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Estim And Pulsing Pace

May 28, 2017

This short post is only ment to be redirecting/splitting the ongoing discussion about estim and its possible effect on the pulsing pace. We garnered a record braking (almost) 80 comments on the topic for the preceding post – getting oriented becomes increasingly tough. 😉

There is a field trial going, so the exchange will continue, and I hope it does at this freshly placed post. Find enough scrolling space for maybe another 80 comments!? Thanks to all active participants, and new voices are certainly welcum!

5 Years of Sexutainment

June 1, 2015

Yes, sexutainment is a cross between sexual and edutainment, and that is how I understand my blog today, a good five years in the making! In this post I want to make up a balance.

When I started I mentioned this in my intro:

I can neither foresee the makeup of content nor the pace of contributing. I do, however, know that I want to share my library and knowledge about the topics, which will supply information from science to prose and experiences to musings.

Well, I pretty much fulfilled my endeavour and try to continue doing so. This blog became a fine resource to everything dealing with the male sexual self-realization, sometimes from a females perspective (31 posts tagged that way).


Yet I believe that I even have reached beyond by providing expert knowledge of so many aspects of my theme! And yes, I did learn quite some myself in the process.

Although I cover the broadest range of topics with capabilities not even well researched (for example like here or here), I observe a strong readers-preference for just few themes, which are: emission, milking (forced), precum and ejaculatory performance (this aspect!), just to name the top runners.

Some stats:

  • up to 200+ visitors daily from all over the globe are choosing from
  • 239 posts, as of today (and do view about 3 per visit on average),
  • adding up to 860,000 all time views (just passing this mark now, WordPress count),
  • 101 „fans“ follow my blog,
  • more than 740 comments are addressed to many (not every) posts including 272 comments by myself as responses to friendly notes or requests,
  • 285 images are stored in my blog´s media library of which but a few are published already – many of them exclusively. Like this new pic nowhere else to be found:


I am proud of this blog and what it holds in store! And even more so after I reviewed poll #45 in which I asked for the effect my blog has on you. Take a look at the votes:

poll #45

This testimonial speaks for itself and I dearly appreciate the „Other Answer“ which sums it all up! Thank you all very much, return often and browse as much as you like within content never becoming obsolete! 🙂

Suck Me Dry

March 14, 2015

I´m gonna tell you something I´ve never heard of before. It is a sexual practise only guys can come up with, I guess. To be more precise: two guys, sexually into each other.

Before I explain I quickly give you the frame, so you know a bit of a background to the story. I myself am a bi-curious male sharing my gay friend´s experiences here. Now this gay friend is deeply immersed into everything male-sexual. Since childhood he is exploring his sexuality and hardware and was doing so with emphasis from puberty (with a range of male love-interests) and beyond to this day. Male sexuality is his field of expertise. He should have become an andrologist, but is working as librarian, which is suiting as well I guess.

He is so fucking all-knowing, be it for anatomical, sex-applied or sex-mental issues. Now five years ago he hit jack-pot when he found a man thru Grindr sharing exactly his passion! Since then both lead a relationship committed to everything sexual, without a strong emotional bond. I was told many stories (not knowing his man) and I learned that their sexual encounters equally developed into the most intense, enlightening and satisfying experiences!

I guess they tried everything imaginable, as both are totally open for experimenting, yet always showing greatest respect and care for each other. Over the years they cherished a strong propensity for edging, because it combines several highly satisfactory aspects in male sexuality! My friend and his lover turned experts and are so much tuned into each other, that they are able to provide the other with whatever blissful goal was agreed upon. And there are experiences among those, which could not be reached thru solosexual engagement.

Here cums the story he recently told me: Both were joking around about sucking each others glands empty, well knowing that the term has nothing to do with true suction, left alone literally sucking away their glandular reservoirs. That´s when they were giving their idea some serious pondering.


