For a Closer Look (22) – PONR

November 29, 2014


Watch PONR unfold.

Yeah, I know, we can´t really watch PONR, „only“ the result of it. And that is ejaculation. The reflex that makes a guy rhythmically shoot his load follows inevitably a short while after he has passed his Point Of No Return.

Or in other words, PONR marks the moment (lasting about 1 to 3 seconds) in which a man knows that his system will perform ejaculation, in other words still: his system will run thru the sequence of muscular spasms that pumps out his stored cum from his glands (though there are guys who run the reflex but won´t spill semen).

PONR itself is not a physical movement, it is a neural happening, a threshold that is crossed, which triggers the ejaculatory reflex. So you can not watch it (PONR) happen, but you can feel it. And PONR (and the seconds before and after) offers you the sweetest and most delicious sensations your reproductive system can generate (i.e. your ejaculatory climax). You can sense and feel PONR, because the nerves in the many tissues of your system run thru a status-change making your plumbing react.

ejac graph

You could pretty exactly speak out at the moment PONR happens (however, I believe many of us misjudge that moment), typically murmured by many in this phrase: I´m cumming! A change in the moaning and/or breathing pattern also indicates that PONR is reached.

So, can´t we monitor it? Kind of. When we observe men who decide to approach PONR carefully for truly savoring this exquisite moment. And I found two clips which let us empathise with the ejaculators, thanks to our climactic experiences. We can clearly comprehend what the respective guy in the clip is sensing and going thru, just by how he triggers his release.

Before I introduce you to the clips I need to put PONR into a broader perspective.

It is just wonderful that this threshold exists! We can take advantage of this and follow the path of enhanced sexual fulfillment (in contrast to straight forwardly beating-off or fucking for orgasm, activities which bear their own values).

Edging – it´s in the name! – is the masturbatory mastering of avoiding the triggering of the reflex and – for most men – avoiding spilling semen at all.

Many edgers may enter an orgasmic state where PONR seems imminent, yet is (just) not reached, – quite a skill, pure bliss.

Other guys want to spill their milk, but not (only) by ejaculating. They play with approaching PONR to coax emissions, which is another skill that requires learning and experience. For an emission to occur, the internal valves open making your milk rinse from the glands and out of your cock without the ejaculatory reflex being triggered. This reaction is also referred to as Ruined Orgasm (or Ruined Ejaculation), but that´s in another psycho-sexual setting. Solosexual guys who are able to deliberately coax emissions are in high control of their edge (PONR) and want to cum this way.

Some men seek to extend their sensations of climaxing. They cultivate to consciously „edge-for-ejaculation“ in a stop-and-go fashion. This secures a big volume of semen and intense sensations while passing thru PONR and into ejaculation. These guys slow down their reactions. After edging for some time they carefully close in on PONR. First they try to consciously coax emission. If successful, the (out)flow of cum immediately triggers the reflex. I call this emisjaculation.

The first clip shows a young man experiencing such an extended climax. He stands before of a mirror (perfect view for us observers) with PONR looming, attempting to consciously pass over his edge. He is in good control of that by keeping his hand off his beautiful cock, applying just another hesitating, but decisively pull of his cock-skin at 17/18 secs into the clip.

ponr mirror

The sensations of this skin-pulling coax an emission with initial milk appearing at his cock-slit at second 21, spilling down for 2 seconds followed by the spasms of his reflex (all off-hands). You can count 12 spasms by the throbbing of his penis. His ejaculation produces three distinct spurts of his thick cream. The clip offers sound, but the guy remains silent unfortunately.

This is different in clip No. 2. You hear the guy moaning and breathing (although these allow no clues for when exactly he passes his edge(s)).

He as well applies a stop-and-go technique on his stunning, oiled cock (on/off hands), but is jerking his wand in full grip to push himself further towards release.

ponr emiss

He will have edged for some time and is close to his threshold, so that he needs to interrupt his jerking for an enhanced climaxing. Off-frame he may play with his nipples!

He continuously applies lighter stroking/touching of his cock, he works with his BC (voluntarily I assume) making his penis bounce and throb.

