Posts Tagged ‘edging’

Reel Fiction (10)

April 23, 2017

The other day I returned home early from a seminar, and yes – you guessed it – I caught my sweetheart in the act of masturbating with his tablet. I mean he was in bed with his tablet screening porn while edging, apparently. I know he loves to do that, he even likes to spray his gadget, doesn´t matter, easy to clean.

So, I arrived around noon without giving notice. After all those days doing nothing but theoretical brain work, I had been looking forward to be around my dearest and get laid in the evening as a matter of urgency.

Now, I was not surprised finding him masturbating, and I don´t mind, he´s free to keep his lovely gear in shape whenever he pleases. He knows that, but he also knows that I need to be served and he better cope with that.

So, after I sneaked into our apartment and found him working his cock slow and savoring I immediately intercepted:

Whoo…, hold it, hold it, don´t cum now! Off with you hands!

Geee…. fuck, what are you doin´ here?

Hello to you too, by the way! …As for your question: we were thru and they released us early. And all I need is a good fuck tonight! But when you get off now, you will be tired later! And that´s no option, not tonight, not with me!

You got to be kidding, I need to cum! I am loaded, what do you think?! And I can manage you anyway.

I doubt that. I want you loaded as you are, that´s how I like it! I want you to fuck me big time tonight. Man, after these shitty days all I can think of is being filled.

Why not now then? C´me on, get naked and let´s do it right here and now!

That´s so typical. – Switch on your brains! I need to get settled first, I´m worn, I want to fix my stuff first, …laundry, eat something, rest, then get into the mood – with your help – and then we take off. Do I really have to explain that to you?

You´re so cute when you get angry… But you need to also understand, I was edging for quite a while now and I really have to release some of the pressure – aka cumming! …Here´s what we can do: you lend me a hand real quick!?!

I could tell that he was loaded. Despite being „caught“ -and over the course of the argument- his cock was still fully erect and throbbing. I fancied his suggestion the longer I thought about it. Not least because a certain trick came to my mind:

Well, that might be a true option.

Good girl, I knew you´d love to make me cum.

Sure do, but I will just trigger you… for the pumping you´re on your own.

What!? You want to ruin my orgasm?

No, I neither want to ruin your orgasm, nor will your spurting be ruined. You will just cum no-hands!

But I want to be worked all the way thru!!

I know. I know it´s much nicer that way. But my method assures me that you regain a pressing urge in no time. At least until tonight. – This or nothing…

Ok, ok – you won. Go ahead whenever you are ready. I guess it´s a fair deal after all.

I placed myself next to him on the spot and began masturbating his beloved cock and balls. He must have had shaved his pubes and sack right before his session, really nice, so smooth!

I used some oil that he had taken with him, while his tablet was not needed no more, put that aside.

It didn´t take long until he suddenly exhaled and said: Oh yeah! in an upsurge of internal sensations – his PONR apparently. I let go of his sweet package, just in time to witness him living thru his intense climax which lasted quite a while and beyond the cum-producing spurts.

Wasn´t that nice!? I commented and began to utilize his load as lotion for further gentle cock and ball stroking while he still was answering this with convulsions in his ejaculatory aftermath.

[download “reel” here]

Later that night he had regained his sexual prowess and he fucked me hard, just like I had hoped he would. That no-hand spurting might have done the trick. I believe it did!

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Sending Me!

April 29, 2016

>Easy now!
He had me right where I was supposed to be! He had slowly caressed me towards the edge with all his skill and knowledge, and now I was not at all far from PONR.

I was completely in his hands, literally. And we had agreed upon – once again – that I remained out of the game, so to speak. All I was asked for, was to relax and surrender to his soft titillation, which consisted of expert hand- and mouthwork. It was up to him entirely to decide in which fashion to tease me and when to let me cum. All there was left for me to do, was to honestly signaling him when I was approaching the ever tempting trigger-point.

>Remember, just stay relaxed and enjoy the sensations I am going to evoke in you. For now enjoy sensing the filling-up of your precious glands. I know you just have entered bliss-country, haven´t you.

