Posts Tagged ‘emission’

The Queen of Cum Control (2)

June 17, 2018

A successful session runs like this:

Depending on the individual client and general circumstances a session will last 3 to 5 hours!

After having taken a shower and being restrained to the bed I begin to stimulate and explore his entire body before I concentrate on his penis and scrotum. This way I quickly learn his response pattern I already heard about in our talk. Such an entire body stimulus is a good start and I will repeat this later into the session for building pressure and craving. Naturally a mans nipples, armpits, abdomen, ass, inner thighs, legs, face and more can be deftly manipulated to drive him to the all-consuming place I want him to be.

Certainly the core „action“ is a straight forwardedly edging of the man by stimulating his penis and (less so) his testicles. It is a slow stop-and-go masturbation with the aim to countlessly bring him ever closer to the edge, his PONR, certainly without him tipping over! Triggering emissions (rather later into the session) would mean a perfect control, for it shall extend and intensify the whole experience.

The process of stop-and-go so close to the PONR is repeated again, and again, and again and some more! During this extended denial of what he increasingly craves ever more desperately the man experiences an accelerated build up of his need to meet release of his energy and of his by now solidly accumulated reservoir of seminal secretions.

Knowing that he does not know what exactly is going to happen to him when and how, and foremost WHEN I eventually will allow him to fall over the edge, will drive him wild! Sooner or later he will enter a state where his mind empties of all other thoughts while a consuming single, pure thought remains: the absolute need to release his load thru a full-blown ejaculation. This need is double-founded, psychologically and physically (by filled glands).

At this point of urgent need my client finds himself willing to do anything to have me make him cum and allow him his relief. This is why the rules agreed upon beforehand are so important, because when so consumed with his need to ejaculate a man will agree to do things he normally would not consider doing at all. His state of mind developed into one of the ultimate mixtures of pain and pleasure within the sexual realm; his body is being pleasured repeatedly over and over, but denied the expected outcome of releasing the culminated arousal AND pressure by seminal secretion thru ejaculating.

I continue this patiently executed masturbatory process which must not be rushed! Again, the goal is to build upon each ‘edge’ to further increase the need and arousal, building it higher and higher still to when I am absolutely sure my client reached the point of ‘letting go’ in body and mind (all-out surrender).

Since his body will be completely open to me, his arms and legs spread as widely as possible for so long, his mind will carry but a single thought “I must cum”, and he now becomes like an animal with only the instinctual, single need of his body consuming him.

My client now has entered a state of trance where his mind intimately merged with his penis to become one. This is known as the gooning state. To be even more accurate, when the gooning state is achieved, the man’s body becomes for all intents and purposes an appendage to his throbbing erection and pressurised glands. The male then becomes freed of all social codes of conduct, and his craving, alone, dictates his reactions. As a result, a gooned out man will become very expressive and demonstrative: he may become very vocal, while his body and face might take on undignified expressions and poses, all in response to the intensely exquisite caresses his penis is exposed to and the frustration to be denied yet again.

Since my client is restrained and can not touch himself, he is with or against his will locked in this desperate yet so pleasurable state sometimes not knowing anymore what he wants: immediate release of the immense pressure inside of him (physically and mentally) or being kept on this unbearable high level of pre-ejaculatory arousal? A most powerful state of body and mind indeed!!

…to be continued!

Here´s to 2018!

January 1, 2018

Let us, my faithful readers, avid commenters and visitors from all over the globe, clink glasses to a Happy New Year!

Consuming male milk (of such volume, from a glas) is not for everyone. However, it´s this image that suits the occasion!

So, stay healthy and safe for being able to continue treating yourself with your most desired solo-sexual practices and/or consenting partner-sexual encounters throughout 2018 (and beyond). May each and every session result in the climaxes you aim for, granting you fulfillment and satisfaction!

Once again, let´s keep the World a peaceful and sex-positive place!

Nandisa

Closing Polls

November 2, 2017

I have a final poll for you, it is #60 (look further down).