At about 1:43 min into the clip his valves open resulting in a solid cum-piss 2 seconds later. He deliberately contracts his muscles to pump out all the milk released from his glands (off-hands, and this is clearly not part of an ejaculatory reflex).

After the spill he continues to jerk his rod with a light grip until he passes PONR at about 1:57 min into the clip (listen to his sigh), when he enforces his jerking to experience his pumping on full penile impact. Despite his emission he produces 6 spurts and milks all of his juices out of his urethra.

These guys are in control of their PONRs and decide to climax in full awareness of the unique sensations close by the edge. Sensations that we can address as climax, which lasts from provoking and passing PONR via emission and on throughout ejaculation.

Clip one: See a guy experiencing emisjaculation in front of a mirror (mp4, 37 secs).

Clip two: See a guy coaxing emission and triggering ejaculation a while later (mov, 137 secs).

And The Awards Go To

November 16, 2014

Think of cumshot-clips and imagine an “Academy” to honor the best with special Clip-Awards (in categories too)! You may assume now that, with all the beautiful ejaculation-shorts out there, it must be tough to decide for a clear lead. Yet I believe it´s easier than a first thought suggests. You just get down to it systematically. Thus it´s my pleasure to present to you a winner! At least for me that is (like I´m the “Academy”), and for convincing – if subjective – reasons.

Yes, we find loads of cumshot-clips on the web in an ever-increasing number, and one can not know them all. However, many submissions are of a minor quality, even if the ejaculation shown may be stunning – too dark a picture, out of focus, not complete, bad framing etc. Yet there are still enough clips around meeting a basic standard, letting us apply a bunch of categories and begin with the survey for our rating.

We need to be conscious about the two main aspects of the clip we want to rate. The first is the technical aspect, which concerns the setting of the taped situation, notably the lighting, the framing, everything we can see thru the lens and hear: the presentation of the scene!

The second aspect concerns the performance, notably the penis/guy who ejaculates, like how he triggers his climax, how he shoots his load, how he is endowed, the beauty of his appearance: the presentation of the star!

You may well have come across the particular clip I´m going to present here – and dismissed it. Because it is not perfect on the technical side: its main flaw is that it is tilted*! This is confusing (at first) and distracting, and it makes you wanna move on in case you search-browse clips. But what an ejaculation it shows!! And besides, most anything else meets high standards! Despite the few flaws, this clip garnered a lot of recognition and I awarded it in most categories. Here goes!

The winner of the genre Single Anonymous Male Jerk-Thru-Ejaculation is awarded in the following categories:


Set-up and scene – We see a neutral environment. The masturbating guy placed himself in a relaxed, leaned back sitting position, before a blank wall and neutrally covered back of a sofa. We see the bright corner of a day-lit window. There is nothing in this setting to distract us from witnessing his jerking and ejaculation. Quite optimal!

Lighting and Brightness – The scene is well-lit! The source of light is a window, of which we see a small part, little enough to not distract, yet giving us orientation and additional information (we are in a room and the source of light is (apparently) bright natural daylight). We can observe all necessary details (although the resolution may not be shot in HD), the contrast is perfectly balanced. The back-lighting is ideal to illuminate his airborne cum-ropes!

Framing and Display Detail – The framing is near perfect for this category. The guy remains anonymous, yet we are able to observe his cock and balls, his style of jerking, his chest (supposed landing area of his ejected cum) and there is enough headroom in the frame to follow his cum flying (as a matter of fact there is not enough headroom!). The latter is a reason why the clip is tilted (camera pivoted: widescreen turned vertical)!

Coloring and Replay – The clip comes in a natural, live-like coloring. No shrill colors to distract from the act! Cock and balls are naturally a bit darker than the guys caucasian complexion. The clip runs in slow motion, which absolutely adds to his performance! Thus there is no sound (although you find an audio track). Proportionate moaning would have resulted in a further award for sound, I´m sure!

award scene


The Man – As the frame reveals the masturbator´s chest (with right breast) and belly we do see that he is apparently younger than older and in a fit athletic condition, which is aesthetic and highly appealing! Chest and belly are not hairy (probably shaved). Hence the guy matches kind of role model criteria, again perfect for what we expect from a top ejaculation clip!

