Milking – His Say

With this post I will close the chapter on milking. Last but not least I will share accounts by two guys and their way of milking themselves. Which brings me back to solosexual experiences after an excursion into a theme (dominating/milking the male) mainly attributed to partnersex. And as for that matter I highly recommend this page, which many of you will have discovered already since it is permanently listed in the link-section at the left column.

Concerning the following share I once again applied minor formatting and proofreading of the texts which I found in a forum quite some years ago. The first is a structured how-to by a guy called Jon Wilson. The second is a very personal account by a guy nicking himself Loaded. I am sure you´ll get some further insight! Here goes:

By jonwilson

I have read many posts about this subject and here is how I do it step by step:

1) In order to empty the prostate, it first has to be full… therefore do what ever you need to do to create “blue balls”. For myself, I use masturbation to the point where I get a good amount of pre-cum starting, then I stop. If you want a good load repeat this process for 5-10 times… or more.

2) It is hard not to have a mild orgasm, when you self-milk (for me it doesn’t improve an orgasm), I have tried to ice my balls down before hand but I still have a 1/2 erection. Self-milking may help in keeping you harder longer… after you self-milk then you can have extended sex… it works for me anyway.

3) You should pee before you self-milk and take a healthy dump (shit).

4) For me it is impossible to use my own finger to self-milk.

5) You will need to use an object that will enter your anus, and will not damage anything.

6) I have found that a long neck spoon handle works very good. The one that I use has a shaft about 6″ long and at the top, it is about the width of a finger. This is very easy to insert in my butt and reaches the top of the prostate nicely. Put some cooking oil or spit on it to make it go in easy. Again, I use clean stainless steel spoon handle.

7) To massage the prostate you will need both hands to work the spoon, one to press with the spoon and the other to help position the spoon. I lay on my back, with my left arm coming from around my left leg and my right arm between my legs. The left hand moves the spoon up and down on the inside and the right hand slides the spoon shaft up and down the outside. You will need to watch your penis and as soon as it starts to move in motion with the spoon handle then you should be in the right area.

8) You will need to tap or press lightly with the spoon handle on the prostate, this will “milk your prostate“. That’s IT!

9) In a short time you will unload your load… and I mean it will unload. IF you have a soft penis, your load will fly out and then lots more fluid will follow… just flowing out like water out of a hose.

I hope that this helps.

By Loaded

I’ve been milking semen from my prostate on a regular basis for years. When I first started I didn´t get much semen out either, a drop or two. Now when I milk my prostate I get a large pool of gooey thick semen. Here’s how I do it.

I milk with a standard plastic 6 inch vibrator. Sexual arousal makes all the difference in the world! I always buy fresh porno magazines to look at while I’m milking the fluid from my prostate. It’s become a ritual for me in fact. When my wife leaves on a business trip I get to have one of my secret milking sessions. I call it a pmp-(prostate milking party).

I make sure I have at least a 7 day load saved up. Ten days to two weeks is the perfect amount of saving time. The prostate builds pressure and swells with semen and relief is needed. Plus when you save that long you get super horny and really start anticipating it. The night of the pmp I surf the net and jack my cock a lot. This charges the prostate with even more semen.

With the big load it’s hard not to blow my wad and I’m extra careful not to do so. Finally I can’t take it anymore and a milking needs to take place. The scene of the prostate milking party excites me as I approach it. 10 unopened porno mags surround a mirror on the carpet with the vibrator close by. I squat over the mirror and watch the vibrator slide into my asshole. I start turning pages.

…I push the vibrator onto my prostate gland with firm but gentle force and start rubbing it from side to side. My prostate is so full that I feel the semen enter my cock pipe immediately. My cock is soft and white watery semen starts dripping from my cock hole. It’s a big turn-on for me to have cum dripping from my soft cock, it’s totally hands free. Semen drips onto the mirror and the sight of this is very exciting which makes another load ooze out my cock.

The fluid gets thicker and thicker until I have a string of semen stretching from my cock to the pool forming on the mirror. This is super exciting and goes on for about 20 minutes or so. My legs get tired of squatting and my prostate is pretty well drained. I’m still very horny but the edge is taken off and I can enjoy the erotic scene of cum on the mirror.

