Posts Tagged ‘male perspective’

Estim And Pulsing Pace

May 28, 2017

This short post is only ment to be redirecting/splitting the ongoing discussion about estim and its possible effect on the pulsing pace. We garnered a record braking (almost) 80 comments on the topic for the preceding post – getting oriented becomes increasingly tough. 😉

There is a field trial going, so the exchange will continue, and I hope it does at this freshly placed post. Find enough scrolling space for maybe another 80 comments!? Thanks to all active participants, and new voices are certainly welcum!

Poll No. 54 Results

October 3, 2016

This is about us. Yes, you and me! Poll No. 54 is giving us clarity about who is part of this blog´s community!

OK, I just can assume that the majority of all participants are returning visitors and loyal readers (I hope this is the case). I collected 370 votes in total while offering a 4-fold multiple choice. Let´s explore our community´s profile from the numbers:

114 readers revealed who they are (anonymously for sure), among them 105 men, 8 women and 1 transgender person.

  • Sexual orientation: 30 people checked gay, another 30 checked bisexual and 42 checked straight, leaving 12 participants without indication here.
  • Age: there are more younger than older people reading this blog! 38 are pretty young, 30 are middle-aged and 22 are older, leaving 24 participants without indication here.
  • Sexual preference: 36 prefer sex with a partner (or more) while 25 prefer sex with themselves, leaving 53 participants without indication here.

Check the graph:

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There are three free votes („Other“): sucking dicks; I am sub; Virgin – (thank you for indicating this, because it shows us that you are probably quite young, yet not shy to learn about male sexuality in-depth. That´s great! 🙂 ).

All in all I am very content that the choices addressed are quite balanced but the gender disparity which I did expect. Still I am happy that 8 ladies answered this poll while I silently hope that some more read my blog with inquisitiveness and joy!

Concerning the sexual preference I was surprised to find a lead of partner-sex over solo-sex. For some reason I assumed it being vice versa to the given result. But this is great news and I see myself confirmed in having published a mix of content covering partner-sex issues next to pure male aspects of human sexuality.

Finally you may want to know my choices if I had voted:

I am male, I am straight, I am older, I prefer solo-sex. 🙂

Thanks to all participants!!

NoBody Is Perfect!

August 26, 2016

What could be the antonym-sentence of the headline above? I´d say: Some guys seem to have it all! Or, in a looser understanding: The grass is always greener on the other side…

We are all a bit different from each other, we are no clones, no androids, and it´s perfect that way. However, differences may generate envy (regardless that this is only human after all). Especially concerning our genitals and associated performances, we (men) are bound to easily develope a certain longing when we encounter other men being favourably endowed (huge cock, big balls) and/or performing spectacularly above average.

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Well, to a certain extend we can alter our physical appearance and performances (volume of semen, force and duration of ejaculation). Think of penis-pumps or the jelq method to gain more shaft-inches, or the stretching of the scrotum for low and lower hanging balls. As for the soft-skills (cum-volume or climax-intensity/ duration), chances are high to obtain quick alteration. But noticeable physical changes require steady and disciplined efforts.

What we desire may be out of reach, because our desires shall be part of our sexual fantasies, being thus unobtainable. And we tend to negate the other side of the coin (of owning a long dick or meaty ball-sack, or possibly spraying our juices in 10+ pulses every time we cum).

Sexual fantasies are as natural as they are healthy. We need to fantasize (or watch porn showing attributes we´d love to be featuring ourselves) to fire up our arousal, no matter if in solosex or with a partner.

Out of this dreaming it is more than „normal“ and common to mentally build a kind of sexual role model and ponder with pleasure over the question „If I could choose my design…“.

At times we may encounter a male being endowed in a way we projected for ourself. Or we gaze at an ejaculation in awe wishing to be able to perform alike. Probably rarely though we find an example of a man who combines our particular image of being „ideal“, of whom we would say without hesitation „Just perfect, this guy has it all!“.

Now always bear in mind that we as individuals may carry very different projections of what we would change if we could choose our design. Men „blessed“ with the attributes we regulars long for so much may just want to be as average as the majority, for different reasons (and/or experiences). It may come down to the saying: The grass is always greener on the other side of the hedge. In fact I believe this is the case, because being „perfect“ or „ideal“ can be a different thing in the eyes of different people. And very much so concerning the sexual realm!

Leaves me to reveal to you my personal opinion, based on the question: „If I could choose my design what would I look like and how would I perform?“. Here´s a teaser:

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By chance I stumbled upon two (!) clips showing this guy jerking himself into ejaculation. And what fantastic climaxes they both are, coaxed via such a gorgeous penis. I couldn´t help thinking „This guy has it all!“ when I studied the clips.

The chap is of athletic stature, owning a beautiful uncut penis and his ejaculatory performances are stunning. As we bear double witness of his massive ejaculations I assume his incredible output is based on genetics in the first place. We don´t know if he took supplements or did edge in advance. Yet notice that we observe emisjaculations! He is „pissing“ his milk before his reflex ensures forceful pulses (exposed well in the gif above from the 2nd clip). And the texture of his semen is just to my delight!

In the first clip we see the beau passing his PONR into ejaculation in real-time with sound, the scene is repeated in slow motion.

In the second clip we see him showing us another quite similar ejaculation, this time only once in slow mo.

However, I wished to have seen this blessed model precumming before shooting his juices so beautifully, as much as I´d liked to have seen more of his scrotum/balls. As for the latter compare with this clip! By the way, the masturbating man in this clip would make a good „This guy has it all!“ too, at least concerning his endowment and the performance of his cumming. He as well is releasing a strong emission before his reflex sets in.

