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Beneath The Helmet

June 27, 2017
or: Sounding the Cockmouth

Note: this post offers a bonus file (see the final remarks)!

In my quest for finding a possibly not-thought-of masturbatory technique I turned to a friend who is an expert on male sexuality. I had little hope to learn something new, but my friend didn´t fail me!

I was sure I had tried practically all kinds of external and internal fondling concerning my genitalia and my reproductive system. I didn´t like the integration of „complex“ toys – a sleeve, a plug, a ring now and then was fine – and I told him that. E-stim, yeah, a nice thing once in a while, but I realised I liked it pretty straight forward and natural, uncomplicated. So, what else could there be?

My friend asked me if I ever considered or even tried penile sounding? And I answered that even the tought of doing such was a sure way to turn me off immediately. But he elaborated on his suggestion and caught my attention.

He emphasized that his technique was more a „sounding-light“ thing. The true aim was the teasing of a spot inside the penis that couldn´t be reached otherwise. In the same the sensations provided by this way of cock-fondling couldn´t be generated any other way!

I sure wanted to know more and my friend gave me a brief lecture in penile anatomy. I knew that penises are made of two different erectile bodies, a softer one (containing the urethra and featuring the helmet) and a more rigid one (featuring the stiff shaft). This rigid corpus splits into two endings below the pubic bone, the so-called crus. The other ending, the outer tip of this corpus, is covered (probably shielded) by the glans (helmet).

So far, so good. But then my friend revealed to me what I had not known: that „hidden“ tip of the rigid corpus is the same structure – anatomically speaking – as the female clitoris! And we all have an idea of how sensitive a clit is, namely because it is packed with nerve-endings (the highest concentration in a human body). That´s why a clit is protected by a hood. In the male this tip is fixed beneath the fleshy helmet – also for a good reason!

Back to the proposed technique: the spots only possible direct stimulation works by penetrating (i.e. sounding) the cockmouth with a suitable device and manually stimulate the tip from inside the urethra. And as if nature had considered such a practice, it has provided us men with a small cavity right there at the very location, called the navicular fossa.

The effect of the direct tip-stimulation is nothing short than electrifying (given the penis is erect!) – think of a clitoris again. Nature had covered this erectile body´s end with a glans, because otherwise sexual intercourse was unbearable for the male. But masturbation sure gives men the chance to exploit the anatomical conditions.

I was stunned from what I just had learned! I could see myself trying this method despite my reluctance toward sounding. Yet I carried hope and anxiety after my friend´s closing remarks: that everyone is different! While some will love this technique others may not be able to cope with „sounding-light“ and the intense sensations this uncommon teasing is likely to induce (he compared it with the like/dislike disparity of direct prostate stimulation).

With a final word of caution about a clean and appropriate probe and sufficient lubrication (lucky are those who precum continually!) he released me into trying a new and very alluring path within my masturbatory realm. And he promised me to write about his finding in his blog.

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Attention dear reader! The account above is a piece of fiction! I neither tried this masturbatory variant on myself, nor do I know if the effect described can be achieved, nor have I heard or read about this particular technique! You may try this for yourself (and are dearly invited to report back) always considering the recommended rules and suggestions in this bonus-file on penile sounding!

Go Search Your Easter Eggs…

April 15, 2017

…and find your testicles!

We don´t celebrate the upcoming holiday like some people in Japan do with honoring the penis (check here and here), but egg-loaded Easter strongly reminds us to particularly cherish the eggs stored in a scrotum!

Again I invite you to visit former Easter Greeting posts (here and here) – always worth a peek! Enjoy your retrieval. 😉

When Women Crave

November 6, 2016

When women crave, man, they crave! And you, man, better deliver. – But wait, may such an exposure be something the porn-industry wants us have to believe?

kovik-oral1 (artwork by Kovik)

Probably both statements are not wrong. Sexual relationships are highly complex affairs and describe a huge realm with their own rules and mechanisms. Anything goes in real life – parallel to what we find mirrored in porn or pop-culture.

Back to the headline. While it is true, that the (main) genders are differing physically and mentally, their behavior is quite similar (in strategy) when it gets down to sexual realization. As William H. Libaw writes in his lecture notes The Origins and Nature of Differences between Female and Male Sexuality from Aug 2000:

Both men and women have bodies that enable them to get vast enjoyment from sexual activity. Genetically, women have little in the way of estrus in the sense of experiencing periodic instinctive lustful desires. Although some women are subject to them when they are ovulating, lustful desires and concepts are mostly an option for women. […]

No surprise at all that men can become sex objects for women (and for obvious reasons). The reverse angle (women as sex objects for men) is only so much more taken for granted, because it was socially sanctioned for ages due to the fact that the majority of societies (since Adam & Eve) have been patriarchal and still are.

Now, the human male as sex object is quite alright as long as society will not begin to neglect, repress, or oppose male sexuality that is other than merely responsive to women’s sexuality. Yet in patriarchal societies such a respectful attitude required towards women is missing, it is the crude attitude with all its malicious characteristics that is still prevalent today!

But let´s take a look at what it could mean for a man to be encountered as a sex object. And very easily so, as a male is predestined to become a sex object for all and any attribute we can find in his sexuality. Check this selection of hot drawings:

kovik-foreskin (artwork by Kovik)

An unusual yet worthwhile object the foreskin can be. The same is true for cock-heads! While I did not find a drawn sample for my little presentation here, you always can relish the broad variety of this anatomical extravaganza in this blog!

gerb-ballsuck (artwork by Gerb)

The balls are not mentioned in particular, but a sure liking is mapped above. In this example the scrotum is nothing less than integral part of the craved genitals.

