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January 7, 2012

ALL about MALE SEXUAL PLEASURES and CHARACTERISTICS

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NoBody Is Perfect!

August 26, 2016

What could be the antonym-sentence of the headline above? I´d say: Some guys seem to have it all! Or, in a looser understanding: The grass is always greener on the other side…

We are all a bit different from each other, we are no clones, no androids, and it´s perfect that way. However, differences may generate envy (regardless that this is only human after all). Especially concerning our genitals and associated performances, we (men) are bound to easily develope a certain longing when we encounter other men being favourably endowed (huge cock, big balls) and/or performing spectacularly above average.

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Well, to a certain extend we can alter our physical appearance and performances (volume of semen, force and duration of ejaculation). Think of penis-pumps or the jelq method to gain more shaft-inches, or the stretching of the scrotum for low and lower hanging balls. As for the soft-skills (cum-volume or climax-intensity/ duration), chances are high to obtain quick alteration. But noticeable physical changes require steady and disciplined efforts.

What we desire may be out of reach, because our desires shall be part of our sexual fantasies, being thus unobtainable. And we tend to negate the other side of the coin (of owning a long dick or meaty ball-sack, or possibly spraying our juices in 10+ pulses every time we cum).

Sexual fantasies are as natural as they are healthy. We need to fantasize (or watch porn showing attributes we´d love to be featuring ourselves) to fire up our arousal, no matter if in solosex or with a partner.

Out of this dreaming it is more than „normal“ and common to mentally build a kind of sexual role model and ponder with pleasure over the question „If I could choose my design…“.

At times we may encounter a male being endowed in a way we projected for ourself. Or we gaze at an ejaculation in awe wishing to be able to perform alike. Probably rarely though we find an example of a man who combines our particular image of being „ideal“, of whom we would say without hesitation „Just perfect, this guy has it all!“.

Now always bear in mind that we as individuals may carry very different projections of what we would change if we could choose our design. Men „blessed“ with the attributes we regulars long for so much may just want to be as average as the majority, for different reasons (and/or experiences). It may come down to the saying: The grass is always greener on the other side of the hedge. In fact I believe this is the case, because being „perfect“ or „ideal“ can be a different thing in the eyes of different people. And very much so concerning the sexual realm!

Leaves me to reveal to you my personal opinion, based on the question: „If I could choose my design what would I look like and how would I perform?“. Here´s a teaser:

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By chance I stumbled upon two (!) clips showing this guy jerking himself into ejaculation. And what fantastic climaxes they both are, coaxed via such a gorgeous penis. I couldn´t help thinking „This guy has it all!“ when I studied the clips.

The chap is of athletic stature, owning a beautiful uncut penis and his ejaculatory performances are stunning. As we bear double witness of his massive ejaculations I assume his incredible output is based on genetics in the first place. We don´t know if he took supplements or did edge in advance. Yet notice that we observe emisjaculations! He is „pissing“ his milk before his reflex ensures forceful pulses (exposed well in the gif above from the 2nd clip). And the texture of his semen is just to my delight!

In the first clip we see the beau passing his PONR into ejaculation in real-time with sound, the scene is repeated in slow motion.

In the second clip we see him showing us another quite similar ejaculation, this time only once in slow mo.

However, I wished to have seen this blessed model precumming before shooting his juices so beautifully, as much as I´d liked to have seen more of his scrotum/balls. As for the latter compare with this clip! By the way, the masturbating man in this clip would make a good „This guy has it all!“ too, at least concerning his endowment and the performance of his cumming. He as well is releasing a strong emission before his reflex sets in.

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But I wanted to point out the softness of his scrotum all the way thru his climax, letting us marvel over his big swollen balls just before, while and after his pumping. Such is a rare scrotum-behaviour in the male, as the rule says that the sack thickens (to lift the testicles closer to ones body) when nearing PONR (or at reaching the Plateau Phase).

Personally I prefer the image of bouncing balls while ejaculating, – and that´s even another projection! Wishful thinking, not just owing to the rule in effect, but because the given state of our scrotum lies beyond our will-power.

After all it seems to turn out that with the diversity of male designs and the always changing capacity of sexual performance in adjustment with our very individual conception of „having it all“, the old adage is confirmed yet again: NoBody is Perfect! — Or maybe everyone is.😉


In The Eye of The Beholder

July 12, 2016

Why this headline? Because you may -depending on your own sexual preferences and realizations- interpret quite differently the given situation in this awesome handjob-clip!

You will know my series „For a closer look“ in which I present selected tapings illustrating particular „sex-facts“. Now, this single great multiple climax handjob-finish does cover several hot topics outlined in this blog.

But let´s be objective for a moment and summarize the scenario for the visible facts.

In one sentence: we watch an edited clip in wich a masturbator coaxes multiple cum-producing climaxes out of the reproductive system of a young male!

Giving you the details: a young athletic naked man, his torso and genitals oiled, sits relaxed on a towel-covered chair, his arms fastened to that chair with wristscuffs.

