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The Queen of Cum Control (3)

June 24, 2018

Having his climax controlled in this way and being unable to prevent it from being done to him again and again as well as being unable to give himself that slight touch needed to cross over the edge, is the incredible fiendish yet wonderful aspect about using a man’s own natural need to ejaculate (and orgasm) as tool to let a man experience a state of being unlike anything else.

I have had clients lose the ability to speak (so as if being intoxicated, which is in fact the case), I had them sobbing and crying, their bodies winding and bucking, craving discharge so badly.

Reaching this state of body and mind, where another (strange) person is controlling your stimulation, body, penis and orgasm is one of the MOST intense stages of sexual expression and abandon any man can experience. Eventually this ultimate combination of extraordinary pleasure and extraordinary frustration is topped by the rather unexpected triggering of the so desperately „needed“ ejaculation! Once you truly experience this at the hands of another person, you will be forever changed, forever wanting to experience this agonizing bliss again, for no other experience even comes close to it in intensity.

As mentioned, the gooning state can be stretched, especially when I am able to read my client well enough for triggering emissions in him. This takes the fluid-pressure off his glands temporarily, only to confuse the tormented mind of the man even more. I´ve seen spectacular emissions due to the high pressure in the glands of the men. A few have been forcefully „pissing“ a lasting stream of semen drenching themselves with their produce.

This certainly is a dildo and a fake power-emission, only displayed for illustrative purposes!

Yet emission is not ejaculation, the associated muscles and structures await the trigger to run their spasmodic contractions – and they will be strong! So, finally, and this is intuition, I trigger the client´s ejaculation! He will naturally think that I will, ever so slowly, tease him right before PONR and stop, yet now I continue to caress his penis. In disbelief most men deceleratedly realise that they are carried over the edge. Men who have had emissions will begin to release their semen just this way, in a steady stream at first. However, the ejaculatory reflex is eventually initiated.

Not only the mind is fooled, the body is as well. The reproductive systems is also caught by surprise. Now that the muscles and attached structures of his system are allowed to execute their function, the ejaculatory reaction becomes an extremely intense process (every client reports this and I can tell)! Due to the accumulated volume of seminal fluids and the enhanced energetic charge, the ejaculatory reflex runs longer than the client is used to (or has ever experienced before) and it produces quite powerful ejections of semen either roped or sprayed.

I have counted up to 25 ejections, had many clients screaming while ejaculating from the intense sensations they were living through. Some clients were passing out when their ejaculations coincided with (or were preceded by) orgasm (that´s when their bodies were spasmodically bucking). These power-ejaculations are such wonderful and spectacular sights to behold! I am ever again amazed how much semen a man is able to store and expel in one go.

These climaxes most always feature very fluid man-juice wetting the client from navel to forehead and parts of me as well in the cases of ungovernable bucking and/or spraying individuals.

I (try to) tenderly stroke my client´s penis all the way through his ejaculation, this naturally enhances his ejaculatory sensations. After his pulses have ceased I often enough start to jerk his penis again in a firm grip to trigger a second ejaculation. In case I sense the client still carries sexual energy, I make him cum a third time for releasing the rest of what he had accumulated in the long hours of caged arousal.

While my client is coming down from his experience I quickly untie him and usually take him in my arms. Almost all men are totally spent and need time for recovery, some begin to cry, other men fall briefly asleep. All men seem very humble when they gain their senses, and there is not one client being not impressed and asking for a second booking. As mentioned I have to deny such requests and recommend to try it on their own or with their partners. At least they have learned how it can work and what potential they carry within themselves.

Story cumplete!

The Queen of Cum Control (2)

June 17, 2018

A successful session runs like this:

Depending on the individual client and general circumstances a session will last 3 to 5 hours!

After having taken a shower and being restrained to the bed I begin to stimulate and explore his entire body before I concentrate on his penis and scrotum. This way I quickly learn his response pattern I already heard about in our talk. Such an entire body stimulus is a good start and I will repeat this later into the session for building pressure and craving. Naturally a mans nipples, armpits, abdomen, ass, inner thighs, legs, face and more can be deftly manipulated to drive him to the all-consuming place I want him to be.

