Archive for the 'experience' Category

Estim And Pulsing Pace

May 28, 2017

This short post is only ment to be redirecting/splitting the ongoing discussion about estim and its possible effect on the pulsing pace. We garnered a record braking (almost) 80 comments on the topic for the preceding post – getting oriented becomes increasingly tough. 😉

There is a field trial going, so the exchange will continue, and I hope it does at this freshly placed post. Find enough scrolling space for maybe another 80 comments!? Thanks to all active participants, and new voices are certainly welcum!

The Struggling Cock

February 7, 2016
Bonus-file (a masturbation-technique) further down!

I headlined this post The Struggling Cock because it seems as if the penis we observe in the clip (I´m gonna review) is much more than “just” throbbing. The penis appears to be pretty agile within himself and this impression is not deceiving. However, it certainly is the man himself who is struggling!

I still consider the featured clip one of the hottest amateur masturbation scenes around. It is pure and straightforward and demonstrates well – by it´s set-up and method – the essence of partner-applied masturbation: the power a masturbator/-trix naturally achieves and the effect of his/her stimulations applied.

In particular: here is a man anticipating his climax while his female partner jerks his dick´s upper shaft in a fairly steady pace. The guy, surrendering totally to the action of his masturbatrix, answers the concentrated tactile stimulus with (involuntary) movement of his body at times while the muscles connected to his reproductive system apparently contract all the time. The latter in combination with the stroking impact lets the penis appear to be moving lively, a penile performance rarely seen in any given clip with a similar set-up.

I fixed an animated gif for which I connected clips-stills with the partners stroking fingers being always mid-shaft to give you an idea what I am talking about:


The constant shifting of the shaft´s shape is truly amazing! His testicles are struggling as well. Notice his nuts churning inside his ball-sack!

And not to forget, being highly aroused the guy is oozing precum:


The described observations appear even a bit more extreme while the guy is ejaculating! Scroll down to watch a gif covering that phase. But let me sum up why I love this clip (so much so, that I was using it for creating a hot reel-fiction story (please read here) earlier).

What am I enjoying?

  • We see an athletic man (naked) being masturbated by a (clothed) woman (faces out of frame)
  • the guy´s circumsized penis is nicely shaped/curved and bears a very appealing length and girth
  • together with his matching glans and his swollen balls we savor a beautiful, well proportioned set of male genitals
  • his partner is masturbating his cock in a very distinct way: she just uses her thumb and pointer for stroking the upper half of the shaft, the pointer rubbing the underside, the thumb the upper side of the penis
  • her pointer stimulates the magic triangle, her thumb flips over the helmet´s coronal ridge
  • she uses a steady stroking rhythm, she just speeds up towards his PONR and works him through his ejaculatory reflex
  • the guy is not interfering with her stroking, he keeps his hands away, he leaves her doing her handjob, or better fingerjob, he is completely surrendering to her teasing act
  • he is only able to cope with the sensations she is applying upon the upper part of his penis thru unvoluntary body movement and contracting of the different internal muscles of his reproductive system – this is the struggling of him and his penis towards his pending climax
  • he knows that at some point she will trigger his ejaculation by her way of stroking, but he can not know when this moment arrives
  • as observers of this situation we are in the same position as the masturbated man, which makes this clip so hot and exciting
  • eventually she triggers his ejaculation and the guy shoots his load, beginning with an explosive first spurt followed by heavy pumping of his accumulated volume of semen
  • we witness his milk wetting his shaft and balls
  • she jerks his (still erect) penis for some time after his ejaculation has ceased, indicating that she has enjoyed the whole session.


The presentation of this masturbatory act is exemplary and demonstrates a teasing hand-/finger-job delivering a high level of sexual pleasure to the masturbated. Yet as experts we know that we can reach even beyond.

The next stage would be a similar masturbatory technique that has the potential to drive the receiver crazy and lead to a very intense ejaculatory climax (please read here = bonus file)!

Beyond that stage we reach the realm of edging and/or cum denial, where the masturbator/-trix will try to keep the masturbated permanently on the verge of PONR, –read more about it.

I am sure you are desperate now to watch the clip I am referring to all the time. Well, get it via this link or read the mentioned reel-fiction story, where you find the link as well – enjoy!

