Posts Tagged ‘seminal vesicles’

Suck Me Dry

March 14, 2015

I´m gonna tell you something I´ve never heard of before. It is a sexual practise only guys can come up with, I guess. To be more precise: two guys, sexually into each other.

Before I explain I quickly give you the frame, so you know a bit of a background to the story. I myself am a bi-curious male sharing my gay friend´s experiences here. Now this gay friend is deeply immersed into everything male-sexual. Since childhood he is exploring his sexuality and hardware and was doing so with emphasis from puberty (with a range of male love-interests) and beyond to this day. Male sexuality is his field of expertise. He should have become an andrologist, but is working as librarian, which is suiting as well I guess.

He is so fucking all-knowing, be it for anatomical, sex-applied or sex-mental issues. Now five years ago he hit jack-pot when he found a man thru Grindr sharing exactly his passion! Since then both lead a relationship committed to everything sexual, without a strong emotional bond. I was told many stories (not knowing his man) and I learned that their sexual encounters equally developed into the most intense, enlightening and satisfying experiences!

I guess they tried everything imaginable, as both are totally open for experimenting, yet always showing greatest respect and care for each other. Over the years they cherished a strong propensity for edging, because it combines several highly satisfactory aspects in male sexuality! My friend and his lover turned experts and are so much tuned into each other, that they are able to provide the other with whatever blissful goal was agreed upon. And there are experiences among those, which could not be reached thru solosexual engagement.

Here cums the story he recently told me: Both were joking around about sucking each others glands empty, well knowing that the term has nothing to do with true suction, left alone literally sucking away their glandular reservoirs. That´s when they were giving their idea some serious pondering.

milksource

As both were familiar with and capable of providing each other with the sweet reaction of emission in high stages of edging, they developed the idea that true suction must be possible at the moment when emission occurs, because within their duct-system all structures are relaxed, all valves are open then. The catch happens to contain two obstacles: emission just lasts few seconds and – even more tricky – any tactile impact, or even a change of the mental state while emission was in effect, would trigger the ejaculatory reflex immediately! And with the reflex the valves are shutting off (and on and off, as this becomes the pumping of ejaculation).

The only way to find out was to try in vivo (i.e. in the sexual encounter). And so they embarked on a journey with the goal to suck each other dry! Since edging was their favourite way of satisfying each other anyway, no attempt was a failure to begin with. In their mutual attempts to hit the right moment of suction, most every edging session was cumpleted with an emisjaculation, until the day when my friend’s lover eventually succeeded!! My friend described the sensations of being sucked dry as strangely-phenomenal. The suction sensation triggered an intensely felt ejaculation with still some cum pumped from the prostate apparently. I wanted to know the details and he explained it like this:

edge state

I was on the edge for probably a good hour and felt that my glands were filled up quite well, when we decided to give it yet another try. Until then we had „failed“ in alternating attempts, because either the mere thought of what was going to be (re)tried, or the touch of our lips at our helmets pushed us beyond PONR immediately. We had tried different positions and even edging stages. It became clear that we needed some (self)control, that the least sensory input was required as well as taking quick action at the moment of emission. For that we signalled each other the exact moment of a beginning emission.

I don´t quite know what was different this time. I was totally relaxed, even more than the times before I guess. Although we could handle each other perfectly – even in triggering mini-gasms and emissions in the other – we had decided that we would induce our own emissions. So I was mounted comfortably on this cum-rig savoring my sensations when I decided to commence my emission.

cum rig

I didn´t look at my lover and I expected to run thru a wonderful stretched emisjaculation (as it always happened before). Maybe this tricked me out of my usual reaction pattern? What happened instead was this: After another brief touch of my corona I felt myself literally open up and I told him „now“. I must say I did not feel him (or anything) touch my cock or helmet!? The flowing-sensation of my milk had just begun when – I don´t know how to describe it – when my inside was sharply and very powerfully sucked away, out of me!

passage of juices

My system (and probably any human male ever before) did not know this impact. I felt what must have been my seminal vesicles and, lesser so, my prostate, being passively and quickly emptied. This strange sensation, the sudden true vacuum led to a strong, almost hurting spasm of my vesicles and prostate which spread out into my pelvis and resonated thru my entire body and triggered my ejaculatory reflex. The pumping was extremely intense, yet I just produced few little gushes, as my lover reported later (that was the remaining cum my prostate still had in store).

