Posts Tagged ‘anatomical’

The PONR-Climax

January 30, 2019

I am a convinced solosexual. I believe that while you can have sex with another human being to a level of solid satisfaction, also due to things you can not have when doing it solo, it is you alone who can create unsurpassed sexual peak experiences. Because your pleasure actions, with immediate sensed internal responses, describes a feedback loop that no one else can have such precise control upon. That´s why you alone can push yourself to the true boundaries of sexually rooted intensity and total satisfaction. However, this requires knowledge, technique and discipline.

I became an expert in (male) sexual climax. I experimented all my life (in the midlife currently) and am familiar with many kinds of a sexual peak experience.

There are two sides of the medal: the techniques and knowledge of the different kinds of climax vs the actual (and ever-changing) responding of the own body, particularly your anatomy, to your self-stimulation. Your wellbeing, your health, your physical constitution play a very important part on how you will experience a given climax.

I have been able to provide myself with such intense sexual reactions that I thought I´d pass out, I totally lost control, my body was nothing but climaxing. But these extremes remain to be exceptional. And again I strongly doubt that someone else could trigger such within my system.

I wanted to tell you about a form of climax that I to this day never heard about anywhere else, it seems to not be particularly described (dry orgasm is similar, but follows a different technique). I experience it under certain conditions (see further down) and generate it when the circumstances are calling for it. I labeled it PONR-climax or dancing-the-crest-climax. I really love it!

You know what PONR is. The moment you become aware of the inevitability of the occurrence of your ejaculatory climax. When you are untrained, like at a very young age, ejaculation is experienced as ONE body-reaction. But ejaculation can be separated in different stages: first you reach PONR, then emission occurs, which will lead to the ejection of semen. With time and experience (after lots of experimentation) I had managed to separate emission from ejaculation and orgasm and am well able experiencing them independently of each other at will.

I always longed to stretch PONR, before the ejaculatory reflex was inevitably setting in. Or even better, to separate PONR from the reflex of ejaculatory pumping. The latter would mean to experience a dry, pure PONR-climax (not merging into the reflex). The pure sensation of „going-to-cum“. My goal was to achieve this somehow. I wasn´t sure if it was possible at all, because in my expert knowledge PONR always meant like the first stage of the ejac-reflex.

To my delight and surprise it turned out that while PONR is in fact a general turning point for a climactic reaction, it is not tied to the ejaculatory reflex in particular.

After a long time pursuing my quest I managed to establish separation! What you need is this:

  • a strong craving for an intense sexual reaction with a basically raised level of lecherousness
  • the discipline to edge yourself as long as it takes (length of edging depends on your level of arousal) while being secure with trigger-control
  • the attitude that cumming-denial is your climactic objective, all you want is a dry climax.

I guess it is important to develop an attitude, otherwise you wouldn´t get to the pure PONR-climax: ejaculation must not be your top priority anymore, at least not at such occasions. If you´re spilling milk at the end of the road, that´s fine. But you must prefer cum-retention along with favouring the lasting bliss-option: repeatedly dancing-the-crest reactions.

Edging is indispensable to charge your system with the sexual energy you later need for releasing thru this kind of climax. All sexual climaxes are a discharge of energy. The more you are charged, the more intense and lasting will a climax be (true for any kind of climax).

What you want along with the physical readiness for discharge is a mental/emotional state where you feel so deeply in love with your genitals and system to a level, that you believe that all of you is your sexual center and nothing else.

Right before it happened to me, I had reached this state. I was hovering close to PONR and wanted to find out if I could avoid falling into the pumping reflex.

My cock, balls and glands were brimming with energy (and yes, seminal fluids). In my timeless agonising condition of being so close before my turning point, the edge, I yet again reached for my cockshaft, briefly, but with enough „impact“, when I clearly sensed that I arrived at the point of no return, believing that I put myself on the path of inevitability. I definitely expected the reflex to set off within few seconds although I managed to keep my muscles remain absolutely relaxed. However, the reflex did not commence, the big initial clench just did not happen!

Instead I found myself being locked in anticipation for the pumping contraction(s) to begin while bearing down (as if wanting to pee). I thought I had managed to stretch PONR! What was happening with me? My heart was beating fast and strong when suddenly my pelvis and thighs began to involuntarily shudder and tremble increasingly! My sexual energy was finding it´s way to discharge otherwise than through pumping contractions. It´s an immensely blissful state of sensing those sweet melting sensations, while still expecting these to be taken over by the spasms of ejaculation any moment, then the next, and the next… but no!

The trembling lasted about 20+ seconds. Imagine, you expect your pulsing to take off from second to second, but you are just shivering from pure and deep sexual excitement, dancing-the-crest, not being able to return (i.e. stop this reaction) but yet without ejaculation being executed by your system. This was incredibly intense, totally mind-blowing and very confusing when it happened to me the first time. I even became scared that this strange climax would not end and I´d be damaged from it in some way…

But the trembling slowly subsided and after a short while I dared an attempt to repeat, for the sensations had been so gloriously outlandish. However, while I managed to stretch PONR resulting in some trembling again, I also triggered the reflex.

