Neglected Post (6) – Orgasm & Anchoring

April 11, 2015

Original post: Orgasm & Anchoring

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The neglected post I recall this time is very interesting, because it not only shows the importance of anchoring to an orgasm (as opposed to ejaculation) for turning out intense and complete, it also sheds some light on the different nature of the two kinds of a climax.

Let me quote this sentence:

Picture an astronaut-couple fucking aboard the ISS in weightlessness.

and turn it into: Picture an astronaut edging aboard the ISS in weightlessness. And further picture him naked and eventually pump out his load!


Now this act should be literally bliss-heaven for him! The sensations concentrated in his system shall be even more imbuing due to the missing gravity! Ejaculation is basically self-sufficient, the system does it all by itself. As I wrote in that neglected post:

… energy is concentrated in the reproductive system and the reflex makes sure that cum is pumped out.

At this point visualise the flying cum-ropes or sprayed showers of milk across the sphere of the capsule, wow! Here you´d experience an ejaculation in its purest form.


Orgasm works different! Read my posts covering orgasm – (they all seem to be rather neglected).

Back on earth, due to gravity, ejaculation and orgasm often are blended into a climactic experience sensed as a singular reaction, we all know about this refuted belief. Guys who edge come closest to the experience of a pure ejaculation, if they decide to let it happen that is. Because they focus on the sensations within their reproductive systems. They´d chose weightlessness (I would) for their practise. So why not edge in a pool!? Astronauts are trained in pools to mimic outer space conditions. Well, I guess only the fewest of us have access to a secluded basin. But how about considering a filled bathtub?! ;-)

By the way, if you want to check about this series on neglected posts read this intro here!

Time of The Eggs – Again

April 2, 2015

Yep, you guessed it, it´s time to worship all eggs and egg-shaped balls, and you know what I mean! ;-)

Found this great poster on The Masturbator´s Sanctum, a really great blog by the way, always worth a visit! The poster just matches the Holiday that celebrates with eggs big and small.

on drawing balls

The chart curiously enough is about drawing scrotums correctly!! After having read the interesting lecture we may conclude that drawing balls is one thing (because an artist wants to make them look hot and for real), yet out in the wild really anything goes! Scrotums are true shapeshifters and we know that there are no limits in the appearance of our egg-filled funbags!!

Happy Easter!

Suck Me Dry

March 14, 2015

I´m gonna tell you something I´ve never heard of before. It is a sexual practise only guys can come up with, I guess. To be more precise: two guys, sexually into each other.

Before I explain I quickly give you the frame, so you know a bit of a background to the story. I myself am a bi-curious male sharing my gay friend´s experiences here. Now this gay friend is deeply immersed into everything male-sexual. Since childhood he is exploring his sexuality and hardware and was doing so with emphasis from puberty (with a range of male love-interests) and beyond to this day. Male sexuality is his field of expertise. He should have become an andrologist, but is working as librarian, which is suiting as well I guess.

He is so fucking all-knowing, be it for anatomical, sex-applied or sex-mental issues. Now five years ago he hit jack-pot when he found a man thru Grindr sharing exactly his passion! Since then both lead a relationship committed to everything sexual, without a strong emotional bond. I was told many stories (not knowing his man) and I learned that their sexual encounters equally developed into the most intense, enlightening and satisfying experiences!

I guess they tried everything imaginable, as both are totally open for experimenting, yet always showing greatest respect and care for each other. Over the years they cherished a strong propensity for edging, because it combines several highly satisfactory aspects in male sexuality! My friend and his lover turned experts and are so much tuned into each other, that they are able to provide the other with whatever blissful goal was agreed upon. And there are experiences among those, which could not be reached thru solosexual engagement.

Here cums the story he recently told me: Both were joking around about sucking each others glands empty, well knowing that the term has nothing to do with true suction, left alone literally sucking away their glandular reservoirs. That´s when they were giving their idea some serious pondering.


As both were familiar with and capable of providing each other with the sweet reaction of emission in high stages of edging, they developed the idea that true suction must be possible at the moment when emission occurs, because within their duct-system all structures are relaxed, all valves are open then. The catch happens to contain two obstacles: emission just lasts few seconds and – even more tricky – any tactile impact, or even a change of the mental state while emission was in effect, would trigger the ejaculatory reflex immediately! And with the reflex the valves are shutting off (and on and off, as this becomes the pumping of ejaculation).

