Deep Edging (2)

March 3, 2011

I consider Richard an experienced master of edging. He runs a great homepage and his excursions into the realms of (edging-) bliss are based on tantric knowledge. Read about his findings while ascending „The Hill of Pleasure“ via three stages:

Excitement Stage
Yes, excitement is the first stage of edging. When I first approach cumming, I automatically breathe much more deeply and audibly, my butthole clenches up, my prostate moves a bit forward, the canal from my anus to my prostate arches and stiffens and my cock hardens up. I must be very mindful to avoid cumming at this stage – often nigh impossible – in fact, this is when the danger of my prostate dumping its overfull load w/o any contractions [emission] or feeling is great, esp. if I have approached the edge too quickly. I have to work hard to get through the excitement stage successfully w/o cumming so I can then reach the higher states of more intense feelings and then altered consciousness.

Enjoyment Stage
After the excitement state has begun, say about 5 minutes, I calm down and my stroking is of course very slow to avoid cumming – often only with the slightest vibration by my index finger or slightest touch with the vibrator and I just cruise like this for a long time; often the charge dissipates a bit, though I do not realize it until I stroke a bit more and find I am not in danger of cumming. Then I oscillate between approaching inevitability [PONR] with slightly more intense stroking and backing off with a lighter touch, sort of going on both sides of the precipice of inevitability. It often also seems that it gets used to being so ready to cum and that my prostate can then hold more or tolerate more stimulation than in that first very hot stage of excitement. I especially love it if I get to inevitability [PONR], but am barely able to pull my finger out of my butt and stop stimulating my frenum and clench hard to avoid cumming. I love the tingle of almost cumming. I like to never completely stop stimulating my cock, but at this point I must. Then it is dicey to see how quickly I can resume stimulating. At first, I can do it after a few seconds, but later, after having been on the edge for 30+ minutes, the least touch even several minutes later starts this deep rumbling/vibration deep behind my prostate which is a precursor to cumming.

Trance Stage
Sometimes, if I am very lucky, there is a third stage where I can no longer keep my finger up my butt, because that greatly increases the danger of spontaneous cumming, so I just stroke ever so gently and very, very slowly go higher appreciating every separate tingle in my whole genital plumbing. Then I get to where there is a slight rumble deep down, not the vibration behind the prostate that signals I have started to cum (though, if I am quick enough, I can still avoid cumming), but everything is quivering with a new resonance and I ever so gently push it right to the precipice and as I get on the sharp edge of cumming, I stop stroking but keep my hand on my glans and frenum so this slight pressure stimulates me and then it happens: slight convulsions exactly like when cumming but less intense. This is delicious beyond words and after doing it for several minutes with a continuous feeling of fluid flowing (rather than the dam building up about to burst) I guess I let it down a bit. I take it this is what others refer to as “dry orgasm”. It is definitely other worldly, totally absorbing and very empowering, though after doing this several times in an hour and a half, I feel a bit tired in my genitals, but eager to return as soon as possible. My eyes go up inside my head, eyelids not tightly closed – even slightly ajar – and energy pouring up to my highest chakra.


These three stages are only a rough conceptualization putting arbitrary edges on feelings and states having no sharp edges. I recycle around from 1. to 2. to 3. and back to 1. again and the cycle repeats several times before I take a piss break or stop for a longer time feeling totally fulfilled. Letting myself relax into stages 2. and, perhaps, 3. (if I’m lucky) seems crucial to avoiding the excessively “edgy,” that is, the “on edge, brittle” feeling after raising so much energy and juice in our genitals. This seems to affect us all a bit differently, but I find I do not get so-called “blue balls” and I do not get this nervous edginess if (and only if) I let myself thoroughly relax into the deliciousness of riding the edge and let it go until my cock tells me I am bored and it is time to give it a rest. In this case, I lie back and savor how good it has been and consciously let the chi, the erotic energy, flow from my genitals to all the rest of my body, esp. my head (“crown chakra”). I sometimes do this physically by tracing the good vibes away from my crotch with my fingers, but I always do it mentally by feeling/imagining the good energy being distributed to the rest of my body.

In my next post I will take a look at three preferred ways to finish the act of edging. Because, unfortunately, even the best things in life require a break to be enjoyed over and over again.

15 Responses to “Deep Edging (2)”

  1. jboy Says:

    I learned Tantric Masturbation from the website Richard used to run, and I’m now exploring more on your blog. Thanks to both of you! Only I wish I could share this prolonged pleasure with someone.

