Posts Tagged ‘Penis’

Beneath The Helmet

June 27, 2017
or: Sounding the Cockmouth

Note: this post offers a bonus file (see the final remarks)!

In my quest for finding a possibly not-thought-of masturbatory technique I turned to a friend who is an expert on male sexuality. I had little hope to learn something new, but my friend didn´t fail me!

I was sure I had tried practically all kinds of external and internal fondling concerning my genitalia and my reproductive system. I didn´t like the integration of „complex“ toys – a sleeve, a plug, a ring now and then was fine – and I told him that. E-stim, yeah, a nice thing once in a while, but I realised I liked it pretty straight forward and natural, uncomplicated. So, what else could there be?

My friend asked me if I ever considered or even tried penile sounding? And I answered that even the tought of doing such was a sure way to turn me off immediately. But he elaborated on his suggestion and caught my attention.

He emphasized that his technique was more a „sounding-light“ thing. The true aim was the teasing of a spot inside the penis that couldn´t be reached otherwise. In the same the sensations provided by this way of cock-fondling couldn´t be generated any other way!

I sure wanted to know more and my friend gave me a brief lecture in penile anatomy. I knew that penises are made of two different erectile bodies, a softer one (containing the urethra and featuring the helmet) and a more rigid one (featuring the stiff shaft). This rigid corpus splits into two endings below the pubic bone, the so-called crus. The other ending, the outer tip of this corpus, is covered (probably shielded) by the glans (helmet).

So far, so good. But then my friend revealed to me what I had not known: that „hidden“ tip of the rigid corpus is the same structure – anatomically speaking – as the female clitoris! And we all have an idea of how sensitive a clit is, namely because it is packed with nerve-endings (the highest concentration in a human body). That´s why a clit is protected by a hood. In the male this tip is fixed beneath the fleshy helmet – also for a good reason!

Back to the proposed technique: the spots only possible direct stimulation works by penetrating (i.e. sounding) the cockmouth with a suitable device and manually stimulate the tip from inside the urethra. And as if nature had considered such a practice, it has provided us men with a small cavity right there at the very location, called the navicular fossa.

The effect of the direct tip-stimulation is nothing short than electrifying (given the penis is erect!) – think of a clitoris again. Nature had covered this erectile body´s end with a glans, because otherwise sexual intercourse was unbearable for the male. But masturbation sure gives men the chance to exploit the anatomical conditions.

I was stunned from what I just had learned! I could see myself trying this method despite my reluctance toward sounding. Yet I carried hope and anxiety after my friend´s closing remarks: that everyone is different! While some will love this technique others may not be able to cope with „sounding-light“ and the intense sensations this uncommon teasing is likely to induce (he compared it with the like/dislike disparity of direct prostate stimulation).

With a final word of caution about a clean and appropriate probe and sufficient lubrication (lucky are those who precum continually!) he released me into trying a new and very alluring path within my masturbatory realm. And he promised me to write about his finding in his blog.

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Attention dear reader! The account above is a piece of fiction! I neither tried this masturbatory variant on myself, nor do I know if the effect described can be achieved, nor have I heard or read about this particular technique! You may try this for yourself (and are dearly invited to report back) always considering the recommended rules and suggestions in this bonus-file on penile sounding!

Neglected Post (8) – General Sexual Response

March 22, 2017

Original post: General Sexual Response

Less than 285 views since December 27, 2012

The post in question very well could have been the initial regular entry of this blog following Introduction and Remarks (with which I prompt my readers to be sure of some basic anatomical knowledge for fully enjoying facts and prose in my blog). However, I published it a good two and a half years on!

It probably should have been the kick-off, because the post tells you physical basics on your way from sexual arousal to climax in a compact manner. A Male Sexual Response by the Books, as I called it.

Everyone knows the described parameters more or less. The emphasis lies on „more or less“, because since everyone differs and reacts differently from the other, the listing of particulars is an interesting read nonetheless! It demonstrates a potentiality of basic physiological changes on our way from erection to ejaculation/orgasm.