I awake the next morning to a scene of a successful prostate milking. The semen is a big dry spot on the mirror and the magazines are tossed around haphazardly. I milk more sperm than I would shoot during an ejaculation. The dried semen and mags inspire me to milk it again. I add a smaller fresh pool of semen onto the dry stuff and it’s very much a turn-on. It’s an awesome way for me to enjoy my cum.

You don’t have an orgasm from the experience however I find it very rewarding. [...] Just remember to pee before you start milking. You don’t want to contaminate the semen with pee. Also, massage up above the prostate gland too. Semen sacs [seminal vesicles] are there and need to be milked as well. That does it for me. I’m going to milk it right now. Cheers.

Sincerely, loaded.

Milking – Her Say

At the end of this chapter (about male milking) I would like to share some individual experiences by practitioners on how a gland-milking can be performed. I found these accounts some years ago on the net. I wanted to have both sexes have their say, yet in the end I consider this distinction does not matter that much, at least when it comes to partnersex.

However, I did find the following how-to by someone called Jenny, thus assuming the author is an experienced lady, or, to be more precise, a dominatrix with a good deal of exercise in this discipline. I abridged slightly and made remarks to clarify flawed statements (in red and bracketed) considering commonly accepted facts. – So, ladies first then:

How to milk. Based on my experience.

Find the Spot

First you have to ensure that the Milkman is able to take two fingers up his anus, or at least a hard dildo with a diameter of 3.5 cm.

Next you must find out if you can reach the top of his bladder with your fingers. This is best done when he is lying on his back with his knees up aside his chest. You can slide your finger(s) up inside his rectum feeling the front of it. You better wear a thin rubber glove and use lots of lubricant.

You can feel his prostate as a round relatively hard ball in the size of a ping-pong ball. When you can feel the top of his prostate you will have to get at least 5 cm deeper inside him to feel the top of the seminal vesicles. It is not enough that you can feel his bladder with your fingertips, because you will have to make a pressure along and across both seminal vesicles at the same time. Some pressure on his stomach just below his ribs can force the bladder a bit down so it is easier to reach. If you can’t reach this, you will have to use some tool to milk him.

Tools

In the beginning I used the handle of a hairbrush covered with a rubber. It is 3 cm wide and 20 cm long with rounded edges. I made a mark on it, to show how long inside it needed to go. To set this mark you will have to rely on his cooperation, because he can feel it inside and can tell you when it no longer presses on his bladder, that is when you are past his seminal vesicles. Later on I started to use a hard dildo. It seems to be a better choice, because the end of it goes in between the two seminal vesicles and that way makes a pressure on both at the same time.

If he is not used to get anything up his rectum you will see some wage trace of blood on the tool when you pull it out. That is because so far inside the rectum the blood vessel are very close to the surface and the skin is very thin [although it is true that your rectal tissue is very delicate, traces of blood would be a serious matter hinting to an injury! Consider to consult a physician!].

One way to prevent too much friction to the rectum is to ad some heavy lubricant (heavy-duty Vaseline) into his rectum before entering the tool [using lube is mandatory! Not only to protect the rectal tissue, but to turn the whole milking procedure into a working practise if not a somewhat exciting experience for the milkee.]. That way the tool will catch up some of the lube when it passes through it, and it will decrease the friction against the inside of rectum. [I would not recommend Vaseline because it is much too tenacious, although it reacts with body-heat making it slightly more greasy.]

You will need something to catch up his semen too. I am using a small cup or saucer. I can then let the penis be untouched during the process and just let it drip out the semen. Much more degrading for him… To get an eye for the quantity of semen you can measure out about 5 ml of thick liquid into the saucer. Just to get a good idea of how it looks.

Position (if it is done by another person)

The best position will be with the Milkman lying on his stomach on a relatively hard surface. His lower abdomen and penis free of the surface and him resting on his spread knees with the saucer placed on something right under his penis.

