For a Closer Look (12) – Electro Edging

This clip illustrates how EES may extend/enhance an ejaculatory climax presumably after some time of electro-edging.

You see:
- the guy (rather his cock) instants before his ejaculation is triggered, you hear him breathing fast anticipating his climax. At sec 5 into the clip the first spill of milk is released (look closely and notice a drop of precum at his meatus). This is the beginning of about 10 strong contractions of his BC (and surely associated muscles). It appears that his cumproducing spasms grow in intensity, judged by the moaning we can hear. The guy doesn´t begin to heavily moan before his 3rd spill. Interestingly enough his ejaculatory reflex seems to happen rather slow and pronounced. And it lasts for almost the whole time of the clips duration. Instead of the usual pattern of an ejaculation with cum-shots we observe strong and distinct „penile spasms“ (i.e. BC and PC spasms) producing his milk as if pumped to the surface from a well.

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The electro-stimulation applied right behind his corona at the sulcus does obviously trigger an initial emission followed by a series of strong muscular contractions pumping up his creamy milk. – Mind you that there are numerous possibilities to rig oneself with the different available gear. This one looks rather DIY.

It’s an unedited scene in fair quality (see still of clip) and with sound. It is 7.9 MB in size and running 39 seconds. The format of the clip is wmv.

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Expected streaming video? – Please refer to this explanation here about why and how I offer clips (tagged For a Closer Look) the way I do.

Being Edged (1)

The mere thought is highly arousing: to just sit (rather lay) back, relax and let a partner do the teasing. And with that I certainly mean edging. This reaches way beyond the ordinary hand job. Read about a hot experience of Jim which always makes my pulse speed up while rereading it. I found this more than 10 years ago and it influenced my own stories pretty much! The most intriguing perception is that a partner may be able to generate a more intense climax than one can achieve with oneself.

When two people who know and practice these wonderful techniques have the opportunity to get together it can be an intense experience. Until recently, I had a fellow Tantric enthusiast I would get together with about every two weeks on a Saturday. We would take turns. One week one of us would totally concentrate on the other and the next time the roles were reversed. The reason we did this is because we tried to expand the time of bliss to as long as we could, no less than two to three hours.

By the time it was over the recipient needed time to recuperate before he was interested in focusing likewise. We did not have the time so we just traded out complete sessions. We used warm coconut oil and all the slow edging techniques we have read about including some on this forum [Jim was referring to another forum then, not this one]. We used the book by Brauer called ESO as our basic guide.

One thing we always did was to keep the erection hard and firm the whole time without ever letting it subside. We both loved slow deliberate masturbation. We were both practiced with Kegels and had no erection problems at all. We read and also learned by experience that this builds up incredible sensations. We also tried to keep him right on the brink for most of this time.

At first we communicated with signals as to when we were close to the edge. We also went too far a few times and brought each other to ejaculation too soon. After about 5 or 6 sessions, however, we began to learn just what it took for each other to produce an intense experience. Wow, it was incredible because there is nothing like another set hands edging you for sometimes 3 hours knowing exactly when to slow or stop, knowing how to lightly rub those sensitive nerve endings while you relax.

Sometimes there was a semi-consciousness. Other times there was a heavy breathing or moaning. We encouraged each other to just open up and vocalize the passion when we were at one of the more extreme peaks. We told each other what strokes felt the most incredible and we focused on those each time. We always prepared several days in advance for a session by not masturbating to ejaculation and by doing plenty of Kegels and eating properly and getting plenty of excercise.

Finally we decided to tape each other receiving a session. Then the next time we got together we would review the tape of the one who was going to receive that day. It was so he could show the giver what was great and what wasn’t so great. We found that scanning through the tape was fantastic preparation for a session. It was highly stimulating just watching it knowing what was coming. We counted one time almost 70 times when he was close to the brink. We also tried to count contractions (the PC [BC] Muscles contracting when pleasure is received) but lost track after 200 or so. We saw that they were not as frequent when he got to stage III. By then it was more of a bliss time with even the lightest stroking causing intense sensations.

