Posts Tagged ‘milking’

What is it with Precum?

December 24, 2014

Everything about the substance and producing it is rather fabulous. Unless you belong to the minority of guys whose Cowper´s glands secrete little volumes, or release it not before ejaculation. I must admit that I have no data on such low functioning, sorry, as this must be an issue for juice-conscious guys.

I am fortunate (or just an average guy), for I precum in fair amounts. So my pondering here is based on that fact and all the experiences coming with it. – I guess, that because precumming is so straightforward and sublime, there is not much to tell concerning the physical facts. I did so early in this blog, look here and here. And the first entry of these two used to be the most requested post for quite some time (it still ranks No. 2 these days!!).

Male precumming is truly an amazing feat. It is as biologically straightforward as it is mysterious in all its appearance.


The substance is alike in every man, as it is pure stuff from one kind of gland (two glands of it in every guy). While semen can take different fluidities, color, odor, taste, as it represents a mix of secretions, precum is pretty much always the same juice all around, appearing crystal clear and mostly tasting salty.

It leaks whenever a man is sexually aroused (at least when his arousal lasts for a little while and reason for it has caught the guys full attention). It seems that with a more intense arousal the production of his precum slightly increases as well.

A mans cock must not gain erection for precum to occur! Arousal by itself is the trigger for the Cowper´s glands to get started. And precum-production will last either as long as the guy is in (deeper) arousal or until he has ejaculated. The former rule adds to the beauty of edging! As long as you edge you may be precumming! How great is that!

frosty glans slit pre

The functioning of the tiny glands, also referred to as Bulbourethral glands, is just astounding. The glands may be only the size of peas or beans, and yet they manage to secrete fair amounts of precum as long as arousal is kicking, and that can be looong (pro-edgers please comment to my claim here since I have no experience in extreme edging, i.d edging for many hours or days on end).

Lately I often notice the search term „milking Cowper´s glands“ (WordPress supplies this info to admins). This thought may be exciting, however, I am convinced that you can not really milk (or massage) those tiny glands, nor do so with much of an effect. Here´s why:

The glands are (comparatively) small and their location is somewhat difficult to access. A targeted touch may not be possible or at least not perceptible (dear reader, report to us via the comment function if you hold different experiences).

The glands don´t seem to be sensitive to pressure, nor do they seem to issue any „sensations“ when they are active (or not). Has anybody ever felt them?

cowpers gland

The glands don´t store any precum, they produce-and-leak their nectar (check the drawing of the inner structure of a Cowper´s gland above) as like in a singular process („straightforward“!). Hence there is nothing to milk from them. You can milk your cock-shaft (especially the underside made of the Corpus spongiosum) to get out the precum filling your urethra, yet the Cowper´s glands are not suitable for milking in a classical understanding. If you want to milk your small glands, pressing on the perineum would be the appropriate procedure! This is quite different from the high impact milking of the prostate and the seminal vesicles.

Cowpers location

These observations reminded me of the secretion of saliva when we are about to ingest something delicious: glands again produce this sap, but we don´t feel that (glands activity) and we wouldn´t know how to access them, neither of how to milk them.

Precumming truly is exquisite. Just enjoy watching yourself (or a partner) slowly oozing this clear honey-of-bliss.


The previous post offers an example of precum oozing from an upright cock just prior to the guys climax (in pics and a clip) and try to download this clip showing a guy playing with his nectar!

Forced to Deliver (2)

September 19, 2014

Part two of the forced ejaculation story:

What shall I say, this time it happened. I knew it was going to be painful for me, I did foresee it clearly! But I was so horny, so cock-drunk myself (having saved up and not yet shot a drip), that I gave in to her begging: I allowed her to tie my wrists and ankles to the bedposts. Bad decision!!

Again, first it was truly great. God, she knows how to work me, well, how to make my glands run full mode for milk production. Before the big night we even sat down and talked about how to get the most out of me and I reminded her to be patient all the time. I proposed milk-harvesting in that we should try to make me release my juices via emissions, avoiding PONR as long or often as possible. And that she needed to allow me time to replenish with at least 30 minutes between triggering attempts thru lecithin intake and continued edging. But what to tell an addict when the drug is at hand…presumably.


So, in the beginning everything went like planned: after just one hour of edging she managed to make me release my first milk a couple of times having it carefully oozed out without sending me over the edge. This was totally hot for me, but even more so for her, because most of the earlier times trying she had been failing to coax emissions out of me. Yet as soon as she´s had her first dose – she drank up right away what she had caught in a glas – she became pretty unrestrained.

Now she wanted to see me explode and harvest her big load. Needless to say I was right there and subject to her decisions anyway. – And a big release it was! She was counting out loud with each rope my system was pumping up while that first big relief was beginning to soothe my glands. I heard her count to 14 and she apparently had caught most of my milk released. I saw her drink some more and using the leftover as body-lotion, which added to her urge for more!