He was absolutely aware of my state. In return I knew that he was craving my semen and that he preferred my milk after some extended edging, because it – most of the times – came out runny and partly clear, and he just loves my skim milk and plenty of it. Hence edging me was a win-win situation for both of us.

We are into mutual masturbation for many years now. Today was his turn to provide pleasure, a role he almost enjoys as much as being the receiver, for my climaxes are quite something to witness (at least when I am loaded with semen and sexual energy)!
For one, I become very vocal and loud with the onset of PONR, keeping it up almost until the last climactic spasms of my lust-muscles. Then I am built in such a way that I shoot and pump solid ropes of my jizz in a rather paced manner. And last not least I learned to release emissions. My boy loves all of this and does everything to have me performing this way.

He sits in front of my exposed package with full access to my cock, balls and anus. I just lay back letting him play my love-tools while trying to stay relaxed, waiting to warn him when he pushes me in close range of PONR.

He begins to patiently edge me, steadily working towards his reward: my deeply emotional reaction as soon as he decides to trigger my reflex, the latter resulting in the pumping of my juices.

I feel him sensualy massaging my scrotum. Every now and then he strokes my cockhead and my foreskin. He knows that my foreskin is extremely sensitive, hence being the tissue he will choose stroking to make me lose it. – Next, he is probing my anus while keeping up with his nut-massage. Seconds later he locates my prostate and begins probing it tenderly without hesitation.

>Oh yeah, that´s it, oh god, yeah!, I welcome his moves.

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Suddenly I sense him caressing my cockhead as well. I look down and find him sucking my helmet while he handjobs my prostate and scrotum. Holy shit, his triple-action feels incredibly intense! He is working my whole sex-apparatus! I am entirely his, completely in his loving care. The mix of sensations from all over my reproductive system are pushing me quickly into the zone!

>Close, close!! I whisper, having him let go of me immediately, only his finger remaining up my butt-hole. As he keeps motionless inside of me I calm down.

After almost 20 close calls I begin to speculate about his timing for letting me cum. This now is the only thought in circulation – I am aroused to a maximum. That much so, as that he only jerks my cock very slow, right below the rim at my trigger-tissue. He had applied plenty of oil for that to keep the friction light.

I realise I am right at the edge and will not bear a lot of stroking sensation anymore without being sent over, and he knows that. Meanwhile I feel totally filled up inside. It´s like as if I bore two bladders and needed to release real hard, yet can´t let go. I badly need my boy to trigger my pending release – and I was about to experience just that.

Here I was, shivering from pure lust and in anticipation of him sending me over the edge with the next stroke, or the next, or… Any of his light touches was generating a sensation like an electric current within my cock, directly passing further down into my prostate, seminal vesicles and even balls. He had begun to report to me the amount of precum my cock was oozing, only intensifying my urge.

>I need to trigger an emission now, he said. You just say „yes“ when you sense your milk rising, OK?

>Yes, I hissed as an answer.
I felt him cupping my scrotum which I assumed to be in a very tightened state for quite some time now. Then he carefully rubbed my smooth and oiled foreskin. He did so in a very cautious way, which brought about those deeply rooted melting sensations indicating that I was closing in on PONR. I began to breath deeply and whispered Yesss! We hit perfect timing as I could feel my juices flow while he had just let go of me right with my warning.

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>Yeah fuck! he was joyfully welcoming an extended flow of warm cum leaving my cock-mouth. I badly needed to concentrate for keeping all my muscles relaxed these seconds, I pushed against PONR. Not a second too soon he praised me:
>Gosh your milk is just as I love it and it tastes so good tonight!

The emission did give me some relief from my internal pressure. But my cock was still highly sensitive. Cautiously he was grasping my slippery shaft after a while, a bit below my triggerzone. Slowly he was sliding up towards my helmet. The electric current he was generating inside my cock with his perfect touch reached down once again, tickling my prostate and my seminal vesicles.

>Yesss ….. now… careful, – he let go immediately. He wanted to keep me right at the edge as long as possible with brief, tender and most teasing strokes. I felt so fucking close to the edge, his treatment drove me wild!

>Relax, try to stay relaxed!!