Penis and Scrotum – His genitals appear above average in size but not to a degree that would – again – distract us from observing him masturbate and shoot his milk. Cock and balls show an ideal proportion to each other! Notice that his cock is uncut and bends slightly downward. He wears a rubber cockring at the base of his boner (shaved pubes!). His balls are big and seem to be swollen (which they are supposed to be in this situation!). His clean shaved scrotum is thin-skinedly tight, but soft enough to have his testicles slightly bounce with each stroke of his shaft! A highly arousing sight!

Masturbation Style – The right-handed guy fist-jerks his cock in a mid-shaft grip applying a steady, unaltered pace throughout the whole of his act. He loosens his grip after about two-thirds into the clip while his cock begins to slightly soften (his penis never seems to show a throbbing-hard erection to begin with). His masturbation appears to be relaxed and laid back, even bored (remember it´s slow-mo!), at least very much standard, which contrasts totally with his powerful ejaculation!

Ejaculatory Performance – His ejaculation developes unexpectedly into an outstanding power-shooting! The slow motion makes this performance all the way more enjoyable. His system provides him with 12 cum-producing pulses of which we count 5 true powershots! After an initial mini-squirt he literally fires his first power-rope followed by more. The first ejections are so forceful, that his cum flies out of frame landing presumably beyond his head. Whereas following ejections cover his chest, giving us a very good impression on the quality of his milk. – This is one example of a voluminous power-ejaculation, which I am sure are rare, even if many clips of similar ejaculations suggest otherwise.


Quality of Semen – His semen is of equally rare quality as is his systems ejaculatory performance! The source of light (bright window) and the slow-mo make it perfect to observe the fluidity of his milk. It is neither runny nor creamy but mucous throughout! The guy shoots solid ropes which hardly rip into many droplets while airborne. His cum is highly cohesive, like thick precum (or egg white) and does not change its fluidity! This is unusual and stunning. Watch the puddles of his jizz on his chest and belly! We witness deliciously rare cock-slime.


This is a stunning clip of an outstanding ejaculation of mouth-watering semen. The athletic performer owns a beautiful penis and healthy big balls. Unfortunately we don´t know if and for how long the guy did edge before he decided to cum. He pumps a huge volume with unleashed force in a basic jerk-off act. The clip deserves to be awarded for most of the categories in its genre segment Single Anonymous Male Jerk-Thru-Ejaculation. And was it not for the tilted submission, I´d suggest to label it a benchmark presentation for its genre. – Bend your head, its worth the watch!


*The pic and anim-GIFs you see in this post are turned into the correct position by me. I couldn´t do that with the clip (unfortunately), I apparently lack the software to easily have done so.

Readers Preferences

October 31, 2014

That is preferences towards my blog by readers who answered certain polls I was running. Top results paint a picture which marks a tendency.

I checked with the answers of these questions (i.e. polls):

  • Why are you here?
  • Which is your preferred general topic in this blog?
  • Despite being covered spot-on here, which topic could you still continue (re-)reading?

The plain and simple tendency is this:

The visiting solosexual male is seeking inspiration and a quick turn-on by clips and pics and accounts of other mens experiences in the fields of ejaculation, edging and precum (all in the order of importance).


Thanks for participating in the polls. I shall ask for the success rate concerning the effects of this blogs content sometime soon.


I love to climax

October 17, 2014

A man can make climaxing an art form, because he can split what seems to be one body-reaction into several truly blissful experiences.

There is more than the two main reactions for sexual release – ejaculation and orgasm. Let´s take a look at what can be accomplished.

Mind you that men are different and not everyone can or will be able to acquire every possible way of climaxing.

So, what have we got:

edging; it is the ability to keep ones reproductive system very close in front of PONR. This can result in a state of constant bliss, as the sensations at the center of your body are so close to the ejaculatory reflex, that hovering in this state locks the highest level of arousal, which is nothing less than mind-bending.

