Milking – Her Say

At the end of this chapter (about male milking) I would like to share some individual experiences by practitioners on how a gland-milking can be performed. I found these accounts some years ago on the net. I wanted to have both sexes have their say, yet in the end I consider this distinction does not matter that much, at least when it comes to partnersex.

However, I did find the following how-to by someone called Jenny, thus assuming the author is an experienced lady, or, to be more precise, a dominatrix with a good deal of exercise in this discipline. I abridged slightly and made remarks to clarify flawed statements (in red and bracketed) considering commonly accepted facts. – So, ladies first then:

How to milk. Based on my experience.

Find the Spot

First you have to ensure that the Milkman is able to take two fingers up his anus, or at least a hard dildo with a diameter of 3.5 cm.

Next you must find out if you can reach the top of his bladder with your fingers. This is best done when he is lying on his back with his knees up aside his chest. You can slide your finger(s) up inside his rectum feeling the front of it. You better wear a thin rubber glove and use lots of lubricant.

You can feel his prostate as a round relatively hard ball in the size of a ping-pong ball. When you can feel the top of his prostate you will have to get at least 5 cm deeper inside him to feel the top of the seminal vesicles. It is not enough that you can feel his bladder with your fingertips, because you will have to make a pressure along and across both seminal vesicles at the same time. Some pressure on his stomach just below his ribs can force the bladder a bit down so it is easier to reach. If you can’t reach this, you will have to use some tool to milk him.

Tools

In the beginning I used the handle of a hairbrush covered with a rubber. It is 3 cm wide and 20 cm long with rounded edges. I made a mark on it, to show how long inside it needed to go. To set this mark you will have to rely on his cooperation, because he can feel it inside and can tell you when it no longer presses on his bladder, that is when you are past his seminal vesicles. Later on I started to use a hard dildo. It seems to be a better choice, because the end of it goes in between the two seminal vesicles and that way makes a pressure on both at the same time.

If he is not used to get anything up his rectum you will see some wage trace of blood on the tool when you pull it out. That is because so far inside the rectum the blood vessel are very close to the surface and the skin is very thin [although it is true that your rectal tissue is very delicate, traces of blood would be a serious matter hinting to an injury! Consider to consult a physician!].

One way to prevent too much friction to the rectum is to ad some heavy lubricant (heavy-duty Vaseline) into his rectum before entering the tool [using lube is mandatory! Not only to protect the rectal tissue, but to turn the whole milking procedure into a working practise if not a somewhat exciting experience for the milkee.]. That way the tool will catch up some of the lube when it passes through it, and it will decrease the friction against the inside of rectum. [I would not recommend Vaseline because it is much too tenacious, although it reacts with body-heat making it slightly more greasy.]

You will need something to catch up his semen too. I am using a small cup or saucer. I can then let the penis be untouched during the process and just let it drip out the semen. Much more degrading for him… To get an eye for the quantity of semen you can measure out about 5 ml of thick liquid into the saucer. Just to get a good idea of how it looks.

Position (if it is done by another person)

The best position will be with the Milkman lying on his stomach on a relatively hard surface. His lower abdomen and penis free of the surface and him resting on his spread knees with the saucer placed on something right under his penis.

The process

When the tool is placed long enough inside him and is well lubricated, you will have to get a firm grip in the handle and push the inside end of the tool against his bladder. Then you slowly pull it 4 to 4.5 cm out of him. If you pull the tool too much out of him, it will slide over the bottom of the seminal vesicles with a small hump. If you can, stop just before that happens and then keep the pressure on his bladder for a while. The trick is to move the contents of the seminal vesicles down against the valve in the bottom of the bladder and then extend the pressure a little so the valve has to open and let the content out.

If this happens the milkman will suddenly feel the urge to empty his urethra. Therefore his muscles will tighten to try to do so. He will feel nothing else but this. No orgasm or excitement. Just the urge to empty his urethra and you pressing on his urine bladder. Release the pressure and push the tool gently back in, to the top of his seminal vesicles. Do not touch his penis yet. Repeat this process 8 to 10 times or until you feel that you can’t get more out of it. If you want to help the semen out of him you can do so by placing 3 fingers just onto his perineum and press along his urethra towards his penis. Some lubricant may be required.

Then you can try to squeeze more out by massaging his prostate with the tool or your fingers. Anyway you can always secure that his urethra is emptying by letting the tool slide from the top and along one side of his prostate to the bottom of his rectum. But this will produce some feelings similar to an orgasm and it will only produce a little more semen [it appears that Jenny is focussing on milking the seminal vesicles, yet we know that massaging the prostate does produce a fair volume of milk].

