Posts Tagged ‘anatomical’

Witnessing Ejaculation – Choices!

November 25, 2017

Did it ever occur to you, that a man´s ejaculation offers numerous ways to be encountered, given you love both the man and his cumming?!

There are more ways of enjoying the ejaculating man for a partner than for the pulsing man himself. The releasing man can trigger his climax in different ways: he can choose from different „positions“, he can watch himself while pumping or not, he can wet himself or not, yet he will always experience the sensations of this kind of climax, more intense or less, out of the same point-of-view!

A partner faces many options to savor the sweet reflex of her or his beloved, so much so, that she/he must be spoilt for choice!

Each time s/he must decide on how to experience a given such climax with confidence, for it may take a while until a next session is providing the same opportunity. So, here´s a list to choose from:

  • do you want to feel him cumming inside of you (and in which orifice)
  • do you want to trigger him or have him trigger his ejaculation
  • in which position
  • do you want to be wetted or not (if yes, where)
  • do you want to watch him and/or touch him while he is pumping
  • do you want (him) to use toys???

Now think of the combinations possible among these options!

Even when we are observing-only-witnesses of an ejaculating man we need to decide on where to put our focus at!

We are always observing-only-witnesses when we watch clips showing a man cum. Thanks to the internet we have access to a plethora of ejaculation-scenes!

Not surprisingly we do find a lot of different cumming-situations and point-of-views in clips. And we consume what we encounter, don´t we. Good thing about clips and videos is that we can halt and rerun the scenes (even frame by frame!) so as we please. This may be the only advantage compared to the real thing

Almost naturally we are most curious about the ejection performance of the featured man, because – no news here – witnessing a man shooting his load shall always be a huge turn-on for everyone finding enjoyment in watching such clips.

However, as well-taught connoisseurs of the male ejaculatory reaction we may want to observe this process from an angle that reveals other hot features marking a pulsing climax!

I found a clip presenting a guy showing us his balls and perineum while he triggers his reflex. Such a „set-up“ is almost as popular as capturing full frontal milk-releasing. Why? Because we may be treated with what we are lucky to find in this particular clip: a hot study of the movement of his balls (before, during and after his reflex) and the pulsing of his BC and his Corpus spongiosum while he is pumping his milk, wetting himself plentiful! – I love this scene.

What makes this „study“ so very arousing are certain parameters this guy displays:

  • he is endowed with a beautiful large penis and nice pair of (swollen) testicles
  • his scrotum and pubes are shaved (personal taste though)
  • the skin of his scrotum does not become thick and tight, so that we can clearly observe the movement of his balls, – as mentioned above
  • furthermore we have a good view at his BC-muscle and his Corpus spongiosum, both nicely pulsing when he pumps his milk
  • we still notice him creaming his chest with about 10 spurts and realize the volume of his load!

This is the link to the clip!

Enjoy!!

Beneath The Helmet

June 27, 2017
or: Sounding the Cockmouth

Note: this post offers a bonus file (see the final remarks)!

In my quest for finding a possibly not-thought-of masturbatory technique I turned to a friend who is an expert on male sexuality. I had little hope to learn something new, but my friend didn´t fail me!

I was sure I had tried practically all kinds of external and internal fondling concerning my genitalia and my reproductive system. I didn´t like the integration of „complex“ toys – a sleeve, a plug, a ring now and then was fine – and I told him that. E-stim, yeah, a nice thing once in a while, but I realised I liked it pretty straight forward and natural, uncomplicated. So, what else could there be?

My friend asked me if I ever considered or even tried penile sounding? And I answered that even the tought of doing such was a sure way to turn me off immediately. But he elaborated on his suggestion and caught my attention.

He emphasized that his technique was more a „sounding-light“ thing. The true aim was the teasing of a spot inside the penis that couldn´t be reached otherwise. In the same the sensations provided by this way of cock-fondling couldn´t be generated any other way!

I sure wanted to know more and my friend gave me a brief lecture in penile anatomy. I knew that penises are made of two different erectile bodies, a softer one (containing the urethra and featuring the helmet) and a more rigid one (featuring the stiff shaft). This rigid corpus splits into two endings below the pubic bone, the so-called crus. The other ending, the outer tip of this corpus, is covered (probably shielded) by the glans (helmet).

So far, so good. But then my friend revealed to me what I had not known: that „hidden“ tip of the rigid corpus is the same structure – anatomically speaking – as the female clitoris! And we all have an idea of how sensitive a clit is, namely because it is packed with nerve-endings (the highest concentration in a human body). That´s why a clit is protected by a hood. In the male this tip is fixed beneath the fleshy helmet – also for a good reason!