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But I wanted to point out the softness of his scrotum all the way thru his climax, letting us marvel over his big swollen balls just before, while and after his pumping. Such is a rare scrotum-behaviour in the male, as the rule says that the sack thickens (to lift the testicles closer to ones body) when nearing PONR (or at reaching the Plateau Phase).

Personally I prefer the image of bouncing balls while ejaculating, – and that´s even another projection! Wishful thinking, not just owing to the rule in effect, but because the given state of our scrotum lies beyond our will-power.

After all it seems to turn out that with the diversity of male designs and the always changing capacity of sexual performance in adjustment with our very individual conception of „having it all“, the old adage is confirmed yet again: NoBody is Perfect! — Or maybe everyone is. 😉

Reel Fiction (9)

May 30, 2016

I Wanted to Sprinkle!

Really? There was yet another way of climaxing for us men? Reading about this little known phenomenon was so fucking hot. I definitely wanted to experience this. If this was true, and I saw clips showing this was the case, I certainly needed to experience this!!

Everyone was referring to this as squirting, because it was similar to female ejaculation, which is known as female squirting. One site was calling it sprinkling, which I like better. Because us men do squirt cum, yet this massive ejection looks like sprinkling a fluid lastingly, just like a fountain does.

The masturbatory method to achieve this –so the writings tell- was simple and described alike by different sources, and it was visually confirmed in those clips. Or rather the technique is simple – making it happen is another story. The technique? Just rub your cockhead, only your cockhead, maybe the tip of it, your cockmouth, until you feel like you have to pee. Continue and let go, let it happen, let out what wants to get out. That shall be sprinkling in contrast to pissing.

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We know that we don´t require to massage our glans´ to make us urinate. So there must be a difference in those biological body-reactions (sprinkling vs pissing I mean). I guess after you experienced sprinkling you can tell. That´s what the accounts were about. It was so hot to read what and how guys had felt when they managed to sprinkle. And every one of those lucky chaps was dead sure it was not pissing! Even the ejected fluid was not urine!

After learning about this kind of climax I decided to go for it at every of my future masturbatory sessions until success. I read that sprinkling can be generated before ejaculation as well as after it. Naturally I chose to trigger sprinkling first, but I failed. I triggered ejaculation with the recommended technique…!

At my second attempt I wanted to reverse the order of the desired climaxes. However, I failed a second time. I got off quickly before I seriously started. Applying the suggested technique I eventually felt very close to sprinkling, it just did not happen!? Finally I decided to spare my cockhead after this extended and very intense rubbing impact.

With my third attempt I really wanted to make it happen. I was quite positive that this time I´d make myself sprinkle, not least because I would not empty my bladder right before my session.

I covered my bed (again) with large towels for soaking up my expected sprinkle-juice and hooked up my camera – I had to capture my first sprinkling-climax!

Once more I read about this experience, about what sensations to expect and how the reaction was supposed to proceed. This all got me hugely excited. I planned to jerk me into ejaculation and continue with cockhead-rubbing until sprinkling occurred. And so it happened.

All the preparations added to my intense excitement. I primed myself for about 20 minutes in which I solely teased my cockhead. I focused on sensations which indicated that I was going to leak urine, and these feelings were certainly developing. I had to think about the mechanism nature had planted into our [reproductive] systems, in that it was almost impossible to pee with a boner and even more so while aiming for ejaculation. And yet, this sprinkling-climax was real, at least for some men.

While manipulating my glans the feeling of needing to pee increased. It was outlandishly intense. I knew I was on the right track, but I still required to get off first to be sure that this time my further post-ejac-glans-rubbing would trigger sprinkling.

I decided it was time to trigger ejaculation. For that I jerked the shaft of my cock in full grip. My testicles were drawn up immediately, this I clearly sensed. I tried to avoid involving my helmet for keeping the different kinds of impact separated.

I really had to jerk me ever faster with a tight grip to have my system react in the common way, in reaching and passing PONR that is. Eventually my full penile impact did the trick (at 84 secs into the clip) and I spurted my modest load of cum.

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After the reflex had subsided I continued stroking my glans only. I relaxed and focussed on giving in to any urge of needing to pee. Quickly these particular sensations returned and I only thought about letting it happen, not to hold back, just surrender to the biological force.

It didn´t take long at all when it happened! My cock had lost part of his rigidity, my head had become more sensitive after ejaculation and I was so excited to surrender into release. While I let go I kept on stroking – and boy did I sprinkle!!

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I showered myself and it seemed my system couldn´t stop expelling my warm … water (?)! What an experience!! This was wild and awesome, relieving and pleasurable! I kept rubbing my helmet and I sprinkled until my reservoirs (which?) were empty. I felt totally satisfied, what a massive yet mild climax this was.

But was this real sprinkling? I found that my „water“ was in fact light urine and not the stuff described by guys as being something different from all we know: clear, thinner than precum, a bit slick and definitely no urine (neither smelling nor tasting like piss does).

On the other hand my system expelled my produce not in a slow ´n steady stream like when pissing, but in extended pumping pulses – I checked with the video I was very happy to having had taped.

I guess it was something like sprinkling after all. Due to the fact that I didn´t relieve myself prior to my masturbatory session there had to be urine in the sprinkling release. Now that my system managed to respond to the glans-teasing in the desired way I will attempt to make myself sprinkle after having emptied my bladder right before the session. I will also try to trigger sprinkling first and cum later. I´m looking forward to that, very much so!!

(Again, here is the reel!)