When you decide that it is enough, pull out the tool and continue to massage the area between his legs, from his anus towards his penis, by pressing when you move forward and don’t when you move your hand back again. Do it 4 – 5 times and then when your hand is at the root of his penis keep it there and keep up the pressure. With your other hand you take his penis between 2 fingers at the root and squeeze them tight together while you pull down towards his penis head, to empty it. Do not do this more than once or twice, he could get some ideas, if you do it too much.

The more skilled you get and the more he is getting used to this treatment, the better is the result. [...] What I know is, that it is possible to milk out about 90 % of the amount of semen from the total of a regular masturbated ejaculation. Without any amount of sexual excitement. [A sub will certainly draw sexual excitement from the practise of milking, yet by the psychological aspects of it, despite the range of sensations within his reproductive system and anus.]

How often

In the beginning and until his rectum got used to this treatment, not more than once every week. Especially not if you get traces of blood on your tool, during the first times. And that is almost unavoidable [it sure is I´d say! Pay close attention here, blood is the exception, not the rule!]. When he is more accustomed to it you can do it more often.

However I have never got any good results out of doing it more than 4 to 5 times a week. I think, that about 48 hours between every milking is a good choice, if he is not in some kind of chastity. If he is in a well working chastity device, one time each week will do the trick. If the purpose of this is to prevent him from having any orgasm, a chastity device is necessary. The milking can’t prevent this in itself. I have had orgasm with ejaculation after an effective milking. But it can reduce the urge for ejaculation and therefore reduces the pressure for having an orgasm.

Reel Fiction (6)

No preliminaries, right into the story:

I´m damn lucky with my man for he is such a great cummer. Or, rather a great cum-producer, that´s what he is. I mean he does not spray his load nor does he shoot it in all too many spurts. He prefers to cherish the art of the emission, making his semen leave his system before he triggers his ejaculation. And he manages to cum at least a couple of times when he is at it.

I love his emissions, it´s like a faucet opened with your favorite juice pouring out. Yet I still get my spurts when his ejaculatory contractions pump out his cum or what is left of it. And I love his white stuff so much! He produces this creamy silky slimy milk I can´t wait to either rub into my skin wherever he wets me with it, or drink after I caught the whole (double) load in a glas.

I never want to miss observing him closely when he cums. It´s such a sight when he pours his milk, then shoots out what his glands still hold. And not to forget his production of precum. He is a fair precummer as well. Since he carefully closes in towards his cum-releasing moment his precum gets enough time to ooze out of his cock-eye first, just excellent!

precum

The other night I had the idea to tape his sweet ability and my man agreed without hesitation. All I needed to do was to faithfully film the scene, no further changes necessary, – well, we hooked up an extra lamp, so much for that. However, only when he came I realized that I was facing a true dilemma! I really wanted to get his mouth-watering cumming taped in total to preserve his skill, and yet when he finally came it was so hot, I would have liked to just forget about that damn filming and rather catch his milk to spread it all over my body and lick it off my fingers. I never felt the urge to consume him stronger than in that moment!

I´m glad now that I kept up with covering his two climaxes. We use the clip to speed up our moods when we decide to go for it. It is so hot to watch it in a slight slowmo-mode and it´s just awesome to study how he was spilling his milk that night:

As usual he was kneeling right above me, me comfortably laying on the mattress observing him and his cock. I had caressed his cock and balls in the beginning, I even had my fair share of precum. Eventually he got into the zone. While he needed to pay close attention to his reproductive system to avoid PONR yet coax his milk in a free flow, I grabbed the cam and stood by. Eventually he signaled me to press the record button, the moment had arrived.

He held his cock in his right hand fist and ceased any movement. A bead of precum had obeyed gravitational law and was cutely bouncing a good inch beneath the cock-eye which I closely kept in frame. Not long after that my love sighed what sounded like a „yeah“ meaning his milk was rising! My heart was pounding.

first milk

Seconds later his sweet milk just poured out in a swelling stream. I guess the whole unusual and hot situation triggered his ejaculation as he suddenly shot one spurt followed by several smaller pumping gushes. Eventually he began to squeeze out the remaining cream in his cockshaft making it slide down on a string made of precum just like pure fluid pearls.

When a last bead had descended he was beginning to jack his cock firmly for triggering his follow-up ejaculation. Not too long into his fist-work he started pumping his milk once again. This time he squirted three juicy gushes with his milk appearing thinner, more runny, but still deliciously creamy.

