Posts Tagged ‘bliss’

The Queen of Cum Control (3)

June 24, 2018

Having his climax controlled in this way and being unable to prevent it from being done to him again and again as well as being unable to give himself that slight touch needed to cross over the edge, is the incredible fiendish yet wonderful aspect about using a man’s own natural need to ejaculate (and orgasm) as tool to let a man experience a state of being unlike anything else.

I have had clients lose the ability to speak (so as if being intoxicated, which is in fact the case), I had them sobbing and crying, their bodies winding and bucking, craving discharge so badly.

Reaching this state of body and mind, where another (strange) person is controlling your stimulation, body, penis and orgasm is one of the MOST intense stages of sexual expression and abandon any man can experience. Eventually this ultimate combination of extraordinary pleasure and extraordinary frustration is topped by the rather unexpected triggering of the so desperately „needed“ ejaculation! Once you truly experience this at the hands of another person, you will be forever changed, forever wanting to experience this agonizing bliss again, for no other experience even comes close to it in intensity.

As mentioned, the gooning state can be stretched, especially when I am able to read my client well enough for triggering emissions in him. This takes the fluid-pressure off his glands temporarily, only to confuse the tormented mind of the man even more. I´ve seen spectacular emissions due to the high pressure in the glands of the men. A few have been forcefully „pissing“ a lasting stream of semen drenching themselves with their produce.

This certainly is a dildo and a fake power-emission, only displayed for illustrative purposes!

Yet emission is not ejaculation, the associated muscles and structures await the trigger to run their spasmodic contractions – and they will be strong! So, finally, and this is intuition, I trigger the client´s ejaculation! He will naturally think that I will, ever so slowly, tease him right before PONR and stop, yet now I continue to caress his penis. In disbelief most men deceleratedly realise that they are carried over the edge. Men who have had emissions will begin to release their semen just this way, in a steady stream at first. However, the ejaculatory reflex is eventually initiated.

Not only the mind is fooled, the body is as well. The reproductive systems is also caught by surprise. Now that the muscles and attached structures of his system are allowed to execute their function, the ejaculatory reaction becomes an extremely intense process (every client reports this and I can tell)! Due to the accumulated volume of seminal fluids and the enhanced energetic charge, the ejaculatory reflex runs longer than the client is used to (or has ever experienced before) and it produces quite powerful ejections of semen either roped or sprayed.

I have counted up to 25 ejections, had many clients screaming while ejaculating from the intense sensations they were living through. Some clients were passing out when their ejaculations coincided with (or were preceded by) orgasm (that´s when their bodies were spasmodically bucking). These power-ejaculations are such wonderful and spectacular sights to behold! I am ever again amazed how much semen a man is able to store and expel in one go.

These climaxes most always feature very fluid man-juice wetting the client from navel to forehead and parts of me as well in the cases of ungovernable bucking and/or spraying individuals.

I (try to) tenderly stroke my client´s penis all the way through his ejaculation, this naturally enhances his ejaculatory sensations. After his pulses have ceased I often enough start to jerk his penis again in a firm grip to trigger a second ejaculation. In case I sense the client still carries sexual energy, I make him cum a third time for releasing the rest of what he had accumulated in the long hours of caged arousal.

While my client is coming down from his experience I quickly untie him and usually take him in my arms. Almost all men are totally spent and need time for recovery, some begin to cry, other men fall briefly asleep. All men seem very humble when they gain their senses, and there is not one client being not impressed and asking for a second booking. As mentioned I have to deny such requests and recommend to try it on their own or with their partners. At least they have learned how it can work and what potential they carry within themselves.

Story cumplete!

ArtVantage (2) – Mandala

December 17, 2017

One definite advantage in pictorial and decorative arts is the option to create visual compositions which follow a pattern or grid, – keyword mandala.

Wikipedia is defining a mandala this way: A mandala (literally „circle“) is a spiritual and ritual symbol in Hinduism and Buddhism, representing the universe. In common use, mandala has become a generic term for any diagram, chart or geometric pattern that represents the cosmos metaphysically or symbolically; a microcosm of the universe.

With this post I want to hint you to some beautifully composed images, which could be seen as mandalas for the sexual realm. Nothing more appropriate than creating this kind of artwork as illustration for a contemporary edition of the famous Kama Sutra (sex) manual.

