Witnessing Ejaculation – Choices!

November 25, 2017

Did it ever occur to you, that a man´s ejaculation offers numerous ways to be encountered, given you love both the man and his cumming?!

There are more ways of enjoying the ejaculating man for a partner than for the pulsing man himself. The releasing man can trigger his climax in different ways: he can choose from different „positions“, he can watch himself while pumping or not, he can wet himself or not, yet he will always experience the sensations of this kind of climax, more intense or less, out of the same point-of-view!

A partner faces many options to savor the sweet reflex of her or his beloved, so much so, that she/he must be spoilt for choice!

Each time s/he must decide on how to experience a given such climax with confidence, for it may take a while until a next session is providing the same opportunity. So, here´s a list to choose from:

  • do you want to feel him cumming inside of you (and in which orifice)
  • do you want to trigger him or have him trigger his ejaculation
  • in which position
  • do you want to be wetted or not (if yes, where)
  • do you want to watch him and/or touch him while he is pumping
  • do you want (him) to use toys???

Now think of the combinations possible among these options!

Even when we are observing-only-witnesses of an ejaculating man we need to decide on where to put our focus at!

We are always observing-only-witnesses when we watch clips showing a man cum. Thanks to the internet we have access to a plethora of ejaculation-scenes!

Not surprisingly we do find a lot of different cumming-situations and point-of-views in clips. And we consume what we encounter, don´t we. Good thing about clips and videos is that we can halt and rerun the scenes (even frame by frame!) so as we please. This may be the only advantage compared to the real thing

Almost naturally we are most curious about the ejection performance of the featured man, because – no news here – witnessing a man shooting his load shall always be a huge turn-on for everyone finding enjoyment in watching such clips.

However, as well-taught connoisseurs of the male ejaculatory reaction we may want to observe this process from an angle that reveals other hot features marking a pulsing climax!

I found a clip presenting a guy showing us his balls and perineum while he triggers his reflex. Such a „set-up“ is almost as popular as capturing full frontal milk-releasing. Why? Because we may be treated with what we are lucky to find in this particular clip: a hot study of the movement of his balls (before, during and after his reflex) and the pulsing of his BC and his Corpus spongiosum while he is pumping his milk, wetting himself plentiful! – I love this scene.

What makes this „study“ so very arousing are certain parameters this guy displays:

  • he is endowed with a beautiful large penis and nice pair of (swollen) testicles
  • his scrotum and pubes are shaved (personal taste though)
  • the skin of his scrotum does not become thick and tight, so that we can clearly observe the movement of his balls, – as mentioned above
  • furthermore we have a good view at his BC-muscle and his Corpus spongiosum, both nicely pulsing when he pumps his milk
  • we still notice him creaming his chest with about 10 spurts and realize the volume of his load!

This is the link to the clip!

Enjoy!!


Closing Polls

November 2, 2017

I have a final poll for you, it is #60 (look further down).

I started polling back in February 2012 when I „discovered“ the easy way to enhance many different topics with these small questionnaires. And your feedback now and again revealed unexpected preferences next to validating presumed evaluation. Here´s results from poll #45 as an example:

However, like I wrote in the note at the left side-bar where the polls used to be placed, then freely accessible from any blog-page and instantly giving answers to the curious, that I will not implement further polls!

I not only close polling because I do not like the currently „hidden“ implementation, but because I am at a point where I run out of smart and valuable questions.

As I said, my polls mostly accompanied posts, running along with them, some for longer, some rather briefly. Now after feeding this blog for many years it is increasingly difficult to find aspects of the male sexuality (especially attractive new ones) which are not already addressed here.

As for poll #59 I sure was curious if and how the first-time implemented questionnaire (in this post) worked out? I was content to find just enough answers (28 to date) to discern a trend, almost like with the once more obvious display in the side-bar! Thanks to everyone partaking! After all it worked out with this new way of polling…

…nonetheless!

The last poll I´m delivering deals with the ability to achieve emission(s) prior to PONR. You will find a good number of posts concerning this hot way of spilling, look for the tags emission, edging, slowly, and milking. Also search for emisjaculation.

Here goes, this is the link to poll #60!

Again a big thank you to all taking part in the polling since 2012. I hope questions have been titillating and results exciting!!


