Posts Tagged ‘male perspective’

ArtVantage – Intro

July 22, 2017

I shall be featuring a new series, headlined ArtVantage. This word is a blend of art and advantage. Let me briefly tell you what it´s all about!

I hugely enjoy erotic art in general. Yet even more so its sub-genre pornographic art, because artists working in this field do create images inspired by carnal imagination. For this is stirring and arousing, I did place some of this kind of artwork already in my blog!

Such artists can provide settings and details which no camera is able to depict. I found a suiting statement in an essay (addressing Hentai): „…the mind´s eye is free to go where cameras cannot…“.

All an artist needs is a simple tool (pen, brush), a sheet of paper and the draftsmanship to create images probably unseen before and often enough nonexistent and/or impossible in the real world. – This sure is nothing new at all, to the contrary.

Since ages we know pen and paper. The camera is a late invention and a device of mere documentation (Photoshop aside). While covering the rendition aspect as well, classical artwork easily reaches far beyond reality, marking its unique characteristics.

For example take a look at one of the most renowned erotic art images from Japan by the famous artist Hokusai created in 1814:

A modern version of this pornographic thought may be this piece of work (from a series of illustrations, artist not stated by the source):

Both pictures also demonstrate a significant effect of the drawn or painted image: the diversity of styles, which add to the enjoyment of beholding such images.

However, the major benefit of pornographic artistry is that it can and does depict the ideal moment and the perfect angle for its narratives! After all the genre still mainly serves as a mirror for human sexuality showcasing all kinds of interactions, at least in graphic novels or comic strips.

This new series is ment to bring to you some neat artwork with hot scenes on display. To cater your appetite for arousing imagery and for providing some inspiration on the fantasy side of sex. That´s where art plays out its advantage!

Estim And Pulsing Pace

May 28, 2017

This short post is only ment to be redirecting/splitting the ongoing discussion about estim and its possible effect on the pulsing pace. We garnered a record braking (almost) 80 comments on the topic for the preceding post – getting oriented becomes increasingly tough. 😉

There is a field trial going, so the exchange will continue, and I hope it does at this freshly placed post. Find enough scrolling space for maybe another 80 comments!? Thanks to all active participants, and new voices are certainly welcum!

Poll No. 54 Results

October 3, 2016

This is about us. Yes, you and me! Poll No. 54 is giving us clarity about who is part of this blog´s community!

OK, I just can assume that the majority of all participants are returning visitors and loyal readers (I hope this is the case). I collected 370 votes in total while offering a 4-fold multiple choice. Let´s explore our community´s profile from the numbers:

114 readers revealed who they are (anonymously for sure), among them 105 men, 8 women and 1 transgender person.

  • Sexual orientation: 30 people checked gay, another 30 checked bisexual and 42 checked straight, leaving 12 participants without indication here.
  • Age: there are more younger than older people reading this blog! 38 are pretty young, 30 are middle-aged and 22 are older, leaving 24 participants without indication here.
  • Sexual preference: 36 prefer sex with a partner (or more) while 25 prefer sex with themselves, leaving 53 participants without indication here.

Check the graph:

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There are three free votes („Other“): sucking dicks; I am sub; Virgin – (thank you for indicating this, because it shows us that you are probably quite young, yet not shy to learn about male sexuality in-depth. That´s great! 🙂 ).

All in all I am very content that the choices addressed are quite balanced but the gender disparity which I did expect. Still I am happy that 8 ladies answered this poll while I silently hope that some more read my blog with inquisitiveness and joy!

Concerning the sexual preference I was surprised to find a lead of partner-sex over solo-sex. For some reason I assumed it being vice versa to the given result. But this is great news and I see myself confirmed in having published a mix of content covering partner-sex issues next to pure male aspects of human sexuality.

Finally you may want to know my choices if I had voted:

I am male, I am straight, I am older, I prefer solo-sex. 🙂

Thanks to all participants!!

NoBody Is Perfect!