I pushed out to keep my muscles from hardening, well aware now that he wanted to trigger my reflex. I was struggling to postpone PONR, but naturally in vain!

I began to groan as the melting and tingling sensations eventually built up internally. The exquisite feelings of pure lust inside of my glands and cock intensified and overwhelmed me. I heard myself whine in bliss, I slowly was sliding over the edge, oh god, I was totally spasming inside my pelvis!

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I sensed my ejaculatory reflex setting in while my lover began to jerk my cock. I could feel my system pump up what appeared like a lasting reaction. Jet after jet of warm milk wetted my chest, my ejaculation seemed to produce a record volume of semen. What an intense surrender!

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All I can remember from after these consuming moments is to have collapsed into a blissful state of gratification.

Edging/Gooning – Displayed

November 8, 2015

It´s said that a picture is worth a thousand words. But that just won´t work, when we deal with feelings – and don´t show a face. Now, sex is about feelings/sensations. And sophisticated sexual acts, like edging, are about intense internal sensations in particular! Sensations which a picture – without showing a face – can not reflect!

So, moving pictures have an advantage here, especially, when they go with sound. However, you got to hear sounds that could be interpreted as reactions to sensations! – Ever wondered why there is so much moaning and screaming heard in the porn flicks? Now we know.

Two sexual practises, that cross my mind at this point, are very difficult to visualize – again when we don´t see a face. It won´t work with photos at all! And even moving pictures (film) may not reveal too much about the intense sensations and pleasures the „masturbated“ is subject to, while no or little „action“ is taking place: e-stimulation and edging (both are closely related to one another).

When we browse e-stim clips we often encounter wired yet untouched, flaccid or semi-erect, maybe precum-oozing cocks; sometimes presented in a time-lapse to enhance shape-shifting changes of the genitals, the penises eventually ejaculating more or less cum. We just can assume what the guy on display must have felt and experienced in his session.

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With edging clips it could be a bit more thrilling. We may see a guy slowly teasing his throbbing cock… and pausing. On and off, no ejaculation guaranteed (rather not wanted). While words are able to arousingly describe such situations (just search this blog with the tagedging“), the decoding of the accompanying visuals require knowledge and experience to have their hidden power unfold. Otherwise, and to profane eyes, it just may be boring what there is to be observed.

Time to introduce to you a brilliant, first-rate video from a guy going by the nick of Funky Jerker. He is an expert edger and he managed to edit a very hot clip on the topic – with no face in the frame, but a little help of explaining text!

The clip is titled Understanding Edging and Gooning. It runs an exciting 23 minutes and 18 secs and is a how-to and explaining-video on the basics of edging and the difference between edging and gooning (find more here and here).

Funky Jerker produced a superb video-lecture in good quality and with sound that vividly lets you witness his way of edging and gooning at the crest to the PONR. It is a must have for everyone interested in edging as well as adept performers. You can obtain it here from my video-library or watch right away here at XTube. 🙂

The Readiness States

October 1, 2015

Let´s analyse something that we take pretty much for granted every time we aim for a satisfactory climax. It´s about being ready, ready to be blessed with the most beautiful moment(s) our sexual organs can provide us with.

Men can be fast in making themselves cum, think of a sports-car accelerating from 0 to 65 mph within mere seconds. While a driver most certainly will be excited here, the quick-jerker may hardly encounter arousing fun or satisfactory cumming in his act.

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The opposite of such a rushed jerking is edging, with which we deliberately postpone PONR until we feel poised to shoot. – Recently I discovered considerations on our body´s readyness states, neatly expressed by M.xxx in his brilliant blog! Let me elaborate on M.xxx´s observations.

There are few kinds of being ready or feeling ready for triggering sexual release (i.e. climax). When we choose to masturbate with the intention to finish with an ejaculation, we find ourselves in a (certain) readiness state, but we are still far from – what M.xxx calls – being ripe.

This is the rule of thumb: the more ripe (the more ready) we are, the more blissful our climactic experience will be. But becoming ripe requires time! And even with time at hand, there are two properties of you, which don´t ripen with the same velocity: your body in opposition to your soul!