Only some time later I was able to repeat when the circumstances and situation were much like the initial road to this extraordinary sexual reaction. My body had learned yet another truly wonderful way to release accumulated sexual energy.

Note: This is a piece of fiction! Rather something like a thesis. I guess this kind of climax may not be possible as described. However, the central gif (in this case showing a dry climax, -even repeatedly, as the original clip revealed) demonstrates that something like the particularized account is achievable!

Amazingly Hung

January 12, 2019

When I was pondering over these photos of beautiful „hanging“ cocks (scroll down a bit) I began to ask myself: Wait a minute, what are they…?!! Sure, they are huge penisses, nothing else or less, but they certainly are unlike how we usually know penisses.

We learn, confirmed by general experience, that a penis, when flaccid, is hanging (pointing down); and standing up (more or less, at least standing say horizontally) when erect, displaying a change of size accordingly (from smaller to larger). A true shapeshifter!

This must be naturally so, because the erection-process does fill the penis with blood.

What then are penisses who are huge but hanging nonetheless?! They can not be fully erect, can they? They can not be flaccid, or are they? They can be semi-erect, but how huge would they grow until they reach their max. erectile state? On the other hand, would they substantially diminish in size if they further flabbiered? Think about it while enjoying this selection:

Truly astounding and beautiful!

To be clear what they are (in which state (of erection) they are depicted) we´d need to ask each owner of the given cock. My estimate is this: some men are indeed amazingly hung with a penis that will not become significantly smaller in their relaxed/flaccid state, while they will not grow significantly either when erection occurs!

Take a look at this beautiful specimen:

Now watch his erection-cycle (not complete):

This then will show his full erect state (associated muscles relaxed, penis bloodfilled):

This is what we call a shower when it comes to erectile performance. While such cocks offer a constant great image of themselves, they will not surprise with „hidden“ secrets such as -equally astounding- shapeshifting capability.

I believe that amazingly hung men (in the sense of my suggestion) are the exception from the rule. I guess there is no data allocated to allow for conclusions on ratio of distribution in the male population.

My own survey (poll) came along with these results:

The bias is clear and reflects what we learn and mostly experience. – Here we come full circle. Leaves me to say: please enjoy the penis you are endowed with, we´re all unique!

For a Closer Look (26) – Geysering

November 11, 2018

I used this term recently in a story. It is describing the forceful discharge of semen, however, not ejected by ejaculatory pulsing (which is driven by a reflex), yet in a free and somewhat lasting outflow (lasting in comparison with a cum-shot). For its swelling jet and soon attenuation we are reminded of a natural geyser´s cycle. The term is already mentioned in this text.

Geysering is an extreme variant of emission when semen is released from the reproductive system with a certain force due to internal pressure by accumulated secretions. This may look as if a man is pissing his sexual produce in a brief stream.

While in a regular emission the cum is rather oozing out of a cock-mouth:

geysering definitely addresses the forceful discharge of male milk:

It´s best to gage when the penis stands upright while this forceful release takes place, this is a very hot visual indeed:

Geysering may be achieved as A) being part of an emisjaculation or as B) a stand-alone feature.

While with A the geysering is directly preceding the ejaculatory reflex and most likely marks PONR or will trigger the reflex:

option B can´t be achieved without a high level of control over your internal muscles and trigger mechanism:

Now, there are two prerequisites needed to be met for performing geysering (pissing semen):

  • a man needs to have accumulated a truly substantial amount of secretions in his glands
  • the pressure of his congested glands must have built to a level which allows the relaxed release of his secretions develop into a forceful stream from his meatus (both is mutually dependent).

Mind you that this can not be established easily and just like that/on short notice. In other words, it needs preparation to make geysering a reality. It may take days of following certain rules known for enhancing cum-production like (e.g.) keeping a special diet and abstaining from emission and/or ejaculation.

The order of the day would certainly mean to apply edging for an extended period of time. And it certainly helps when you are young and your genes are in favor of a significant production capacity of your sexual glands.

Geysering is supposedly a rare thing although the examples displayed in this post seem to suggest otherwise. Geysering is a truly wonderful way of discharging male milk, on par with ejaculating ones produce in a high number of pulses. The best about it: emission is always followed by ejaculation if we want to (and often enough if we don´t want to, yet). Plus we can and will repeat! 🙂


September 12, 2018

I love the sensations of cum-saturated glands. The feeling of fullness within my secreting structures (i.e. seminal vesicles and prostate) and the heaviness of my balls to a level of aching is a condition that I and my lover seek to establish on a regular basis.

We always liked to experiment with the possibilities our anatomy offers us, especially in connection with sexual climax. When I first experienced such a state of being filled to overflowing after continued edging, I noticed something extraordinary. I could clearly feel my glands reacting when my juices commenced to flow! I don´t know why, probably because the reactions of emission and ejaculation were slowed down significantly?

