongoing secretial build-up in his glands. I know that he feels filled with semen wanting so badly to explode and release his man-juices. The other kind of pressure is the one from the psychological side of it. He is in my hands and does not know when I will let him cum which ever increases his lust. His excitement and fluid pressure are just driving him mad.

After some time, probably around the 20^th Stop&Go he will find himself in a state of mind where he just is riding the edge of cum-explosion. He is constantly moaning loud and breathing heavily. Whenever I bring him closer to the edge he begins to whine showing me that I have to back off again and allow him a short break. I try to really keep him on the edge and produce mini-orgasms or rather mini-ejaculations, which will make him ooze some of his milk. I love this so much and I love his cum and precum and lick my fingers clean when he oozes over my fingertips.

After I´ve kept him in this ecstatic state of constant oozing just at the brink of ejaculation for a long time, maybe after about a hundred Stop&Goes, I will decide to caress him into a most powerful orgasmic ejaculation. This time I will not stop my foreskin stroking when he nears the threshold to ejaculation. Via his moaning and whining I exactly know in which phase of excitement he is in. When his moaning turns into whining he is very close to emission. His glands are on high-alert for letting go of his accumulated volume of milk. At that point I will apply the lightest touch to his foreskin and to the rim of his glans and may additionally touch his drawn up balls in his tight sack equally lightly. He then will become louder in his whining and his breathing will become deeper just out of pure unbearable excitement. I know that his floodgates will open up if I continue with my featherly light caresses. And this is exactly what I eventually do, naturally.

He is whining in an intense state of lustful bliss, his body-musculature is spasming, he is gasping for air. I ever so slightly touch his foreskin and/or sack. Often he screams out loud just before a second later a steady stream of his thin and clear first cum is flowing out of his cock. However, this does not mean that he is experiencing ejaculation yet. His internal plumbings just have released a first bigger portion of his milk. It is essential that I keep on caressing him in the described way. He still is gasping for air between his moanings. While I keep slightly touching his skins he finally begins to scream like wild in a full and deep tone. It is obvious that he can´t take it anymore. This is a sure sign that now the mechanics of his ejaculatory reflex have set in. For a brief moment a small amount of hot and almost clear cum shows in his cockeye before he finally begins to shoot his white lava with a violent first full spurt flying all the way behind his head. Ejaculation has inevitably set in and I still continue to lightly stroke his foreskin yet slowly increasing my grip.

He screams like wild while shooting spurt after spurt of his delicious hot creamy milk. The pressure in his reservoir of juices declines with each cycle of orgasmic spasm, but he extendedly is pumping cum, though in decreasing amounts. His screaming returns to moaning and then fades into just heavy breathing, until he eventually calms down into a silent and peaceful relaxation. It takes some time before his breathing is back to normal as well, but I know my man has been in the high heavens of lust.

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