Posts Tagged ‘emission’

Do You Burst or Do You Spill?

September 17, 2017

This blog explains and shows the diversity of the ejaculatory performance in men. One aspect touches the mode in which semen is initially ejected, beginning with a smooth flow, or shooting out all of a sudden. So, this post addresses the two basic take-off possibilities of ejaculation.

Among all those previous contributions with similar questions on the subject (like here, here and here), this entry concerns the most alterable ejaculatory feature. Hence you could answer the headline question with Yes and Yes!

Although the ejaculatory reflex lets our muscles (responsible for cum-ejection) perform involuntarily, we do have the opportunity to strengthen and control these muscles to a certain extent. This leaves us a choice of consciously deciding whether we want to release our milk in a flow before the inevitable reflex takes over and has our systems pump out the stored juices or if we want to burst after PONR.

This early double-post here and here tells you all about the parameters of the visible ejaculation and how shooting next to spilling cum can gain a meaning for the witness and the ejaculator.

What you read in the following passage briefly puts your focus at the ejaculatory take-off, an advanced point-of-view after you found awareness about the fact of the two modes and the sensations tied to them.

Bursting is a more „natural“ way of taking-off, because you automatically will try to hold back your ejection after you have passed PONR.

You do not need to learn this, you can and will do clench your BC and PC and associated muscles until they need to give in to the inevitable reflex = pulsing (i.e. ejaculating your semen).

Almost literally exploding with cum is always an awesome sensation as you built up the internal gland-pressure impatiently waiting for the reliefing moment to eventually gain your own permission (for PONR) and bursting open thru your cock!

A more refined way of (softly) releasing your milk requires a bit of practise. Because you need to keep your muscles (mainly BC and PC) stay relaxed while slowly approaching PONR (this is a controlled way of triggering the ejaculatory reflex).

The release is a mix between emission and ejaculation. I regard this as another kind of ejaculatory climax for which I coined the expression emisjaculation. Read about it in this post here! I personally find this kind of climax most rewarding! Check out an analysis of an emisjaculation here!

It is great to be able to alter certain aspects of our ejaculatory release, to experiment with the way we cum and chose how we want to experience our climax at a given situation.

Last not least you may like to obtain brief clips demonstrating the different ways of the ejaculatory take-off.

See a young lad beginning to ejaculate with a sudden cum-burst, pumping his semen in powerful spurts. His ejaculations seem out of control, a very hot scene!

This guy shows a controlled release, another emisjaculation in which his spilling follows a considerable outflow of his milk. He continues to spill three more times in a soft-pumping fashion!

A worthwhile analytical clip of an emisjaculation (part of a larger clip, with sound i.e. moaning) is this one here (already published on this blog).

Please participate in the poll:

What is your ejection take-off mode, and which do you favor?
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JO Buddies (2)

August 19, 2017

So it happened one day, that all the given parameters were perfectly matching. I was laying in bed comfortably and relaxed while my buddy tenderly teased my throbbing cock.

I was totally aroused and breathing deeply. My glands were filled to the max, at least it felt that way and I had told him about this. I felt so very saturated that I thought my bladder was full, but I sure hit the bathroom before we started to masturbate me. Hence I was confident to just let go of whatever was filling my system.

It was as if everything was throbbing down there, not just my cock, but my balls and my glands too. Meanwhile all I could think of was to let go and release my alleged torrents of milk standing by for just that. I desperately longed for drifting thru the sweetest sensation a man can feel in his penis and balls and glands.

I knew I was very close to the edge and I let my buddy know. He reduced his caressing of my ever so sensitive dick to light touches of my foreskin. Curiously enough we shared this particular physical receptiveness. We both loved to be triggered by the touch of a certain part of our intact foreskins (i.e. inner foreskin), because this area contained the most nerve endings which forwarded any of the softest detection of touch directly deep down into the system.

My buddy wetted my helmet with a gush of oil and slowly and lightly rubbed that special part of my foreskin. A stinging sensation was filling my shaft, the edge was reached, PONR was next if he continued. But he knew me so well for he timed his caress in a way that kept me right there. I started to howl because this sensation was so fucking permeating intense!

