Blue Balls

The term Blue Balls my be associated with more than one condition. In my personal understanding (and experience) it describes a rather painful feeling within the reproductive system (during high arousal), emanating from or somewhere close by your nut-sack.

I mention this phenomenon in this chapter, because it seems closely tied to the situation of cum-denial, this again being an integral part of the practices of milking and edging. Now, whenever your cum-producing glands run in full mode and you are not able to release the accumulated milk via a full-blown ejaculation (yet strongly believe you are soon going to) you may experience the nasty condition.

In my experience, however, it seems to occur mainly in two circumstances: for one if you are not well experienced with or trained in edging, and furthermore, if you badly needed to fuck someone you seriously like and long for, and just can´t get it done for whatever reason. But let´s see what the books say (rather the net says).

Well, different sources tell us this:

Origin: The term is thought to have originated in the United States, first appearing in 1916 (notes Wikipedia). It is a slang term.

Synonyms: guy cramps; hot nuts; hot rocks; love nuts; stone-ache (stoneache).

Concerning the color in the term: This unpleasant feeling has popularly been called blue balls, perhaps because of the bluish tint that appears when blood engorges the vessels in the testicles.

And: You may have noticed a distinct bluish tinge to your testicles after you “make out” or are sexually aroused for several hours… This is the result of pelvic congestion, when more blood and lymph flows into the genitals (during sexual arousal) than flows out…

Better: Actually, it’s not your testicles that are blue; it’s the skin of the scrotum. When you’re aroused blood flows not only to the penis, but to the entire area. The longer you stay aroused, the longer the blood stays there. Newer blood is red, but older blood, which has less oxygen, is darker red, but not really blue – but that’s why your testicles appear to contain more blue blood.

Anatomy: When a man becomes sexually excited, the arteries carrying blood to the genital area enlarge, while the veins carrying blood from the genital area are more constricted than in the non-aroused state. This uneven blood-flow causes an increase in volume of blood trapped in the genitals and contributes to the penis becoming erect and the testicles becoming engorged with blood. During this process of vasocongestion the testicles increase in size 25-50 percent.

More precise: Blood pressure is increased [with arousal], but the blood vessels that the blood must flow through are constricted (…) by vascular tension as well as muscle tension.

Sensations: In male-bodied people, the primary source of discomfort when arousal is not followed by ejaculation is due to vasocongestive pressure in the penis and testicles and surrounding areas as a whole.

Or: If ejaculation does not occur there may be a lingering sensation of heaviness, aching, or discomfort in the testicles due to the continued vasocongestion.

And: When high blood pressure and high blood volume meet narrowed blood vessels, a little like trying to force the flow of a kitchen faucet through a soda straw, it’s uncomfortable and can be downright painful sometimes.

Wikipedia summarizes: [A] condition of temporary fluid congestion (vasocongestion) in the testicles and prostate region, accompanied by acute testicular pain, caused by prolonged and unsatisfied sexual arousal in the human male.

When I read these explanations I notice that the circumstances supposedly responsible for the condition of Blue Balls are just what many of us like best in our sexual routine! Even more so I for my part enjoy the sensations of heavy vasocongestion in my reproductive system both from blood flow and the build-up of seminal secretions in my glands. This gives me a sensation of feeling engorged (my genitals), full or filled (seminal fluids in my system) and heaviness of my plumbing. These sensations add to my arousal and make me anticipate my pending release (while not bothering with the bluish complexion of my scrotal skin). Still, I did – at times – experience the mentioned acute testicular pain! – Why?

It really seems like a small mystery and I guess Blue Balls are not very well-studied scientifically. I assume that the prolonged and unsatisfied sexual arousal are key to the puzzle: when you really want to get off fast, but remain kept from it while your arousal is on a high level, then pain may prevail.

Now you may wonder why then and not during extended periods of edging or long milking sessions? Note the following remark at Wikipedia and take a look at the drawing:

Some urologists call the condition “epididymal hypertension”.

My thesis is this: when your mind or conviction permanently tells you that ejaculation is imminent, I assume your duct-system, especially the spermatic cords propelling sperm from the epididymae to the ampullae, is on alert to get ready to soon perform to the max. When the release does not occur, this may result in a backlock of sperm from the filled ampullae all the way back to the source-glands, the epididymae, while the tight spermatic cords still work hard to move mature sperm in the outbound direction. This conflict would result in acute testicular pain and only one selective measure will bring timely relief: one or (better) multiple ejaculations.

