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Do You Burst or Do You Spill?

September 17, 2017

This blog explains and shows the diversity of the ejaculatory performance in men. One aspect touches the mode in which semen is initially ejected, beginning with a smooth flow, or shooting out all of a sudden. So, this post addresses the two basic take-off possibilities of ejaculation.

Among all those previous contributions with similar questions on the subject (like here, here and here), this entry concerns the most alterable ejaculatory feature. Hence you could answer the headline question with Yes and Yes!

Although the ejaculatory reflex lets our muscles (responsible for cum-ejection) perform involuntarily, we do have the opportunity to strengthen and control these muscles to a certain extent. This leaves us a choice of consciously deciding whether we want to release our milk in a flow before the inevitable reflex takes over and has our systems pump out the stored juices or if we want to burst after PONR.

This early double-post here and here tells you all about the parameters of the visible ejaculation and how shooting next to spilling cum can gain a meaning for the witness and the ejaculator.

What you read in the following passage briefly puts your focus at the ejaculatory take-off, an advanced point-of-view after you found awareness about the fact of the two modes and the sensations tied to them.

Bursting is a more „natural“ way of taking-off, because you automatically will try to hold back your ejection after you have passed PONR.

You do not need to learn this, you can and will do clench your BC and PC and associated muscles until they need to give in to the inevitable reflex = pulsing (i.e. ejaculating your semen).

Almost literally exploding with cum is always an awesome sensation as you built up the internal gland-pressure impatiently waiting for the reliefing moment to eventually gain your own permission (for PONR) and bursting open thru your cock!

A more refined way of (softly) releasing your milk requires a bit of practise. Because you need to keep your muscles (mainly BC and PC) stay relaxed while slowly approaching PONR (this is a controlled way of triggering the ejaculatory reflex).

The release is a mix between emission and ejaculation. I regard this as another kind of ejaculatory climax for which I coined the expression emisjaculation. Read about it in this post here! I personally find this kind of climax most rewarding! Check out an analysis of an emisjaculation here!

It is great to be able to alter certain aspects of our ejaculatory release, to experiment with the way we cum and chose how we want to experience our climax at a given situation.

Last not least you may like to obtain brief clips demonstrating the different ways of the ejaculatory take-off.

See a young lad beginning to ejaculate with a sudden cum-burst, pumping his semen in powerful spurts. His ejaculations seem out of control, a very hot scene!

This guy shows a controlled release, another emisjaculation in which his spilling follows a considerable outflow of his milk. He continues to spill three more times in a soft-pumping fashion!

A worthwhile analytical clip of an emisjaculation (part of a larger clip, with sound i.e. moaning) is this one here (already published on this blog).

Please participate in the poll:

What is your ejection take-off mode, and which do you favor?
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JO Buddies (2)

August 19, 2017

So it happened one day, that all the given parameters were perfectly matching. I was laying in bed comfortably and relaxed while my buddy tenderly teased my throbbing cock.

I was totally aroused and breathing deeply. My glands were filled to the max, at least it felt that way and I had told him about this. I felt so very saturated that I thought my bladder was full, but I sure hit the bathroom before we started to masturbate me. Hence I was confident to just let go of whatever was filling my system.

It was as if everything was throbbing down there, not just my cock, but my balls and my glands too. Meanwhile all I could think of was to let go and release my alleged torrents of milk standing by for just that. I desperately longed for drifting thru the sweetest sensation a man can feel in his penis and balls and glands.

I knew I was very close to the edge and I let my buddy know. He reduced his caressing of my ever so sensitive dick to light touches of my foreskin. Curiously enough we shared this particular physical receptiveness. We both loved to be triggered by the touch of a certain part of our intact foreskins (i.e. inner foreskin), because this area contained the most nerve endings which forwarded any of the softest detection of touch directly deep down into the system.

My buddy wetted my helmet with a gush of oil and slowly and lightly rubbed that special part of my foreskin. A stinging sensation was filling my shaft, the edge was reached, PONR was next if he continued. But he knew me so well for he timed his caress in a way that kept me right there. I started to howl because this sensation was so fucking permeating intense!

I thought I sensed he touching me right at that foreskin-spot, oh god, this was so incredibly teasing, next I felt my internal valves open, without reaching PONR, yet!