The process

When the tool is placed long enough inside him and is well lubricated, you will have to get a firm grip in the handle and push the inside end of the tool against his bladder. Then you slowly pull it 4 to 4.5 cm out of him. If you pull the tool too much out of him, it will slide over the bottom of the seminal vesicles with a small hump. If you can, stop just before that happens and then keep the pressure on his bladder for a while. The trick is to move the contents of the seminal vesicles down against the valve in the bottom of the bladder and then extend the pressure a little so the valve has to open and let the content out.

If this happens the milkman will suddenly feel the urge to empty his urethra. Therefore his muscles will tighten to try to do so. He will feel nothing else but this. No orgasm or excitement. Just the urge to empty his urethra and you pressing on his urine bladder. Release the pressure and push the tool gently back in, to the top of his seminal vesicles. Do not touch his penis yet. Repeat this process 8 to 10 times or until you feel that you can’t get more out of it. If you want to help the semen out of him you can do so by placing 3 fingers just onto his perineum and press along his urethra towards his penis. Some lubricant may be required.

Then you can try to squeeze more out by massaging his prostate with the tool or your fingers. Anyway you can always secure that his urethra is emptying by letting the tool slide from the top and along one side of his prostate to the bottom of his rectum. But this will produce some feelings similar to an orgasm and it will only produce a little more semen [it appears that Jenny is focussing on milking the seminal vesicles, yet we know that massaging the prostate does produce a fair volume of milk].

When you decide that it is enough, pull out the tool and continue to massage the area between his legs, from his anus towards his penis, by pressing when you move forward and don’t when you move your hand back again. Do it 4 – 5 times and then when your hand is at the root of his penis keep it there and keep up the pressure. With your other hand you take his penis between 2 fingers at the root and squeeze them tight together while you pull down towards his penis head, to empty it. Do not do this more than once or twice, he could get some ideas, if you do it too much.

The more skilled you get and the more he is getting used to this treatment, the better is the result. [...] What I know is, that it is possible to milk out about 90 % of the amount of semen from the total of a regular masturbated ejaculation. Without any amount of sexual excitement. [A sub will certainly draw sexual excitement from the practise of milking, yet by the psychological aspects of it, despite the range of sensations within his reproductive system and anus.]

How often

In the beginning and until his rectum got used to this treatment, not more than once every week. Especially not if you get traces of blood on your tool, during the first times. And that is almost unavoidable [it sure is I´d say! Pay close attention here, blood is the exception, not the rule!]. When he is more accustomed to it you can do it more often.

However I have never got any good results out of doing it more than 4 to 5 times a week. I think, that about 48 hours between every milking is a good choice, if he is not in some kind of chastity. If he is in a well working chastity device, one time each week will do the trick. If the purpose of this is to prevent him from having any orgasm, a chastity device is necessary. The milking can’t prevent this in itself. I have had orgasm with ejaculation after an effective milking. But it can reduce the urge for ejaculation and therefore reduces the pressure for having an orgasm.

Milking The Glands

From a scientific point of view the case is pretty clear, because the male anatomy is basically the same in every individual. Hence explaining how to physically milk (massage) the prostate and associated glands is nothing to misunderstand. It only becomes challenging when we want to shed light on the motives, but that´s for a future post.

As for the following how-to I will refer to and quote from a text I found in 2006 which nails it down pretty well.

The technique of prostate massage/milking could potentially directly involve four organs of the reproductive system: the prostate gland, the seminal vesicles, the ampullae and Cowper’s (bulbourethral) glands. While the ampullae serve as a reservoir for sperm, gathering there to a neglectable fluidal volume, the other glands produce what we call (male) milk when expelled.

During sexual arousal the prostate produces a fair portion of alkaline fluid to protect the sperm (from vaginal acidity). The largest component of the ejaculate (60% or more by volume) is produced in the seminal vesicles. This liquid is a fructose sugar based substance to nourish the sperm. And the Cowper’s glands secrete the clear lubricating precum to help speed the semen along the urethra.

The glands can be accessed via the rectum. The Cowper’s glands are kind of an exception to that since the pea-sized organs are for one hard to sense and furthermore not in the focus of conventional milking. Nonetheless you may experiment thru trial and error given precum is your passion/fetish (check out the diagram above).