To cut it short, she made me cum a couple more times with decent volumes of milk until my cock went flaccid. That´s when the act began to turn nasty.

Despite the fact of a very proper preparation, she had noticed that my semen hadn´t cum in the volume(s) she was used to and expected it to be. A major factor was her impatience, demand and supply was out of balance here, because she didn´t allow me enough time to replenish, although we had talked about this.

We knew that a soft cock is no sign nor reason to not trigger further ejaculations, but you need the will (desire) and sexual energy inside of you to continue successfully. This still worked for the following climax. She pulled at my cock and scrotum with a tight grip while I had to concentrate to keep my motivation, – no easy task, because I knew what was going to happen after this pending climax.

soft scrotum

I had produced just a few more mini-spills of thick cream when she started to complain. She was disappointed although I had delivered not too bad altogether. I gave her the explanation, but she felt like she did nothing wrong. She was not willing to untie me and call it a night, instead she wanted even more of my produce. She made me drink at least a liter of water and fed me with lecithin granules, a banana and celery before she set a timer counting down 45 minutes.


In that time-frame she once more worked hard on my cock, balls and glands, as she penetrated me to massage my prostate. However I was turned down pretty much, the atmosphere was poisoned so to speak. I was mercilessly tied to the bed and became her victim in that hour until my system surrendered to her tour de force. I felt raw down there and I was!

She was lacking tenderness, just sucked, jerked, pulled and dildo-fucked me for one aim: to make some more semen see the light of day that night. It was a nightmare, a real torture. I had to think of an alien mistreating me without any compassion, and in a way an alien she was.

When I didn´t cum after the set 45 minutes she became real pissed and started calling me names, swearing, like I never had known her before.

force suck pull

She didn´t give up. Her sucking did the trick in the end. My cock grew semi-erect which gave her hope… Eventually her massive impact on my genitals made my system react in the only possible way. From deep inside of my newly replenished glands I could sense the PONR emerging. I admit that the climax was fucking intense. She kept sucking me through my ejaculation and drank my spunk directly out of my rod. I had to scream from lust and pain and did not know how big a volume I delivered, but after that serving she was satisfied and soon untied me. A while later she apologized. But that night marked the end of our once so perfect relationship with a passion for cum.

Story cumplete!

Anal Pleasure

February 1, 2014

The anal opening may occupy roughly three roles in our sex-routines:

  1. it is taboo laden and will be neglected
  2. it is fully incorporated in our sexual activities (such prostate-milking or anal intercourse) without a second thought spent
  3. it is in the erotic focus on its own right for the pleasures it provides.

The anus can be a big issue – or none at all. I rather take its sexual integration for granted, not only because it is the gateway for reaching the prostate and seminal vesicles, but also because the anus is in fact a source of erotic sensations.**

The anus may be such a big issue for some people (and by the way: this is not gender-dependent), because it has the potential to touch a wide range of rather negatively charged aspects, spanning from biological to cultural issues. The anal taboo may still be widespread to great effect, as it is a „form of psycho-social control more potent than the most rigid moral code or threatening law.“*

This is a real shame, because – as I believe – the anus is just a natural part of „the system“ that defines our sexual center, which contains internal and external structures alike. After all our whole body is „sexual“ when we practise sexual activities.

The only up-side of the anal taboo may be what Jack Morin* named the „Naughtiness Factor“, a „process through which prohibitions are transformed into erotic fuel […] for those who grew up steeped in anti-sexual messages and warnings“ when „the thrill of breaking the rules and flaunting taboos becomes a major aphrodisiac.“

anus draw

**When sexually excited: „The anal sphincters start to twitch and contract in response to direct stimulation or in sympathy with other pelvic muscles. […] Voluntary contractions of the anal sphincters can also heighten pleasure. Many people enjoy the unique sensation of the anus contracting against something such as a finger, dildo, or penis.“

Sensitivity to anal touch appears to increase during excitation, at least for those who like it. Within the anal muscles and nearby perineal muscles (between the genitals and the anus) are a great many nerve endings that can be stimulated not only by contractions but also by external touch.“

All the quotes in this post are taken from the book: *Anal Pleasure & Health by Jack Morin, Ph.D., ISBN 0-940208-20-2. Yes, Morin wrote a whole book about the subject, of which Betty Dodson said it „is a classic that belongs in everyone´s library.“ – the book that is. And as for the subject I say: it may be well worth a further exploration!