After the last drop of his jizz had splashed down on me he asked for the cam to take a picture of my chest, just as I was beginning to scoop up his sweet cream. Because I did not spread his produce while he was covering me with it, as I usually do, he wanted to capture the scene of the pool of milk he had left between my boobs in a photo. I must say that turned out a great sight too. I am really happy that I taped his way of cumming. We may try that again some time when he really is loaded. But then I will use a tripod for taking my share of him when he oozes and shoots his loads.

STORY CUMPLETE

The same viewing-procedures as for For a Closer Look apply.

His Ejaculation And You

Contrary to being solosexually active, there may always be lurking some kind of issue when it comes to partnersex. Simply because each one involved easily developes expectations the other partner may or may not fulfill. Or, at an elevated psychological level: carrying the feeling that something is expected (by the partner) may lessen the overall experience of an otherwise highly synched sexual act.

We have seen in the previous posts, that there are women among us who deeply share the love for male genitals, the male reproductive system and the male produce. This is great news, however, a perfect match may still be really difficult to find (or to establish).

A perfect match is difficult to achieve because:

• there are different ways to deal with an ejaculation and the cum it produces
• the guys involved just carry different preferences or ideas on how to design a particular act
• preferences, ideas and abilities may change over time.

In a previous post I was speaking of basically three options for the fellatrice/masturbator to take care of her/his partners ejaculation and semen. Now given that a couple is out for making his ejaculation (or the phase before and near PONR = edging) intense AND that it aims for harvesting a big load of milk, we will encounter these choices:

Option 1 – The masturbator (female or male) just loves to observe her/his pleasure-receiver in the phase of edging, triggering and ejaculating. Perfect when the receiver is acting out his climax without any inhibition in total surrender, while producing lots of precum and a large quantity of semen.

Option 2 – The masturbator loves to be sprayed all over with her/his mans semen to feel being covered in his essence. Perfect when the receiver is a natural shooter producing lots of precum and a big milkload.

Option 3 – The masturbator loves to take facials for savoring (smelling, feeling, tasting) her/his mans juices. Perfect when the receiver is a solid shooter producing a good flow of precum and a remarkable load of milk.

Option 4 – The masturbator loves to drink her/his mans sweet milk right from the „tap“ because she/he „needs“ to taste and/or digest her/his lovers man-juice as well as to experience the totally intimate physical act. Perfect when the pleasure-receiver reliably produces precum and one or more voluminous milkloads.

At this point read another account by a cum-loving woman (gathered by a guy called Jallen – more here) which illustrates options 3 and 4 perfectly:

To be perfectly honest, as I was growing up I never imagined I’d allow guys to do that [give me facials] to me. I also can’t believe now, how much I enjoy it sometimes. But … it took me several years of taking them to get to this point of really enjoying it. In the beginning, I did it out of love. I was young, dumb, and didn’t know any better. I wanted to do whatever it took to show my guy (whoever it happened to be that month) that I was totally into him. … But now I don’t feel that way. Now … I actually ask for it and truly enjoy it. Even when it’s a huge load. (Most of the time it’s quite a lot of semen, sometimes an incredible amount.) On top of taking facials, I let a lot of my past boyfriends cum directly in my mouth. I think I’ve let it cum in my mouth more times than I’ve taken it in the face actually. … I like the thicker semen better. Not that I don’t like the thinner viscosity. It’s just I really taste it more when it’s thick. … Jallen, you really can’t imagine what that’s like (for me personally anyway) to drink down a mouthful of cum.

I can’t help the mental thoughts that go through my mind as I’m feeling the hot jets of semen hit the roof of my mouth. The thoughts I’m thinking as I’m feeling my mouth fill up with fluid. … It’s like I’m saying to myself, ‘Damn, girl, here you are, a cock in your mouth, draining fluid … yeah, you feel it draining in your mouth, and you’re gonna swallow it when he’s done.’ … As for position, I’ve been on my knees many times. I seem to enjoy it that way. I’ve also swallowed and taken many facials lying on my back. A lot of times when I’m on my back it’s after intercourse when he pulls out to cum in my face rather than in me. I actually prefer them to pull out. Two reasons. 1) I like to see it squirt. 2) I like watching him jerk it off. I usually let him jerk it off in my face or in my mouth when he pulls out.

This girl sure loves her mans milk. She appears like being a cumqueen, featuring aspects of the more refined cumprincess. – Now, at the end of this chapter concerning partnersex I believe that a variation of the illustrated choices will be most satisfactory for a like-minded couple, especially when both lovingly agree on how to resolve their act. And they always can repeat and vary!