Therefore it can be quite exciting to observe yourself or a partner en route to bliss. And reading that register will refresh your knowledge and may give you ideas about some experimentation or alteration in your masturbatory routine, possibly leading you to try out some more extreme manipulations. Just like I explained at the end of the neglected post.

By the way, if you want to check about this series on neglected posts read this intro here!

Saluting 2017!

January 1, 2017

Happy New Year to all followers, faithful readers, avid commenters and visitors from all over the globe!

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Art by Christian Zanier

Stay healthy and safe for being able to continue treating yourself with uninhibited solo-sexual practices and respectful partner-sexual encounters throughout this year (and certainly beyond). May each and every session result in the climaxes you aim for, granting you fulfillment and satisfaction! – Let´s keep the World a peaceful and sex-positive place!

Nandisa

When Women Crave

November 6, 2016

When women crave, man, they crave! And you, man, better deliver. – But wait, may such an exposure be something the porn-industry wants us have to believe?

kovik-oral1 (artwork by Kovik)

Probably both statements are not wrong. Sexual relationships are highly complex affairs and describe a huge realm with their own rules and mechanisms. Anything goes in real life – parallel to what we find mirrored in porn or pop-culture.

Back to the headline. While it is true, that the (main) genders are differing physically and mentally, their behavior is quite similar (in strategy) when it gets down to sexual realization. As William H. Libaw writes in his lecture notes The Origins and Nature of Differences between Female and Male Sexuality from Aug 2000:

Both men and women have bodies that enable them to get vast enjoyment from sexual activity. Genetically, women have little in the way of estrus in the sense of experiencing periodic instinctive lustful desires. Although some women are subject to them when they are ovulating, lustful desires and concepts are mostly an option for women. […]

No surprise at all that men can become sex objects for women (and for obvious reasons). The reverse angle (women as sex objects for men) is only so much more taken for granted, because it was socially sanctioned for ages due to the fact that the majority of societies (since Adam & Eve) have been patriarchal and still are.

Now, the human male as sex object is quite alright as long as society will not begin to neglect, repress, or oppose male sexuality that is other than merely responsive to women’s sexuality. Yet in patriarchal societies such a respectful attitude required towards women is missing, it is the crude attitude with all its malicious characteristics that is still prevalent today!

But let´s take a look at what it could mean for a man to be encountered as a sex object. And very easily so, as a male is predestined to become a sex object for all and any attribute we can find in his sexuality. Check this selection of hot drawings:

kovik-foreskin (artwork by Kovik)

An unusual yet worthwhile object the foreskin can be. The same is true for cock-heads! While I did not find a drawn sample for my little presentation here, you always can relish the broad variety of this anatomical extravaganza in this blog!

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The balls are not mentioned in particular, but a sure liking is mapped above. In this example the scrotum is nothing less than integral part of the craved genitals.

That penis must be THE object of desire is almost inevitable:

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(artwork by Jacobson)

Size may only be one reason for craving cock, yet a convincing one.

jacobson-size2 (artwork by Jacobson)

Penis is a wonderful tool!

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Certainly women know exactly what they need.

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(artwork by Jacobson)

But there is more: a cock warrants access to a man´s produce!

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(artwork by Jacobson)

Now, the strip below (excerpts) is as hot as it is over-the-top: a couple of office workers impel an intern to cum. They trigger his ejaculation for tasting his allegedly sweet semen. And they do it twice!

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(artwork by Hank Trueblood)

Some women, however, do prefer quantity over individual quality! Be it concerning male milk in particular

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(artwork by Wes Crum)

or men and their sexual capacities in general:

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(artwork by Armas)

Every man has to ask himself if he´d enjoy to be craved in the illustrated way(s). He better delivers what the partner lusts for, or he may fall from grace (compare here). There is one situation making a – the – difference in partner sex (which I emphasize throughout my blog): it´s the difference between emotional attachment or the lack of it in sexplay. The choice is yours, either be a sex object for the sake of sexual lust and sensations, or be one in the certitude of being appreciated and supported in your quest to meet rapture.