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January 7, 2012

ALL about MALE SEXUAL PLEASURES and CHARACTERISTICS

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When Women Crave

November 6, 2016

When women crave, man, they crave! And you, man, better deliver. – But wait, may such an exposure be something the porn-industry wants us have to believe?

kovik-oral1 (artwork by Kovik)

Probably both statements are not wrong. Sexual relationships are highly complex affairs and describe a huge realm with their own rules and mechanisms. Anything goes in real life – parallel to what we find mirrored in porn or pop-culture.

Back to the headline. While it is true, that the (main) genders are differing physically and mentally, their behavior is quite similar (in strategy) when it gets down to sexual realization. As William H. Libaw writes in his lecture notes The Origins and Nature of Differences between Female and Male Sexuality from Aug 2000:

Both men and women have bodies that enable them to get vast enjoyment from sexual activity. Genetically, women have little in the way of estrus in the sense of experiencing periodic instinctive lustful desires. Although some women are subject to them when they are ovulating, lustful desires and concepts are mostly an option for women. […]

No surprise at all that men can become sex objects for women (and for obvious reasons). The reverse angle (women as sex objects for men) is only so much more taken for granted, because it was socially sanctioned for ages due to the fact that the majority of societies (since Adam & Eve) have been patriarchal and still are.

Now, the human male as sex object is quite alright as long as society will not begin to neglect, repress, or oppose male sexuality that is other than merely responsive to women’s sexuality. Yet in patriarchal societies such a respectful attitude required towards women is missing, it is the crude attitude with all its malicious characteristics that is still prevalent today!

But let´s take a look at what it could mean for a man to be encountered as a sex object. And very easily so, as a male is predestined to become a sex object for all and any attribute we can find in his sexuality. Check this selection of hot drawings:

kovik-foreskin (artwork by Kovik)

An unusual yet worthwhile object the foreskin can be. The same is true for cock-heads! While I did not find a drawn sample for my little presentation here, you always can relish the broad variety of this anatomical extravaganza in this blog!

gerb-ballsuck (artwork by Gerb)

The balls are not mentioned in particular, but a sure liking is mapped above. In this example the scrotum is nothing less than integral part of the craved genitals.

That penis must be THE object of desire is almost inevitable:

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(artwork by Jacobson)

Size may only be one reason for craving cock, yet a convincing one.

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Penis is a wonderful tool!

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Certainly women know exactly what they need.

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(artwork by Jacobson)

But there is more: a cock warrants access to a man´s produce!

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(artwork by Jacobson)

Now, the strip below (excerpts) is as hot as it is over-the-top: a couple of office workers impel an intern to cum. They trigger his ejaculation for tasting his allegedly sweet semen. And they do it twice!

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(artwork by Hank Trueblood)

Some women, however, do prefer quantity over individual quality! Be it concerning male milk in particular

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(artwork by Wes Crum)

or men and their sexual capacities in general:

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(artwork by Armas)

Every man has to ask himself if he´d enjoy to be craved in the illustrated way(s). He better delivers what the partner lusts for, or he may fall from grace (compare here). There is one situation making a – the – difference in partner sex (which I emphasize throughout my blog): it´s the difference between emotional attachment or the lack of it in sexplay. The choice is yours, either be a sex object for the sake of sexual lust and sensations, or be one in the certitude of being appreciated and supported in your quest to meet rapture.


Shayenn Wants a Cum Geyser

October 14, 2016

Shayenn Says:

I love this blog! I´m happy that I found it, I learned so much about men. Not only how they work (down there), but also how they tick and what they enjoy about their sexuality.

And it helped me realizing what I want most from a man, sexually.😉

I enjoy the male devices, very much so, but I really love his shooting of cum. I also love the stuff itself, the warmth, the smell, the silky wetness, the more the better. But first and foremost I like the visuals of powerful and extended pumping and then being hit by it!

