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Reminiscing Polls

March 10, 2018

This topic couldn´t be finished without closing the last open poll (#60) and telling you the results.

I closed this poll March 1. Only 25 readers participated over a stretch of four full months while the post itself was viewed 153 times. I admit that with the headline Closing Polls no one could assume an implemented poll on the ability of achieving emission(s) prior to PONR. So, here you see the results:

But now I want to make up a balance and recall those questions I posed.

Turns out that all the questions can be easily grouped thematically. Here is the scheme:


  • 1- Are you able to separate emission from ejaculation
  • 8- How often do you trigger an emission before triggering ejaculation?
  • 21- How many cum-producing pulses (thus how big a volume of milk) do you generate on average?
  • 28- In which fashion do you prefer to trigger your ejaculation?
  • 29- Do you favour the idea that sexual climax can be multifaceted?
  • 32- What do you feature [roping/spraying] and which do you favour?
  • 47- What do you want most from your ejaculation?
  • 51- Ejaculation is a reflex, which part of it do you enjoy the most?
  • 58- How about the initial pace of your ejaculatory reflex-sequence?
  • 59- What is your ejection take-off mode, and which do you favor?
  • 60- How many emissions are you able to generate until triggering the ejaculatory reflex?


  • 2- Did you videotape yourself while masturbating and cumming?
  • 5- Which of the following is your true field of solosexual expertise?
  • 17- When masturbating, I prefer my ejaculation to be triggered thru:
  • 26- When working your genitals, most likely you will use as lube:
  • 39- For me my anal opening is…
  • 43- (updated 5) Which of the following acts reflects your true solosexual vocation?

Multi Orgasmic

  • 3- Given you are MO, how many consecutive climaxes are you usually able to trigger in one session?
  • 37- Given you are MO, how much time usually passes between your climaxes (within one set of multiples)?

Semen, Precum

  • 4- What is the texture of your milk?
  • 20- Given you love your own semen, do you share your passion with a partner?
  • 22- What happens with your cum after it left you?
  • 33- Given you produce clear precum, what´s your profile?
  • 40- I love cum/jizz/milk for…
  • 41- Which texture of male milk do you just love?
  • 44- What is your precum-pattern?
  • 57- Do or did you consciously govern your masturbatory pattern so as to affect the texture of your semen?


  • 6- Given you are an edger, do you «finish» with a climax or not?
  • 9- While edging I am able to achieve this intensity of arousal:
  • 10- When you are into edging, for how long do you last on average?
  • 12- Given you are into edging, do you prefer it solo or with a partner?


  • 7- Are you a vocal person when aroused and cumming?
  • 13- While masturbating, do you enhance your experience…
  • 19- In your quest for sexual bliss, do you follow spiritual guidelines?
  • 25- How do you experience prostate-massage?
  • 30- Did you ever get emotional thru or after orgasm?
  • 31- Do you happen to experience „wet dreams“ throughout adulthood?
  • 38- How important is it for you to achieve intense sexual sensations in your act?
  • 53- Male Sprinkling is rather uncommon + not well understood. What is your take?
  • 55- If I could design myself I´d change…
  • 56- Your personal take on sex and emotion:


  • 11- When with a partner, how do you prefer your ejaculation to be triggered?
  • 27- Your motive to be milked by a partner:

Genitals and Reproductive System

  • 14- What part of the male genitals (external) do you love/enjoy the most?
  • 15- In which condition do you prefer your (or another mans) scrotum while in sexplay?
  • 16- What part of the penis do you love/enjoy the most?
  • 18- How important for you is the state of your (or another mans) cock when masturbating it?
  • 24- What part of the male reproductive-system (internal) do you cherish the most?
  • 46- Which three out of the 10 charts of the recent posts «Cockhead Galore» did you enjoy the most?
  • 48- My erection. I consider myself being [grower/shower]?
  • 52- Is your scrotum´s skin thick ´n hard towards PONR and at ejaculation?

Blog and Readers

  • 23- What feature of this blog do you like best?
  • 34- Why are you here?
  • 35- Which is your preferred general topic in this blog?
  • 36- Which is the topic you regard presented best in this blog?
  • 42- Despite being covered spot-on here, which topic could you still continue (re-)reading?
  • 45- While seeking satisfaction of your urges, in which way did the content of this blog serve your quest?
  • 49- Do you share this blogs info?
  • 50- Proposed by reader Tom: „Pick all of the things you have tried out as a result of reading this blog.“
  • 54- Who is reading this blog?

The numbers in front of the questions indicate the order of publication.

Themes appear well mixed over the course of time while I tried to complement topics being addressed in the posts. As you see (and this was quite informative for me) some themes had me come up with many more questions than others, for whatever reasons?

Certainly, the multiple-choice options (answers) and the ratings are at least as intriguing as the ideas formulated in the questions. Yet I didn´t want to mirror years of polling in many many posts. This one is already long enough, I think.

However, these sixty poll-questions may give you some inspirations and impulses to dig for a post or another! – Those were the days, or rather years…

Estim And Pulsing Pace

May 28, 2017

This short post is only ment to be redirecting/splitting the ongoing discussion about estim and its possible effect on the pulsing pace. We garnered a record braking (almost) 80 comments on the topic for the preceding post – getting oriented becomes increasingly tough. 😉

There is a field trial going, so the exchange will continue, and I hope it does at this freshly placed post. Find enough scrolling space for maybe another 80 comments!? Thanks to all active participants, and new voices are certainly welcum!