Certainly the core „action“ is a straight forwardedly edging of the man by stimulating his penis and (less so) his testicles. It is a slow stop-and-go masturbation with the aim to countlessly bring him ever closer to the edge, his PONR, certainly without him tipping over! Triggering emissions (rather later into the session) would mean a perfect control, for it shall extend and intensify the whole experience.

The process of stop-and-go so close to the PONR is repeated again, and again, and again and some more! During this extended denial of what he increasingly craves ever more desperately the man experiences an accelerated build up of his need to meet release of his energy and of his by now solidly accumulated reservoir of seminal secretions.

Knowing that he does not know what exactly is going to happen to him when and how, and foremost WHEN I eventually will allow him to fall over the edge, will drive him wild! Sooner or later he will enter a state where his mind empties of all other thoughts while a consuming single, pure thought remains: the absolute need to release his load thru a full-blown ejaculation. This need is double-founded, psychologically and physically (by filled glands).

At this point of urgent need my client finds himself willing to do anything to have me make him cum and allow him his relief. This is why the rules agreed upon beforehand are so important, because when so consumed with his need to ejaculate a man will agree to do things he normally would not consider doing at all. His state of mind developed into one of the ultimate mixtures of pain and pleasure within the sexual realm; his body is being pleasured repeatedly over and over, but denied the expected outcome of releasing the culminated arousal AND pressure by seminal secretion thru ejaculating.

I continue this patiently executed masturbatory process which must not be rushed! Again, the goal is to build upon each ‘edge’ to further increase the need and arousal, building it higher and higher still to when I am absolutely sure my client reached the point of ‘letting go’ in body and mind (all-out surrender).

Since his body will be completely open to me, his arms and legs spread as widely as possible for so long, his mind will carry but a single thought “I must cum”, and he now becomes like an animal with only the instinctual, single need of his body consuming him.

My client now has entered a state of trance where his mind intimately merged with his penis to become one. This is known as the gooning state. To be even more accurate, when the gooning state is achieved, the man’s body becomes for all intents and purposes an appendage to his throbbing erection and pressurised glands. The male then becomes freed of all social codes of conduct, and his craving, alone, dictates his reactions. As a result, a gooned out man will become very expressive and demonstrative: he may become very vocal, while his body and face might take on undignified expressions and poses, all in response to the intensely exquisite caresses his penis is exposed to and the frustration to be denied yet again.

Since my client is restrained and can not touch himself, he is with or against his will locked in this desperate yet so pleasurable state sometimes not knowing anymore what he wants: immediate release of the immense pressure inside of him (physically and mentally) or being kept on this unbearable high level of pre-ejaculatory arousal? A most powerful state of body and mind indeed!!

…to be continued!

The Queen of Cum Control (1)

June 10, 2018

They call me the Queen of Cum Control. I am in my mid-thirties and am the one female expert of the male ejaculatory climax. My clients book me, because I am able to generate unsurpassed and unsurpassable intense climactic experiences based on the ejaculatory function of the human male and correlative psychology.

For understanding this text you need to know about the anatomy of ejaculation and must have knowledge of edging (if not practising it yourself), at least the basics in both issues. I myself became an expert by studying these subjects for many years (since I was a young teen) in theory and in the field. I have served hundreds of men, and while each is different, the basic functions and rules remain the same.

The intellect of man and the anatomical physics of a man´s ejaculation make it possible to reach far beyond a regular ejaculatory or orgasmic response concerning its duration and intensity by outwitting the plain biological responses. In a normal romantic relationship an exploration of this kind of male climax may never happen. There is neither the need for it nor much knowledge of it, the latter certainly not imposing itself on anyone out of the blue.

Longtime couples may explore this subject, but they may never reach the level of expertise that I bring along. In addition it adds to the experience when a man is willing to give himself –his most intimate center and his soul– into my hands, me being a stranger to him.

Now, three things are needed to make the experience a thorough success: sympathy, trust, and a set of rules, a kind of contract as a guideline.

I serve each client only once, because (given the experience was „acknowledged a success“) served men want to repeat what they were able to enjoy, over and over again. But how could I handle such (if slowly) growing demand?

For starters an allegory: The secret behind each big stage-show or feature film for instance is based on a high extent of preparation and rehearsals mostly guided by huge teams of people. Only then you will experience stunning and mind-blowing results. On a smaller scale my service commences the same way.