The Kama Sutra is an ancient Indian Hindu text written by Vatsyayana. It is widely considered to be the standard work on human sexual behaviour in Sanskrit literature. (quote Wikipedia)

It is quite obvious that any illustration for this groundbreaking seven-part work, which originally was issued without any images (!), could ideally be a composition representing symmetry and/or following a pattern. For both artistic achievements (mandala & text in this case) not only share the same cultural background, they also perfectly complement each other content-wise.

Even the fun and comic approach of Benito Jacovitti (whose collection of hilarious sketches were published in an artbook titled Kamasutra) can be regarded as a mandala, a circular symbol representing the universe. The universe of sexual union in this case.

Now, enjoy the very beautiful drawings by Georges Pichard. He „seriously“ illustrated but one edition of the Kama Sutra and generated these sort of mandalas, of which each also represents a microcosm (of an aspect) in the universe of human sexuality (click to enlarge):

 

 

 

 

Featured artists in chronological order: Benito Jacovitti, Georges Pichard.

Neglected Post (7) – Fucking To Bliss

June 12, 2016

Original post: Fucking To Bliss

Less than 185 views since August 21, 2012

Second headline: Orgasm As Spiritual Experience

I admit it, the original post is rather „high end“, and less juicy body-function describing which you encounter in the majority of my posts. However, you´d only know that after you have read it. Clicks count, yet you follow a link just in case a headline appeals to you

Seems as if the original headline was not attracting many visitors!? I have no clue for why, after almost four years now, this closing post on (the „chapter“ of) complete orgasm garnered not more than 180 clicks (other contributions addressing this topic are similarly unsuccessful, compare Neglected Post #6).

I further admit, that once you had clicked the original post I would understand a hesitation of reading onward. Because you discovered a lot of plain text and just a single pic towards the end of the post. Still, the clicking would have been counted, to say nothing of the fact that the content is as interesting as profound!

And the pic? It is truly special! Not only does it perfectly suit the presented information, it furthermore shows the one tattoo that is decorating the back of Nandisa! (But I didn´t mention that.)

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Final touches of the inking.

I am a convinced solo-sexual and I love cock ´n glands-centric climaxing. But I keep in mind that there is a challenging kind of bliss out there. A climactic condition that is gained only by certain sexual circumstances (explained in that original post)! For achieving this scarce kind of bliss a sexual partner is needed to begin with, and then some more.

Now the drawing/tattoo I designed for my back symbolises basic dimensions of such a sophisticated climactic state:

  • the penetration as the beginning of sexual unity
  • the act of fucking (in the wake of penetration) as a longing for ultimate closeness
  • the duality within such sexual unity
  • the symmetry and equality within that unity
  • the neutralizing of the three-dimensional space in gravity, and with it…
  • the overcoming of the concept of time while being sexually one.

I believe that solo-sex is more predestined to be enjoyed physically, while partner-sex (in love) offers an additional spiritual level that relies on the particular partner-unity-aspect. It´s just that a partner, a loved one, is not always around. Your cock and balls (and glands) are!

By the way, if you want to check about this series on neglected posts read this intro here!

The Readiness States

October 1, 2015

Let´s analyse something that we take pretty much for granted every time we aim for a satisfactory climax. It´s about being ready, ready to be blessed with the most beautiful moment(s) our sexual organs can provide us with.

Men can be fast in making themselves cum, think of a sports-car accelerating from 0 to 65 mph within mere seconds. While a driver most certainly will be excited here, the quick-jerker may hardly encounter arousing fun or satisfactory cumming in his act.

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The opposite of such a rushed jerking is edging, with which we deliberately postpone PONR until we feel poised to shoot. – Recently I discovered considerations on our body´s readyness states, neatly expressed by M.xxx in his brilliant blog! Let me elaborate on M.xxx´s observations.

There are few kinds of being ready or feeling ready for triggering sexual release (i.e. climax). When we choose to masturbate with the intention to finish with an ejaculation, we find ourselves in a (certain) readiness state, but we are still far from – what M.xxx calls – being ripe.

This is the rule of thumb: the more ripe (the more ready) we are, the more blissful our climactic experience will be. But becoming ripe requires time! And even with time at hand, there are two properties of you, which don´t ripen with the same velocity: your body in opposition to your soul!