Another effect of edging will be the sensations of vasocongestion of the cum-producing glands, mainly the prostate and seminal vesicles. It is a fantastic sensation to feel filled up with your own milk waiting to be released from your reservoirs. You may encounter the ability to trigger emissions without triggering the ejaculatory reflex. If you are in control of that you can gush some portion of your semen as often as you want while staying highly aroused.



In contrast to that, there are men who learned to climax without spilling any or just little of their juices. They can perform this dry climaxing repeatedly as often as they want.

Other men are able to multiple climax in generating repetitive full ejaculatory reflexes.

And yet another group of guys can trigger climaxes in their prostate. This is said to be very intense. It is a very deeply rooted reaction which may result in ejaculation or not.

Very few males are capable of squirting or sprinkling, as I call it. They ejaculate a substance which some mistake for urine, which is not (same phenomenon occurs in the female). This reaction follows quite different mechanics and lacks a scientific investigation so far.

The two basic climactic bodyreactions (ejaculation and orgasm) are made of reflexes that have a kind of set duration to begin with. The amount of arousal (= sexual energy) in your body will have an effect on the duration and intensity of a given climax. With (the method of) edging we guys try to establish a condition in which we savour the bliss of almost or dry cumming on end without losing the urge to do just that. Ejaculation would mean the release of energy (and cum) making it likely to lose that urge and bliss.

The sensations of an ejaculatory climax are in contrast bound to the duration of this climaxes core-reaction, the reflex that pumps up male milk. That is way shorter than the length of some serious edging. The time-span of ejaculation shows some variety, following (mainly) the arousal-rule, but can we alter the sensations beyond this automatism?

Well, let me tell you about a way to extend the overall time of a given ejaculatory climax and the possible intensifying of this reaction:

begin with edging and achieve a certain heavy state of vasocongestion in your glands and tubes. With these conditions you can follow this path:

enjoy the high arousal thru edging and the sensations of vasocongestion in your whole system.

Stay relaxed throughout your session; even more so, you must try to stay relaxed as long as possible before – when it happens – the ejaculatory reflex will automatically make your muscles spasm.

When you are very close to climax (PONR) and feel the urge to release your sweet milk, try to induce emission: stay relaxed and make your system open up those valves, which let your juices flow freely thru your cock, soon oozing out in a steady river of cum for some time, or even having you piss your milk for a short while due to the high pressure in your filled glands.


Keep on carefully caressing yourself in your favorite ways after your emission and still try to keep your muscles relaxed by all means. Your system will be bound to trigger your ejaculatory reflex, yet because you manage to consciously relax your muscles it may not happen right away.

The time between emission and approaching PONR, until passing this threshold, can be stretched this way. The sensations inside your system just increase until your system can´t take it no more (touch or thought can and will trigger you). If you can manage to stay relaxed now, you kind of slowly merge into PONR, which is an incredible sensation! Your muscles hesitate to begin their reflexive sequence; until then the sensations in your glands and root of penis are very strong, you feel as if something is melting down there inside of you, the spasm-sequence is drawn from your relaxed muscles and the pumping eventually sets in without you being able to stop that or delay it any further! The muscular contractions may develop to be very strong, especially when you maintained Kegel-exercises. Enjoy the exquisite sensations of your systems pulsing while not or just lightly touching yourself. If you can, watch yourself shooting your milk and feel your probably huge and warm load wet your body. If you´re vocal listen to yourself howling along involuntarily.*

Now, when your ejaculation is cumplete just firmly jerk your cock. You have enough energy inside of you, so that you will draw an orgasmic climax right after your just finished extended ejaculation. This happens due to your firm penile impact, which means a different set of sensations to your genital system. If your glands still have juices in store – and they have! – you will shoot a second set of cum-spurts or cum-swaps. Enjoy your intense sensations.

This range of body-reactions will present you a prolonged and multiple sexual climaxing in combination with pumping semen!

Indeed, the male is blessed by nature, because he can extend his sexual peaking by combining several ways of pursuing climactic bliss with his genitals as most superb tools.

*Watch and listen to this hot clip which illustrates a reaction somewhat similar to the description in the preceding two paragraphs. The clip is an excerpt of a larger one you can find in this post!


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