Milking – His Say

April 5, 2012

With this post I will close the chapter on milking. Last but not least I will share accounts by two guys and their way of milking themselves. Which brings me back to solosexual experiences after an excursion into a theme (dominating/milking the male) mainly attributed to partnersex. And as for that matter I highly recommend this page, which many of you will have discovered already since it is permanently listed in the link-section at the left column.

Concerning the following share I once again applied minor formatting and proofreading of the texts which I found in a forum quite some years ago. The first is a structured how-to by a guy called Jon Wilson. The second is a very personal account by a guy nicking himself Loaded. I am sure you´ll get some further insight! Here goes:

By jonwilson

I have read many posts about this subject and here is how I do it step by step:

1) In order to empty the prostate, it first has to be full… therefore do what ever you need to do to create “blue balls”. For myself, I use masturbation to the point where I get a good amount of pre-cum starting, then I stop. If you want a good load repeat this process for 5-10 times… or more.

2) It is hard not to have a mild orgasm, when you self-milk (for me it doesn’t improve an orgasm), I have tried to ice my balls down before hand but I still have a 1/2 erection. Self-milking may help in keeping you harder longer… after you self-milk then you can have extended sex… it works for me anyway.

3) You should pee before you self-milk and take a healthy dump (shit).

4) For me it is impossible to use my own finger to self-milk.

5) You will need to use an object that will enter your anus, and will not damage anything.

6) I have found that a long neck spoon handle works very good. The one that I use has a shaft about 6″ long and at the top, it is about the width of a finger. This is very easy to insert in my butt and reaches the top of the prostate nicely. Put some cooking oil or spit on it to make it go in easy. Again, I use clean stainless steel spoon handle.

7) To massage the prostate you will need both hands to work the spoon, one to press with the spoon and the other to help position the spoon. I lay on my back, with my left arm coming from around my left leg and my right arm between my legs. The left hand moves the spoon up and down on the inside and the right hand slides the spoon shaft up and down the outside. You will need to watch your penis and as soon as it starts to move in motion with the spoon handle then you should be in the right area.

8) You will need to tap or press lightly with the spoon handle on the prostate, this will “milk your prostate“. That’s IT!

9) In a short time you will unload your load… and I mean it will unload. IF you have a soft penis, your load will fly out and then lots more fluid will follow… just flowing out like water out of a hose.

I hope that this helps.

By Loaded

I’ve been milking semen from my prostate on a regular basis for years. When I first started I didn´t get much semen out either, a drop or two. Now when I milk my prostate I get a large pool of gooey thick semen. Here’s how I do it.

I milk with a standard plastic 6 inch vibrator. Sexual arousal makes all the difference in the world! I always buy fresh porno magazines to look at while I’m milking the fluid from my prostate. It’s become a ritual for me in fact. When my wife leaves on a business trip I get to have one of my secret milking sessions. I call it a pmp-(prostate milking party).

I make sure I have at least a 7 day load saved up. Ten days to two weeks is the perfect amount of saving time. The prostate builds pressure and swells with semen and relief is needed. Plus when you save that long you get super horny and really start anticipating it. The night of the pmp I surf the net and jack my cock a lot. This charges the prostate with even more semen.

With the big load it’s hard not to blow my wad and I’m extra careful not to do so. Finally I can’t take it anymore and a milking needs to take place. The scene of the prostate milking party excites me as I approach it. 10 unopened porno mags surround a mirror on the carpet with the vibrator close by. I squat over the mirror and watch the vibrator slide into my asshole. I start turning pages.

…I push the vibrator onto my prostate gland with firm but gentle force and start rubbing it from side to side. My prostate is so full that I feel the semen enter my cock pipe immediately. My cock is soft and white watery semen starts dripping from my cock hole. It’s a big turn-on for me to have cum dripping from my soft cock, it’s totally hands free. Semen drips onto the mirror and the sight of this is very exciting which makes another load ooze out my cock.

The fluid gets thicker and thicker until I have a string of semen stretching from my cock to the pool forming on the mirror. This is super exciting and goes on for about 20 minutes or so. My legs get tired of squatting and my prostate is pretty well drained. I’m still very horny but the edge is taken off and I can enjoy the erotic scene of cum on the mirror.

I awake the next morning to a scene of a successful prostate milking. The semen is a big dry spot on the mirror and the magazines are tossed around haphazardly. I milk more sperm than I would shoot during an ejaculation. The dried semen and mags inspire me to milk it again. I add a smaller fresh pool of semen onto the dry stuff and it’s very much a turn-on. It’s an awesome way for me to enjoy my cum.

You don’t have an orgasm from the experience however I find it very rewarding. […] Just remember to pee before you start milking. You don’t want to contaminate the semen with pee. Also, massage up above the prostate gland too. Semen sacs [seminal vesicles] are there and need to be milked as well. That does it for me. I’m going to milk it right now. Cheers.

Sincerely, loaded.