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Penises And Us

May 27, 2018

We live in a world of double standards and parallel realms when it comes to sex. On one hand we lead relationships with one partner for an extended period of time (sometimes with a lover on the side) based on emotional affection, on the other hand our bodies and their sexual attributes are often highly objectified and we enjoy this purely physical approach!

Next to „tits and ass“ among other „parts“, literally from hair to feet (with the female), it also concerns penises and scrotums (the latter less so) with the male.

But how important are penises for men and women? How and why does a random person (no matter the sex) value and cherish a cock more or less?

I believe the parallel realms exist (always have been) because we (human individuals) either apply emotion (heart and soul) to the other (as a whole) prioritizingly, or just want pure sex to meet excitement, release and satisfaction without emotional bonding… and deliberately so.

But humans are always both: their bodies and parts of their bodies are tools and yet they own a heart and soul and thus develop emotional bonds towards other humans, sometimes unwillingly.

That´s why the attitude towards a penis can be very different, even in one and the same person. It depends upon whether the given penis is owned by the loved partner or whether a penis appears as an abstract, being a highly objectified tool then.

In the first case you may love that penis unconditionally, as is, no questions asked. That penis shall serve a double-function in the sex act, (A) for the owner being the gateway to his experiencing himself as sexual being in a satisfying manner, thus being more of a tool you use to please your lover. And yet sure enough (B) his beloved penis being the source of all the sensations it generates in you, the lover, physically and psychologically.

In the second case the penis remains a concept, a pure tool existent to please your urges (toward the concept). The penis is the object of desire, it needs to work properly, it ought to be spectacular, it ought to satisfy you, the owner is of less importance. You love cock for cocks sake and you are in power. Emotions may only arise towards the given penis if it touches your individual taste and preferences you developed for your image of an ideal penis. The utmost realisation of this kind of penislove in the real world is the practise of glory-holing.

Now, every man owns a penis that he (hopefully) loves unconditionally. Whether men want to experience other men´s cocks is a matter of open-mindedness and sexual orientation – still, the same rules for the parallel realms apply (being in love with the penis-owner vs craving cock for cocks sake).

Women only know penises thru encounters and images of whatever source (the internet is an eye-opener for sure). Whether they develop an urge for cock in pursuing penis encounters the objectified kind (keyword glory-hole) may be a matter of individual attitude (toward sexuality) and social situation. Then, yet not exclusively, „size likely matters“. However, ejaculatory performance may outweigh the size-question? Only remember, one can not have it all, such combinations (big cock + big cum) are rare and/or access is most probably limited:

Cock Beautiful (2)

February 10, 2018

I adore beautiful penises. My blog is a thorough promotion of the male genitals (and the male sexual reaction 😉 ). Yet saying „I adore beautiful penises“ does imply that there is variety among the objects of adoration!

There sure is and we all know that. Yet as a kid and young adolescent I did not know!! Or rather I was not aware of the fact that penises can be pretty much different. I may not have cared that much (as I´m not gay), but all I was aware of was the common knowledge that penises may be of different sizes (locker room experience, pre-net ages). With the internet I became disabused!

The realm of the male genitals (penises and scrotums) is exciting and fascinating. I wrote about it before and quite early in this blogs life. – Bring to mind that every penis (even more so in combination with its scrotum) is unique! Just like fingerprints and irises are unique. Although penises are basically similar, the differences can be immense! Yes, there are a lot of look-alikes around, still every specimen is unique.

This is because a penis is composed of different anatomical parts, like the two erectile bodies and the glans, which are subject to a highly variable appearance. Consider the smoothness and veining of the shaft, the foreskin option and the pubic hair. Add the scrotum (obeying the same rule of variability) and you know that you never know what to expect (with a new encounter).

And if this wasn´t enough we find the male genitals provided with the ever stunning shape-shifting ability! This all is mightily arousing when you think about it!

Speaking of beauty, which is in the eye of the beholder and a matter of taste, I realize that I like those penises the most which look similar to my own cock! I most adore the looks featuring something like a prettier, optimized version of my own specimen, basically just a larger Doppelganger! This does not seem too exciting, does it. I wonder if sexual orientation plays a part in prefered likeability? That is, if gay men rather adore a different penis-design apart from their own (comments are welcome)?

This musing is, once again, very objectified and kind of abstract, but male genitals are such a seductive topic. I tried my best to address it with background information throughout this blog. In real life, unless you solely meet cocks and balls via glory-holing, there is always a person „behind“ a penis and a scrotum. Mostly we deal with the man first, before we get down focusing at his genitals. And as I said, we never know what to expect. Generally it will be hard to correctly anticipate the size and design of a penis (and scrotum) from the stature of a given man:

The same principle certainly then works vice versa! If you were encountering penises via glory-holes you can not assume the appearance of the owner, it´s even much catchier this way around!

Look for the owner here!

Look for the owner here!

If you are inclined to, do enjoy the sight and reaction of male genitals, whether via photos, artwork, video or for real, penises and scrotums remain to be eternally fascinating!

D.o.M.-The Collectrice

January 18, 2018

Hi, it´s Jasmin. Remember me? My best (male) friend told you my story, when I worked as a recruiter for the Disciples of Min, this underground church for women, who believe in the eternal beauty and divine significance of the male genitals and their produce.

I was one of the first disciples and wanted to help install a physical network of our centers. To make everything work as planned we certainly needed guys for offering themselves as Min to our quickly growing parish so as to realize the active worshipping. Gladly my friend joined. 🙂

Meanwhile we´ve established thriving centers in many cities, and pretty much the way we had in mind. We are still steadily improving while both member-groups, disciples and Min, are growing, if fluctuation is unavoidable.