The only way to find out was to try in vivo (i.e. in the sexual encounter). And so they embarked on a journey with the goal to suck each other dry! Since edging was their favourite way of satisfying each other anyway, no attempt was a failure to begin with. In their mutual attempts to hit the right moment of suction, most every edging session was cumpleted with an emisjaculation, until the day when my friend’s lover eventually succeeded!! My friend described the sensations of being sucked dry as strangely-phenomenal. The suction sensation triggered an intensely felt ejaculation with still some cum pumped from the prostate apparently. I wanted to know the details and he explained it like this:

edge state

I was on the edge for probably a good hour and felt that my glands were filled up quite well, when we decided to give it yet another try. Until then we had „failed“ in alternating attempts, because either the mere thought of what was going to be (re)tried, or the touch of our lips at our helmets pushed us beyond PONR immediately. We had tried different positions and even edging stages. It became clear that we needed some (self)control, that the least sensory input was required as well as taking quick action at the moment of emission. For that we signalled each other the exact moment of a beginning emission.

I don´t quite know what was different this time. I was totally relaxed, even more than the times before I guess. Although we could handle each other perfectly – even in triggering mini-gasms and emissions in the other – we had decided that we would induce our own emissions. So I was mounted comfortably on this cum-rig savoring my sensations when I decided to commence my emission.

cum rig

I didn´t look at my lover and I expected to run thru a wonderful stretched emisjaculation (as it always happened before). Maybe this tricked me out of my usual reaction pattern? What happened instead was this: After another brief touch of my corona I felt myself literally open up and I told him „now“. I must say I did not feel him (or anything) touch my cock or helmet!? The flowing-sensation of my milk had just begun when – I don´t know how to describe it – when my inside was sharply and very powerfully sucked away, out of me!

passage of juices

My system (and probably any human male ever before) did not know this impact. I felt what must have been my seminal vesicles and, lesser so, my prostate, being passively and quickly emptied. This strange sensation, the sudden true vacuum led to a strong, almost hurting spasm of my vesicles and prostate which spread out into my pelvis and resonated thru my entire body and triggered my ejaculatory reflex. The pumping was extremely intense, yet I just produced few little gushes, as my lover reported later (that was the remaining cum my prostate still had in store).

I was spent after this climax and deeply in awe, as was my man. He told my later, when we analysed the successful session, that he wrapped his lips around my cockmouth when I signaled him, which was even before my milk saw the light of day. He then strongly sucked off what he conjectured I was holding in store. He drew a huge load, but continued his suction movement (without swallowing) until I merged into all over heavy spasming.

So, after all, there is a true suck-me-dry, yet it may never be easily achieved. Nature apparently never intended such to be possible. However, we will try to build on that and our next goal certainly is for me to perform this on my like-minded buddy. He so much deserves to experience what he made me to!



Don´t try this at home – I (Nandisa) almost tend to say at the end of this story. A story, that´s what it is, a piece of fiction mind you! I hope it is a hot one, in the same the presented act is purely hypothetical.

The phrase «suck my dick» (in whatever variation) sure is referring to oral sex in general and does NOT mean to actually apply a vacuum to a cock, neither with your mouth, nor a device. To suck semen out of a mans reproductive system wouldn´t just work like that, after all this is what the story is about. – Vacuum-pumps applied to a cock and/or balls may result in bloated-tissue. But that´s a whole different tale!

Attention – Technical Note

March 10, 2015

Just to give you a warning concerning some of the clips you find on my blog: the once preferred hoster RapidShare has closed its business with the end of March 2015!

A while ago I started to use another hoster, yet still some of my clips are linked with RS, so now they need to be transferred.

The clips are not lost at all, they just need to be uploaded anew to the other hoster. Yet as my blog is only known to and visited by a very moderate number of readers I shall update links for downloading of my clips preferentially on demand.

So please help me and prompt me (via comment) when you want to see a clip you encounter still unavailable. Thanks! :-)


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