That penis must be THE object of desire is almost inevitable:

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(artwork by Jacobson)

Size may only be one reason for craving cock, yet a convincing one.

jacobson-size2 (artwork by Jacobson)

Penis is a wonderful tool!

jacobson-preference (artwork by Jacobson)

Certainly women know exactly what they need.

jacobson-anal

(artwork by Jacobson)

But there is more: a cock warrants access to a man´s produce!

jacobson-cumtaste

(artwork by Jacobson)

Now, the strip below (excerpts) is as hot as it is over-the-top: a couple of office workers impel an intern to cum. They trigger his ejaculation for tasting his allegedly sweet semen. And they do it twice!

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(artwork by Hank Trueblood)

Some women, however, do prefer quantity over individual quality! Be it concerning male milk in particular

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(artwork by Wes Crum)

or men and their sexual capacities in general:

armas-4some

(artwork by Armas)

Every man has to ask himself if he´d enjoy to be craved in the illustrated way(s). He better delivers what the partner lusts for, or he may fall from grace (compare here). There is one situation making a – the – difference in partner sex (which I emphasize throughout my blog): it´s the difference between emotional attachment or the lack of it in sexplay. The choice is yours, either be a sex object for the sake of sexual lust and sensations, or be one in the certitude of being appreciated and supported in your quest to meet rapture.

NoBody Is Perfect!

August 26, 2016

What could be the antonym-sentence of the headline above? I´d say: Some guys seem to have it all! Or, in a looser understanding: The grass is always greener on the other side…

We are all a bit different from each other, we are no clones, no androids, and it´s perfect that way. However, differences may generate envy (regardless that this is only human after all). Especially concerning our genitals and associated performances, we (men) are bound to easily develope a certain longing when we encounter other men being favourably endowed (huge cock, big balls) and/or performing spectacularly above average.

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Well, to a certain extend we can alter our physical appearance and performances (volume of semen, force and duration of ejaculation). Think of penis-pumps or the jelq method to gain more shaft-inches, or the stretching of the scrotum for low and lower hanging balls. As for the soft-skills (cum-volume or climax-intensity/ duration), chances are high to obtain quick alteration. But noticeable physical changes require steady and disciplined efforts.

What we desire may be out of reach, because our desires shall be part of our sexual fantasies, being thus unobtainable. And we tend to negate the other side of the coin (of owning a long dick or meaty ball-sack, or possibly spraying our juices in 10+ pulses every time we cum).

Sexual fantasies are as natural as they are healthy. We need to fantasize (or watch porn showing attributes we´d love to be featuring ourselves) to fire up our arousal, no matter if in solosex or with a partner.

Out of this dreaming it is more than „normal“ and common to mentally build a kind of sexual role model and ponder with pleasure over the question „If I could choose my design…“.

At times we may encounter a male being endowed in a way we projected for ourself. Or we gaze at an ejaculation in awe wishing to be able to perform alike. Probably rarely though we find an example of a man who combines our particular image of being „ideal“, of whom we would say without hesitation „Just perfect, this guy has it all!“.

Now always bear in mind that we as individuals may carry very different projections of what we would change if we could choose our design. Men „blessed“ with the attributes we regulars long for so much may just want to be as average as the majority, for different reasons (and/or experiences). It may come down to the saying: The grass is always greener on the other side of the hedge. In fact I believe this is the case, because being „perfect“ or „ideal“ can be a different thing in the eyes of different people. And very much so concerning the sexual realm!

Leaves me to reveal to you my personal opinion, based on the question: „If I could choose my design what would I look like and how would I perform?“. Here´s a teaser:

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By chance I stumbled upon two (!) clips showing this guy jerking himself into ejaculation. And what fantastic climaxes they both are, coaxed via such a gorgeous penis. I couldn´t help thinking „This guy has it all!“ when I studied the clips.

The chap is of athletic stature, owning a beautiful uncut penis and his ejaculatory performances are stunning. As we bear double witness of his massive ejaculations I assume his incredible output is based on genetics in the first place. We don´t know if he took supplements or did edge in advance. Yet notice that we observe emisjaculations! He is „pissing“ his milk before his reflex ensures forceful pulses (exposed well in the gif above from the 2nd clip). And the texture of his semen is just to my delight!

In the first clip we see the beau passing his PONR into ejaculation in real-time with sound, the scene is repeated in slow motion.

In the second clip we see him showing us another quite similar ejaculation, this time only once in slow mo.

However, I wished to have seen this blessed model precumming before shooting his juices so beautifully, as much as I´d liked to have seen more of his scrotum/balls. As for the latter compare with this clip! By the way, the masturbating man in this clip would make a good „This guy has it all!“ too, at least concerning his endowment and the performance of his cumming. He as well is releasing a strong emission before his reflex sets in.

softscrot climax

But I wanted to point out the softness of his scrotum all the way thru his climax, letting us marvel over his big swollen balls just before, while and after his pumping. Such is a rare scrotum-behaviour in the male, as the rule says that the sack thickens (to lift the testicles closer to ones body) when nearing PONR (or at reaching the Plateau Phase).

Personally I prefer the image of bouncing balls while ejaculating, – and that´s even another projection! Wishful thinking, not just owing to the rule in effect, but because the given state of our scrotum lies beyond our will-power.

After all it seems to turn out that with the diversity of male designs and the always changing capacity of sexual performance in adjustment with our very individual conception of „having it all“, the old adage is confirmed yet again: NoBody is Perfect! — Or maybe everyone is. 😉