Back to the proposed technique: the spots only possible direct stimulation works by penetrating (i.e. sounding) the cockmouth with a suitable device and manually stimulate the tip from inside the urethra. And as if nature had considered such a practice, it has provided us men with a small cavity right there at the very location, called the navicular fossa.

The effect of the direct tip-stimulation is nothing short than electrifying (given the penis is erect!) – think of a clitoris again. Nature had covered this erectile body´s end with a glans, because otherwise sexual intercourse was unbearable for the male. But masturbation sure gives men the chance to exploit the anatomical conditions.

I was stunned from what I just had learned! I could see myself trying this method despite my reluctance toward sounding. Yet I carried hope and anxiety after my friend´s closing remarks: that everyone is different! While some will love this technique others may not be able to cope with „sounding-light“ and the intense sensations this uncommon teasing is likely to induce (he compared it with the like/dislike disparity of direct prostate stimulation).

With a final word of caution about a clean and appropriate probe and sufficient lubrication (lucky are those who precum continually!) he released me into trying a new and very alluring path within my masturbatory realm. And he promised me to write about his finding in his blog.

precum


Attention dear reader! The account above is a piece of fiction! I neither tried this masturbatory variant on myself, nor do I know if the effect described can be achieved, nor have I heard or read about this particular technique! You may try this for yourself (and are dearly invited to report back) always considering the recommended rules and suggestions in this bonus-file on penile sounding!

Estim And Pulsing Pace

May 28, 2017

This short post is only ment to be redirecting/splitting the ongoing discussion about estim and its possible effect on the pulsing pace. We garnered a record braking (almost) 80 comments on the topic for the preceding post – getting oriented becomes increasingly tough. 😉

There is a field trial going, so the exchange will continue, and I hope it does at this freshly placed post. Find enough scrolling space for maybe another 80 comments!? Thanks to all active participants, and new voices are certainly welcum!

For a Closer Look (25) – Pulsing Pace

May 14, 2017

or

Do You Pump or Do You Fire?

It´s a single aspect of the ejaculatory process, and many of us know the figure: the repetition-pace of the muscular contractions of the ejaculatory reflex runs with a frequency of 0.8 seconds per pulse (initially). This is what´s written in the books – and it is wrong! Or in a more diplomatic lingo: there are exceptions to the rule, as always.

General information has it, that human males pump their semen at a tact of 0.8 sec per cycle, and slowing within the course of the reflex. This was noted down, probably because the majority of men features this speed.

Ejaculations run in a broad range of representational possibilities due to the many parameters involved. Most of these parameters are subject to change, not least because we can alter them, we all know that. However, this doesn´t apply to the pulsing-pace!

We can not alter the speed of the beat at will. The pace seems to be determined by our genes. Thus, any of us men features a fixed rhythm, or so it seems. Apparently the speed of the beat slows with age, – after all, this is my personal observation. (Any other factors in effect here? Comments that shed light on this are always welcome!)

Now for a fact: contrary to the purported data of the famous 0.8 seconds per pulse so generously proclaimed, we observe clear differences here in different men.

I like to show you two examples illustrating rapid and dilatory pumping. The animated gifs following give you a first impression. However, you ought to download the small clips to fully enjoy the complete ejaculation of each guy. Both clips feature sound so as to underline that what we witness is neither fast forwarded nor slowed down. In addition to that, each clip repeats the cumming-sequence slow-motioned!

This rapid pumper shoots his first five spurts within 1,5 seconds, which gives him a pulsing-pace of 0.3 secs per cycle!!

And this dilatory pumper shoots his first five spurts within 7 seconds, which gives him a pulsing-pace of 1.4 secs per cycle!

Needless to say that the given pumping speed marks the main parameter for the duration of the respective ejaculation!

Much like the force of the cum´s ejection, the number of spurts, the volume of semen produced and the duration of the reflex, so does the speed of the pulses alter our erotic perception when we watch a man cumming. As with any single aspect of ejaculation we shall carry a preference for the pulsing speed too.

Personally I prefer to watch dilatory pulsing with a high number of muscular contractions and a big volume of male milk. But you knew that already. 😉

What you didn´t know is that I used to feature a pulsing-pace of 0.9 secs per cycle, pumping slower in the meantime!

Clip one: See a guy pulsing rapidly (.flv, 44 secs, w/sound, 2 MB).

Clip two: See a guy pulsing dilatory (.flv, 138 secs, w/sound, 6 MB).