Blue Balls

The term Blue Balls my be associated with more than one condition. In my personal understanding (and experience) it describes a rather painful feeling within the reproductive system (during high arousal), emanating from or somewhere close by your nut-sack.

I mention this phenomenon in this chapter, because it seems closely tied to the situation of cum-denial, this again being an integral part of the practices of milking and edging. Now, whenever your cum-producing glands run in full mode and you are not able to release the accumulated milk via a full-blown ejaculation (yet strongly believe you are soon going to) you may experience the nasty condition.

In my experience, however, it seems to occur mainly in two circumstances: for one if you are not well experienced with or trained in edging, and furthermore, if you badly needed to fuck someone you seriously like and long for, and just can´t get it done for whatever reason. But let´s see what the books say (rather the net says).

Well, different sources tell us this:

Origin: The term is thought to have originated in the United States, first appearing in 1916 (notes Wikipedia). It is a slang term.

Synonyms: guy cramps; hot nuts; hot rocks; love nuts; stone-ache (stoneache).

Concerning the color in the term: This unpleasant feeling has popularly been called blue balls, perhaps because of the bluish tint that appears when blood engorges the vessels in the testicles.

And: You may have noticed a distinct bluish tinge to your testicles after you “make out” or are sexually aroused for several hours… This is the result of pelvic congestion, when more blood and lymph flows into the genitals (during sexual arousal) than flows out…

Better: Actually, it’s not your testicles that are blue; it’s the skin of the scrotum. When you’re aroused blood flows not only to the penis, but to the entire area. The longer you stay aroused, the longer the blood stays there. Newer blood is red, but older blood, which has less oxygen, is darker red, but not really blue – but that’s why your testicles appear to contain more blue blood.

Anatomy: When a man becomes sexually excited, the arteries carrying blood to the genital area enlarge, while the veins carrying blood from the genital area are more constricted than in the non-aroused state. This uneven blood-flow causes an increase in volume of blood trapped in the genitals and contributes to the penis becoming erect and the testicles becoming engorged with blood. During this process of vasocongestion the testicles increase in size 25-50 percent.

More precise: Blood pressure is increased [with arousal], but the blood vessels that the blood must flow through are constricted (…) by vascular tension as well as muscle tension.

Sensations: In male-bodied people, the primary source of discomfort when arousal is not followed by ejaculation is due to vasocongestive pressure in the penis and testicles and surrounding areas as a whole.

Or: If ejaculation does not occur there may be a lingering sensation of heaviness, aching, or discomfort in the testicles due to the continued vasocongestion.

And: When high blood pressure and high blood volume meet narrowed blood vessels, a little like trying to force the flow of a kitchen faucet through a soda straw, it’s uncomfortable and can be downright painful sometimes.

Wikipedia summarizes: [A] condition of temporary fluid congestion (vasocongestion) in the testicles and prostate region, accompanied by acute testicular pain, caused by prolonged and unsatisfied sexual arousal in the human male.

When I read these explanations I notice that the circumstances supposedly responsible for the condition of Blue Balls are just what many of us like best in our sexual routine! Even more so I for my part enjoy the sensations of heavy vasocongestion in my reproductive system both from blood flow and the build-up of seminal secretions in my glands. This gives me a sensation of feeling engorged (my genitals), full or filled (seminal fluids in my system) and heaviness of my plumbing. These sensations add to my arousal and make me anticipate my pending release (while not bothering with the bluish complexion of my scrotal skin). Still, I did – at times – experience the mentioned acute testicular pain! – Why?

It really seems like a small mystery and I guess Blue Balls are not very well-studied scientifically. I assume that the prolonged and unsatisfied sexual arousal are key to the puzzle: when you really want to get off fast, but remain kept from it while your arousal is on a high level, then pain may prevail.

Now you may wonder why then and not during extended periods of edging or long milking sessions? Note the following remark at Wikipedia and take a look at the drawing:

Some urologists call the condition “epididymal hypertension”.

My thesis is this: when your mind or conviction permanently tells you that ejaculation is imminent, I assume your duct-system, especially the spermatic cords propelling sperm from the epididymae to the ampullae, is on alert to get ready to soon perform to the max. When the release does not occur, this may result in a backlock of sperm from the filled ampullae all the way back to the source-glands, the epididymae, while the tight spermatic cords still work hard to move mature sperm in the outbound direction. This conflict would result in acute testicular pain and only one selective measure will bring timely relief: one or (better) multiple ejaculations.

P.S.: It is said that the condition is not universally experienced by all males. And (most) edgers don´t really suffer from this (not that I know or heard of).   You are invited to comment and tell your point of view.