I was spent after this climax and deeply in awe, as was my man. He told my later, when we analysed the successful session, that he wrapped his lips around my cockmouth when I signaled him, which was even before my milk saw the light of day. He then strongly sucked off what he conjectured I was holding in store. He drew a huge load, but continued his suction movement (without swallowing) until I merged into all over heavy spasming.

So, after all, there is a true suck-me-dry, yet it may never be easily achieved. Nature apparently never intended such to be possible. However, we will try to build on that and our next goal certainly is for me to perform this on my like-minded buddy. He so much deserves to experience what he made me to!

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Epilogue

Don´t try this at home – I (Nandisa) almost tend to say at the end of this story. A story, that´s what it is, a piece of fiction mind you! I hope it is a hot one, in the same the presented act is purely hypothetical.

The phrase «suck my dick» (in whatever variation) sure is referring to oral sex in general and does NOT mean to actually apply a vacuum to a cock, neither with your mouth, nor a device. To suck semen out of a mans reproductive system wouldn´t just work like that, after all this is what the story is about. – Vacuum-pumps applied to a cock and/or balls may result in bloated-tissue. But that´s a whole different tale!

Your Tube

February 24, 2015

This is a brief anatomical post concerning the males urethra! This duct is a bit different from what you may think it is. It is not a solid flexible tube to just lead one and another fluid out of your body, but rather a segmented duct into which several smaller vessels disembogue to spill secretions from different glands of your reproductive system.

For pissing away your urine (and this special case), the urethra does in fact work as a hose: your watery stuff runs straight thru that pipe from your bladder to your cock-slit. When it comes to it´s sexual properties the story is a different one. Lets have a look.

Your tube is more a structure that is made of different holed genital organs grown in the order we know, beginning inside your body from the bladder onward:

upper tube

We find the prostate, the urogenital diaphragm (where the Cowper´s glands are located) and the penis thru which the hollows form the tube, the urethra. Thus the different parts (of the urethra) were named: prostatic, membranous and penile urethra. I marked these segments with a green sun in the drawing shown above.

I also marked the represented glands with a blue sun. The openings, thru which the fluids enter your tube, are marked with yellow suns. This important location is encircled with a green ellipse! When your juices collect in this area, there is no way back – neither for the onward flowing of your produce, nor for you to avoid at least an emission or rather an ejaculation. This area inside your prostate somehow marks your physical edge (compare with this post). Edging is the art to make your produce flow, yet to avoid having the tissues (genital organs) react by running their pre-installed program (ejaculatory reflex).

upper tube side

This drawing shows the same array around your tube from the side. The labeling with the colored suns is corresponding with that of the first pic. Now you see a part of the seminal vesicles and how a small duct runs from that gland thru the tissue of the prostate to disembogue into the prostatic urethra. Note as well one of the Cowper´s glands, where it is located and where its duct enters the penile urethra, right inside the bulb of your penis (compare (all) with the first pic!).

This is the core of your reproductive system, a system most sophisticated and awesome. Its main purpose is to enable you to ejaculate your seminal fluid. It´s up to you to indulge in the sensations that your system provides when you consciously test its capacity.

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If you are further interested in the (unmarked) labels of tissue in the drawings just check with Wikipedia where you shall find answers, e.g. „Prostatic utricle“.

Anal Pleasure

February 1, 2014

The anal opening may occupy roughly three roles in our sex-routines:

  1. it is taboo laden and will be neglected
  2. it is fully incorporated in our sexual activities (such prostate-milking or anal intercourse) without a second thought spent
  3. it is in the erotic focus on its own right for the pleasures it provides.