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Your blog demonstrated to me, that there are specimen around who are able to shoot, and I mean shoot, truly huge volumes of their juices. I was infatuated! And it really spoiled me!!😉

From the porn I´ve seen I always thought big loads were rather fake than for real, but your info made me know better. However, the men I was with (currently solo here) have all performed in the average range, quite OK like this:

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Now after I have learned of the male capacity from your blog, I want a guy being able to shower me with his cum, no matter if spraying or roping. Especially after you explained this feat you call emisjaculation (plainly: pissing cum) I was hooked and deeply long for a cum geyser stud ever since. I am afraid I won´t go for less anymore. But what can I do? I mean there are ways to give support for improvement (that I learned here too), however, I am well aware that guys who are able to perform like this on a regular basis must be scarce:

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What´s your take on my dilemma? Will I ever find a man who is able to serve my unique desire?

Nandisa Says:

First of all I am very happy that you enjoy my blog thoroughly. That much so, as that you could define your sexual preferences in a male: his semen and the most spectacular way his anatomy can make it leave his system. This is great! Yet I´m afraid that you are correct in suspecting that your longed for abilities will be scarce.

However, for I assume you are quite young, chances to eventually encounter someone who potentially serves your needs are fair, although it may not be too easy to find a true match.

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A guy your (presumed) age will be highly qualified, because his system will be more likely producing seminal fluids in abundance, and his muscles shall be in good shape as well (you have learned how to develop improved results in my blog).

Keep in mind that a good share of the top-performances we see are related to genetics, at least considering performing this way on a regular basis. Meaning you would need a bit of luck to cross paths with such a man. After all, massive milk-shooters, especially those being able to initially piss emissions (i.e. emisjaculations), are exceptions to the rule.

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And don´t neglect the fact that such an able guy ought to be one you at least like as a whole person, and vice versa. And that he shares your penchant. That he is a guy who loves to shower you with is milk rather than fuck you or wants you to swallow his meat and his load. He needs to be willing to build his juices to the max and then totally surrender in front of you, wetting you with his produce. This is a totally hot scenario and I wish it will come true for you. Please report back once you found your man. I really wish you luck (feeling responsible here).🙂


Poll No. 54 Results

October 3, 2016

This is about us. Yes, you and me! Poll No. 54 is giving us clarity about who is part of this blog´s community!

OK, I just can assume that the majority of all participants are returning visitors and loyal readers (I hope this is the case). I collected 370 votes in total while offering a 4-fold multiple choice. Let´s explore our community´s profile from the numbers:

114 readers revealed who they are (anonymously for sure), among them 105 men, 8 women and 1 transgender person.

  • Sexual orientation: 30 people checked gay, another 30 checked bisexual and 42 checked straight, leaving 12 participants without indication here.
  • Age: there are more younger than older people reading this blog! 38 are pretty young, 30 are middle-aged and 22 are older, leaving 24 participants without indication here.
  • Sexual preference: 36 prefer sex with a partner (or more) while 25 prefer sex with themselves, leaving 53 participants without indication here.

Check the graph:

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There are three free votes („Other“): sucking dicks; I am sub; Virgin – (thank you for indicating this, because it shows us that you are probably quite young, yet not shy to learn about male sexuality in-depth. That´s great!🙂 ).

All in all I am very content that the choices addressed are quite balanced but the gender disparity which I did expect. Still I am happy that 8 ladies answered this poll while I silently hope that some more read my blog with inquisitiveness and joy!

Concerning the sexual preference I was surprised to find a lead of partner-sex over solo-sex. For some reason I assumed it being vice versa to the given result. But this is great news and I see myself confirmed in having published a mix of content covering partner-sex issues next to pure male aspects of human sexuality.

Finally you may want to know my choices if I had voted:

I am male, I am straight, I am older, I prefer solo-sex.🙂

Thanks to all participants!!


NoBody Is Perfect!