As both were familiar with and capable of providing each other with the sweet reaction of emission in high stages of edging, they developed the idea that true suction must be possible at the moment when emission occurs, because within their duct-system all structures are relaxed, all valves are open then. The catch happens to contain two obstacles: emission just lasts few seconds and – even more tricky – any tactile impact, or even a change of the mental state while emission was in effect, would trigger the ejaculatory reflex immediately! And with the reflex the valves are shutting off (and on and off, as this becomes the pumping of ejaculation).

The only way to find out was to try in vivo (i.e. in the sexual encounter). And so they embarked on a journey with the goal to suck each other dry! Since edging was their favourite way of satisfying each other anyway, no attempt was a failure to begin with. In their mutual attempts to hit the right moment of suction, most every edging session was cumpleted with an emisjaculation, until the day when my friend’s lover eventually succeeded!! My friend described the sensations of being sucked dry as strangely-phenomenal. The suction sensation triggered an intensely felt ejaculation with still some cum pumped from the prostate apparently. I wanted to know the details and he explained it like this:

edge state

I was on the edge for probably a good hour and felt that my glands were filled up quite well, when we decided to give it yet another try. Until then we had „failed“ in alternating attempts, because either the mere thought of what was going to be (re)tried, or the touch of our lips at our helmets pushed us beyond PONR immediately. We had tried different positions and even edging stages. It became clear that we needed some (self)control, that the least sensory input was required as well as taking quick action at the moment of emission. For that we signalled each other the exact moment of a beginning emission.

I don´t quite know what was different this time. I was totally relaxed, even more than the times before I guess. Although we could handle each other perfectly – even in triggering mini-gasms and emissions in the other – we had decided that we would induce our own emissions. So I was mounted comfortably on this cum-rig savoring my sensations when I decided to commence my emission.

cum rig

I didn´t look at my lover and I expected to run thru a wonderful stretched emisjaculation (as it always happened before). Maybe this tricked me out of my usual reaction pattern? What happened instead was this: After another brief touch of my corona I felt myself literally open up and I told him „now“. I must say I did not feel him (or anything) touch my cock or helmet!? The flowing-sensation of my milk had just begun when – I don´t know how to describe it – when my inside was sharply and very powerfully sucked away, out of me!

passage of juices

My system (and probably any human male ever before) did not know this impact. I felt what must have been my seminal vesicles and, lesser so, my prostate, being passively and quickly emptied. This strange sensation, the sudden true vacuum led to a strong, almost hurting spasm of my vesicles and prostate which spread out into my pelvis and resonated thru my entire body and triggered my ejaculatory reflex. The pumping was extremely intense, yet I just produced few little gushes, as my lover reported later (that was the remaining cum my prostate still had in store).

I was spent after this climax and deeply in awe, as was my man. He told my later, when we analysed the successful session, that he wrapped his lips around my cockmouth when I signaled him, which was even before my milk saw the light of day. He then strongly sucked off what he conjectured I was holding in store. He drew a huge load, but continued his suction movement (without swallowing) until I merged into all over heavy spasming.

So, after all, there is a true suck-me-dry, yet it may never be easily achieved. Nature apparently never intended such to be possible. However, we will try to build on that and our next goal certainly is for me to perform this on my like-minded buddy. He so much deserves to experience what he made me to!



Don´t try this at home – I (Nandisa) almost tend to say at the end of this story. A story, that´s what it is, a piece of fiction mind you! I hope it is a hot one, in the same the presented act is purely hypothetical.

The phrase «suck my dick» (in whatever variation) sure is referring to oral sex in general and does NOT mean to actually apply a vacuum to a cock, neither with your mouth, nor a device. To suck semen out of a mans reproductive system wouldn´t just work like that, after all this is what the story is about. – Vacuum-pumps applied to a cock and/or balls may result in bloated-tissue. But that´s a whole different tale!

Wet Dreams 2

November 13, 2012

The so-called wet dreamsnocturnal emissions») appear to be a phenomenon, a mystery! You can´t predict them, you can´t force them to occur. In-sleep climaxes, as I would like to call them, may be accompanied and triggered by dreams with sexual content, yet not necessarily so. But when your brain generates them those visions shall be truly hot and realistic! Many times I vividly dreamt of performing (self-) fellatio although I never did in reality.