I let go – as relaxed as my system was –, merging into release as if I was pissing while still whining from the unbearable melting sensations. I looked down and saw in amazement a steady stream of whitish milk leave my cocktip: I was pissing cum indeed! (Similar to this illustration:)

My buddy lightly massaged my foreskin only to the effect of having the ever so sweet sensations immediately intensify once more. And this triggered PONR right away. All of my system seemed to spasm tightly, I could not avoid it. I knew that the beloved rhythmic pumping was next. – It sure was and it happened very slow-paced. Spasm after spasm blessed my system, each pumping my thin milk in splattering spray-gushes.

The extremely intense melting sensations within my system had been replaced by feelings of total surrender. I witnessed my reflex making me pulse for a long time or so it felt. My buddy later told me that the latter half of the total number of spasms have been kind of dry when each contraction produced but a mere drop of cum at my cock-mouth.

After my over-the-top pumping climax mellowed out I only could lay still and breathe, trying to regain my senses while my buddy covered my soaked body with a large towel. This is almost all I remember from the aftermath. It has been the most intense ejaculating experience until and since then. So fucking beyond words! – Believe me, we continue to strive for most fulfilling ejaculatory experiences for one another. This is what we love to do!

Story cumplete!

JO Buddies (1)

August 11, 2017

We met years ago in a so-called newsgroup discussing and displaying material showing ejaculations, a great place to visit. It was a virtual thing first, but after exchanging a lot of information and clips on the subject we met in person!

When we first met physically we were immediately attracted to each other for two reasons: we liked each other for being two handsome guys and pretty much of the same physique, and because we enthusiastically shared the same passion – ejaculating.

At the time we both happened to be happy with each our girlfriends, but our male passion was something neither of our girls found nearly as appealing as did we. They rather wanted to get fucked and said that orgasm was occurring anyway. They never understood „all the fuss“ about ejaculation, but how could they – ever!?

Our scholarly exchange marked just the beginning. Quite naturally we found ourselves experimenting physically with each other. This part of my life, to this day, is the best there can be!

In early jerking sessions we would handle ourselves, but soon enough each other, because this granted advantages solosexual masturbation can not generate. – Watch the full clip here of which the gif above gives you an impression and enjoy my buddy triggering a very intense ejaculation in my system after he had managed to generate an emission!

So, while at the beginning we would observe the other masturbating, listening to his commenting on his sensations and what else happened along the way, we soon enough continued our research with exploring each other! We were tasting about everything there is in masturbation to figure out the most gratifying experiences possible. Our mutual research became so elaborate that we grew into being true experts on the human male ejaculatory climax. We both love the sweet turmoil of cumming as well as making the other pump his jizz. We were plainly addicted to our shared passion.

Still, from time to time we enjoy jerking and cumming together, synchronized as we are, just for the sight and sound of a simultaneous ejaculation.

We regard edging as a means to intensify our climaxes. We enjoy very similar ways of ejaculating. We have tried it all, but the most rewarding, the most intense and lasting ejaculation is a relaxed one after edging/being edged. For that we need to take control of each other so that the receiver can fully relax and eventually lose control at the moment his reflex is triggered.

Ejaculating is a marvel! Our aim is to help the receiver stay as long as possible close to the edge and spill all the milk his glands have stored in his system. Being the creator of such a climax and observing it is second best to living thru it.

Before we get together for celebrating ejaculation, as we call it – and we take terms here – the receiver will follow a supporting diet and will edge 2 days without cumming, naturally. When we meet, he is primed. His glands are filled (pretty much already), he is very sensible, his balls are swollen and he will leak precum constantly when we begin.

First the receiver will edge himself for a while telling the provider how and what he feels. When the receiver has reached a certain high level of arousal, the provider takes over and is in control. Clear feed-back becomes essential.

Ejaculating marks the male climax resulting from the release of sexual energy having been concentrated within the reproductive system. All possible focus is in the glands, the tubes, the testicles and the penis. All secretions are part of this system and thus in focus.

Besides being experts on this subject, we know each others bodies so well, as that we perfectly are able to respond to the process developing in the other. So it happened one day, that all the given parameters were perfectly matching. I was laying in bed comfortably and relaxed while my buddy tenderly teased my throbbing cock.

…to be continued!

Estim And Pulsing Pace

May 28, 2017

This short post is only ment to be redirecting/splitting the ongoing discussion about estim and its possible effect on the pulsing pace. We garnered a record braking (almost) 80 comments on the topic for the preceding post – getting oriented becomes increasingly tough. 😉

There is a field trial going, so the exchange will continue, and I hope it does at this freshly placed post. Find enough scrolling space for maybe another 80 comments!? Thanks to all active participants, and new voices are certainly welcum!