The anus can be a big issue – or none at all. I rather take its sexual integration for granted, not only because it is the gateway for reaching the prostate and seminal vesicles, but also because the anus is in fact a source of erotic sensations.**

The anus may be such a big issue for some people (and by the way: this is not gender-dependent), because it has the potential to touch a wide range of rather negatively charged aspects, spanning from biological to cultural issues. The anal taboo may still be widespread to great effect, as it is a „form of psycho-social control more potent than the most rigid moral code or threatening law.“*

This is a real shame, because – as I believe – the anus is just a natural part of „the system“ that defines our sexual center, which contains internal and external structures alike. After all our whole body is „sexual“ when we practise sexual activities.

The only up-side of the anal taboo may be what Jack Morin* named the „Naughtiness Factor“, a „process through which prohibitions are transformed into erotic fuel […] for those who grew up steeped in anti-sexual messages and warnings“ when „the thrill of breaking the rules and flaunting taboos becomes a major aphrodisiac.“

anus draw

**When sexually excited: „The anal sphincters start to twitch and contract in response to direct stimulation or in sympathy with other pelvic muscles. […] Voluntary contractions of the anal sphincters can also heighten pleasure. Many people enjoy the unique sensation of the anus contracting against something such as a finger, dildo, or penis.“

Sensitivity to anal touch appears to increase during excitation, at least for those who like it. Within the anal muscles and nearby perineal muscles (between the genitals and the anus) are a great many nerve endings that can be stimulated not only by contractions but also by external touch.“

All the quotes in this post are taken from the book: *Anal Pleasure & Health by Jack Morin, Ph.D., ISBN 0-940208-20-2. Yes, Morin wrote a whole book about the subject, of which Betty Dodson said it „is a classic that belongs in everyone´s library.“ – the book that is. And as for the subject I say: it may be well worth a further exploration!

Wet Dreams 1

November 4, 2012

Climaxing thru will power alone may be a tough skill, yet not impossible as I have shown. Even more so I believe that the majority of men in fact do experience mentally triggered climaxes/ejaculations – some more, some less. It´s just, we do so while asleep! We know this phenomenon labeled as wet dream, or in a more scientific lingo nocturnal emission.

Both denotations are misleading. Not every nocturnal cumshot is accompanied or triggered by a dream, and the in-sleep-emissions are rather ejaculatory reflexes, thus climaxes and much different from how I regard emission! This whole sexual reaction seems to be pretty much neglected, even despised. People tend to regard this function as non-desireable or even immature. Let me tell you, it´s far from that! And it would be well worth to scientifically investigate.

Wet dreams are mentioned in relation to cum-storage within the semen producing glands, the prostate and the seminal vesicles. Even when we are not sexually active, sperm is constantly produced in the testicles, as are – on a low-level – the secretions of the mentioned glands which all mix up to become semen at ejaculation.

Theory has it that, although the body does reabsorb some of the stored juices, the constant nominal cum production exceeds the reabsorption capacity of the glands having them filled over time – if no ejaculation occurs – resulting in a wet dream as a body-function to make space for new produce.

I doubt this full-gland thesis. Go ask any regular edger. Edging makes the glands run in full mode, making them filled with secretions to the max. And yet edgers may not experience wet dreams during their intense and lasting cycles of masturbation (or are they? Please comment on this aspect! I am not really an edger!).

My own experience contradicts the opposite side of the alleged biological function thesis mentioned above: I experienced wet dreams with rather empty glands, quite soon after regular (wake) ejaculation! Even more so I do claim, that wet dreams are an independent, quite awesome aspect of a males sexuality in its own right. I think that every man who is lucky to experience nocturnal climaxes is truly blessed.

I am afraid there is no scientific study out there to shed light neither on the function of wet dreams nor on the occurrence among males in a given society. My recent poll # 31 may serve as a weak indicator of the latter aspect. It can not be representative with a 103 votes (multiple choice). However, the result may indicate that I stay on the side of the blessed guys, because my system provides me with rather regularly nocturnal climaxes, many times accompanied by hot visions (i.e. dreams) which then do trigger ejaculation! – I will report in my next post.

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