    • festival42 Says:

      How long can u edge without ejaculation? I edged for 16 hours yesterday with only 4 minor spillages. I’m at it again today. Edging is great.

      • jboy Says:

        16 hours! Wow, that’s great. I just enjoy the edge for a couple of hours and stop without ejaculation but lots of precum. Then later when I find more time, I do the same. I cum once a week when my balls get too heavy between my legs.

      • Anonymous Says:

        Good to hear you can do this. Most men can’t do this for a week without ejaculation!

      • Wesley Says:

        My record is 14 days without ejaculation or dribbling (only pre-cum dribbles) – each session anything from 10 min. to two hours at a time.

      • festival42 Says:

        I like what Wesley says. Two hour sessions frequently and cumming every two weeks is very good. Keep edging and eventually you will be able to enjoy longer periods without cumming. Then every time you begin a new session you will be close to PONR with precum dripping for as long as you like. Good luck with this project.

        On Tuesday, June 30, 2015, peaks-n-pulses wrote:

        > Wesley commented: “My record is 14 days without ejaculation or > dribbling (only pre-cum dribbles) – each session anything from 10 min. to > two hours at a time.”

      • addicted2edging Says:

        I force the totally naked masculine body to practice 57 partial ejaculations in approx 15 edging sessions ( each 40min to 1,5 hours / with breaks of 1- 3 hours in between ) . to avoid a final ejaculation with orgasm is the most difficult part of this ritual. the final last ejaculation is very unsatisfying and aching for the male body, because all glands are empty at this point ( the sperm emissions become more and more watery each time ! ) . partial ejaculation edging is very addicting . it is not the goal to reach a final great orgasm , but to practice the edging ritual.

      • nandisa Says:

        No doubt, you do practise the high art of edging, yet with another “twist“, I might say. You have a name for your way, wrote it yourself: Partial Ejaculation Edging.

        Personally I like the thought of – what I call – repeated Emissions (= partial ejaculation). Fiftyseven is a huge number of ejections! Thanks for defining your ritual, so we can comprehend how you achieve the numbers. You truly drain your glands, hence no surpise that your final ejaculatory reflex feels “different“. Wouldn´t you rather tend to do without after you were spilling so often?

      • addicted2edging Says:

        I practiced the first partial ejaculation edging in 2002 with 2-3 ejaculations . In 2003 I had enough experience to practice edging with up to 57 partial ejaculations. You said : “You truly drain your glands, hence no surpise that your final ejaculatory reflex feels “different“. Wouldn´t you rather tend to do without after you were spilling so often?”
        This edging ritual is so much eddicting , that I cannot stop , when I begin . Achieving the first partial ejaculations is the most difficult aspect of this edging ritual. After the totally naked masculine body achieved the 13th ejaculation , it is more easy to go on . Often approx 24 hours or more ( with breaks in between ) , totally naked in cold moonlight nights on a field , or practicing in a cold rain . This practice is very frustrating for the totally naked masculine body . It is not the goal of this ritual to get a great oragsm , but to practice partial ejaculations as much as possible. The last days I only reached 11 ejaculations , because the glands were not full enough.

      • festival42 Says:

        I never intentionally ejaculate but I do have accidental spillage sometimes. This caused by continuing to masturbate without heeding the warning of being close to PONR. When my cock is feeling this pleasurable sometimes I think I will take just one more stroke and then just another stroke etc. That’s when I experience an accident. There is no perfection with Edging and no man ever can do this indefinitely without an accidental spill.

  2. Ann Says:

    I like to give tantric handjobs. I use the 789 technique to get feedback, works perfectly 😉

    Ann

  3. festival42 Says:

    I like to edge, staying at close to PONR all day long in my vintage white jockey classic briefs either with balls and cock over the band or just my cock through the Y-front fly. My nipples get erect and I stimulate them as well. Sometimes I wear a swimmer jockstrap while edging either with balls and cock over the band or out the side of the pouch. These fetishes are a fun enhancement for me. Keep up these informative posts and NEVER STOP EDGING.

  4. festival42 Says:

    Deep edging for many hours each day is the most rewarding and pleasurable activity I have ever experienced. Thank You Nandisa for teaching me this skill. I have practiced deep edging for many years now and although no one ever reaches perfection without infrequent mistakes, I am very good at this now.

    • nandisa Says:

      I am deeply contented with what you write here, and it´s great that you can take the time it needs for deep edging! Not everyone is blessed with such a situation for potential daily edging sessions. You are lucky!! 🙂


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