SEEK-N-FIND…

January 7, 2012

ALL about MALE SEXUAL PLEASURES and CHARACTERISTICS

Welcome to a place that has grown continuously into a fine library on the subject matter!

For fastest access to a topic of your interest follow the links below or use the drop-down menu of CATEGORIES at the left hand side column!

Then there is always the search-option (above the poll) for any particular term or check with the TAGS.

The TOP POSTS indicate what´s recently most popular.

Please notice the crosslinking-option throughout my blog!

May you always gain stimulating results! In that case, why not consider following!? Just take a look at testimonials (each linked to its parent-post).


Closing Polls

November 2, 2017

I have a final poll for you, it is #60 (look further down).

I started polling back in February 2012 when I „discovered“ the easy way to enhance many different topics with these small questionnaires. And your feedback now and again revealed unexpected preferences next to validating presumed evaluation. Here´s results from poll #45 as an example:

However, like I wrote in the note at the left side-bar where the polls used to be placed, then freely accessible from any blog-page and instantly giving answers to the curious, that I will not implement further polls!

I not only close polling because I do not like the currently „hidden“ implementation, but because I am at a point where I run out of smart and valuable questions.

As I said, my polls mostly accompanied posts, running along with them, some for longer, some rather briefly. Now after feeding this blog for many years it is increasingly difficult to find aspects of the male sexuality (especially attractive new ones) which are not already addressed here.

As for poll #59 I sure was curious if and how the first-time implemented questionnaire (in this post) worked out? I was content to find just enough answers (28 to date) to discern a trend, almost like with the once more obvious display in the side-bar! Thanks to everyone partaking! After all it worked out with this new way of polling…

…nonetheless!

The last poll I´m delivering deals with the ability to achieve emission(s) prior to PONR. You will find a good number of posts concerning this hot way of spilling, look for the tags emission, edging, slowly, and milking. Also search for emisjaculation.

Here goes, this is the link to poll #60!

Again a big thank you to all taking part in the polling since 2012. I hope questions have been titillating and results exciting!!


ArtVantage (1) – Masculine

October 14, 2017

Nothing better than to start this new series with an homage to a great artist! Actually I did not plan to, but the release of a movie about his life this year (check out the dates here) gave me the idea.

I am talking about Touko Valio Laaksonen, better known by his pseudonym Tom of Finland, of whom cultural historian Joseph W. Slade said that he was the “most influential creator of gay pornographic images”!

Indeed he was and his style is very distinct and recognizable. Please read about his life at this Wikipedia page and do follow the links to his art-work pages noted there!

Also check about the movie I mentioned at this Wiki-page, – mind you it aint no porno, but a revealing biopic!

Toukos impact on the scene was profound. Many artists after him dared to create uninhibited gay themed pornographic art which celebrated the very masculine male: full of muscle, stamina and xtra-large genitalia!

I offer you a small collection of art(ists) in „Toms footsteps“:

Tom was drawing men clean-shaved! Following artists implemented more than the obligatory moustache!

Toms genre preference has been hunks in uniform and leather boots. Yet he also featured Cowboys, Sailors and Construction Workers. As do contemporary artists, for example:

Toms men have been equal in size, looks and endowment (when presented in groups of two or more). Later artists seem to favour the senior/junior arrangement:

Certainly the art of Tom of Finland paved the way for numerous gay themed comics to emerge, telling hard-core stories in every imaginable way:

Featured artists in chronological order:
Joseph, Just A. Buoy, Pan Hanks, Valentine, Josman.

Note: Click pic to get enlarged version!


Do You Burst or Do You Spill?

September 17, 2017

This blog explains and shows the diversity of the ejaculatory performance in men. One aspect touches the mode in which semen is initially ejected, beginning with a smooth flow, or shooting out all of a sudden. So, this post addresses the two basic take-off possibilities of ejaculation.

Among all those previous contributions with similar questions on the subject (like here, here and here), this entry concerns the most alterable ejaculatory feature. Hence you could answer the headline question with Yes and Yes!

Although the ejaculatory reflex lets our muscles (responsible for cum-ejection) perform involuntarily, we do have the opportunity to strengthen and control these muscles to a certain extent. This leaves us a choice of consciously deciding whether we want to release our milk in a flow before the inevitable reflex takes over and has our systems pump out the stored juices or if we want to burst after PONR.

This early double-post here and here tells you all about the parameters of the visible ejaculation and how shooting next to spilling cum can gain a meaning for the witness and the ejaculator.