I thought I sensed he touching me right at that foreskin-spot, oh god, this was so incredibly teasing, next I felt my internal valves open, without reaching PONR, yet!

I let go – as relaxed as my system was –, merging into release as if I was pissing while still whining from the unbearable melting sensations. I looked down and saw in amazement a steady stream of whitish milk leave my cocktip: I was pissing cum indeed! (Similar to this illustration:)

My buddy lightly massaged my foreskin only to the effect of having the ever so sweet sensations immediately intensify once more. And this triggered PONR right away. All of my system seemed to spasm tightly, I could not avoid it. I knew that the beloved rhythmic pumping was next. – It sure was and it happened very slow-paced. Spasm after spasm blessed my system, each pumping my thin milk in splattering spray-gushes.

The extremely intense melting sensations within my system had been replaced by feelings of total surrender. I witnessed my reflex making me pulse for a long time or so it felt. My buddy later told me that the latter half of the total number of spasms have been kind of dry when each contraction produced but a mere drop of cum at my cock-mouth.

After my over-the-top pumping climax mellowed out I only could lay still and breathe, trying to regain my senses while my buddy covered my soaked body with a large towel. This is almost all I remember from the aftermath. It has been the most intense ejaculating experience until and since then. So fucking beyond words! – Believe me, we continue to strive for most fulfilling ejaculatory experiences for one another. This is what we love to do!

Story cumplete!

Shayenn Wants a Cum Geyser

October 14, 2016

Shayenn Says:

I love this blog! I´m happy that I found it, I learned so much about men. Not only how they work (down there), but also how they tick and what they enjoy about their sexuality.

And it helped me realizing what I want most from a man, sexually. 😉

I enjoy the male devices, very much so, but I really love his shooting of cum. I also love the stuff itself, the warmth, the smell, the silky wetness, the more the better. But first and foremost I like the visuals of powerful and extended pumping and then being hit by it!

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Your blog demonstrated to me, that there are specimen around who are able to shoot, and I mean shoot, truly huge volumes of their juices. I was infatuated! And it really spoiled me!! 😉

From the porn I´ve seen I always thought big loads were rather fake than for real, but your info made me know better. However, the men I was with (currently solo here) have all performed in the average range, quite OK like this:

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Now after I have learned of the male capacity from your blog, I want a guy being able to shower me with his cum, no matter if spraying or roping. Especially after you explained this feat you call emisjaculation (plainly: pissing cum) I was hooked and deeply long for a cum geyser stud ever since. I am afraid I won´t go for less anymore. But what can I do? I mean there are ways to give support for improvement (that I learned here too), however, I am well aware that guys who are able to perform like this on a regular basis must be scarce:

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What´s your take on my dilemma? Will I ever find a man who is able to serve my unique desire?

Nandisa Says:

First of all I am very happy that you enjoy my blog thoroughly. That much so, as that you could define your sexual preferences in a male: his semen and the most spectacular way his anatomy can make it leave his system. This is great! Yet I´m afraid that you are correct in suspecting that your longed for abilities will be scarce.

However, for I assume you are quite young, chances to eventually encounter someone who potentially serves your needs are fair, although it may not be too easy to find a true match.

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A guy your (presumed) age will be highly qualified, because his system will be more likely producing seminal fluids in abundance, and his muscles shall be in good shape as well (you have learned how to develop improved results in my blog).

Keep in mind that a good share of the top-performances we see are related to genetics, at least considering performing this way on a regular basis. Meaning you would need a bit of luck to cross paths with such a man. After all, massive milk-shooters, especially those being able to initially piss emissions (i.e. emisjaculations), are exceptions to the rule.

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And don´t neglect the fact that such an able guy ought to be one you at least like as a whole person, and vice versa. And that he shares your penchant. That he is a guy who loves to shower you with is milk rather than fuck you or wants you to swallow his meat and his load. He needs to be willing to build his juices to the max and then totally surrender in front of you, wetting you with his produce. This is a totally hot scenario and I wish it will come true for you. Please report back once you found your man. I really wish you luck (feeling responsible here). 🙂

NoBody Is Perfect!