ArtVantage (1) – Masculine

October 14, 2017

Nothing better than to start this new series with an homage to a great artist! Actually I did not plan to, but the release of a movie about his life this year (check out the dates here) gave me the idea.

I am talking about Touko Valio Laaksonen, better known by his pseudonym Tom of Finland, of whom cultural historian Joseph W. Slade said that he was the “most influential creator of gay pornographic images”!

Indeed he was and his style is very distinct and recognizable. Please read about his life at this Wikipedia page and do follow the links to his art-work pages noted there!

Also check about the movie I mentioned at this Wiki-page, – mind you it aint no porno, but a revealing biopic!

Toukos impact on the scene was profound. Many artists after him dared to create uninhibited gay themed pornographic art which celebrated the very masculine male: full of muscle, stamina and xtra-large genitalia!

I offer you a small collection of art(ists) in „Toms footsteps“:

Tom was drawing men clean-shaved! Following artists implemented more than the obligatory moustache!

Toms genre preference has been hunks in uniform and leather boots. Yet he also featured Cowboys, Sailors and Construction Workers. As do contemporary artists, for example:

Toms men have been equal in size, looks and endowment (when presented in groups of two or more). Later artists seem to favour the senior/junior arrangement:

Certainly the art of Tom of Finland paved the way for numerous gay themed comics to emerge, telling hard-core stories in every imaginable way:

Featured artists in chronological order:
Joseph, Just A. Buoy, Pan Hanks, Valentine, Josman.

Note: Click pic to get enlarged version!


Do You Burst or Do You Spill?

September 17, 2017

This blog explains and shows the diversity of the ejaculatory performance in men. One aspect touches the mode in which semen is initially ejected, beginning with a smooth flow, or shooting out all of a sudden. So, this post addresses the two basic take-off possibilities of ejaculation.

Among all those previous contributions with similar questions on the subject (like here, here and here), this entry concerns the most alterable ejaculatory feature. Hence you could answer the headline question with Yes and Yes!

Although the ejaculatory reflex lets our muscles (responsible for cum-ejection) perform involuntarily, we do have the opportunity to strengthen and control these muscles to a certain extent. This leaves us a choice of consciously deciding whether we want to release our milk in a flow before the inevitable reflex takes over and has our systems pump out the stored juices or if we want to burst after PONR.

This early double-post here and here tells you all about the parameters of the visible ejaculation and how shooting next to spilling cum can gain a meaning for the witness and the ejaculator.

What you read in the following passage briefly puts your focus at the ejaculatory take-off, an advanced point-of-view after you found awareness about the fact of the two modes and the sensations tied to them.

Bursting is a more „natural“ way of taking-off, because you automatically will try to hold back your ejection after you have passed PONR.

You do not need to learn this, you can and will do clench your BC and PC and associated muscles until they need to give in to the inevitable reflex = pulsing (i.e. ejaculating your semen).

Almost literally exploding with cum is always an awesome sensation as you built up the internal gland-pressure impatiently waiting for the reliefing moment to eventually gain your own permission (for PONR) and bursting open thru your cock!

A more refined way of (softly) releasing your milk requires a bit of practise. Because you need to keep your muscles (mainly BC and PC) stay relaxed while slowly approaching PONR (this is a controlled way of triggering the ejaculatory reflex).

The release is a mix between emission and ejaculation. I regard this as another kind of ejaculatory climax for which I coined the expression emisjaculation. Read about it in this post here! I personally find this kind of climax most rewarding! Check out an analysis of an emisjaculation here!

It is great to be able to alter certain aspects of our ejaculatory release, to experiment with the way we cum and chose how we want to experience our climax at a given situation.

Last not least you may like to obtain brief clips demonstrating the different ways of the ejaculatory take-off.

See a young lad beginning to ejaculate with a sudden cum-burst, pumping his semen in powerful spurts. His ejaculations seem out of control, a very hot scene!

This guy shows a controlled release, another emisjaculation in which his spilling follows a considerable outflow of his milk. He continues to spill three more times in a soft-pumping fashion!

A worthwhile analytical clip of an emisjaculation (part of a larger clip, with sound i.e. moaning) is this one here (already published on this blog).

Please participate in the poll:

What is your ejection take-off mode, and which do you favor?
(polls)