Your physical ripeness shall be always ahead of your emotional ripeness! Making both congruent is the key for climactic bliss and deep satisfaction! And edging is the method to achieve this congruence!

The body usually is ready much faster. Not only because you enter your masturbatory activity with a certain level of arousal to begin with. Many factors upfront determine how much loaded you are initially, not least the fact that nature equipped us with a (physical) system being ready on short notice (to secure procreation), if necessary within seconds (remember the race-car metaphor above). Thus your body feels ready shortly after you started masturbating.

Still, your body needs time too. At least if you want much from your ejaculation (a fulfilling one that is). If you want your system to feel ripe for a satisfactory release. Think of your cock getting hard, your balls swelling some and your Cowpers glands oozing precum. All the while your cum-factories secrete and store your juices until you make them flow. You are physically truly ripe when you feel vasocongested in your whole reproductive system. You really need to discharge at that point. M.xxx puts it this way:

When you are physically ripe, your body becomes hypersensitive to the touch and you will feel fully pressurized and full of cum.

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You may be ripe in a rational sense, just sensing that your system is ready for cumming and you don´t see a reason not to trigger PONR. But that is not the emotional ripeness M.xxx is referring to when he says:

When you are emotionally ripe, everything inside you begins to demand ejaculation, and it soon becomes an obsession. I wanna cum will repeat itself unrelentingly in your mind. You’ll become oblivious to what’s going on around you: all you will lust and care about is to ejaculate…

Such a readiness state of your soul takes a lot of time (mostly) to be established. It is a more complex process of accumulating arousal and lust, it is a more holistic affaire, affecting your neural system, your mind and psyche, than having your cock ready to shoot.

You just can not short-cut your body into such a mental state, not least because distraction can easily happen for many reasons. You really have to ripen into it. By the way, a certain level of soul-ripeness is required for experiencing an orgasm (as opposed to ejaculation), look up the posts covering orgasm!

As I said, edging is the method! It´s the technique to establish ripeness of body & soul. You „just“ have to fight your increasing urge for triggering yourself. Edgers who edge for the sake of it, who don´t want to pump up their load but savor their state of ripeness on end, will be better off to reach the ultimate state of emotional ripeness (to feel as being one with ones cock), because that exactly is their aim (compare here for emotional stages while edging in this post).

Now such is beyond your state of ripeness and your concept for edging. Because you want to just cum and nothing but cum. You want to release, you want to shoot, you want to pump and nothing else. And because of being ever so close to fall over the edge you certainly need a lot of will-power not to trigger your reflex, yet. As long as you consider to trigger your ejaculation you may not have reached that ripeness state of your soul. That´s why being edged by a partner, who knows you and who can read your behavior, may be a great option for finding climactic bliss!

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The man in the gif above appears to be ripe both physically and emotionally. His lover (whom he might be riding) just needs to stimulate his nipples to make the guy release his milk in what appears to be an overflow, a heavy emission!

As a solosexual it needs experience and will-power to synchronize your readiness states assuring you climactic bliss and deep satisfaction eventually. Just like M.xxx mastered this:

…you will have to temper your stroke speed to sometimes ridiculously low rates as you keep nurturing your soul with all the pleasure it requires to quench its needs. …this is why I could only stroke once every 30 seconds or so. Physically, I was ripe : my cock was achingly overpressured, my balls were congested with cum. My body was ready and willing to spill the seeds. But my soul was not satiated yet: I felt I still needed to be edged. So I continued stroking at the very slow speed I required to keep both my body on its toes, eager and ready, and my soul edged until it reached the same level of readiness.

Being aware of the different and mostly not congruent readiness states of body and soul explains well why we see guys calmly watching themselves cum or chatter right before and after or thru their ejaculations (even producing big loads) as if nothing really special was happening, while other guys moan and totally surrender, moved by very intense sensations before and while shooting their milk, needing to regain their senses after their climaxes (nicely illustrated in part 3 of this story!). And if their bodies bucked and convulsed, most likely their ejaculations were embedded in orgasms, as their high-level arousal discharged all along.

Men have these options and a whole range of anything in between. And to be able to be in control of that, that is the real beauty of our sexuality!