P.S.: It is said that the condition is not universally experienced by all males. And (most) edgers don´t really suffer from this (not that I know or heard of).   You are invited to comment and tell your point of view.

Reel Fiction (5)

I am a bit low on my Reel Fiction Stories, but eventually here is No. 5! Please refer to Story No. 1 for an explanation to why I call these Reel Fiction. No. 5 is based on one of the hottest clips I encountered on the net. Not only is she stroking him exquisitely with just thumb and pointer at his most sensitive penile area just below his cockhead, the lucky guy also owns a very beautiful penis which in the course of the expert handjob (rather fingerjob) seems to respond with independent inner movement (guess we could call it active throbbing). And notice the separate live of his balls! A great little clip of a very special two-finger-stroke:

• HER say
• HIS say

It was an ordinary Saturday, time to get some home-cleaning done, shopping and so on. I had been thru the bathroom and was doing the dishes, when I noticed that my man was „in heat“, so to speak. He was arranging the china when I paused and looked at him.

What? he asked and he clearly had that impression in his face.

Can you hold it until tonight? I replied smiling at him.

Shall I be honest? he asked in full understanding of what I was talking about. I nodded.

No! I can´t. Just to be near you, just to watch you work makes me wanna jump at you. Damn, I am so fucking loaded!

But look at me, I´m not even lightly dressed and I do the dishes! Is this really sexy to you? I honestly wondered.

Doesn´t matter. It´s about you and that we had no sex all week long he said. The latter was a fact. The week had been tough with loads of business and other tasks. I myself was looking forward to get involved with him, but in the right ambiance and with enough time.

Yeah, I know, you´re right. But can´t you try to last until later? It probably will be even greater than with your anticipation at extreme heights?

God, what you say makes me… You know it´s like I could explode right here and now. I feel tormented since we woke up! I just didn´t want to hassle you, I know we have things to – I cut his word.

OK, I appreciate that, thanks. Here´s the deal: I jack you off right now, simple and straight. I won´t get undressed, it´s just for your release. No fucking, no fancy teasing, no multiples. I still want something from you tonight. Do we have a deal?

He did not answer me, but started to get undressed right away.

I headed to our office where I thought would be the best location for an instant jerk. My plan was to place him on his desk-chair since the back-rest could be lowered. It crossed my mind to hook up our cam for taping the whole session. That would make a nice souvenir, – and how it did!

While I arranged the place he entered the room naked. I had noticed that he hit the bathroom in the meantime. God, his beautiful cock was rock hard, pointing straight upward like a rocket. I could see him throb in anticipation.

Come, sit here! I said and we quickly found our positions, me kneeling on a cushion aside of him by the armrest.

The cam is rolling already I explained, me approaching him from the side, not the front. You really are loaded, aren´t you?

Yeah he whispered.

Gosh, your cock makes me so hot, but we have a deal. Lets say it´s just a fore-runner until later on. Now listen. You just sit here and open up to what I do. Steady yourself and keep your hands away. I want to generate most intense sensations in your cock and glands. I want to make you cum thru a teasing jerk of your sensitive upper end of your amazing rod. And now Baby relax and enjoy.

I was taking his throbbing wand between thumb and index finger and began to sensually massage his ever so lovely organ between his helmet and not lower than half way down. My index finger was repeatedly rubbing his frenulum while my thumb was massaging the soft rim of his mushroom head with my steady up-and-down jerk.

After a while I noticed that he was working with his bc and pc muscles which soon gave me the awesome impression that his penis had a life of its own. His dick was literally stretching and pulsing in my soft grip. Later we clearly did observe that in the clip. And something else we couldn´t see while in the act: his balls also had a life of their own! They were moving up and down in a wild frenzy all by themselves until short before ejaculation, when his meat-bag tightened.

The session took longer than I – and probably my man himself – would have predicted at the start of it. But I wouldn´t want to miss a second! Eventually I could sense that he was getting close. His breathing became deeper.

Yeah Baby I encouraged him, assuming correctly that he was on his way.

Cum for me Baby, come for me I teased him while his whole body was responding to the lust building up inside of him.

I think I pushed him right to the point of no return when I said You know you´re right there Baby!

Almost immediately he was breathing Oh yeah… and as I responded Yeah Baby cum for me he was exploding with a first forceful rope straight into the air!

Oh yeah Baby cum for me, oh yeah! He was pumping his warm milk while I continued to jerk him. His juice was pulsing out of his cock-slit running down his throbbing shaft over my fingers wetting his swollen balls.