August 26, 2016

What could be the antonym-sentence of the headline above? I´d say: Some guys seem to have it all! Or, in a looser understanding: The grass is always greener on the other side…

We are all a bit different from each other, we are no clones, no androids, and it´s perfect that way. However, differences may generate envy (regardless that this is only human after all). Especially concerning our genitals and associated performances, we (men) are bound to easily develope a certain longing when we encounter other men being favourably endowed (huge cock, big balls) and/or performing spectacularly above average.

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Well, to a certain extend we can alter our physical appearance and performances (volume of semen, force and duration of ejaculation). Think of penis-pumps or the jelq method to gain more shaft-inches, or the stretching of the scrotum for low and lower hanging balls. As for the soft-skills (cum-volume or climax-intensity/ duration), chances are high to obtain quick alteration. But noticeable physical changes require steady and disciplined efforts.

What we desire may be out of reach, because our desires shall be part of our sexual fantasies, being thus unobtainable. And we tend to negate the other side of the coin (of owning a long dick or meaty ball-sack, or possibly spraying our juices in 10+ pulses every time we cum).

Sexual fantasies are as natural as they are healthy. We need to fantasize (or watch porn showing attributes we´d love to be featuring ourselves) to fire up our arousal, no matter if in solosex or with a partner.

Out of this dreaming it is more than „normal“ and common to mentally build a kind of sexual role model and ponder with pleasure over the question „If I could choose my design…“.

At times we may encounter a male being endowed in a way we projected for ourself. Or we gaze at an ejaculation in awe wishing to be able to perform alike. Probably rarely though we find an example of a man who combines our particular image of being „ideal“, of whom we would say without hesitation „Just perfect, this guy has it all!“.

Now always bear in mind that we as individuals may carry very different projections of what we would change if we could choose our design. Men „blessed“ with the attributes we regulars long for so much may just want to be as average as the majority, for different reasons (and/or experiences). It may come down to the saying: The grass is always greener on the other side of the hedge. In fact I believe this is the case, because being „perfect“ or „ideal“ can be a different thing in the eyes of different people. And very much so concerning the sexual realm!

Leaves me to reveal to you my personal opinion, based on the question: „If I could choose my design what would I look like and how would I perform?“. Here´s a teaser:

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By chance I stumbled upon two (!) clips showing this guy jerking himself into ejaculation. And what fantastic climaxes they both are, coaxed via such a gorgeous penis. I couldn´t help thinking „This guy has it all!“ when I studied the clips.

The chap is of athletic stature, owning a beautiful uncut penis and his ejaculatory performances are stunning. As we bear double witness of his massive ejaculations I assume his incredible output is based on genetics in the first place. We don´t know if he took supplements or did edge in advance. Yet notice that we observe emisjaculations! He is „pissing“ his milk before his reflex ensures forceful pulses (exposed well in the gif above from the 2nd clip). And the texture of his semen is just to my delight!

In the first clip we see the beau passing his PONR into ejaculation in real-time with sound, the scene is repeated in slow motion.

In the second clip we see him showing us another quite similar ejaculation, this time only once in slow mo.

However, I wished to have seen this blessed model precumming before shooting his juices so beautifully, as much as I´d liked to have seen more of his scrotum/balls. As for the latter compare with this clip! By the way, the masturbating man in this clip would make a good „This guy has it all!“ too, at least concerning his endowment and the performance of his cumming. He as well is releasing a strong emission before his reflex sets in.

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But I wanted to point out the softness of his scrotum all the way thru his climax, letting us marvel over his big swollen balls just before, while and after his pumping. Such is a rare scrotum-behaviour in the male, as the rule says that the sack thickens (to lift the testicles closer to ones body) when nearing PONR (or at reaching the Plateau Phase).

Personally I prefer the image of bouncing balls while ejaculating, – and that´s even another projection! Wishful thinking, not just owing to the rule in effect, but because the given state of our scrotum lies beyond our will-power.

After all it seems to turn out that with the diversity of male designs and the always changing capacity of sexual performance in adjustment with our very individual conception of „having it all“, the old adage is confirmed yet again: NoBody is Perfect! — Or maybe everyone is. 😉