Years ago I started to take notes whenever my brain and reproductive system had treated me with an in-sleep climax. I never really took a closer look at that log until now. I want to share with you my experiences over the span of 2×12 months and so I randomly picked two from the recent years. Lets get down to the statistics of the years of 2008 and 2011:

  • the overall number of in-sleep climaxes, in 2008: 10, in 2011: 11
  • those climaxes were not evenly distributed throughout the year! Months without wet dreams in 2008: January, May, June and August; in 2011: January, June, July, November and December
  • dreams occurred in 2008: 5 out of 10, in 2011: 6 out of 11
  • rarely I (just) dream a climax, yet do not experience one physically along with the dream, such happened once in 2008 and twice in 2011
  • at times I could hold back an ejaculation at PONR (something I can not perform when awake), hence a dry climax occurred: twice in 2011, not at all in 2008
  • I woke up from PONR or ejaculation in 2008: 9 out of 10, in 2011: 11 out of 11
  • when waking up from climax I realised that I was breathing deeply, my heart was pounding and I had been moaning (in those cases I just heard myself while gaining consciousness) in 2008: 2 out of 10, in 2011: 3 out of 11
  • as for the closest time-spans since a regular, wake ejaculation (climax) I observed 2 days and 4 days in 2008, and 1 day and 6 days in 2011, which obviously invalidates the full-gland thesis. This year I experienced a dry in-sleep climax the night after I had made myself cum 4 times with a voluminous seminal output! I woke up from that peak-experience without being able to recall a dream.

Other notable in-sleep-treats of recent years have been:

  • in 2005 I experienced a double-climax twice (in February and March), once w/o and once with sexual dreams
  • in January 2006 I treated myself with two separate in-sleep climaxes (in the same night) while sexually dreaming along, the second climax was more intensely felt with a clearer (better remembered?) dream
  • in December 2006 I treated myself again with two separate in-sleep climaxes (in the same night), this time without sexual dreams, however very intensely felt sexual climaxes!

This all sounds too good to be true, at least in this statistical summary, I know. And I wouldn´t believe it myself if I had not note it all down! Viewed over a long time-span (of several years) those of us who are blessed with in-sleep climaxes can indeed look back and clearly see an additional aspect of their sexuality, revealing itself as a valuable and hot bonus to their wake sexual actualization.

I won´t let you go without disclosing the content of my sexual dreams in both of the screened years!

In 2008:

  1. I remembered that I was sexually dreaming, but was not able to recall the content of it (just that it was not about self-sucking)
  2. I was masturbating in a bathtub
  3. I was in the presence (and body-touching) of one or more naked women (saw boobs!)
  4. while attempting to take pics of my erect cock I came and shot over the keyboard of my PC, – I didn´t wake up from that climax (!)
  5. I was deep-throated without seeing the identity of the fellator (no gender, no face).

In 2011:

  1. I was looking at many beautiful pics of gorgeous cocks
  2. I saw myself ejaculating very thick cum
  3. I experienced a remarkable selfsuck-dream featuring both aspects: giving and receiving head at the same time (!)
  4. I was teasing and stroking my foreskin
  5. again I was slowly teasing my foreskin, I consumed my precum, I felt my PONR and saw myself cumming (in an emission)
  6. I saw myself ejaculating thick, gel-like cum twice, then eating my produce!

Wet dreams, nocturnal emissions, in-sleep climaxes are a mysterious sexual treat which are generated by our brains without any manipulation from the outside (for myself I do rule out that I unconsciously touch myself or rub my cock while asleep)! It´s all in the brain. Our grey matter provides hot visions and orders our reproductive systems to work accordingly. That´s miraculously awesome! And it does not belong exclusively to the adolescent phase, it just starts there. As young males then begin to discover all the treasures their sexuality has in store for them.