Fucking To Bliss

August 21, 2012

Orgasm As Spiritual Experience

When I speak of orgasm I do so in the sense of complete orgasm (as defined here). With this final post of the current chapter (on complete orgasm) I want to introduce the ultimate experience (complete) orgasm is able to be blessing us with.

Mind you that achieving this state may be a skill rarely achieved, not least because it requires certain circumstances to be fulfilled. One of the preconditions to make this spiritual experience happen probably is that two people fuck each other. The proverbial copulation is the key-act to find this kind of all-surpassing bliss, yet it may be a scarce affair, and you will learn why.

I will quote from two sources and the insights they supply are based on the premise of a heterosexual situation where the couple knows each other very well and where love is the motive to fuck one another (and eventually surpass all boundaries).

First I quote from a book by John Selby, he wrote:

The spiritual experience of mystic bliss and transcendent ecstasy seems to be almost identical to the total orgasm experience. Orgasm in a very real neurological sense appears to be the experience that weds body and mind, sex and spirit, into the ultimate human whole-body transfiguration.

As a couple delves deeper into sexual intimacy, differences between the genders do progressively fall away as spiritual realms become more dominant.

The simple truth of higher-level sexual relating is that dominance simply cannot be a factor at all [contrary to this]. In spiritual realms of relating, equality is the essential foundation of all dimensions of intercourse. Both men and women must learn to surrender themselves not just to each other in any kind of powerplay scenario but, more essentially, to the greater spiritual force field that comes into play during lovemaking, which unites their two beings into one infinite spiritual presence.

The most powerful psychic cement between a man and a woman is the generation of a mutual force field that encompasses the two separate bodies and minds. And this force field is generated most powerfully through sharing in the orgasm experience.

We raise a charge higher and higher in our bodies until the charge ignites an explosion that consumes our egos, that burns our tensions up into nothingness, that blows a hole in our conceptually limited sense of who we are, and lets the breath of God come over our senses, blowing gently like a springtime breeze into our inner realms of consciousness.

This is not for the everyday sexual encounter, it is obvious that Selby addresses an experience extraordinary. And this experience may be the result of a year-long intimate knowing and love-making experience of a couple, Selby speaks of „The fact that it takes many years of making love with the same woman to explore fully this spiritual dimension of sexual relating…“. In addition to that, I firmly assume that a couples simultaneous orgasm is yet another circumstance needed to be met to make happen what is described by the sources.

It probably comes to no surprise that people who are proficient in the teachings of tantra know better about this and may find easier access to this kind of ultimate sexual fulfillment (such as a fucking couple in sincere love). Let me quote from a – more plain – explanation of the addressed experience, by the Osho International Foundation:

Orgasm is a state where your body is no longer felt as matter; it vibrates like energy, electricity. It vibrates so deeply, from the very foundation, that you completely forget that it is a material thing. It becomes an electric phenomenon–and it is an electric phenomenon. And by and by, if they love each other and they surrender to each other, they surrender to this moment of pulsation, of being energy, and they are not scared.

When two lovers are in deep sexual orgasm, they melt into each other; then the woman is no more the woman, the man is no more the man. They become just like the circle of yin and yang, reaching into each other, meeting into each other melting, forgetting their own identities.

When the body loses boundaries, when the body becomes like a vaporous thing, when the body evaporates substantially and only energy is left, a very subtle rhythm, you find that it is as if you are not . . . Only in deep love can one move into it. Love is like death: you die as far as you think you are a body, you die as far as your material image is concerned, you die as a body and you evolve as energy, vital energy.

And when the partners start vibrating in a rhythm, the beats of their hearts and bodies come together, it becomes a harmony . . . then they are two no more. Now they are a circle and they vibrate together, they pulsate together. Their hearts are no longer separate, their beats are no longer separate; they have become a melody, a harmony. It is the greatest music possible; all other musics are just faint things compared to it…

This image shows a tattoo which illustrates perfectly what this post is about: a fucking couple finding bliss. There is no up or down (turn your head or the pic, there is no upside down), the couple is anchored in themselves, they float in time and space, the symmetry symbolises unity in harmony.

In my blog I try to introduce the many basic ways a man can find sexual pleasure and bliss. This last, now closing chapter, was concerning complete orgasm – a form of sexual climax in probably its highest state of developement or evolution, due to its transcending quality.

This just adds to the fact that sexual climaxes can be experienced in a wide spectrum of variations. Certainly enough to cater the desires, urges and preferences of any man, and woman.

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