August 26, 2016

What could be the antonym-sentence of the headline above? I´d say: Some guys seem to have it all! Or, in a looser understanding: The grass is always greener on the other side…

We are all a bit different from each other, we are no clones, no androids, and it´s perfect that way. However, differences may generate envy (regardless that this is only human after all). Especially concerning our genitals and associated performances, we (men) are bound to easily develope a certain longing when we encounter other men being favourably endowed (huge cock, big balls) and/or performing spectacularly above average.

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Well, to a certain extend we can alter our physical appearance and performances (volume of semen, force and duration of ejaculation). Think of penis-pumps or the jelq method to gain more shaft-inches, or the stretching of the scrotum for low and lower hanging balls. As for the soft-skills (cum-volume or climax-intensity/ duration), chances are high to obtain quick alteration. But noticeable physical changes require steady and disciplined efforts.

What we desire may be out of reach, because our desires shall be part of our sexual fantasies, being thus unobtainable. And we tend to negate the other side of the coin (of owning a long dick or meaty ball-sack, or possibly spraying our juices in 10+ pulses every time we cum).

Sexual fantasies are as natural as they are healthy. We need to fantasize (or watch porn showing attributes we´d love to be featuring ourselves) to fire up our arousal, no matter if in solosex or with a partner.

Out of this dreaming it is more than „normal“ and common to mentally build a kind of sexual role model and ponder with pleasure over the question „If I could choose my design…“.

At times we may encounter a male being endowed in a way we projected for ourself. Or we gaze at an ejaculation in awe wishing to be able to perform alike. Probably rarely though we find an example of a man who combines our particular image of being „ideal“, of whom we would say without hesitation „Just perfect, this guy has it all!“.

Now always bear in mind that we as individuals may carry very different projections of what we would change if we could choose our design. Men „blessed“ with the attributes we regulars long for so much may just want to be as average as the majority, for different reasons (and/or experiences). It may come down to the saying: The grass is always greener on the other side of the hedge. In fact I believe this is the case, because being „perfect“ or „ideal“ can be a different thing in the eyes of different people. And very much so concerning the sexual realm!

Leaves me to reveal to you my personal opinion, based on the question: „If I could choose my design what would I look like and how would I perform?“. Here´s a teaser:

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By chance I stumbled upon two (!) clips showing this guy jerking himself into ejaculation. And what fantastic climaxes they both are, coaxed via such a gorgeous penis. I couldn´t help thinking „This guy has it all!“ when I studied the clips.

The chap is of athletic stature, owning a beautiful uncut penis and his ejaculatory performances are stunning. As we bear double witness of his massive ejaculations I assume his incredible output is based on genetics in the first place. We don´t know if he took supplements or did edge in advance. Yet notice that we observe emisjaculations! He is „pissing“ his milk before his reflex ensures forceful pulses (exposed well in the gif above from the 2nd clip). And the texture of his semen is just to my delight!

In the first clip we see the beau passing his PONR into ejaculation in real-time with sound, the scene is repeated in slow motion.

In the second clip we see him showing us another quite similar ejaculation, this time only once in slow mo.

However, I wished to have seen this blessed model precumming before shooting his juices so beautifully, as much as I´d liked to have seen more of his scrotum/balls. As for the latter compare with this clip! By the way, the masturbating man in this clip would make a good „This guy has it all!“ too, at least concerning his endowment and the performance of his cumming. He as well is releasing a strong emission before his reflex sets in.

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But I wanted to point out the softness of his scrotum all the way thru his climax, letting us marvel over his big swollen balls just before, while and after his pumping. Such is a rare scrotum-behaviour in the male, as the rule says that the sack thickens (to lift the testicles closer to ones body) when nearing PONR (or at reaching the Plateau Phase).

Personally I prefer the image of bouncing balls while ejaculating, – and that´s even another projection! Wishful thinking, not just owing to the rule in effect, but because the given state of our scrotum lies beyond our will-power.

After all it seems to turn out that with the diversity of male designs and the always changing capacity of sexual performance in adjustment with our very individual conception of „having it all“, the old adage is confirmed yet again: NoBody is Perfect! — Or maybe everyone is. 😉