SEEK-N-FIND…

January 7, 2012

ALL about MALE SEXUAL PLEASURES and ENLIGHTENMENT!

This blog is positively targeted at mature audiences!
Please leave this blog if you are a minor under the age of 18!


When you read this, you have eventually reached the best blog covering the subject matter. In its unique way of providing sexual edutainment (for an adult audience!) you may discover first rate content addressing virtually all aspects of male sexual self-fulfillment.

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Iconic GIF – Shooting Cum

April 14, 2024

What does this iconic gif stand for?

It stands for any powerful ejection of semen as part of the male ejaculatory reaction, which is, as we all know, a reflex that activates an internal muscle-contracting-sequence, causing the typical adored cum-shooting.

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Don’t Let ‘em Hide!

March 29, 2024

The Easter Celebrations feature one curious tradition: we hide eggs for the fun of somebody else searching and finding them…

Ten years ago (in 2014) I posted my first Easter Holiday greeting and kept doing so each year. Hence read this seasonal greeting-post about another aspect concerning any man’s precious gems: his ‘eggs’ aka testicles.

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Very Young Men – Rushing

March 10, 2024

In the previous post, a seemingly nonsexual one, I was working with a decent metaphor to describe a very young man’s situation with his awoken sexual drive, originating from his (newly and fully developed) genitals. In knowing what that post was about I believe it became highly sexual despite the allegory. But let’s see how it all translates/deciphers.

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Very Young Men – Metaphor

February 26, 2024

We all (men) went thru this phase. I am referring to the early years of our manhood, roughly from soon after puberty to the first signs of “behavioral moderation” (= maturity) which covers the mid-teens to initial twenties. Yes, those can be wild years concerning our sexual behavior. For some more, for some less. We were full of testosterone, wanting to play with our new tool(s), seeking climax more often than not. For some more, for some less. A time when we tested our potentials, building our inclinations, literally fleshed out our aptitudes only to possibly appreciate our sexual center more and more. A time of which we later may look back shaking our heads for “mistreating” our sexual gifts, realizing how blessed we have been then compared to now – and not knowing it!

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Appeal to Women for Mouth Loving a Penis

February 10, 2024

At the time I am pinning this preface, you can find 3,125 comments in this blog of which 1,083 are my own (mostly answers to readers remarks). Many comments are short or very short, but quite some are as long as being worth a post in their own right! One such thoughtful statement (by reader “Rmf”) is the following text, which I liked, yet did shorten and edit for smoother consumption.

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Neglected Post (12) – Intensity Story (2)

January 27, 2024

Original post: Intensity Story (2)

Less than 445 views since November 29, 2013

It is quite a while ago since I last published a Neglected Post information! The one I chose today is interesting. Not so much because it is the second part of two, but because the current leader (in views) dates also from 2013 (a good ten years ago now!), if with a head start of 10 months.

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The Evolution of Penis-Jerking

January 12, 2024

Many things around us are result of an evolving, an evolution. In the biological sense it means the development of species over a long period of time (principally, see Darwin). It also describes the gradual process in which something changes into a more complex form. Penis-jerking for instance.

Do I see a smile? Well, this post is meant to be a humorous read at the beginning of the year. A quick run-down of that particular evolution with a true core nonetheless.

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Happy New Year 2024!

January 1, 2024

Nope, it didn’t get better out there! What I described in my last new-years-message as a detailed listing has a word now: poly-crisis!

The many media options at our hands bombard us with all kinds of (bad) news, if we let them that is. We have the choice to turn our devices off or at least switch the channel. Because those devices also bring to us the good stuff – this blog for instance. 😉

Artwork: HvH

And if you are concerned about AI and all the altered content it can produce, well, here is the good news: I am real and I don’t use it. Though even my host WordPress now offers an AI enhancement option for written text, I guess it wouldn’t even work properly because sexual content is generally (still) a non-available realm for AI. I think! – Yesterday I checked with Midjourneys showcase, seems they are getting closer (with erotic imagery). But rest assured, this is an AI Free Zone!

So, whichever the advance, you find genuine content in my blog. And with that you may escape the negative headlines and rather treat yourself with everything you need for uninhibited solo-sexual practices and ecstatic partner-sexual encounters you are determined to realize in the next 12 months (and beyond).

Happy New Year to all followers, faithful readers, avid commenters and visitors from all over the globe!

Nandisa


A Woman in Love Wanted to Know…2

December 25, 2023

While part one focused on the case description and basics of male sexuality, part two explains transformative ejaculating and gives advice to the woman in love.

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A Woman in Love Wanted to Know…1

December 10, 2023

Once I was counselling a woman in her mid-forties in a curious case of sexual self-fulfillment.

The case: the woman was sincerely in love (and vice versa) with a man in his early 50s. They had known each other for one and a half years when she sought my advice.

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Stop & Go Edging or Repetitive Peaking?

November 27, 2023

In early 2011 I was writing about edging comprehensively. Before that, I had covered MMO. It became obvious that edging is a certain form of generating multiples. However, the aim of the edger is different from that of the man seeking multiple climaxes. While a multiple man tries to “collect” distinct climaxes, the edger tries to stay close to his PONR, avoiding to trigger a full climactic reaction (autonomous discharge) yet attaining almost-climaxes on end (read this account here). Both achievers may use the same method though: stop & go stimulation.

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