The highly aroused masturbatee owns a huge, left-bent penis (fully erect) and a big oval scrotum (holding his swollen testicles).

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His masturbator is a (clothed) man calling himself Dr. CumControl, the creator of this clip (as we can read in a small insert noting his mail-address). The name of the masturbator gives away what we are about to witness, and rightfully so. – The whole scene does not show faces, but offers an audio track letting us hear the masturbatee giving feed-back!

The masturbator is applying a smooth and gentle handjob, involving cock and ball-sack of his beautiful client (a client he is, I believe).

Turns out the masturbatee is very close to his PONR when the clip starts to roll! He tells the Doc –right in time– that he is about to cum. A moment later we witness a first voluminous emission!

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The next climax, also an emission, is triggered after another timely warning of the masturbatee. Dr. CumControl apparently has full control as he is gently teasing his clients big balls while the young gun is spilling his milk a second time!

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Despite his client´s clear warning of ever being so close to PONR Dr. CumControl has his masturbatee release more of his juices (the biggest portion) by triggering a first ejaculation!

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While the stud is cumming in about 7 pulses the expert masturbator just holds the throbbing cock at the base of his shaft throughout the duration of the reflex.

Dr. CumControl then coaxes out another minor emission through smooth scrotum stroking.

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After this emission the Doc uses the fresh ´n creamy splooge from the ejaculation as lotion, spreading it over the chest of the masturbatee.

Before the 5th climax, the gentle handjobber is warned clearly so as to be able to trigger a 4th emission, while the receiver is badly longing for a complete, ejaculatory climax.

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Soon enough Dr. CumControl is jerking his moaning masturbatee all the way thru his 6th –lengthy- climax, a second ejaculation with which the multi-cummer pumps out what of his jizz was left in his glands (not too much of it anymore).

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While jerking the last residue of semen out of his masturbatee´s penis the beautiful rod loses his erection. The Doc let go and the stud is joyfully thanking his masturbator.

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Well, there is a load of topics „hidden“ in this clip and I used my highlighting description of it to place a lot of cross-linking within the text. However, I initially was aiming at the possible themes you could realize in the observed performance. So, how could you interpret the action displayed?

Interestingly enough the guy´s scrotum remains unchanged in the process (although it apparently is not tied), so we don´t have an example for the secret life of balls we usually observe in such a situation!

And what´s really going on?

We are witnessing the grand finale of a benign Dom/Sub handjob scenario. The masturbatee is not allowed to cum (i.e. ejaculate), thus the exclamatory feedback we hear from the strapped Sub.

This psycho-sexual setting with the deal to avoid ejaculation by all means serves the meta-goal to keep the Sub very close to PONR for as long as possible or have him experience several oh-so-sweet almost-ejaculations (which equal emissions) before allowing him a full-blown release. And Dr. CumControl (Dom) manages to deliver! – This is my interpretation. Still, all the suggestions listed above are contained more or less in this extraordinary handjob-finish.

By the way, I enjoyed this video tremendously not just for the multiple juicy climaxes but because of the empathic stroking the Doc applies! I both would love to be masturbated in this fashion as I would caress a partners genitals alike.

The clip is running 2min 52secs with sound (edited), format is mp4 and memory takes 68,4 MB.


Neglected Post (7) – Fucking To Bliss

June 12, 2016

Original post: Fucking To Bliss

Less than 185 views since August 21, 2012

Second headline: Orgasm As Spiritual Experience

I admit it, the original post is rather „high end“, and less juicy body-function describing which you encounter in the majority of my posts. However, you´d only know that after you have read it. Clicks count, yet you follow a link just in case a headline appeals to you

Seems as if the original headline was not attracting many visitors!? I have no clue for why, after almost four years now, this closing post on (the „chapter“ of) complete orgasm garnered not more than 180 clicks (other contributions addressing this topic are similarly unsuccessful, compare Neglected Post #6).

I further admit, that once you had clicked the original post I would understand a hesitation of reading onward. Because you discovered a lot of plain text and just a single pic towards the end of the post. Still, the clicking would have been counted, to say nothing of the fact that the content is as interesting as profound!

And the pic? It is truly special! Not only does it perfectly suit the presented information, it furthermore shows the one tattoo that is decorating the back of Nandisa! (But I didn´t mention that.)

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Final touches of the inking.

I am a convinced solo-sexual and I love cock ´n glands-centric climaxing. But I keep in mind that there is a challenging kind of bliss out there. A climactic condition that is gained only by certain sexual circumstances (explained in that original post)! For achieving this scarce kind of bliss a sexual partner is needed to begin with, and then some more.

Now the drawing/tattoo I designed for my back symbolises basic dimensions of such a sophisticated climactic state:

  • the penetration as the beginning of sexual unity
  • the act of fucking (in the wake of penetration) as a longing for ultimate closeness
  • the duality within such sexual unity
  • the symmetry and equality within that unity
  • the neutralizing of the three-dimensional space in gravity, and with it…
  • the overcoming of the concept of time while being sexually one.