The Ultimate Oral – Solo

December 13, 2015

From the preceding post you know that I consider deepthroating the „ultimate oral“, when two people unite in oral sex. Then how could this apply to solosexual fellatio? Isn´t such solo- superlative rather impossible? And if it wasn´t, what would be the „ultimate solo oral“?

The situation is a very different one indeed, when it comes to solosucking or selfsucking. If you wanted to deepthroat yourself, you certainly needed a long enough penis to be able to perform such feat, or your body better be extremely flexible.

I am sure that almost every human male dreams and fantasizes (at least at some point in their sexual lives) about being able to mouth-caress the very own cock. Quite a lot of guys actually do manage to reach their helmet with their mouth or tongue, and some are even able to deepthroat themselves being equipped with an average sized penis! Yet only few men are endowed in such a way that they are able to rather effortlessly fill their own throat.

Us men may envy dogs forever, each time we see one licking their own with ease. Yet at least we can exercise to become flexible enough to reach our wand and possibly swallow some of the most cherished limb.


But deepthroating!? You may ask yourself – and I do too – if those few men with really long cocks practise self-deepthroating? I would assume that they at least try, sooner than later.

In the preceding post I pointed out, that deepthroating is a skill not to be mastered without practising, for several reasons. Hence, even if you were endowed with a long penis you needed to master the throating skill, if less so for being super flexible with your body, for fully enjoying it to take yourself deep down your gullet.

I guess this specimen would suffice:


Yeah, such a long (and thick) cock would do. However, such a size is truly rare! And please have a closer look at this beautiful model of a penis – it´s fake!

The 4 arrows on each side don´t celebrate the enormous length, but point to recurring patterns on each side of the shaft that indicate a photoshopped elongation of the original picture – well done, at a first glance and viewed from a distance.

Back to square one: us average guys need to keep up with gymnastics to come a bit closer to our fantasies, only then we may achieve some average auto-fellatio:


Although this is hot in a way, it is far from the experience that the described „ultimate oral for a couple“ means for the receiver in that situation. For as an average selfsucker you have to deal with the arduous body position that may just reduce sexual impulse and enjoyment of the act.

In addition, the psycho-spiritual quality is another one with the selfsucking experience. Here you are provider and receiver at the same time. Your enjoyment as provider may be diminished by the permanent struggle of your lips and tongue to reach and stay connected with your cock until ejaculation is triggered. – There may be just very few exceptions to this rule (concerning both the physical ability and the mental scope).

As a receiver you will be proud to manage at all, and you will be much satisfied to release your milk into your mouth or on your face eventually (I must point out that I can not reach myself!). The finesse of caressing your helmet, frenulum and shaft may be humble given the situation. Last not least your body has the natural urge to „open up towards the world“ (headwords: arching your back) at the moment of climax – that´s the counterposition to what you are performing…

I know, I haven´t answered the question yet. Well, here goes: I believe the „ultimate solo oral“ happens entirely in our brain, in our dreams to be exact. And here I can speak from experience!


In many dream-scenarios I was effortlessly selfsucking my dick. While masturbating, so my dreams, I suddenly remember that I also can take my cock into my mouth easily (it just works without struggling gymnastics) and suck my head to trigger ejaculation. However, mostly PONR is occurring the moment I welcome my penis (deeper) into my mouth. Extended deepthroating remains to be an elusive scene, probably because I never have done so in the real word.

Those (wet) dreams can be totally real, and often enough trigger real ejaculation. I consider the dreaming of selfsucking the „ultimate solo oral“ (in case you do dream auto-fellatio). If you just don´t have wet dreams of this kind (compare poll #31 here), you may want to consider to learn more about how to achieve auto-fellatio (please check with this link).

Feel free to comment, especially if you have managed real-live self-deepthroating!! 😉

The Ultimate Oral – Couple

November 30, 2015

Fellatio is a most intimate sexual act. The fellator/fellatrix (provider hereafter) is taking care of the genitalia of the one he/she pleases (receiver hereafter) in a most sophisticated way (assumingly), because the provider is loving his receiver with possibly all his senses and natural capacity (toys even not considered). But that is not what I mean when I speak of the „ultimate“ (from this posts title)…

We all can easily visualise a basic fellatio scene: the provider is in close proximity to the cock and balls of the receiver. Fellatio may evolve from a handjob that may contain jerking, milking, stroking, squeezing, pumping, nut cupping, kneading and scratching, as well as anal teasing and probing.