I started polling back in February 2012 when I „discovered“ the easy way to enhance many different topics with these small questionnaires. And your feedback now and again revealed unexpected preferences next to validating presumed evaluation. Here´s results from poll #45 as an example:

However, like I wrote in the note at the left side-bar where the polls used to be placed, then freely accessible from any blog-page and instantly giving answers to the curious, that I will not implement further polls!

I not only close polling because I do not like the currently „hidden“ implementation, but because I am at a point where I run out of smart and valuable questions.

As I said, my polls mostly accompanied posts, running along with them, some for longer, some rather briefly. Now after feeding this blog for many years it is increasingly difficult to find aspects of the male sexuality (especially attractive new ones) which are not already addressed here.

As for poll #59 I sure was curious if and how the first-time implemented questionnaire (in this post) worked out? I was content to find just enough answers (28 to date) to discern a trend, almost like with the once more obvious display in the side-bar! Thanks to everyone partaking! After all it worked out with this new way of polling…

…nonetheless!

The last poll I´m delivering deals with the ability to achieve emission(s) prior to PONR. You will find a good number of posts concerning this hot way of spilling, look for the tags emission, edging, slowly, and milking. Also search for emisjaculation.

Here goes, this is the link to poll #60!

Again a big thank you to all taking part in the polling since 2012. I hope questions have been titillating and results exciting!!

Do You Burst or Do You Spill?

September 17, 2017

This blog explains and shows the diversity of the ejaculatory performance in men. One aspect touches the mode in which semen is initially ejected, beginning with a smooth flow, or shooting out all of a sudden. So, this post addresses the two basic take-off possibilities of ejaculation.

Among all those previous contributions with similar questions on the subject (like here, here and here), this entry concerns the most alterable ejaculatory feature. Hence you could answer the headline question with Yes and Yes!

Although the ejaculatory reflex lets our muscles (responsible for cum-ejection) perform involuntarily, we do have the opportunity to strengthen and control these muscles to a certain extent. This leaves us a choice of consciously deciding whether we want to release our milk in a flow before the inevitable reflex takes over and has our systems pump out the stored juices or if we want to burst after PONR.

This early double-post here and here tells you all about the parameters of the visible ejaculation and how shooting next to spilling cum can gain a meaning for the witness and the ejaculator.

What you read in the following passage briefly puts your focus at the ejaculatory take-off, an advanced point-of-view after you found awareness about the fact of the two modes and the sensations tied to them.

Bursting is a more „natural“ way of taking-off, because you automatically will try to hold back your ejection after you have passed PONR.

You do not need to learn this, you can and will do clench your BC and PC and associated muscles until they need to give in to the inevitable reflex = pulsing (i.e. ejaculating your semen).

Almost literally exploding with cum is always an awesome sensation as you built up the internal gland-pressure impatiently waiting for the reliefing moment to eventually gain your own permission (for PONR) and bursting open thru your cock!

A more refined way of (softly) releasing your milk requires a bit of practise. Because you need to keep your muscles (mainly BC and PC) stay relaxed while slowly approaching PONR (this is a controlled way of triggering the ejaculatory reflex).

The release is a mix between emission and ejaculation. I regard this as another kind of ejaculatory climax for which I coined the expression emisjaculation. Read about it in this post here! I personally find this kind of climax most rewarding! Check out an analysis of an emisjaculation here!

It is great to be able to alter certain aspects of our ejaculatory release, to experiment with the way we cum and chose how we want to experience our climax at a given situation.

Last not least you may like to obtain brief clips demonstrating the different ways of the ejaculatory take-off.

See a young lad beginning to ejaculate with a sudden cum-burst, pumping his semen in powerful spurts. His ejaculations seem out of control, a very hot scene!

This guy shows a controlled release, another emisjaculation in which his spilling follows a considerable outflow of his milk. He continues to spill three more times in a soft-pumping fashion!

A worthwhile analytical clip of an emisjaculation (part of a larger clip, with sound i.e. moaning) is this one here (already published on this blog).

Please participate in the poll:

What is your ejection take-off mode, and which do you favor?
(polls)