I believe that solo-sex is more predestined to be enjoyed physically, while partner-sex (in love) offers an additional spiritual level that relies on the particular partner-unity-aspect. It´s just that a partner, a loved one, is not always around. Your cock and balls (and glands) are!

By the way, if you want to check about this series on neglected posts read this intro here!


Reel Fiction (9)

May 30, 2016

I Wanted to Sprinkle!

Really? There was yet another way of climaxing for us men? Reading about this little known phenomenon was so fucking hot. I definitely wanted to experience this. If this was true, and I saw clips showing this was the case, I certainly needed to experience this!!

Everyone was referring to this as squirting, because it was similar to female ejaculation, which is known as female squirting. One site was calling it sprinkling, which I like better. Because us men do squirt cum, yet this massive ejection looks like sprinkling a fluid lastingly, just like a fountain does.

The masturbatory method to achieve this –so the writings tell- was simple and described alike by different sources, and it was visually confirmed in those clips. Or rather the technique is simple – making it happen is another story. The technique? Just rub your cockhead, only your cockhead, maybe the tip of it, your cockmouth, until you feel like you have to pee. Continue and let go, let it happen, let out what wants to get out. That shall be sprinkling in contrast to pissing.

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We know that we don´t require to massage our glans´ to make us urinate. So there must be a difference in those biological body-reactions (sprinkling vs pissing I mean). I guess after you experienced sprinkling you can tell. That´s what the accounts were about. It was so hot to read what and how guys had felt when they managed to sprinkle. And every one of those lucky chaps was dead sure it was not pissing! Even the ejected fluid was not urine!

After learning about this kind of climax I decided to go for it at every of my future masturbatory sessions until success. I read that sprinkling can be generated before ejaculation as well as after it. Naturally I chose to trigger sprinkling first, but I failed. I triggered ejaculation with the recommended technique…!

At my second attempt I wanted to reverse the order of the desired climaxes. However, I failed a second time. I got off quickly before I seriously started. Applying the suggested technique I eventually felt very close to sprinkling, it just did not happen!? Finally I decided to spare my cockhead after this extended and very intense rubbing impact.

With my third attempt I really wanted to make it happen. I was quite positive that this time I´d make myself sprinkle, not least because I would not empty my bladder right before my session.

I covered my bed (again) with large towels for soaking up my expected sprinkle-juice and hooked up my camera – I had to capture my first sprinkling-climax!

Once more I read about this experience, about what sensations to expect and how the reaction was supposed to proceed. This all got me hugely excited. I planned to jerk me into ejaculation and continue with cockhead-rubbing until sprinkling occurred. And so it happened.

All the preparations added to my intense excitement. I primed myself for about 20 minutes in which I solely teased my cockhead. I focused on sensations which indicated that I was going to leak urine, and these feelings were certainly developing. I had to think about the mechanism nature had planted into our [reproductive] systems, in that it was almost impossible to pee with a boner and even more so while aiming for ejaculation. And yet, this sprinkling-climax was real, at least for some men.

While manipulating my glans the feeling of needing to pee increased. It was outlandishly intense. I knew I was on the right track, but I still required to get off first to be sure that this time my further post-ejac-glans-rubbing would trigger sprinkling.

I decided it was time to trigger ejaculation. For that I jerked the shaft of my cock in full grip. My testicles were drawn up immediately, this I clearly sensed. I tried to avoid involving my helmet for keeping the different kinds of impact separated.

I really had to jerk me ever faster with a tight grip to have my system react in the common way, in reaching and passing PONR that is. Eventually my full penile impact did the trick (at 84 secs into the clip) and I spurted my modest load of cum.

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After the reflex had subsided I continued stroking my glans only. I relaxed and focussed on giving in to any urge of needing to pee. Quickly these particular sensations returned and I only thought about letting it happen, not to hold back, just surrender to the biological force.

It didn´t take long at all when it happened! My cock had lost part of his rigidity, my head had become more sensitive after ejaculation and I was so excited to surrender into release. While I let go I kept on stroking – and boy did I sprinkle!!

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I showered myself and it seemed my system couldn´t stop expelling my warm … water (?)! What an experience!! This was wild and awesome, relieving and pleasurable! I kept rubbing my helmet and I sprinkled until my reservoirs (which?) were empty. I felt totally satisfied, what a massive yet mild climax this was.

But was this real sprinkling? I found that my „water“ was in fact light urine and not the stuff described by guys as being something different from all we know: clear, thinner than precum, a bit slick and definitely no urine (neither smelling nor tasting like piss does).

On the other hand my system expelled my produce not in a slow ´n steady stream like when pissing, but in extended pumping pulses – I checked with the video I was very happy to having had taped.

I guess it was something like sprinkling after all. Due to the fact that I didn´t relieve myself prior to my masturbatory session there had to be urine in the sprinkling release. Now that my system managed to respond to the glans-teasing in the desired way I will attempt to make myself sprinkle after having emptied my bladder right before the session. I will also try to trigger sprinkling first and cum later. I´m looking forward to that, very much so!!

(Again, here is the reel!)


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