The orgasms and ejaculations at the end of these sessions were always preplanned and agreed upon so that there was no guess-work. They were always incredible. Routinely I would shoot very far, several jets, because I am made that way from the factory. His were not as far but he had about 3 more jets than I did. Both of us had many ejaculatory contractions at the end, way more than when we masturbated alone.

You sure need to share the same passion, a trusted relationship, knowledge of the male (anatomy) and experience (thru trial and error on your man = receiver). These parameters are not gender dependent!

The Anatomical Location of The Edge

We know what it takes to edge: control and relaxation. We know how edging feels like: the sweet sensations of almost shooting milk, on and on. Both of these statements indicate the two aspects necessary for edging: awareness of all structures of our reproductive biology and the mastering of climax control.

But where in our system do we have to place our awareness most of all? Which structure has to be in our focus to gain the control we need for edging (besides our masturbatory discipline)? This area would mark the location of The Edge. Answer is: it must be the place where our seminal secretions are accumulating prior to emission and ejaculation. Because as long as we are aware of the stand-by zone of our milk, it´s us who decides to let go or not.
Let´s have a look at our system to find out:

Here we see all the structures involved in producing and transporting the secretions that make up our milk. Most important are the glands which I introduced as Milkfactories (here and here in detail) earlier in my blog. Once you gain „control“ * over these glands (thru exercise, experience and learning), you open up a gate leading you into the realm of deep edging (a topic I will explore in my next post). It´s all happening in this compact area, where your milk waits to fill your urethra and leave your body. This would be the place you want to call The Edge:

Every edger has control and discipline, otherwise he couldn´t manage to masturbate in his favorite fashion. However, some men have that much awareness, as that they are able to sense subtle muscle contractions as well as fluid movement within their glands and connected tubes. Read what they have to say. Like a guy called Benders who years ago published a famous article containing a how-to about his ability:

With experience and exercise, I have raised the pressure (and pleasure) level required to trigger the ejaculation reflex response. I sense exactly how much more pressure can build before crossing the threshold to ejaculatory inevitability. My emissions orgasms are stronger and ultimately continuous without triggering ejaculation. My seminal vesicles harden [= contracting] right after I have nearly cum; hence they are almost constantly hard and discharging. My prostate swells without hardening, currently to about just half as large as during a full ejaculatory orgasm. Finally, my testes, epididymis and especially the spermatic cords radiate a distinct pleasure as they push sperm toward the ampullae. Each of these [internal] emissions increase the amount of fluid held in the ampullae and at the ejaculatory ducts, with an associated increase in pleasure and passion of sexual readiness.
The presence of sperm, ampullary gland, and seminal fluid in my ejaculatory ducts is evidenced by sensations I can produce after nearly cumming. Shortly after ceasing stimulation I can contract my bulbospongiosus muscle [BC] and thereby press on my prostate and feel the fluids being pushed back up into the ampullae and seminal vesicles. This feeling of fluid movement and fullness is very pleasurable. I can stop masturbating, and hours (days) later still feel the semen in my loins eager for release. My testes swell, feel full, and are slightly sensitive to jostling.

James, a reader of this blog, is confirming Benders ability (commenting here):

I can definitely do this. It is quite pleasurable and has the effect of widening the gap between 8.5 and 9.5 on the stimulation scale. That is really nice when I have edged for a long while and have been having continuous emission orgasms for a while already. [...]
The key to all of this is, of course, a keen awareness of the exact progression of the events leading up to orgasm. You must learn the anatomy of your sex organs, learn the progression of events, and then practice being very conscious of these sensations as they progress. Try edging and building up sort of slowly while saying to yourself things like ‘there´s my spermatic cords contracting’ or ‘that was my seminal vesicles hardening’. Really try to mentally pick apart what’s going on in your body. This does in itself improve your ability and adds another dimension to your masturbation. [...]

* What does control mean in anatomical terms? Well, your bodily functions are steered thru your nervous system using electrical energy. Two different kinds of nerves regulate functions: sympathetic and parasympathetic. Some functions/actions in you body run automatically (sympathetic nerves) and you can not assert will on them, like your heartbeat, seminal fluid production and the ejaculatory reflex. Other functions/actions are suggestible (parasympathetic nerves) like moving muscles, such as the BC, PC, sphincter muscles and others. Now, stimulation of the parasympathetic nerves (to trigger action) can be applied via tactile or psychic input. And here we are, edgers are totally in charge of this input!