What you read in the following passage briefly puts your focus at the ejaculatory take-off, an advanced point-of-view after you found awareness about the fact of the two modes and the sensations tied to them.

Bursting is a more „natural“ way of taking-off, because you automatically will try to hold back your ejection after you have passed PONR.

You do not need to learn this, you can and will do clench your BC and PC and associated muscles until they need to give in to the inevitable reflex = pulsing (i.e. ejaculating your semen).

Almost literally exploding with cum is always an awesome sensation as you built up the internal gland-pressure impatiently waiting for the reliefing moment to eventually gain your own permission (for PONR) and bursting open thru your cock!

A more refined way of (softly) releasing your milk requires a bit of practise. Because you need to keep your muscles (mainly BC and PC) stay relaxed while slowly approaching PONR (this is a controlled way of triggering the ejaculatory reflex).

The release is a mix between emission and ejaculation. I regard this as another kind of ejaculatory climax for which I coined the expression emisjaculation. Read about it in this post here! I personally find this kind of climax most rewarding! Check out an analysis of an emisjaculation here!

It is great to be able to alter certain aspects of our ejaculatory release, to experiment with the way we cum and chose how we want to experience our climax at a given situation.

Last not least you may like to obtain brief clips demonstrating the different ways of the ejaculatory take-off.

See a young lad beginning to ejaculate with a sudden cum-burst, pumping his semen in powerful spurts. His ejaculations seem out of control, a very hot scene!

This guy shows a controlled release, another emisjaculation in which his spilling follows a considerable outflow of his milk. He continues to spill three more times in a soft-pumping fashion!

A worthwhile analytical clip of an emisjaculation (part of a larger clip, with sound i.e. moaning) is this one here (already published on this blog).

Please participate in the poll:

What is your ejection take-off mode, and which do you favor?
(polls)


JO Buddies (2)

August 19, 2017

So it happened one day, that all the given parameters were perfectly matching. I was laying in bed comfortably and relaxed while my buddy tenderly teased my throbbing cock.

I was totally aroused and breathing deeply. My glands were filled to the max, at least it felt that way and I had told him about this. I felt so very saturated that I thought my bladder was full, but I sure hit the bathroom before we started to masturbate me. Hence I was confident to just let go of whatever was filling my system.

It was as if everything was throbbing down there, not just my cock, but my balls and my glands too. Meanwhile all I could think of was to let go and release my alleged torrents of milk standing by for just that. I desperately longed for drifting thru the sweetest sensation a man can feel in his penis and balls and glands.

I knew I was very close to the edge and I let my buddy know. He reduced his caressing of my ever so sensitive dick to light touches of my foreskin. Curiously enough we shared this particular physical receptiveness. We both loved to be triggered by the touch of a certain part of our intact foreskins (i.e. inner foreskin), because this area contained the most nerve endings which forwarded any of the softest detection of touch directly deep down into the system.

My buddy wetted my helmet with a gush of oil and slowly and lightly rubbed that special part of my foreskin. A stinging sensation was filling my shaft, the edge was reached, PONR was next if he continued. But he knew me so well for he timed his caress in a way that kept me right there. I started to howl because this sensation was so fucking permeating intense!

I thought I sensed he touching me right at that foreskin-spot, oh god, this was so incredibly teasing, next I felt my internal valves open, without reaching PONR, yet!

I let go – as relaxed as my system was –, merging into release as if I was pissing while still whining from the unbearable melting sensations. I looked down and saw in amazement a steady stream of whitish milk leave my cocktip: I was pissing cum indeed! (Similar to this illustration:)

My buddy lightly massaged my foreskin only to the effect of having the ever so sweet sensations immediately intensify once more. And this triggered PONR right away. All of my system seemed to spasm tightly, I could not avoid it. I knew that the beloved rhythmic pumping was next. – It sure was and it happened very slow-paced. Spasm after spasm blessed my system, each pumping my thin milk in splattering spray-gushes.

The extremely intense melting sensations within my system had been replaced by feelings of total surrender. I witnessed my reflex making me pulse for a long time or so it felt. My buddy later told me that the latter half of the total number of spasms have been kind of dry when each contraction produced but a mere drop of cum at my cock-mouth.

After my over-the-top pumping climax mellowed out I only could lay still and breathe, trying to regain my senses while my buddy covered my soaked body with a large towel. This is almost all I remember from the aftermath. It has been the most intense ejaculating experience until and since then. So fucking beyond words! – Believe me, we continue to strive for most fulfilling ejaculatory experiences for one another. This is what we love to do!

Story cumplete!