I meet with the man willing to put his unidentified sexual capacity into my hands literally and we get to know each other while talking about what is going to happen with him.

It helps a great deal when the client is familiar with the function of ejaculation, when he knows about his reproductive anatomy and when he practises edging or at least has tried it. My basic aim is to keep my client at the brink of PONR for so long, that he not only enters a gooning state, but will fall into severe desperation longing for nothing but liberation from his ever so sweet agony thru a full-blown ejaculation (rather two or three as it turns out in most of the cases).

We agree upon these requirements:

  • the client promises to refrain from sexual activity, at least from ejaculating(!), 7 to 10 days prior our session (depending on the man´s age), for this will heighten his desire for anything sexual, his sexual responsiveness and will provide his sexual glands with a notable supply of seminal fluids,
  • the client is willing to have me take full control over him for the duration of the whole session, he promises to be obedient and trust me and my handling of him and his genitals,
  • we agree on a position the client prefers, which mostly shall be the one where he is lying on his back, spread eagled – arms out and spread, legs open wide and spread. This gives the greatest access to the entire front side of his body. The idea certainly is to provide him a feeling of being wide-open, granting myself complete access to his genitals and make him prone to my ministrations. The more open the position, the better,

  • we agree upon him being tied down! Common household things like belts or neck ties etc. will do fine. This is essential for the experience (you will learn why), mostly him being prevented from touching himself whatsoever! Most important here are concerns about comfort and safety. Changing position is to be avoided unless for safety reasons, because this bondage and control situation supports the overall experience,
  • we agree upon a vivid communicating throughout the course of the session, at least as long as it is possible. The client will enter a phase where he won´t be able to articulate himself, because he will be „lost“ in his intensified arousal. Hence he will reveal to me in this meeting his particular pattern of reaction while we also agree upon a code of unspoken signs (body language). My expertise allows me to „read“ men in a state of intense arousal. In addition I am naturally intuitive when it comes to male sexual responses.

I „warn“ my clients that they will most likely encounter reactions in themselves they might not consider possible. The sessions are staged at my place where men can act out vocally without concern. Every man rather needs to let go and give up any kind of control.

…to be continued!

Edging/Gooning – Displayed

November 8, 2015

It´s said that a picture is worth a thousand words. But that just won´t work, when we deal with feelings – and don´t show a face. Now, sex is about feelings/sensations. And sophisticated sexual acts, like edging, are about intense internal sensations in particular! Sensations which a picture – without showing a face – can not reflect!

So, moving pictures have an advantage here, especially, when they go with sound. However, you got to hear sounds that could be interpreted as reactions to sensations! – Ever wondered why there is so much moaning and screaming heard in the porn flicks? Now we know.

Two sexual practises, that cross my mind at this point, are very difficult to visualize – again when we don´t see a face. It won´t work with photos at all! And even moving pictures (film) may not reveal too much about the intense sensations and pleasures the „masturbated“ is subject to, while no or little „action“ is taking place: e-stimulation and edging (both are closely related to one another).

When we browse e-stim clips we often encounter wired yet untouched, flaccid or semi-erect, maybe precum-oozing cocks; sometimes presented in a time-lapse to enhance shape-shifting changes of the genitals, the penises eventually ejaculating more or less cum. We just can assume what the guy on display must have felt and experienced in his session.

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With edging clips it could be a bit more thrilling. We may see a guy slowly teasing his throbbing cock… and pausing. On and off, no ejaculation guaranteed (rather not wanted). While words are able to arousingly describe such situations (just search this blog with the tagedging“), the decoding of the accompanying visuals require knowledge and experience to have their hidden power unfold. Otherwise, and to profane eyes, it just may be boring what there is to be observed.

Time to introduce to you a brilliant, first-rate video from a guy going by the nick of Funky Jerker. He is an expert edger and he managed to edit a very hot clip on the topic – with no face in the frame, but a little help of explaining text!

The clip is titled Understanding Edging and Gooning. It runs an exciting 23 minutes and 18 secs and is a how-to and explaining-video on the basics of edging and the difference between edging and gooning (find more here and here).

Funky Jerker produced a superb video-lecture in good quality and with sound that vividly lets you witness his way of edging and gooning at the crest to the PONR. It is a must have for everyone interested in edging as well as adept performers. You can obtain it here from my video-library or watch right away here at XTube. 🙂