Posts Tagged ‘glans’

Deep Edging (2)

March 3, 2011

I consider Richard an experienced master of edging. He runs a great homepage and his excursions into the realms of (edging-) bliss are based on tantric knowledge. Read about his findings while ascending „The Hill of Pleasure“ via three stages:

Excitement Stage
Yes, excitement is the first stage of edging. When I first approach cumming, I automatically breathe much more deeply and audibly, my butthole clenches up, my prostate moves a bit forward, the canal from my anus to my prostate arches and stiffens and my cock hardens up. I must be very mindful to avoid cumming at this stage – often nigh impossible – in fact, this is when the danger of my prostate dumping its overfull load w/o any contractions [emission] or feeling is great, esp. if I have approached the edge too quickly. I have to work hard to get through the excitement stage successfully w/o cumming so I can then reach the higher states of more intense feelings and then altered consciousness.

Enjoyment Stage
After the excitement state has begun, say about 5 minutes, I calm down and my stroking is of course very slow to avoid cumming – often only with the slightest vibration by my index finger or slightest touch with the vibrator and I just cruise like this for a long time; often the charge dissipates a bit, though I do not realize it until I stroke a bit more and find I am not in danger of cumming. Then I oscillate between approaching inevitability [PONR] with slightly more intense stroking and backing off with a lighter touch, sort of going on both sides of the precipice of inevitability. It often also seems that it gets used to being so ready to cum and that my prostate can then hold more or tolerate more stimulation than in that first very hot stage of excitement. I especially love it if I get to inevitability [PONR], but am barely able to pull my finger out of my butt and stop stimulating my frenum and clench hard to avoid cumming. I love the tingle of almost cumming. I like to never completely stop stimulating my cock, but at this point I must. Then it is dicey to see how quickly I can resume stimulating. At first, I can do it after a few seconds, but later, after having been on the edge for 30+ minutes, the least touch even several minutes later starts this deep rumbling/vibration deep behind my prostate which is a precursor to cumming.

Trance Stage
Sometimes, if I am very lucky, there is a third stage where I can no longer keep my finger up my butt, because that greatly increases the danger of spontaneous cumming, so I just stroke ever so gently and very, very slowly go higher appreciating every separate tingle in my whole genital plumbing. Then I get to where there is a slight rumble deep down, not the vibration behind the prostate that signals I have started to cum (though, if I am quick enough, I can still avoid cumming), but everything is quivering with a new resonance and I ever so gently push it right to the precipice and as I get on the sharp edge of cumming, I stop stroking but keep my hand on my glans and frenum so this slight pressure stimulates me and then it happens: slight convulsions exactly like when cumming but less intense. This is delicious beyond words and after doing it for several minutes with a continuous feeling of fluid flowing (rather than the dam building up about to burst) I guess I let it down a bit. I take it this is what others refer to as “dry orgasm”. It is definitely other worldly, totally absorbing and very empowering, though after doing this several times in an hour and a half, I feel a bit tired in my genitals, but eager to return as soon as possible. My eyes go up inside my head, eyelids not tightly closed – even slightly ajar – and energy pouring up to my highest chakra.

These three stages are only a rough conceptualization putting arbitrary edges on feelings and states having no sharp edges. I recycle around from 1. to 2. to 3. and back to 1. again and the cycle repeats several times before I take a piss break or stop for a longer time feeling totally fulfilled. Letting myself relax into stages 2. and, perhaps, 3. (if I’m lucky) seems crucial to avoiding the excessively “edgy,” that is, the “on edge, brittle” feeling after raising so much energy and juice in our genitals. This seems to affect us all a bit differently, but I find I do not get so-called “blue balls” and I do not get this nervous edginess if (and only if) I let myself thoroughly relax into the deliciousness of riding the edge and let it go until my cock tells me I am bored and it is time to give it a rest. In this case, I lie back and savor how good it has been and consciously let the chi, the erotic energy, flow from my genitals to all the rest of my body, esp. my head (“crown chakra”). I sometimes do this physically by tracing the good vibes away from my crotch with my fingers, but I always do it mentally by feeling/imagining the good energy being distributed to the rest of my body.

In my next post I will take a look at three preferred ways to finish the act of edging. Because, unfortunately, even the best things in life require a break to be enjoyed over and over again.

Towards The Edge (1)

January 19, 2011

Before becoming specific about how to edge, I´d like to remind you once again of the connected branches deriving from the practice of prolonged masturbation:

  • staying relaxed while masturbating and while triggering climax(es)
  • consciousness about sexual energy and working with it (tantric approach)
  • emissions and multiple ejaculations (cum-harvesting)
  • semen containing and climax denial
  • worshipping Penis and spiritual self-fulfillment.

Edging is closely related to, respectively does contain, the above mentioned facets of reaching out for bliss.

Riding the edge seems to be an easy accomplishment (say easier than achieving MO), but it may not! After all – once again – everything depends on your individual attitude and disposition. For some it will be easier to edge than for others. Personally I am not much of an edger myself. I love the thought, it turns me on big time, I wish I had the patience to find bliss wandering the edge. However, I lack the discipline to stay away from triggering PONR. As I wrote before, for me MO is the alternative and I am happy with that.