In my next chapter I want to take a look at a situation where the masturbator craves cum, but cares less for the producer of it (or so it seems). That describes the realm of partner-milking and forced ejaculations. However, before I get to that I will tell you yet another story (depicting option 2 mentioned above) in my next post. Stay tuned!

The Loving Cumprincess

In my previous post I let some women speak for themselves concerning their love for semen and taking facials. To observe the unloading of cum on a face is a very arousing visual. No surprise then, that the porn-biz keeps on taping such scenes big time. Let´s find out if we can distinguish between women who love to have their faces cum-drenched no matter the number of sources and women who love semen out of love for their man.

We all know the term Cumqueen. It labels a woman who is infatuated with cum. Semen is her fetish (meaning the preferred object for her sexual arousal and satisfaction). She longs for getting in touch with possibly loads of jizz. She either craves to be sprayed with cum (onto her face and body) or/and she needs to „consume“ semen (smell it, taste it, feel it, see it and swallow it). The more, the better – she probably would love to bathe in a tub full of cum. She does not care by whom she receives a load. That´s why she welcomes many men at a time to unload on her (seen in every Bukkake flick). A Cumqueen is living up to experience male milk in large quantities preferably sprayed at her face (and chest).

Now, if a Cumqueen craves cum more than anything else, what would be the core gratification of a so-called Loving Cumprincess? (I myself did coin this tag.)

Well, the Cumprincess is the true savorer of semen in a very particular way of the meaning. She is not just generally infatuated with cum, she rather craves specifically the semen of her respective lover. And because of that she loves the genitals providing her with the juices and the man who owns these genitals – and vice versa. And because the genitals and the semen mean the source of the lust and bliss her lover can experience, it is a Cumprincesses yearning to model her lovers route towards climax, and the climax itself, in a way that he will definitely experience an utmost amount of lust whenever she is making him cum. A Cumprincess is motivated by the fact that she draws a big part of her own sexual fulfillment out of her caressing of her lover. This disposition in fact means a win-win-situation for both her and her man.

A Cumprincess exactly knows how a male reproductive system works, she is an expert in this anatomical aspect. And she sure knows of the marked preferences and particularities of her lover. She and her guy make up a perfect team with just one goal: to achieve the greatest sexual satisfaction for both of them. The Cumprincess accepts her man the way he is, always wishing him well especially concerning his sexual satisfaction, for it is love that drives her in the first place. And her lover likewise truly loves his Cumprincess and will always surrender to her without any inhibitions. He wants to present her what she truly loves: his body, his genitals and his cum. His climaxes are devoted to her exclusively. The loving bond between the two and their expertise intensifies the sexual give & take during their love-making.

The sexual preferences of the couple do match perfectly. She wants full and unlimited access to his genitals. She just loves her lovers tools in any possible shape. Her aim is the harvesting of his semen. To a Cumprincess male genitals are divine. The act of love for her is equivalent to the adoration of penis and scrotum, she truly is worshipping her mans genitals and his produce. She reverentially treasures the milk of her lover despite or because her anatomical knowledge of her lovers plumbing. For she certainly knows how to achieve an increased volume of his secretions.

A Cumprincess rules concerning the lovemaking. It is she who decides about the timing for generating lust and the release of his juices. Only she has full access to his reproductive system both external and internal (prostate and seminal vesicles via the anus). However, the act that provides enhanced sexual fulfillment for both lovers may be driven even more by an inner, psychological passion. Where her man opens up completely and just needs to be (a sexual entity), the Cumprincess must exert a great deal of patience and discipline. Yet both of that nourishes her own arousal and lust, because she enjoys her guy thru independently deciding the caressing of a given moment, thus creatively modeling the act always sure to eventually being rewarded with his climax(es) and flood of milk. This will make her surrender, supplying her with her very own climaxes. In that, the couple will encounter the utmost sexual satisfaction.

Now does this description match a real woman or is it a mere fantasy? You sure encounter this very setting in my prose (at this site) all the time! – Well, I´d say Cumprincesses do exist, yet as rarely as true Cumqueens (contrary to staged or even forced „doubles“). But even more scarce might be a perfect match. Not even out of a lack of disposition on the female side, but because of an attitude on the male side. Total surrender, patience, refined savoring, the love for semen and anatomical knowledge are no genuine sexual virtues on the male side. However they are necessary to fill a Loving Cumprincess with (not just milk, but) joy, happiness, bliss and satisfaction!