When Women Crave

November 6, 2016

When women crave, man, they crave! And you, man, better deliver. – But wait, may such an exposure be something the porn-industry wants us have to believe?

kovik-oral1 (artwork by Kovik)

Probably both statements are not wrong. Sexual relationships are highly complex affairs and describe a huge realm with their own rules and mechanisms. Anything goes in real life – parallel to what we find mirrored in porn or pop-culture.

Back to the headline. While it is true, that the (main) genders are differing physically and mentally, their behavior is quite similar (in strategy) when it gets down to sexual realization. As William H. Libaw writes in his lecture notes The Origins and Nature of Differences between Female and Male Sexuality from Aug 2000:

Both men and women have bodies that enable them to get vast enjoyment from sexual activity. Genetically, women have little in the way of estrus in the sense of experiencing periodic instinctive lustful desires. Although some women are subject to them when they are ovulating, lustful desires and concepts are mostly an option for women. […]

No surprise at all that men can become sex objects for women (and for obvious reasons). The reverse angle (women as sex objects for men) is only so much more taken for granted, because it was socially sanctioned for ages due to the fact that the majority of societies (since Adam & Eve) have been patriarchal and still are.

Now, the human male as sex object is quite alright as long as society will not begin to neglect, repress, or oppose male sexuality that is other than merely responsive to women’s sexuality. Yet in patriarchal societies such a respectful attitude required towards women is missing, it is the crude attitude with all its malicious characteristics that is still prevalent today!

But let´s take a look at what it could mean for a man to be encountered as a sex object. And very easily so, as a male is predestined to become a sex object for all and any attribute we can find in his sexuality. Check this selection of hot drawings:

kovik-foreskin (artwork by Kovik)

An unusual yet worthwhile object the foreskin can be. The same is true for cock-heads! While I did not find a drawn sample for my little presentation here, you always can relish the broad variety of this anatomical extravaganza in this blog!

gerb-ballsuck (artwork by Gerb)

The balls are not mentioned in particular, but a sure liking is mapped above. In this example the scrotum is nothing less than integral part of the craved genitals.

That penis must be THE object of desire is almost inevitable:


(artwork by Jacobson)

Size may only be one reason for craving cock, yet a convincing one.

jacobson-size2 (artwork by Jacobson)

Penis is a wonderful tool!

jacobson-preference (artwork by Jacobson)

Certainly women know exactly what they need.


(artwork by Jacobson)

But there is more: a cock warrants access to a man´s produce!


(artwork by Jacobson)

Now, the strip below (excerpts) is as hot as it is over-the-top: a couple of office workers impel an intern to cum. They trigger his ejaculation for tasting his allegedly sweet semen. And they do it twice!

hank-trueblood-taste1 hank-trueblood-taste2

hank-trueblood-taste3 hank-trueblood-taste4


(artwork by Hank Trueblood)

Some women, however, do prefer quantity over individual quality! Be it concerning male milk in particular


(artwork by Wes Crum)

or men and their sexual capacities in general:


(artwork by Armas)

Every man has to ask himself if he´d enjoy to be craved in the illustrated way(s). He better delivers what the partner lusts for, or he may fall from grace (compare here). There is one situation making a – the – difference in partner sex (which I emphasize throughout my blog): it´s the difference between emotional attachment or the lack of it in sexplay. The choice is yours, either be a sex object for the sake of sexual lust and sensations, or be one in the certitude of being appreciated and supported in your quest to meet rapture.

Poll No. 54 Results

October 3, 2016

This is about us. Yes, you and me! Poll No. 54 is giving us clarity about who is part of this blog´s community!

OK, I just can assume that the majority of all participants are returning visitors and loyal readers (I hope this is the case). I collected 370 votes in total while offering a 4-fold multiple choice. Let´s explore our community´s profile from the numbers:

114 readers revealed who they are (anonymously for sure), among them 105 men, 8 women and 1 transgender person.

  • Sexual orientation: 30 people checked gay, another 30 checked bisexual and 42 checked straight, leaving 12 participants without indication here.
  • Age: there are more younger than older people reading this blog! 38 are pretty young, 30 are middle-aged and 22 are older, leaving 24 participants without indication here.
  • Sexual preference: 36 prefer sex with a partner (or more) while 25 prefer sex with themselves, leaving 53 participants without indication here.

Check the graph:


There are three free votes („Other“): sucking dicks; I am sub; Virgin – (thank you for indicating this, because it shows us that you are probably quite young, yet not shy to learn about male sexuality in-depth. That´s great! 🙂 ).

All in all I am very content that the choices addressed are quite balanced but the gender disparity which I did expect. Still I am happy that 8 ladies answered this poll while I silently hope that some more read my blog with inquisitiveness and joy!

Concerning the sexual preference I was surprised to find a lead of partner-sex over solo-sex. For some reason I assumed it being vice versa to the given result. But this is great news and I see myself confirmed in having published a mix of content covering partner-sex issues next to pure male aspects of human sexuality.

Finally you may want to know my choices if I had voted:

I am male, I am straight, I am older, I prefer solo-sex. 🙂

Thanks to all participants!!