August 26, 2016

What could be the antonym-sentence of the headline above? I´d say: Some guys seem to have it all! Or, in a looser understanding: The grass is always greener on the other side…

We are all a bit different from each other, we are no clones, no androids, and it´s perfect that way. However, differences may generate envy (regardless that this is only human after all). Especially concerning our genitals and associated performances, we (men) are bound to easily develope a certain longing when we encounter other men being favourably endowed (huge cock, big balls) and/or performing spectacularly above average.

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Well, to a certain extend we can alter our physical appearance and performances (volume of semen, force and duration of ejaculation). Think of penis-pumps or the jelq method to gain more shaft-inches, or the stretching of the scrotum for low and lower hanging balls. As for the soft-skills (cum-volume or climax-intensity/ duration), chances are high to obtain quick alteration. But noticeable physical changes require steady and disciplined efforts.

What we desire may be out of reach, because our desires shall be part of our sexual fantasies, being thus unobtainable. And we tend to negate the other side of the coin (of owning a long dick or meaty ball-sack, or possibly spraying our juices in 10+ pulses every time we cum).

Sexual fantasies are as natural as they are healthy. We need to fantasize (or watch porn showing attributes we´d love to be featuring ourselves) to fire up our arousal, no matter if in solosex or with a partner.

Out of this dreaming it is more than „normal“ and common to mentally build a kind of sexual role model and ponder with pleasure over the question „If I could choose my design…“.

At times we may encounter a male being endowed in a way we projected for ourself. Or we gaze at an ejaculation in awe wishing to be able to perform alike. Probably rarely though we find an example of a man who combines our particular image of being „ideal“, of whom we would say without hesitation „Just perfect, this guy has it all!“.

Now always bear in mind that we as individuals may carry very different projections of what we would change if we could choose our design. Men „blessed“ with the attributes we regulars long for so much may just want to be as average as the majority, for different reasons (and/or experiences). It may come down to the saying: The grass is always greener on the other side of the hedge. In fact I believe this is the case, because being „perfect“ or „ideal“ can be a different thing in the eyes of different people. And very much so concerning the sexual realm!

Leaves me to reveal to you my personal opinion, based on the question: „If I could choose my design what would I look like and how would I perform?“. Here´s a teaser:

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By chance I stumbled upon two (!) clips showing this guy jerking himself into ejaculation. And what fantastic climaxes they both are, coaxed via such a gorgeous penis. I couldn´t help thinking „This guy has it all!“ when I studied the clips.

The chap is of athletic stature, owning a beautiful uncut penis and his ejaculatory performances are stunning. As we bear double witness of his massive ejaculations I assume his incredible output is based on genetics in the first place. We don´t know if he took supplements or did edge in advance. Yet notice that we observe emisjaculations! He is „pissing“ his milk before his reflex ensures forceful pulses (exposed well in the gif above from the 2nd clip). And the texture of his semen is just to my delight!

In the first clip we see the beau passing his PONR into ejaculation in real-time with sound, the scene is repeated in slow motion.

In the second clip we see him showing us another quite similar ejaculation, this time only once in slow mo.

However, I wished to have seen this blessed model precumming before shooting his juices so beautifully, as much as I´d liked to have seen more of his scrotum/balls. As for the latter compare with this clip! By the way, the masturbating man in this clip would make a good „This guy has it all!“ too, at least concerning his endowment and the performance of his cumming. He as well is releasing a strong emission before his reflex sets in.

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But I wanted to point out the softness of his scrotum all the way thru his climax, letting us marvel over his big swollen balls just before, while and after his pumping. Such is a rare scrotum-behaviour in the male, as the rule says that the sack thickens (to lift the testicles closer to ones body) when nearing PONR (or at reaching the Plateau Phase).

Personally I prefer the image of bouncing balls while ejaculating, – and that´s even another projection! Wishful thinking, not just owing to the rule in effect, but because the given state of our scrotum lies beyond our will-power.

After all it seems to turn out that with the diversity of male designs and the always changing capacity of sexual performance in adjustment with our very individual conception of „having it all“, the old adage is confirmed yet again: NoBody is Perfect! — Or maybe everyone is.😉