Uuhh… yesss… uuhh I was absolutely stunned by that beautiful sight his spewing cock had just awarded me with! …Yes.

He was grunting once again as he felt the fainting pulses of his reflex, me still jerking his wet and hard cock. That´s nice I said in sincere admiration.

That´s real nice I repeated, now as his ejaculation had ceased. I realized that I loved his cock as much as I did experiencing his surrender. I slowly stroked his still erect penis. His body was reacting sensitively and for a spilt second I thought about starting a second round, or even better get undressed and fuck him. But a household was waiting and I definitely needed him to recharge for the evening!

STORY CUMPLETE

The same viewing-procedures as for For a Closer Look apply.

Cumplete Surrender (1)

My previous post is about a woman deeply in love with the reproductive system of her man (after all she is in love with the man himself). Now what could possibly mean an increase of this rather ideal combination, which I was literally illustrating there? Well, probably only a man masturbating another man, because the masturbator would project everything he wanted for himself onto his lover, hence knowing perfectly well what and how to tease another man´s plumbing. Or – as a close follow-up – a woman who wished she was born male (yet not in a transgender meaning)! This was the reason then why she became a female expert on the male reproductive system craving for cock, balls and cum in addition to being driven by passionate ambition to pleasure her lover slowly into the most intense sexual reaction possible.

Read about such a lady and how she works her masturbatee:

When I was old enough to know the difference between male and female genitalia I became envious of boys for their penises. It was not until a little later when I learned that I as a woman in fact do have access to the best of both worlds.

However, I developed into a woman who became extremely fond of male genitalia and its produce. Still early I found myself to be a girl deeply in love with penises, testicles, precum and semen and eventually a males internal main gland, the prostate.

Naturally I was engaging sexually with a lot of men, especially in my late teens, learning a lot about how men work and especially how the plumbings of a man work. Most of my partners were astound of my knowledge and my focus of their genitals. Some have even been shied away, but quite some learned about themselves thru me and most of them enjoyed my special treatment. But for many years I could not find the perfect match or, when I thought a guy was the one, the relationship did not last to establish what I had in mind for a perfect sexual love and partnership. Until now! Let me tell you about my man.

To begin with he devotes himself to me totally when it comes to my sexual needs. My primary need, besides the one to being fucked once in a while and eaten out regularly, is the complete freedom to play with his genitals and to generate for him the possibly most intense orgasmic experiences thru manipulation of his parts alone. This became only reality because what I want is what he wants in addition to the fine-tuning of both our minds over a long period of time, so that we always are absolutely in sync when it cums to our favorite sex act!

As I said, the main objective is to give him the most intense and long-lasting sexual experience possible, which will result in most extended and voluminous ejaculations. My aim is to make him pass out from the intensity of his lust while he ejaculates and I know we have been very close to it a few times.

We perform such an act like this: he will be lying down on his back in our queen-size bed, his legs spread wide apart. His pelvis is lifted by a large pillow, which we put under his buttock, allowing me full and easy access to his man-meat. I sit between his legs and will slowly begin with my routine. All he needs to do is to relax and let go, devote himself to my loving care and his steady increasing arousal and lust.

Slowly and very tender will I begin with my caresses. At the very beginning this goes without lubrication, but soon enough I will apply lots of olive oil. Mostly his penis is flaccid when I start unless he is in heat already. Because we know each other so well we may start out with a soft penis but this will change often immediately after I begin to touch him.

In this phase I just enjoy his genitals and the beauty of it. I think of them and treat them in a way as if they were my own. I start with the testicles. My man owns big balls, which grow in size with time during my caress. I love his balls. I slightly touch his sack with my fingertips. I watch the balls move within his pouch once his excitement is on the rise. My man is not shaved and he is uncut, hence I have lots of ways to tease him.

When his cock is erect I softly grab his wand and pull down his foreskin. His penis is of average length and solid circumference, a real strong tool. What I love most about his cock is his cockhead, the glans. I just love his helmet! The rim of it is very prominent making it almost a separate sex organ. I just love its form, I favor his above all the cockheads I have had, and I have had many. In addition: it is here where the precum and cum is surfacing!

My man is a great precummer! Whenever I notice drops of his gel I lick it off or play with it and certainly I lube his glans with it. All my caresses are basically very light and will remain so, because this is the way to drive him crazy from pure lust later on. There are just 2 exceptions concerning the firmness of my grips, namely the massage of his sack and the massage of his prostate.

