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Penis Massage
December 12, 2018It´s as if penis was designed for grasping, tugging, jerking, pulling, stroking, kneading, shaking, fondling, rubbing, palpating, gripping, plying, sliding, flipping – you name it. Yet we know that penis´s main purpose is penetrating fitting human orifices, a vagina being the top choice (and the true biologically counterpart) among the few possibilities.
Penis better be stiff and rigid for the penetration-job. This is not required for the hand-ling of cock, realizing that the initially mentioned treatments are in fact how we basically encounter penis. And we do so with our own hands (for ourselves), as well as letting someone else do the hand-job. So, while this is always a great, easy and immediate way of handling ones own cock:
some of us may prefer (their penis) being handled like so:
Yet this standard treatment is but one of all of the refined ways a penis can be caressed. And at this point we need to apprehend, that massaging a penis (primarily for the massaging sake) is a very different thing compared to working a cock to make it spill semen, although both aspects can be referred to as (penile) „masturbation“.
Since this post is about cock-massage it may not surprise you when I allege that being massaged is way better than doing it on your own. Or should I say: attempt to do it by yourself. Simply because you only have one angle on how your arms and hands have access to your penis, or as some guy put it:
“Much as I want to be able to do all of these to myself, I can’t. They require my thumb to be in a position that I can’t master.”
He is referring to what he has seen in a seminar on Male Manual Stimulation. You will agree when you take a look at this chart of randomly chosen examples for hand-jobbing moves other that the full-grip-stroking:
You can imagine that massaging a cock deprived from the notion of triggering ejaculation differs significantly from how we usually approach a penile handjob. There is a multitude of differences between the two qualities of handling a penis:
- @attitude: slow & long shaft-treatment vs. jerkingly aiming for a timely triggering of ejaculation
- @agenda: applying a variety caressing figures (see chart above) vs. a couple monotone gripping movements
- @erection: treating a flaccid to semi-erect/erect penis vs. a throbbingly erect cock
- @purpose: erotic well-being with optional aiming for sexual climaxing vs. pursuing the release of sexual energy and the male produce.
Don´t get me wrong, penis massage is still male masturbation. And a highly sensual and erotic action may naturally evolve into a more passionate sexual encounter placed between male milking and penetrative immersion. Nonetheless, it´s different from the beginning and over a long course of the masturbatory act.
I believe that a semi-erect penis is quite ideal for a penis massage. Given the fact that the receiver is totally relaxed (being consensual), he shall most likely display his cock not fully erect. However, this (state) may change/vary over the course of the massage, quite naturally.
Let me conclude with some very hot moving images illustrating the pleasurable fondling of the cock-shaft. It really is about enjoying penis, for both the massager and the receiver:
December 16, 2018 at 3:35 pm
The sheer variety of massage techniques that can be applied to the penis and other genital organs is vast. At age 49, I am still discovering new and delightful strokes and pressure points. Everywhere from the rectum, testicles, perineum and penis and all surrouding areas can be worked not only singularly but in combination to create incredible sensations. I would encourage all men to explore this as a part of developing a sense of themselves. Any of these techniques naturally lead one to a more relaxed state, allowing any subsequent masturbation and ejaculation to be enhanced greatly. Thanks for sharing this important subject.
December 17, 2018 at 4:19 am
You are most welcome, Jay! Thanks for your appreciation!!
I allowed myself to highlight (bolding) some words in your text. 😉
November 19, 2019 at 8:58 am
The penis truly is amazingly designed for masturbation. It’s so conveniently located just an arm’s length away. Just imagine if it was located somewhere else – where we couldn’t get to it.
Unlike the females clit, the penis is designed for multiple functions: pee & penetration to sow our seeds. And somewhere along the way we discovered its also designed for self pleasuring.
And yes its main design/purpose is for penetrating fitting a vagina. For some reason mine’s never been good for penetration, going soft whenever I got the chance for intercourse. Yet for masturbation I easily got fully erect for my masturbation sessions. That is until I got older and I don’t really get firmed for my bates anymore. Getting a bit semi-ish. Yet I still enjoy masturbating and my orgasm so I do enjoy my daily morning bates.
August 20, 2022 at 8:15 pm
I’m a huge lover of jerking off with or without a partner