Edging is the keyword here. But there are two levels coming into play. Edging is the external action posed/employed upon my genitals by my lover. Then there is this very important mental aspect. That what describes the sensations from changes inside of me.

Throughout the process I will stay relaxed and try to observe what happens with my glands and tubular connections when being slowly masturbated. It´s as if I monitor my body from a separated position. This way I sense the slightest changes in my reproductive system, I can feel the flow of secretions and the contractions of tissue!

Our goal is to extremely charge my glands over an extended period of edging-time and eventually achieve what we call „geysering“. This term stands for plainly pissing semen, aka emission (yet in a way „forceful“ and extended). To top it off we will try to mentally(!) induce my power-emission by avoiding any touch during this process, because touch would instantly trigger ejaculation. So, the mere pressure of my cum-filled glands is supposed to have me like piss a huge volume of my load at a certain threshold. This spectacular geysering shall be followed (sooner or later) by the triggering of my ejaculatory reflex, naturally. Needless to say that I prepare for this by a supporting diet and refraining from cumming for many days.

When we get down to edging I will constantly report back to my lover what I sense inside of me. Later my talking will rather be reduced to mumbling, groans and moans, but my partner knows perfectly well how to interpret these vocal bits and pieces.

It all begins with greater loin vasocongestion and sexual organ fluid fullness and readiness. My testicles begin to swell and I feel the tiny contractions of my spermatic cords to propel sperm towards my ampullae.

Parallel to that the secretion of fluid in my seminal vesicles has begun. This fluid will deliver at least 70% of the total volume of what I will expel as semen when I am geysering and ejaculating. The process of extreme charging will have me spill an outlandish huge amount of male milk. My lover will try to catch all of it so that we can measure the volume. Since we began practising this technique my glands even increased their production from session to session.

It is quite wonderful to sense how my ampullae are filling, how my seminal vesicles swell by the fluid it produces, same accounts for my prostate. There is a wonderful feedback-loop: the swell up of my internal system enhances the sensations of the caressings provided to my cock and scrotum by my lover and this in return grants the secretion of my glands.

At a certain level of congestion a particular penile stimulation will trigger the contraction of my seminal vesicles. The teasing is not sufficient enough (and not desired yet) to trigger the ejaculatory reflex. This vesicle contraction will push part of its contents down into the ejaculatory ducts reaching the prostate and make it feel bloat all of a sudden. The valve at the end of the ejaculatory duct, where it joins the urethra, shuts tight still, but a second contraction of the vesicles would result in emission. Yet this time emission is supposed to be triggered mentally only.

My seminal vesicles continue to produce fluid steadily. My prostate feels full already, but naturally continues to produce its juice. Penile stimulation is applied rarely and carefully. Eventually I reach a point where my whole internal system feels primed to overflow. I feel filled up to maximum capacity, I feel heavy, my glands ache. I badly need to discharge or else I burst!

My lover now whispers encouraging and arousing paroles into my ear, like: I love your throbbing cock, I love your swollen balls, I love your white juice, just let go of it, I know you are ready to discharge.

I begin to moan while deeply breathing. My body shivers due to the high level of arousal and in anticipation of violently overflowing with my warm semen. – The pressure still builds, my glands and my tubes are filled up with my produce, I sense that fluid is pushed back into the spermatic cords, – this is a first and it hurts.

I have my legs spread eagle and believe that if I would close them it would badly hurt because I am so tensely pressured, so I don´t dare to move, rather try to open even more, but I can´t.

We agreed on no touch at all, so my lover keeps on whispering encouragement. By all means we want to avoid triggering ejaculation at such a crucial point.

I am panting, I can´t bear it anymore! Then I hear the following and it does the trick:

I love your cock, you still leak precum, but do not release your sweet milk yet!

I feel the valves open and the internal pressure has my semen rush into my urethra and right out of my cockmouth constituting a significant lasting flow. I am eventually geysering!!

After the big cum-piss a smaller flow keeps up for a short while. I feel quite relieved, my glands shall be emptied by 30% to 50%, but I notice a strong urge for discharging my sexual energy and the remaining volume of my juices thru ejaculation. So I ask my lover to trigger my reflex!

I didn´t expect the rushed and yet so very intense build-up towards reaching PONR. My lover realized this and slowed his penile stimulation, it was a perfect timing because this way he was prolonging and even further intensifying my path over the edge. I was bearing down, tried to keep my BC relaxed, a well exercised behavior to stretch the time until the spasms set in.

The sensations in my system became ultra strong and caught my whole body. I was screaming inevitably expressing the intensity, I gasped for air, the pumping of my semen was overruled by encompassing sensations of my orgasm, I thought I was going to pass out. This climax lasted what felt like minutes not seconds. Fortunately my partner was able to catch virtually all of my milk, and he managed to count my pulses. Despite my geysering I was pumping 19 spurts! Altogether my glands had produced a stunning 0.1 liters of semen! However, it felt like there was still some more inside of my system.