The most difficult aspect of edging may in fact be that of avoiding ejaculation! To stay (securely) away from PONR while feeling damn close. Trying this for an extended period of time is a tough game, at least for an apprentice edger. But you can exercise to neglect PONR, you can learn and overcome the urge.

Still, edging holds „more“ than it seems at first glance. Because our bodies work with (electrical) energy, prolonged states of intense arousal provide us with certain effects that only occur when in such a state. Add the chemical body reactions to it (e.g. release of endorphin) and you find yourself in a sphere that can be truly otherworldly (the proverbial 7th heaven, or bliss, as I like to call it).

Read about one likely method to stay away from PONR and about what you might expect to observe within your system while balancing the edge, here from a guy named Massamuda:

I get myself hard by standard play… Once I get hard, I will lubricate my hand with an oil-based lube. Water based lubes are great for sex but when it comes to prolonged solo play, oil is much preferred.

I start to stroke myself and get excited. As I approach heightened feelings (well shy of orgasm) I start to change my stroke. I slow down, I rub my head, I take long strokes up and down my shaft. When I get really excited, I slow down even more. I will stop using my whole hand and form an OK sign and use just my thumb and index finger to stroke my cock. I will then progress to just stroking my head. As I do so, I am starting to get closer and closer to orgasm.

Anytime I feel it is getting too close, I back off my stimulation. I will stop and catch my breath. I will let the feeling subside, much like the stop and go. I then build up again. Sometime, I can find a point where I can stroke more quickly and really let the feeling build. I play with the approach to orgasm so that as I get closer, I back off, relax a bit and then approach again. The more often I do that the more leeway I have with getting to the point of edging.

I have reached the edging state by two different methods and it depends on the session:
In one, where I am having more difficulty in keeping my orgasm at bay, I will begin to stroke just the back of my head. I avoid that wonderful spot on my cock on the underside where the head makes a „V“ [frenulum]… When I just stroke my head in this fashion, I can increase the level of stimulation without risking going over the edge.

I have used this technique to get to an unbelievable point where I though my cock was vibrating. I felt I could maintain this intense and pre-orgasmic level for ever. I remember the first time I did this, when I came, I shot over my head. It was incredible. The basic idea, though, is to not cum. It is to keep relaxing into your stimulation. You only stop stroking yourself when you feel you will cum.

precum dangling


Try to continue to stroke and keep relaxing into the feeling. [Try to keep the BC- and the PC-muscles relaxed.] That is what will keep you from orgasming. What I do love is, as I get into it, my precum flows and flows. You will ultimately reach a point where you are relaxed and stroking a pre-orgasmic cock and you can do this for as long as you wish. It is the best feeling in the whole fucking world!!!

The other approach is when I start relaxing into the feeling sooner and can continue to the OK stroke and slowly bring myself to near orgasm. I will stroke, stop, stroke, stop and do that until I attain another pre-orgasmic level. Again, the key is keep relaxing into the feeling but learning to ease up on the pisser muscle [BC].

Coming up: an example of how-to exercises, the tantric way.

For a Closer Look (10) – MMO

December 28, 2010

Just before I turn to edging I want to share one more fine demonstration of the ability to trigger consecutive climaxes in a short period of time.

You see:
– the top part of the guys cock with his helmet reaching into a flute glas in which he will release his cum. After 4 secs into the clip the guy is experiencing emission! His milk is pouring out in a solid and steady flow which lasts 13 secs! He finishes emission with couple voluntary clenches of his BC resulting in a minor spill and 2 distinct swaps of semen emptying his urethra. He continues with stroking his cock just below his helmet. It doesn´t take long until he becomes vocal indicating that his first ejaculation is about to set in. He begins to shoot at sec 43 of the clip. He expels 6 small pulses of his milk, adding to the cum at the bottom of the glas. After few moments the guy is (apparently) jacking his cock off frame, you just see the glas with his milk, waiting to serve as cum-container for the next load. Soon enough the guy inserts his cock into the glas again only to spill a bit more of his milk while vocally expressing his feelings. This he repeats one more time.

This clip also illustrates that if you spill a high volume of milk with your emission, little will be left for shooting when you continue to trigger ejaculation(s) without pause. However, you can be sure of your climactic sensations!


And from here it´s all about edging!

It’s an uncut scene in good quality with sound. It is 27.7 MB in size and running 2:47 minutes. The format of the clip is avi.


Expected streaming video? – Please refer to this explanation here about why and how I offer clips (captioned: For a Closer Look) the way I do.


Multiples-R-Us (2)

December 4, 2010

Read the sequel of my story beginning in the previous post:

This is how I start my caresses. I will lube his anal opening and slowly probe his anus with my middle-finger of which I had clipped my nail short when we got ready in the bathroom. Slowly I progress deeper inside. My goal is to palpate his prostate. When reached I will massage it lightly. It is fun to touch his prostate and to gently press on it. Oliver will moan in enjoyment. He loves to be touched here carefully though after a brief time the excitement from stroking the gland fades away. He is not wired to get off from prostate milking alone. I knew a guy once who violently did. My man is penis centered instead, and I prefer this myself.