Your physical ripeness shall be always ahead of your emotional ripeness! Making both congruent is the key for climactic bliss and deep satisfaction! And edging is the method to achieve this congruence!

The body usually is ready much faster. Not only because you enter your masturbatory activity with a certain level of arousal to begin with. Many factors upfront determine how much loaded you are initially, not least the fact that nature equipped us with a (physical) system being ready on short notice (to secure procreation), if necessary within seconds (remember the race-car metaphor above). Thus your body feels ready shortly after you started masturbating.

Still, your body needs time too. At least if you want much from your ejaculation (a fulfilling one that is). If you want your system to feel ripe for a satisfactory release. Think of your cock getting hard, your balls swelling some and your Cowpers glands oozing precum. All the while your cum-factories secrete and store your juices until you make them flow. You are physically truly ripe when you feel vasocongested in your whole reproductive system. You really need to discharge at that point. M.xxx puts it this way:

When you are physically ripe, your body becomes hypersensitive to the touch and you will feel fully pressurized and full of cum.

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You may be ripe in a rational sense, just sensing that your system is ready for cumming and you don´t see a reason not to trigger PONR. But that is not the emotional ripeness M.xxx is referring to when he says:

When you are emotionally ripe, everything inside you begins to demand ejaculation, and it soon becomes an obsession. I wanna cum will repeat itself unrelentingly in your mind. You’ll become oblivious to what’s going on around you: all you will lust and care about is to ejaculate…

Such a readiness state of your soul takes a lot of time (mostly) to be established. It is a more complex process of accumulating arousal and lust, it is a more holistic affaire, affecting your neural system, your mind and psyche, than having your cock ready to shoot.

You just can not short-cut your body into such a mental state, not least because distraction can easily happen for many reasons. You really have to ripen into it. By the way, a certain level of soul-ripeness is required for experiencing an orgasm (as opposed to ejaculation), look up the posts covering orgasm!

As I said, edging is the method! It´s the technique to establish ripeness of body & soul. You „just“ have to fight your increasing urge for triggering yourself. Edgers who edge for the sake of it, who don´t want to pump up their load but savor their state of ripeness on end, will be better off to reach the ultimate state of emotional ripeness (to feel as being one with ones cock), because that exactly is their aim (compare here for emotional stages while edging in this post).

Now such is beyond your state of ripeness and your concept for edging. Because you want to just cum and nothing but cum. You want to release, you want to shoot, you want to pump and nothing else. And because of being ever so close to fall over the edge you certainly need a lot of will-power not to trigger your reflex, yet. As long as you consider to trigger your ejaculation you may not have reached that ripeness state of your soul. That´s why being edged by a partner, who knows you and who can read your behavior, may be a great option for finding climactic bliss!

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The man in the gif above appears to be ripe both physically and emotionally. His lover (whom he might be riding) just needs to stimulate his nipples to make the guy release his milk in what appears to be an overflow, a heavy emission!

As a solosexual it needs experience and will-power to synchronize your readiness states assuring you climactic bliss and deep satisfaction eventually. Just like M.xxx mastered this:

…you will have to temper your stroke speed to sometimes ridiculously low rates as you keep nurturing your soul with all the pleasure it requires to quench its needs. …this is why I could only stroke once every 30 seconds or so. Physically, I was ripe : my cock was achingly overpressured, my balls were congested with cum. My body was ready and willing to spill the seeds. But my soul was not satiated yet: I felt I still needed to be edged. So I continued stroking at the very slow speed I required to keep both my body on its toes, eager and ready, and my soul edged until it reached the same level of readiness.

Being aware of the different and mostly not congruent readiness states of body and soul explains well why we see guys calmly watching themselves cum or chatter right before and after or thru their ejaculations (even producing big loads) as if nothing really special was happening, while other guys moan and totally surrender, moved by very intense sensations before and while shooting their milk, needing to regain their senses after their climaxes (nicely illustrated in part 3 of this story!). And if their bodies bucked and convulsed, most likely their ejaculations were embedded in orgasms, as their high-level arousal discharged all along.

Men have these options and a whole range of anything in between. And to be able to be in control of that, that is the real beauty of our sexuality!