Forced Ejaculations – John’s Fate (1)

To get a fair conception about how a milking-the-male-session could be performed I present to you a longer story (the more climaxes – the longer the script ) written for a forum years ago by a guy named George, titled: PROFESSIONAL MILKING OF THE MALE (it depicts a hot de luxe method of this style of milking).

George claimed that his story is composed of some fiction but mostly displays true content. He stresses that he is no experienced writer. I repost his story in several parts with just few omissions where I felt necessary. George begins with a brief introduction of the protagonists:

Mike and Judy are both nurses at the local hospital and have been married for several years. They are in their mid 30s and have very, very strong sex desire for what they call “Advanced Sex”. In their spare time they offer special sex services.

John D. is the “Customer” in this story and I (Wray) am the audio, video and sex toy technician and only get to watch, for now that is.

John is a businessman in his early forties and has visited Mike and Judy once before. A favorite service offered by Mike and Judy is professional male milking. NOT prostate milking.

NOTE: For this service the customer must say, with no turning back, how many times he wants to cum. He can not change his mind once started. In John’s case he “contracted” for five orgasms and five it will be! [...] The only way John could change his amount of orgasms is if his heart rate goes too high. In view of the fact Mike and Judy are nurses they check heart rate from time to time.

John arrived at the arranged time of 7:00 on a Friday evening. We all four had a glass of wine and exchanged some small talk. [...] John had been cautioned not to have sex for three or four days before his milking session. [A] shower has been taken care of and it is time to get started.

John has been taken naked to a special bedroom that contains a standard size bed that is lower than normal to the floor. Mike and Judy have him on his back with his lower legs over the bottom edge of the bed and his feet resting flat on the floor. His legs are spread apart with his ankles tied in such a way that he can not move his legs together or raise his legs up and down. This position allows ideal access to his balls and cock. His arms are tied at the wrists to the upper corners of the bed. He is not stretched and can move his arms a little for comfort. John has a beautiful seven-inch, cut head, very thick cock and just a little over-size set of balls.

One last important thing has to be done. Mike has a long three-inch wide soft leather belt that he loops around Johns mid section just above his cock and fastens it firmly to each side of the bed. This is a must for a good milking as it prevents almost all jerking up and down and side to side which can become a problem for the milker as you will see later.

A 21-inch TV [screen] has been installed high on the wall facing John and a pillow has been placed under his head so he can see the TV well. I have connected a DVD player to it and will be showing two and a half hours of nothing but beautiful woman sucking men’s cocks with new players every fifteen minutes.

[...] One last, but super important device to get John ready: Judy stretches his balls just enough to get them in to a “Velvet Pouch” and the string tied just right around his sack so his balls can’t get out but not so tight as to shut off the cum flow. NOTE: For anyone that has not used a velvet pouch, it is a soft cotton pouch with two small vibrators in the bottom of the pouch connected by a six-foot wire to the battery and control unit. The balls rest against these vibrators. If you have not used one before be very careful with the power setting as you can drive a man crazy… Take my word for it you can get a man so hard that it feels like the head of his cock is going to explode. Also if you like to see a man cry or give him the worst case of blue balls he ever had just turn the controls up a little. – Lets get started.

… to be continued!

The Loving Cumprincess

In my previous post I let some women speak for themselves concerning their love for semen and taking facials. To observe the unloading of cum on a face is a very arousing visual. No surprise then, that the porn-biz keeps on taping such scenes big time. Let´s find out if we can distinguish between women who love to have their faces cum-drenched no matter the number of sources and women who love semen out of love for their man.

We all know the term Cumqueen. It labels a woman who is infatuated with cum. Semen is her fetish (meaning the preferred object for her sexual arousal and satisfaction). She longs for getting in touch with possibly loads of jizz. She either craves to be sprayed with cum (onto her face and body) or/and she needs to „consume“ semen (smell it, taste it, feel it, see it and swallow it). The more, the better – she probably would love to bathe in a tub full of cum. She does not care by whom she receives a load. That´s why she welcomes many men at a time to unload on her (seen in every Bukkake flick). A Cumqueen is living up to experience male milk in large quantities preferably sprayed at her face (and chest).

Now, if a Cumqueen craves cum more than anything else, what would be the core gratification of a so-called Loving Cumprincess? (I myself did coin this tag.)