I work as an allocator now, which means that I match disciples with Min. This is a fantastic job, not least because I get knowledge of newly recruited Min as soon as they are filed to our database. As convinced and active disciple myself I take advantage of the access I´m provided with, I admit that.

But I wanted to tell you about one disciple, a gal who loves cock unbounded. I call her the collectrice, because she always wanted another Min for her next worshipping. Most disciples develop a preference for particular Min and regularly “return” to a selected few. This young woman wanted new flesh each time she was calling!

Due to her set of rules, which was not so easy to be catered at the beginning, we came to know each other quickly. She was frank with me, she said that our church meant heaven on earth for her! That´s because with us she can experience a quantity of different penises in rather brisk succession and so fuss-free like she couldn´t in any other way!

She revealed to me that she preferred enjoying a male´s genitals, their shapes and sizes, over a Min´s produce, his milk. She always would slowly masturbate the penis and balls of a Min to avoid an ejaculation occurring too soon. In other words she was edging her Min yet granted relief eventually.

She is so hooked on penis and enthusiastically so, that she takes a picture of each Min (i.e. cock) early into any given worshipping session. I asked her to show me some of the first photos of her collection (when I still used to be a recruiter), here they are:

Yeah, these were taken in our preliminary booths shortly after we´d started, still improvising the glory-hole situation. We had decided to get going rather than to wait for a perfectly furnished set-up. It´s interesting to see these nice photo-documents from the early days. Some of the Min dropped out in the meantime, while I discovered my best friend among the group of the presented specimen.

After having worshipped a couple of Min this girl had begun taking a picture of each so as to reminisce in later times, as she had told me. She very quickly had developed a passion for Min, collecting them into a growing database. Not unlike my own situation! Only that her database is one of souvenirs while mine works as a pool of suggestions I chose from! 😉

There lies the difference: she never wanted to know the details that we ask each new Min, like size or the pattern of their ejaculations. She never wanted to see a photo beforehand, she wanted to be surprised at the moment of the first encounter.

I asked permission to take a video of her at such a moment. She approved without hesitation. Here you see her in a regular booth at our center, quite lost in the moment when a Min „reveals“ himself. She simply said: Oh, a Min I like! – I know she likes every Min.

Next time I will tell you about a gal with a story diametrically opposite to this one. Stay tuned!!

Beneath The Helmet

June 27, 2017
or: Sounding the Cockmouth

Note: this post offers a bonus file (see the final remarks)!

In my quest for finding a possibly not-thought-of masturbatory technique I turned to a friend who is an expert on male sexuality. I had little hope to learn something new, but my friend didn´t fail me!

I was sure I had tried practically all kinds of external and internal fondling concerning my genitalia and my reproductive system. I didn´t like the integration of „complex“ toys – a sleeve, a plug, a ring now and then was fine – and I told him that. E-stim, yeah, a nice thing once in a while, but I realised I liked it pretty straight forward and natural, uncomplicated. So, what else could there be?

My friend asked me if I ever considered or even tried penile sounding? And I answered that even the tought of doing such was a sure way to turn me off immediately. But he elaborated on his suggestion and caught my attention.

He emphasized that his technique was more a „sounding-light“ thing. The true aim was the teasing of a spot inside the penis that couldn´t be reached otherwise. In the same the sensations provided by this way of cock-fondling couldn´t be generated any other way!

I sure wanted to know more and my friend gave me a brief lecture in penile anatomy. I knew that penises are made of two different erectile bodies, a softer one (containing the urethra and featuring the helmet) and a more rigid one (featuring the stiff shaft). This rigid corpus splits into two endings below the pubic bone, the so-called crus. The other ending, the outer tip of this corpus, is covered (probably shielded) by the glans (helmet).

So far, so good. But then my friend revealed to me what I had not known: that „hidden“ tip of the rigid corpus is the same structure – anatomically speaking – as the female clitoris! And we all have an idea of how sensitive a clit is, namely because it is packed with nerve-endings (the highest concentration in a human body). That´s why a clit is protected by a hood. In the male this tip is fixed beneath the fleshy helmet – also for a good reason!

Back to the proposed technique: the spots only possible direct stimulation works by penetrating (i.e. sounding) the cockmouth with a suitable device and manually stimulate the tip from inside the urethra. And as if nature had considered such a practice, it has provided us men with a small cavity right there at the very location, called the navicular fossa.

The effect of the direct tip-stimulation is nothing short than electrifying (given the penis is erect!) – think of a clitoris again. Nature had covered this erectile body´s end with a glans, because otherwise sexual intercourse was unbearable for the male. But masturbation sure gives men the chance to exploit the anatomical conditions.

I was stunned from what I just had learned! I could see myself trying this method despite my reluctance toward sounding. Yet I carried hope and anxiety after my friend´s closing remarks: that everyone is different! While some will love this technique others may not be able to cope with „sounding-light“ and the intense sensations this uncommon teasing is likely to induce (he compared it with the like/dislike disparity of direct prostate stimulation).

With a final word of caution about a clean and appropriate probe and sufficient lubrication (lucky are those who precum continually!) he released me into trying a new and very alluring path within my masturbatory realm. And he promised me to write about his finding in his blog.

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Attention dear reader! The account above is a piece of fiction! I neither tried this masturbatory variant on myself, nor do I know if the effect described can be achieved, nor have I heard or read about this particular technique! You may try this for yourself (and are dearly invited to report back) always considering the recommended rules and suggestions in this bonus-file on penile sounding!