When I sense that excitement fades I slowly retreat from his prostate and anus. However before, while I was massaging him, I paid close attention to his cock-eye. My massage most always provides me with a little gush of his cream. I let it ooze out, leaving his cock untouched for now. Next I will be paying close attention to his ball-sac. With lots of oil I will start with my gentle ball-massage. Oliver will moan in full enjoyment. He loves having his balls massaged as much as I love to feel his sac in my hands. His balls will swell now if they did not already at this point. It is just wonderful to knead his soft package with my oily hands. Sometimes I fondle his anus along. He moans in comfortable relaxation.

Next aim will be his cock. With a very soft grip I will begin to stroke his wonderful rod. Slowly I wander his shaft up and down and up and down. This is intermitted with special caresses to his beautiful helmet. On and off I will integrate his sac. Oliver’s excitement starts to build here, even though slowly. Eventually, when his moaning picks up and when he begins to move his pelvis and utters „Oh my God“, I then know that he is nearing his zone. This is where we want to be, where it begins to get exciting for me too and where my skills are needed most. I want to keep him in his zone and bring him ever closer to emission, with which he may release respectable volumes of his milk. I will try to edge him, keeping him close to the point of no return.

He now is fully enjoying my caressing and I remind him to relax. I will reduce my grip and impact on his cock. I will focus at his head and his foreskin in particular. I will initiate his emissions or his emissjaculation thru tender touching of his retracted foreskin, this is his magic area. – Now I tease the upper third of his cock with light and careful stroking. Oliver is breathing deeply but calmly. When he begins to moan in a high pitch I know I got to be careful. Many times I will be backing off to get him away from the edge. I will try to establish this Stop-and-Go game in a faster sequence. Eventually I am seeking his crucial point. He is moaning melodically long „aahhhs“ indicating that he is very, very close to it. His cock may be throbbing at times, his legs may be trembling.

Honey oozes in an almost steady stream. Oliver will be loaded with cum ready to let go at this stage. When he believes that his milk is on the rise he will signal that with a „now“. Most of the times, as I found out, there will be some time to avoid an emission when I immediately cease touch at signaling. It still happens that emission sets in, which is always truly wonderful to witness. After I let go of his cock at his „nows“, I grab a bowl to catch his seed and pay close attention to his cock-eye. When he does cum, his skim-milk – thin cum in the beginning – will spill from his cock-slit in a tiny runlet, or , at times when he is really loaded, he will „piss“ a streak of his pure milk for a second, followed by one or two more swaps under a deep sigh of relief. I try to catch his produce and I will drink it right away, this is incredible exciting for me.


Eventually I need to observe an emissjaculation! I will caress him slowly in the same fashion as before. It will not take long and he starts whining again. He is definitely building up. I ever so lightly massage his foreskin forming a ring with my thumb and pointer or applying the crown grip. His moaning intensifies until he suddenly utters „now, now“! I almost let go of his cock immediately, at least don´t caress him any longer, and wait for his milk to pour out. Which it soon does, because his internal valves now have opened up once again! His warm and thin milk trickles down his shaft in a silky little stream, over my fingers and I soon continue to lightly touch his foreskin while his emission reaches its peak. With this timing of sweetest stimulation my caresses inevitably triggers his ejaculatory reflex! He is beginning to howl. Apparently the sensations inside his cock, prostate and seminal vesicles are becoming eminently intense. His pelvis squirms and he presses loud „aaahhhs“, and with the reflex in effect he begins to pump out his cream in forceful ropes, mostly about eight of it in total, depending on the number of emissions beforehand.

His cum now appears as some wonderful soft cream. I sure try to catch it in one of my bowls. He really shoots huge loads, thanks to his preparations. Cumming always is extremely liberating, for both of us, but now we up to approach the next level: giving him multiples. To achieve this took quite a long time of practise, but I know the ropes now, so to speak. A short while after his emissjaculation took place, no matter the state of his cock, who I keep in a tight grip, I will start to jack him firmly. Most important is a certain angle of my hand, a maintained grip and the right speed of jacking. He will signal me, further on, his status of feelings. His moans are different now and they rise quickly as do his orgasms.

His whole body will react in spasms as the orgasms shatter him. Right after each series of orgasmic body convulsions, his penis, rather his system, plunges into ejaculatory pulsations, bringing up ever smaller amounts of cum. At some point the pumping contractions of his genital system will be dry. Our average number of orgasms count to five. Sometimes we manage to continue beyond ten, but that is rare. Eventually he will literally be spent, completely exhausted. That is the epilogue when we hug and hold each other for a long time, savouring in the aftermath. This kind of lovemaking is, understandably, most fulfilling for my man, and I enjoy every bit of him and his features like with no other way of sex between the two of us. This is the most profound way of love I can give to him.