Well, the Cumprincess is the true savorer of semen in a very particular way of the meaning. She is not just generally infatuated with cum, she rather craves specifically the semen of her respective lover. And because of that she loves the genitals providing her with the juices and the man who owns these genitals – and vice versa. And because the genitals and the semen mean the source of the lust and bliss her lover can experience, it is a Cumprincesses yearning to model her lovers route towards climax, and the climax itself, in a way that he will definitely experience an utmost amount of lust whenever she is making him cum. A Cumprincess is motivated by the fact that she draws a big part of her own sexual fulfillment out of her caressing of her lover. This disposition in fact means a win-win-situation for both her and her man.

A Cumprincess exactly knows how a male reproductive system works, she is an expert in this anatomical aspect. And she sure knows of the marked preferences and particularities of her lover. She and her guy make up a perfect team with just one goal: to achieve the greatest sexual satisfaction for both of them. The Cumprincess accepts her man the way he is, always wishing him well especially concerning his sexual satisfaction, for it is love that drives her in the first place. And her lover likewise truly loves his Cumprincess and will always surrender to her without any inhibitions. He wants to present her what she truly loves: his body, his genitals and his cum. His climaxes are devoted to her exclusively. The loving bond between the two and their expertise intensifies the sexual give & take during their love-making.

The sexual preferences of the couple do match perfectly. She wants full and unlimited access to his genitals. She just loves her lovers tools in any possible shape. Her aim is the harvesting of his semen. To a Cumprincess male genitals are divine. The act of love for her is equivalent to the adoration of penis and scrotum, she truly is worshipping her mans genitals and his produce. She reverentially treasures the milk of her lover despite or because her anatomical knowledge of her lovers plumbing. For she certainly knows how to achieve an increased volume of his secretions.

A Cumprincess rules concerning the lovemaking. It is she who decides about the timing for generating lust and the release of his juices. Only she has full access to his reproductive system both external and internal (prostate and seminal vesicles via the anus). However, the act that provides enhanced sexual fulfillment for both lovers may be driven even more by an inner, psychological passion. Where her man opens up completely and just needs to be (a sexual entity), the Cumprincess must exert a great deal of patience and discipline. Yet both of that nourishes her own arousal and lust, because she enjoys her guy thru independently deciding the caressing of a given moment, thus creatively modeling the act always sure to eventually being rewarded with his climax(es) and flood of milk. This will make her surrender, supplying her with her very own climaxes. In that, the couple will encounter the utmost sexual satisfaction.

Now does this description match a real woman or is it a mere fantasy? You sure encounter this very setting in my prose (at this site) all the time! – Well, I´d say Cumprincesses do exist, yet as rarely as true Cumqueens (contrary to staged or even forced „doubles“). But even more scarce might be a perfect match. Not even out of a lack of disposition on the female side, but because of an attitude on the male side. Total surrender, patience, refined savoring, the love for semen and anatomical knowledge are no genuine sexual virtues on the male side. However they are necessary to fill a Loving Cumprincess with (not just milk, but) joy, happiness, bliss and satisfaction!

To Swallow And Being Swallowed (1)

The headline of this post sure refers to genitals and cum alike! And it addresses both the provider and receiver of sexual oral pleasures, aka fellatio.

Fellatio is the most intimate and most elaborate sexual copulation possible between a man and his fellatrice (for me this term stands for both female and male performers/lovers!). The definition of a fellatrice may be this: a truly devoted person who relishes all aspects of giving head, including the activity itself, the feel, taste, and scent of cock, scrotum and semen, the thrill of creating erotic pleasure (for both, themself and the receiver) and not at least the thrill of being closely observed while sucking dick with an ambition to create a visually arousing scene.

Fellatio is a most elaborate sexual copulation when you consider the variety of physical (possibly visual) pleasures a mouth is capable of creating at the various areas of the male genitals (which have varying degrees of sensitivity to stimulation) given the curvaceous and complex form of cock and balls. Add to this the infinitely variable combinations that lips, tongue, teeth and throat are capable to apply and it becomes apparent just how much variety there can be to performing this pure act of pleasure. When technique is coupled with creativity, the possibilities are virtually endless.

Fellatio is the most intimate sexual copulation, because here the fellatrice is closest to a mans source of bliss with all her or his senses performing a deliberate and sophisticated act serving both participants perfectly: allowing the fellatrice to literally devour (swallow) her or his lover and bringing refined bliss and utmost satisfaction to the receiver. And when fellatio is based on love (which I always promote) then it indeed is the paramount experience between two lovers rewarding the fellatrice with the most closely experienced spawning of the cumload (i.e. ejaculation) and certainly the very pleasure of itself, and rewarding the receiver with the blissful surrendering of his sexual being thru his climax supplying his essence in the same.