Towards The Edge (1)

Before becoming specific about how to edge, I´d like to remind you once again of the connected branches deriving from the practice of prolonged masturbation:

• staying relaxed while masturbating and while triggering climax(es)
• consciousness about sexual energy and working with it (tantric approach)
• emissions and multiple ejaculations (cum-harvesting)
• semen containing and climax denial
• worshipping Penis and spiritual self-fulfillment.

Edging is closely related to, respectively does contain, the above mentioned facets of reaching out for bliss.

Riding the edge seems to be an easy accomplishment (say easier than achieving MO), but it may not! After all – once again – everything depends on your individual attitude and disposition. For some it will be easier to edge than for others. Personally I am not much of an edger myself. I love the thought, it turns me on big time, I wish I had the patience to find bliss wandering the edge. However, I lack the discipline to stay away from triggering PONR. As I wrote before, for me MO is the alternative and I am happy with that.

The most difficult aspect of edging may in fact be that of avoiding ejaculation! To stay (securely) away from PONR while feeling damn close. Trying this for an extended period of time is a tough game, at least for an apprentice edger. But you can exercise to neglect PONR, you can learn and overcome the urge.

Still, edging holds „more“ than it seems at first glance. Because our bodies work with (electrical) energy, prolonged states of intense arousal provide us with certain effects that only occur when in such a state. Add the chemical body reactions to it (e.g. release of endorphin) and you find yourself in a sphere that can be truly otherworldly (the proverbial 7th heaven, or bliss, as I like to call it).

Read about one likely method to stay away from PONR and about what you might expect to observe within your system while balancing the edge, here from a guy named Massamuda:

I get myself hard by standard play… Once I get hard, I will lubricate my hand with an oil-based lube. Water based lubes are great for sex but when it comes to prolonged solo play, oil is much preferred.

I start to stroke myself and get excited. As I approach heightened feelings (well shy of orgasm) I start to change my stroke. I slow down, I rub my head, I take long strokes up and down my shaft. When I get really excited, I slow down even more. I will stop using my whole hand and form an OK sign and use just my thumb and index finger to stroke my cock. I will then progress to just stroking my head. As I do so, I am starting to get closer and closer to orgasm.

Anytime I feel it is getting too close, I back off my stimulation. I will stop and catch my breath. I will let the feeling subside, much like the stop and go. I then build up again. Sometime, I can find a point where I can stroke more quickly and really let the feeling build. I play with the approach to orgasm so that as I get closer, I back off, relax a bit and then approach again. The more often I do that the more leeway I have with getting to the point of edging.

I have reached the edging state by two different methods and it depends on the session:
In one, where I am having more difficulty in keeping my orgasm at bay, I will begin to stroke just the back of my head. I avoid that wonderful spot on my cock on the underside where the head makes a „V“ [frenulum]… When I just stroke my head in this fashion, I can increase the level of stimulation without risking going over the edge.

I have used this technique to get to an unbelievable point where I though my cock was vibrating. I felt I could maintain this intense and pre-orgasmic level for ever. I remember the first time I did this, when I came, I shot over my head. It was incredible. The basic idea, though, is to not cum. It is to keep relaxing into your stimulation. You only stop stroking yourself when you feel you will cum.

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Try to continue to stroke and keep relaxing into the feeling. [Try to keep the BC- and the PC-muscles relaxed.] That is what will keep you from orgasming. What I do love is, as I get into it, my precum flows and flows. You will ultimately reach a point where you are relaxed and stroking a pre-orgasmic cock and you can do this for as long as you wish. It is the best feeling in the whole fucking world!!!

The other approach is when I start relaxing into the feeling sooner and can continue to the OK stroke and slowly bring myself to near orgasm. I will stroke, stop, stroke, stop and do that until I attain another pre-orgasmic level. Again, the key is keep relaxing into the feeling but learning to ease up on the pisser muscle [BC].

Coming up: an example of how-to exercises, the tantric way.