In a next phase the provider will use his/her mouth, tongue and teeth for licking, lapping, teething to work the glans with its opening (the meatus), the frenulum, the shaft (sideways), the scrotum and the anal opening (compare here).


As provider you have a wide range of natural „tools“ – which I was addressing as natural capacity above – at your disposal: hands, fingers, fingernails, lips, teeth, tongue, palate, saliva, breath. Use them one by one or in any combination and you can imagine the potential for deep sexual joy for the benefit of your receiver. But again, this is not what I mean.

Instead, I believe that deepthroating stands for the highest level in oral sex. For the provider it is the most intimate sexual encounter, for he/she permits the cock of the loved one into the own body right were his/her personality and consciousness is located (the head).

For the receiver being deep-throated means nothing other than being eaten alive with what is his sexual core. And given that his semen will be consumed by the provider, the quest for a most intimate and complete sexual union is fulfilled – it´s the ultimate oral sex encounter!

taking him

For bothprovider and receiver, the psycho-spiritual aspects of deepthroating are of high value and importance, the physical sensations though differ a great deal among the two!

To the receiver, being orally copulated is a spiritual pleasure as well as a physical one. In full trust he offers his genitals (and produce!) into the care of his provider as the utmost gift he sexually can give. In return he may experience sensations as unique as they are intense.

Men reported that they feel an incredible tightness around the circumference of the penis just below the head with the most pleasurable sensation focused on the underside of the penis, where the head joins the shaft. The grip of a throat is beyond compare except perhaps the penetration of a tight anal opening and rectum.

The psychological excitement and spiritual quality for the provider is on a high level as well, given that he/she is in deep love with penis, with semen, with men to begin with. The fact that the provider will get to experience the closest possible encounter, or rather intake, with what he/she loves most, charges this sexual practise with a profound value.

However, the execution of totally swallowing a cock is only possible (and enjoyable for the provider) after a great deal of practice, because the provider must learn to control the gag- or choking-reflex as well as mastering breath control. Once the penis is fully occupying the throat, air is blocked completely. The provider must sync the depth of penetration and the pace of withdrawal to allow the taking of air through the nostrils.

deep-throat x-ray

Although we may find a lot of clips showing deepthroating situations, not too many providers are true masters of uninhibited cock swallowing (to the max). It is not an easy task, – just try to „play deepthroat“ with yourself using an ordinary carrot and you will realize the effort of taking-in a penis, of which the head may fill your oral cavity already!

If you have not learned to (easily) swallow an average sized penis by defying the choking response and controlling your breathing while mouth-fucking your receiver, your sexual appetite and satisfaction will quickly vanish. You want to sensuously love cock and not endure torture by fear of suffocation or choking attacks.

There sure are expert-providers who mastered this oral discipline, making it look effortless. I am thinking of two women in particular who are well presented on the net: Heather Brooke and Fellucia. Both devour the cocks and the produce of their respective receiver with passion and verve.

Heather max-intake

Here you see Heather taking-in the penis of her well-endowed lover, up to the stop! The screens of a clip are shown upside down, because this is the true situation in a bathroom (their camera was upside down actually).

And please watch a beautiful clip of Fellucia loving the wand of her man deepthroat-style, finishing him off by jerking his dick until he cums in her open mouth, after which she swallows his seed without hesitation (the clip runs 183 very stimulating secs)!

If you made it a pro (provider) and know your receiver, you will always be free and at ease to decide when and how you want your man to climax and unload his produce. Have it the way Fellucia does in the clip or as Heather sometimes enjoys it, letting him shoot down her gullet.


One last remark: you will have noticed that my description above is based on the assumption that deepthroating is carried out in mutual love for each other. That leaves the receiver in a passive, receiving role and puts the provider into the active part (such as introduced in the Fellucia-video).

The throatfucking so often seen in porn clips is downright rape (the assumed approval by the providers to be treated that way shall be mostly questionable) and that is something I never could endorse. – Be a true receiver for making the ultimate oral a light-hearted, playful, devoted and consuming sexual experience for you and your provider alike!