Soon I will apply a good portion of olive oil onto his balls. Slowly and still tender I will begin to massage them. This is relaxing and exciting alike. I know he enjoys this very much, just as I do. I love to feel his balls. I like to imagine that they store all his juices, but certainly know better. But I pretend they would and it is fun to massage the balls with this idea in mind. I continue for quite some time until I think that his balls did swell from congestion.

Next will be his prostate. I will tenderly probe his anus with lots of oil penetrating him deeper and deeper with my middle finger. Before I continue to massage his gland with a thin anal dildo I want to touch and feel his cum factory directly with my finger. My man meanwhile is quite excited and does moan commenting my movements and caresses. We live in a single house, which is essential, because it will get loud soon enough.

When I probe him with the dildo he begins to moan louder and more frequently. I noticed that his excitement developing from prostate stimulation is subject to change. I never know if he will be aroused more or less at a particular session. It always comes as a surprise. If it does not excite him, I leave his back door sooner – if he is hot about it, I just take my time and keep on teasing his gland. Many times I combine prostate massage with ball massage. How I love to see him enjoying what I do. And yes, I sure love what I do.

Until then I have spared his penis. That is because it is his magic wand, his tool for lust. He is most sensitive at the tip of his wonderful cock. In particular his glans and the shaft just below of his cock-head. He told me that his foreskin is containing most sensitive nerve-endings, I know this for a long time now. Thru caresses at his foreskin I use to send him into agony and over the edge eventually.

to be continued…

Male Sex Response Praise – Illustrated

In my previous post you read a genuine lady’s account for a basic love of our male devices. In this post you will get to know a woman cheerfully praising her lovers genitals and beyond! You will learn that this concrete love grants a deep sexual fulfillment for both, giver and receiver in this detailed and illustrated description of an edging session.

However, this report is fictitious and this post features the beginning of the story only. Since I had this file ready at hand I decided to coax you into the setting and offer you the whole adventure as pdf-file (at the end of the following teaser):

I have to tell this now. I have to tell the world how much I love my man. I do love him, because my sexual encounters with him are so rewarding to me, – well to us after all. Let me show you why. Here goes:

Over quite some years our bond grew tighter and tighter. This is reflecting in my love for his genitals and beyond. When I say beyond I do mean my love for his juices, i.e. his precum and cum, which I refer to as honey and milk. When we make love to each other we take turns for to please the other respectively within single sessions. One of us will be the giver, the other one will enjoy as receiver. That assures each of us to fully concentrate either on giving or receiving pleasure.

Now concerning his sexual satisfaction we agreed upon going real slow until the event of ejaculation and/or orgasm. He will receive in a very relaxed way, ever adding to his excitement in a very well paced manner with the goal of edging him in a state of sexual bliss right on the brink of ejaculation. Going all this way I am fortunate to experience his sexual response cycle in every detail. I will experience his genitals in many different states as well as his excitement. Finally I am awarded with his sweet juices over an extended period of time. Usually we eventually do harvest his milk having him cum into a glass. This way we profit twice from his climax(es): we observe his penis donating and yet I may fully enjoy to drink his precious essence.

Let me illustrate this route of bliss.

Our lovemaking starts with my pure visual admiration of his penis and ballsack.

I enjoy the relaxed state of his penis as much as I do the half and full erect states of his wonderful cock. What to say, any mode meets my love and admiration.

In the beginning his penis will be more or less flaccid. But the erectile condition may change spontaneously any given second. This rule does apply, if not even more so, to his scrotum. His foreskin may be retracted or not at the different states of erection/arousal. Ultimately I admittedly do prefer his bare cockhead.

The above pic shows my lovers beautiful penis in a quite average condition. My man is standing with his cock already swollen to about a third of a full erection in anticipation of the love-session to follow. His foreskin is fully retracted from the glans. Notice the wonderful corona of his cockhead. His ballsack is tight in this situation. It tends to be tight, because my man is freezing easily. However, once we are en route his scrotum softens and the balls begin to hang loose and looser, as you shall see further down.

I just love his sack to be soft and his balls to be swollen. Usually I will start with caressing his sack and nuts. This includes fondling, kissing and licking. Later on, when my man reached a heightened state of arousal, I will apply sucking, massage and even kneading to his package. [...]

Feel free to download the whole praise enhanced with a lot of pics illustrating the different appearances of the admired and loved genitals, showing them between a relaxed and aroused state all the way to emission and ejaculation!