A good way to find the glands is to insert the middle finger into the anus and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump. That will be the prostate. Just up from the prostate is a smaller, roughly triangular wedge-shaped nodule, that is the bottom portion of the seminal vesicles. The ampullae are located underneath the seminal vesicles.

Now the prostate, seminal vesicles and ampullae (latter mentioned are of less importance because they don´t contain a lot of fluid) can be emptied by applying a firm slow massage over the nodules of these glands with the middle finger or the middle finger and index finger together. This is truly intimate and highly arousing! This kind of draining can also be performed with a dildo or dildo-like tool. – No need to mention, that the rectum is supposed to be emptied of feces and finger(s) and tools ought to be very well lubricated for best results!

The massage will force the seminal fluids past the valves in the ejaculatory duct. When semen appears in the mouth of the cockhead, it will help to empty the urethra by running a finger firmly up the underside of the penis from the root to the head, harvesting the fresh milk. For milking the shaft use lots of lube as well.

You should explore prostate milking on your own first, before getting involved with someone aiming for draining your glands. You may fancy this internal tease or not, at least you become sensible for what feels sound and when it does not. – Please check these illustrations of the technique!

Milking – Definition Attempt

It is quite intriguing to look closely at what milking (men) exactly means. We find that one term covers mainly two meanings. And the motivations for exerting this sexual technique are plentiful!

When we speak of milking we should always be specific, because it could either mean:

1. milking the male glands of (mainly) the prostate or/and the seminal vesicles thru direct touch, or
2. milking the male thru jerking his penis.

1. Milking the Prostate would mean a massaging of the gland thru directly touching it via the anal canal, be it with one or more fingers, a fist (fisting), the penis or a tool, like a dildo. This could be performed in any position. The classic prostate-milking would be performed with at least one finger or/and a dildo-like tool in a position of the milkee providing good access to the gland for the milker. A more refined way of milking would incorporate the seminal vesicles, since they lie close by the prostate (as we know and see in the illustration below) and for they come as a duo and produce a major part of the seminal fluid.

2. Milking the Male would mean the jerking of a mans penis in a certain position which reminds us of the milking of a cow’s udder. Here the milkee is on his knees (doggy style), while the milker pulls his cock back (so that it is pointing downwards) and jerking it from behind to harvest semen by emission or ejaculation into a container, in a session with at least one release.

When we look at the motivations for applying these techniques it becomes obvious real quick, that a range of very different scenarios does make us want to get involved.

There may be three motivational themes concerning milking (in order of importance):

1. harvesting semen other than thru the ejaculatory reflex
2. forced ejaculation
3. triggering prostate orgasm/triggering ejaculation.

When we milk the prostate or/and the seminal vesicles, we want to:

• drain the glands and harvest seminal fluid while avoiding climax (edging, climax-denial)
• deny climax (ejaculation) while relieving the milkee from internal fluid pressure (domination, edging)
• tease the glands to increase arousal or perform holistic masturbation (kinky or integrated sexplay)
• trigger emission or ejaculation (varying integrated sexplay)
• trigger a prostate orgasm (for those milkees able to experience this kind of climax).

The variety of motivations does work thru one and the same technique, because males experience direct touch of their cum-producing glands differently, i.e. uncomfortably, comfortably or even positively arousing and beyond. In my personal experience it is possible to become sex-positive with your (sensitive) prostate over time, you simply may learn to love the direct stimulation!

When we milk the male, we want to:

• make the milkee cum in a submissive position/situation (domination)
• harvest semen thru possibly multiple emissions/ejaculations (domination, MMO)
• harvest semen thru ruined climax (domination, humiliation)
• drain the glands thru forced ejaculation (domination, variation of sexplay).

The motivations for this technique are much more related to a domination/submission-scenario. Both basic milking-techniques are often applied in combination, especially the latter integrating the direct stimulation of the prostate.

My general definition of what milking in male sexplay would mean is this:

Milking is the hands-on endeavour (by a milker to a milkee, or you on your own) to – for different reasons – extract secretions (of the reproductive system) out of a mans body whether he likes it (approves it) or not.